Middlesex ~ Jeffrey Eugenides ~ 8/03
jane
May 1, 2003 - 03:19 pm











MIDDLESEX by JEFFREY EUGENIDES





From the Publisher
A dazzling triumph from the bestselling author of The Virgin Suicides — the astonishing tale of a gene that passes down through three generations of a Greek-American family and flowers in the body of a teenage girl....

In the spring of 1974, Calliope Stephanides, a student at a girls' school in Grosse Pointe, finds herself drawn to a chain-smoking, strawberry blond classmate with a gift for acting. The passion that furtively develops between them — along with Callie's failure to develop — leads Callie to suspect that she is not like other girls. In fact, she is not really a girl at all.

The explanation for this shocking state of affairs takes us out of suburbia — back before the Detroit race riots of 1967, before the rise of the Motor City and Prohibition, to 1922, when the Turks sacked Smyrna and Callie's grandparents fled for their lives. Back to a tiny village in Asia Minor where two lovers, and one rare genetic mutation, set in motion the metamorphosis that will turn Callie into a being both mythical and perfectly real: a hermaphrodite.

Spanning eight decades — and one unusually awkward adolescence — Jeffrey Eugenides's long-awaited second novel is a grand, utterly original fable of crossed bloodlines, the intricacies of gender, and the deep, untidy promptings of desire. It marks the fulfillment of a huge talent, named one of America's best young novelists by both Granta and The New Yorker.
Links of Interest

What is a hermaphrodite? | Reviews of Middlesex

About Silkworms | Silk production
Quotes and Questions

"I was born twice: first, as a baby girl, on a remarkably smogless Detroit day in January of 1960; and then again, as a teenage boy, in an emergency room near Petoskey, Michigan, in August of 1974." -Middlesex by Eugenides, Page 3. Knopf Canada

In what ways did this opening catch your interest and keep you reading?

"After decades of neglect, I find myself thinking about departed great-aunts and -uncles, long-lost grandfathers, unknown fifth cousins, or, in the case of an inbred family like mine, all those things in one." -Middlesex by Eugenides, Page 4. Knopf Canada

To keep in mind as we read: How much is this book about the author's real life? -from Benjamin.

Is this book fiction or non-fiction? -Marjorie

What did you think of the juxtaposition of the scientific, portrayed by the method Milton uses to assure the baby will be a girl, and superstition, portrayed by Desdemona's use of the silver spoon to determine the sex of the unborn baby?

Are you all seeing cocoon references all over the pages of this book? -from Marvelle

Historical fact: people stopped being human in 1913. That was the year Henry Ford put his cars on rollers and made his workers adopt the speed of the assembly line. At first, workers rebelled. They quit in droves, unable to accustom their bodies to the new pace of the age. Since then, however, the adaptation has been passed down: we've all inherited it to some degree, so that we plug right into joysticks and remotes, to repetitive motions of a hundred kinds. -Middlesex by Eugenides, page 95 Knopf Canada.

Does Lefty adapt to being a machine?

What do you think of the visit from the two men from the Ford Sociological Department?





Discussion Schedule

August 1 to 7: Book 1: The Silver Spoon - The Silk Road
August 8 to 14: Book 2: Henry Ford's English-Language Melting Pot - Ex Ovo Omnia
August 15 to 21: Book 3: Home Movies - The Gun on the Wall
August 22 to 28: Book 4: The Oracular Vulva - The Last Stop
August 29 to 31: Final thoughts.





Your DL is: Nellie Vrolyk




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Nellie Vrolyk
May 2, 2003 - 07:40 am
Hello everyone! I hope you will be able to join me in discussing this most marvelous book in July -for which month it is tentatively scheduled.

I have just begun reading Middlesex and am savouring it slowly because there is so much to digest on every page. Though I'm not very far into the book yet, I like what I'm reading very much.

GingerWright
May 2, 2003 - 12:59 pm
I plan to be in the discussion of Middle Sex with you and Hope others join so you can get a Qurum.

I am on the list of partisapants. Wishing you well with this.

Nellie Vrolyk
May 3, 2003 - 05:20 pm
Thank you, Ginger! And welcome!

I'm putting little tick marks beside a lot of passages as I read.

SarahT
May 7, 2003 - 04:17 pm
I'll be there too, Nellie.

Coyote
May 7, 2003 - 09:50 pm
GINGER - I got your email and replied by email. Yes, I am always curious about this subject because I am quite in-between in many ways, even though I prefer women (as my wife, Ms. E, can attest to.) I have one brother who is gay and a gay uncle who was quite a hero in WWII. Neither was ever very effeminate, so I really admired and was quite comfortable with both of them.

But I don't plan on reading the book or being very involved in discussing it. I find I am not reading nearly as much now that I share a bed with someone else. Also, I do so much yarn work, spend time online, incuding trading stocks, and work a lot of logic puzzles, so don't need any more time with my eyes focused on little stuff like print. Besides, even though I did enough of it to get high grades in college, I never cared for spending a lot of time discussing books any more than I liked critiquing music, though I always loved reading and playing or listening to classical music. Tearing such magic into little, analyzed pieces tends to take the delight of immersion out of the experience for me.

If you folks are one short of making this discussion a go, tell me and I will buy the book and read enough to join in. I could spare a couple of days or so if you need me. (A friend of mine on campus a few years ago, signed up for a class in advanced testing and measurement (psych statistic-based class) even though he couldn't really understand much and had to drop out after the first test. But those few of us who needed the class got it, thanks to him. So I guess I owe a little passing on of his favor.

GingerWright
May 8, 2003 - 01:10 am
I had to search what this was and it fits me so much as I had never heard of it before.

What is a Hermaphroditt?

Ginger

GingerWright
May 8, 2003 - 02:21 am
This is of much interest to me and also fits me Very well. I had to search what this was and it fits me so much as I had never heard of it before. What is a Hermaphroditt? Lost edit so here is more. Ginger From What is a Hermaphroditt this stood out for me especialy. Throughout world history we (hermaphrodites) have existed.  Perhaps we were more numerous before present medical practices.  Many religions and tribes  honored us as god-like clones, even Christianity having reasoned and stated in Genesis that God was of both sexes or of any sex at all as for me God is a spirt. I am not sure that God was of both sexes but do know that I am Very close to God and and Know that I am Loved by God as a sprirt. I have the Holy Ghost which is the Sprirt. WOW I think that I am going to find out why and what My life has been all about and where God is leading me as I have studied the Bible for many years and have been a Chaplan in the American Legion, VFW, and the Eagles Aux, for many years now but God has lead me to Senior Net for what purpuse I did not and do not know but maybe God wanted me to go world wide, understanding that God Loves us All and it is Time to Let those who have been condemed for so long to know that God Loves us All and Does understands each and Every one of us no matter What.

Ginger who has been to Many International and Books Gathering on Senior Net. I have told two in books and others know that I am a man Traped in a womens body so now you know. It is OK as my Mother and Father knew it and so did my Aunts and Uncles and cousins. I have tried so hard to be what was expected of me "married three to times to men that did not work out for many reasons some there fault some mine. What can I say except Thanks for being the discussion leader here and bringing this book to my attention as I would have Not even knowen about it if it had not been suggested. Thank You so much. I did read The Wells of Loneleness (sp) many years ago. Enough now but will buy Middle Sex to see where I stand whether this discussion is a Go or Not. Thank You are commited to reading and discussion Middle Sex.

GingerWright
May 8, 2003 - 03:04 am
Thank You So Much for being the Discussion Leader for the Book Middlesex.

SarahT, Thank You So Much for suggesting the book Middlesex as I do so much need to read it as I thought I was just a farmer with a problem. Smile.

Ben, Oh Ben, Yes we need You. We have so much in comman (sp) Thank You So Much for your Post and do So Hope You keep Posting and Emailing me. Your Buddy, Ginger

Joan Pearson
May 8, 2003 - 05:19 am
We keep an eye on all the Proposed discussions...For the record, Nellie was the first to propose this one way back in February, Ginger...although Sarah did mention it in April in the Community Center, it had been in the works since the first week of March.

Enjoy your Spring, everyone!

dapphne
May 8, 2003 - 05:22 am
This is a great book. I read it last year. Really well written, IMHO.

Don't be fooled by the title.

"Middlesex", I believe, is the name of a place he use to live!!!



A lesson in synchronicity, perhaps?

GingerWright
May 8, 2003 - 06:20 am
I have not gotten the book yet but from what the heading says and looking up a word and making it a clickable is where I got my information and it does fit me to a tee. At almost 70 years old I do not care what people know about me or suspect and really have never cared as I am who I am and loving all people so that is the long and short of it.

Thanks for posting and Please come back as you can be a Great asset to this discussion.

GingerWright
May 8, 2003 - 06:33 am
Thanks for your knowlege and sharing it with me/us pertaining to who did what first but that made three of us so we only needed one more. The book as you know now interested me so I wanted it to be a go but I will read it even if it not a go.

Thanks to All who are Posting and Please do come back.

Hey Shy Nellie, Where are You? I am doing my Best to make this discussion a go but I do need a bit of help from You.

Coyote
May 8, 2003 - 06:50 am
Ginger - You sure are a night person, or is it early morning? I get up early, always have, but you seem to be up while it is dark out where you live. That is the big wonder of the internet. People with totally different time sets, whether by habit or location, can meet and communicate.

dapphne
May 8, 2003 - 07:35 am
More reviews of Middlesex.

Apparently his grandparents were brother and sister.

They had his mother/father, can't remember which, who married a "cousin" with out really knowing that, I believe. ...

So the normally "recessive gene" became dorminant, when his parents, who came from the same family, married and he was conceived. His physical "maleness" did not show up until puberty. When he finally went off to discover who he really was, after being brought up as a female for his pre adolessant years.

Coyote
May 8, 2003 - 10:15 am
Has anyone here read the first book, The Virgin Suicides and if so, was it good? This new one sounds like it has an original plot, but one which could be developed well or ruined according to the skill and accuracy of the writer.

Nellie Vrolyk
May 8, 2003 - 11:11 am
Hello Sarah, welcome to our group!

Hello Benjamin, it is nice to know that you are ready to step in when needed as another participant.

Hi Dapphne, are you joining us?

Hello Joan! I don't know who suggested this book, but it wasn't me. It was on our list back in February and I offered to lead the discussion. I think this might be another tough book to do, like Pi was.

Hello Ginger, thanks for pepping things up in here! I thought if I didn't look for a while that a few posts would appear. And they did!

I saved the links but haven't had a chance to look at them yet.

dapphne
May 8, 2003 - 04:46 pm
I will be lurking ... It has been a while since I read it, but I think that it will be interesting to discuss. I saw the movie "the Virgin Suicides" a few times.

It is also a rather strange story, hard to believe actually, very dark and sad about a family with four girls growing up in the fifties (I believe)...

One commits suicide and then the parents overreact and try to protect the others from EVERYTHING in life.. The story is told from the viewpoint of some young boys that lived near the girls growing up.

Jeffery reminds me (in a way) of the way Alan Ball presents a story ... (American Beauty .... HBO's Six Feet Under)

GingerWright
May 9, 2003 - 02:32 am
I wake up in the middle of the night and check S/N. Being retired I eat when I am hungry sleep when I am tired. When working I was mostly on the night shift. Many times I would do 12 hours a shift so have really not have any waking/sleeping hrs. I was a supervisior for a few years in the middle of my union days in the Bendix now Honeywell corp.

Coyote
May 9, 2003 - 06:52 am
Ginger - You and I might have lived next door and never met. I delivered papers before school, then took band which started an hour before regular classes (at a school across town by bus,) worked for a grocery/produce distributor for several years starting at 4 AM, then milked cows, and after college, worked a day shift which did all their overtime before regular hours, so I usually started at 6 and sometimes 4 AM.

Coyote
May 9, 2003 - 07:02 am
Dapphne - Thanks. That suggests this book my be rather dark, too. If I were writing, I would definitely go into deep, dark feelings, too, but I would never be able to tell a story without seeing all the humor surrounding every subject.

GingerWright
May 9, 2003 - 08:51 am
I delivered papers in the evening on horse back when I was young. I also milked cows when living at my grandparents farm one had a short udder so your had to keep the little finger out of the way so I still have a habit of sticking out my last finger don't know why.

Coyote
May 9, 2003 - 08:55 am
Ms. E and I were curious about the word, "Middlesex," so I looked it up. It comes from the words, middle and Saxon, so that is what it meant as a place in England and also in New England. If there was sex in Middlesex, that wasn't what folks were talking about when they named the place.

GingerWright
May 10, 2003 - 11:17 pm
I was just going by the heading that says:

In the spring of 1974, Calliope Stephanides, a student at a girls' school in Grosse Pointe, finds herself drawn to a chain-smoking, strawberry blond classmate with a gift for acting. The passion that furtively develops between them — along with Callie's failure to develop — leads Callie to suspect that she is not like other girls. In fact, she is not really a girl at all.

What more can I say as I love the human race along with dogs, cats, etc.

When you love All humans as I do it is Very Hard sometimes and can get Us in trouble.

Coyote
May 11, 2003 - 08:41 am
I read the heading, too, so have an idea what the book is about. It was just that Ms. E and I were wondering what the word meant as a name for a place - obviously not the same as the meaning of this title.

Nellie Vrolyk
May 11, 2003 - 04:53 pm
Hello all!

I noticed something on the cover of my copy of the book this morning: the 'S' in Middlesex is backwards in the title on the cover. Isn't that interesting?

SarahT
May 12, 2003 - 10:40 am
This sounds like an exciting discussion.

Ginger, I so admire you for your honesty. You should really live in San Francisco, where I was born, as we embrace people of all stripes, including those who feel they are a man (or woman) trapped in the body of the other sex. It is not seen as weird here. I know people criticize San Francisco for being crazy, but most of the people here are from other places and they just came here to find solace and acceptance. I am fourth generation San Franciscan and have stayed because it's home and because my mom (and until recently grandma) and brother and cousins and niece are all here AND because it's beautiful and accepting and fun to live in with GREAT weather!

Love you, Ginger.

Thanks, Nellie, for coming up with this one! I read a review of it when it came out last year and knew it was a keeper!

And welcome Benjamin and dapphne.

GingerWright
May 12, 2003 - 11:48 am
I have been to LA., Sacramento, but never been to San Francisco so if S/N has a gathering there I hope to be in the gathering, and Who Knows might just stay awhile as I have heard so much about it, weather etc.

I am country and do not care for large cities such as Chicago, so it would be Very Hard for me to fit in I think. Love this ole farm house I live in now as this is the only house as a child that I knew as I grew up traveling due to my Fathers work.

Hi to All, Ginger

Coyote
May 12, 2003 - 01:06 pm
Big time genius goofs again. I got online, ordered the book and a couple of others from B&N, as long as more than one gets free shipping. A few minutes later, I checked my email only to discover I ordered the Middlesex book in the online version. Ooops. I don't do online books. A book is for sitting with my feet up, or even better, reading in bed. Besides, how can I press four-leaf clovers in an online book? I gave up and asked for help, calling a nice, together type lady at B&N who quickly cancelled that order and reordered for me. I guess I am not the first old fogey who has gotten confused and made that error.

Nellie Vrolyk
May 13, 2003 - 10:23 am
Benjamin, I'm glad you got such good service from B&N. I always check a dozen times that I'm not getting a talking book or an online version instead of a hold and read book before ordering.

I press hosta leaves in my books -at least in the big heavy ones. I opened up a book yesterday and a hosta leaf fell out.

Coyote
May 22, 2003 - 07:15 am
Got the book a couple of days ago and am about half way through. So far, the story is the color, problems, feelings of an American Greek family. Oh sure, the theme is the genetic defect working its way down through the generations, but I believe this theme is more the method of telling the story of the family, rather than that history just being the background of the genetic problem's history. I really believe the book would be a great delight for anyone with Greek (Armanian) heritage. Of course, the second half of the book could easily prove me wrong. Oh, and yes, this author is using plenty of humor rather than just letting the whole subject be dark and dour.

The last Armanian author I remember enjoying was Saroyan. Remember Human Comedy from the war years? There was a lot of family story in that one, if I remember right.

Nellie Vrolyk
May 22, 2003 - 02:08 pm
Hello Ben, I'm glad you are enjoying the book

If no one would mind, I would like to propose this discussion for August instead of July because I'll be away on holidays for most of July. Would that be all right?

SarahT
May 22, 2003 - 07:48 pm
Ben, so glad to read your note - a friend got the book because she is Greek. I have it too and can't wait to start. Even the first line is an attention grabber!

Coyote
May 23, 2003 - 02:11 pm
Was I supposed to wait to read it when the discussion started? That would be a first - waiting to read a book. If I buy it, I usually read it within days unless I am immersed in some project or another book.

Nellie Vrolyk
May 23, 2003 - 03:39 pm
Hello Sarah and Ben!

Ben, you don't have to wait to read the book but you do have to wait to discuss it

I am hoping for more people to show an interest in discussing the book. If you are interested please leave a post and let me know?

Malryn (Mal)
June 1, 2003 - 05:40 pm

Nellie, I have ordered this book and will be joining the discussion August first.

Mal

dapphne
June 1, 2003 - 07:32 pm
I re-watched The Virgin Suicides again this week.......

I think that Jeff is a fabulous story teller, and would love to see Middlesex come out in film.

Coyote
June 2, 2003 - 08:32 am
I have the book and have read it - and will participate (if this ever gets moving.)

Nellie Vrolyk
June 3, 2003 - 12:13 pm
Hello Mal, welcome!

Benjamin, it will get going in August. I moved it up from July because I'm going on a couple of weeks holidays in July and wouldn't be here to lead.

Coyote
June 3, 2003 - 12:20 pm
NELLIE - I knew you were going to be gone, so I wasn't fussing about that. I just am the impatient type. Once I get an idea, or buy a book, or some new yarn, I want to get the project moving THAT DAY before something newer catches my atention. The older I get, the less I like to wait.

Prissy
June 4, 2003 - 07:45 pm
I've had the book for a while and needed some prodding to get into it. Joining ya'll for a discussion is just the prodding I need. I'm glad to hear that it will be in August instead of July, gives me more time to delve into it. And I always have a few more books in the works so I won't be forced to rush this one.

Nellie Vrolyk
June 5, 2003 - 11:11 am
Welcome Prissy! Nice to know you will be joining us! Again welcome!

Malryn (Mal)
June 5, 2003 - 11:55 am

My book arrived yesterday, NELLIE, so I'll definitely be here.

Mal

Nellie Vrolyk
June 6, 2003 - 12:45 pm
Thanks Mal!

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June 7, 2003 - 01:43 pm
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Coyote
June 9, 2003 - 08:57 am
Having specialized in testing and measurement in college, I believe advertising the poll on the book discussion sites will totally invalidate any results. It should go without saying that most who post on these sites like discussing books. To get an accurate reading for average seniornetters, we (book discussers) should all be banned from taking the poll. Or, better yet, the option about reading and discussing books should be eliminated. That statistical information could be gathered from the number of posters in the books discussions as compared to the total number of SNters.

Now that I think about it, who thought of this poll anyway? Maybe they want to know how many SNters like to read but DON'T like to discuss books. Actually, I probably fall more into that category. For good classical music or good fiction, I get a lot more out of it if I can immerse myself without analyzing everything. Oh, I have done plenty of the latter for classes - in literature and music both, but analyzing often ruins things for me. It is like sitting down to a great meal only to have folks at the table spend the whole dinner time discussing ingredients and techniques of preparation.

Lightening
June 21, 2003 - 01:21 am
Hello everyone....looking forward to joining you all in August.....This looks a great read..something different for me a Steve Martini/John Grisholm fan...Best Wishes from Birmingham, England.

Nellie Vrolyk
June 21, 2003 - 12:55 pm
Hello Jenny! Welcome! I look forward to having you join us come August.

GingerWright
June 21, 2003 - 03:19 pm
Howdy Lightening (Jenny)

I am So Glad you will be joining us as this will be a Very educational experince for all of us as to how we are the way we are and the why things are the way they are and we are learning so much that has Not been known to us before. I for one wonder why I feel the way I do sometimes and hope to find out by reading the book Middlesex.

I bees your friend the Mi she gin Hillbilly, Gingee.

Lightening
June 23, 2003 - 12:36 am
Thanks for the welcome dear friends.....eagerly anticipating the delivery of my copy....and of joining you all...

Coyote
June 23, 2003 - 05:07 am
I have watched two TV documetaries about transsexuals these last few weeks and since reading the book, have realized how very different the experiences of the intersexual character are from transsexuals. I think I am pretty well informed on the subject, but even this know-it-all is still learning.

GingerWright
June 25, 2003 - 11:43 am
Ben and All,

I am reading this book now and enjoying it very much.

Nellie Vrolyk
June 25, 2003 - 01:54 pm
Hello All!

Old pokey reader here has now gotten into the book far enough to discover that Middlesex is the name of a house in which Cal and his/her family live.

Lightening
June 27, 2003 - 02:15 am
Sorry Nellie, I won't be joining you....Can't obtain "Middlesex" until September...Amazon and W.H.Smiths etc., My son works in a Bookshop also and the same.....I will have a "lurk" Jen.

Nellie Vrolyk
June 27, 2003 - 01:07 pm
Sorry to hear that, Jenny. But it can't be helped. By all means feel free to 'lurk', and to make comments even if you don't have the book.

GingerWright
June 27, 2003 - 11:05 pm
I am on page 224 so that's Book # 3--- Home movies's so you are way ahead of me but we do have a bit of time. Smile.

Think I will get the video of Virgin Suicides also as I have Never heard of it before but just know that I am working on all of this. So Middlesex is a town eh. Well I am trully enjoying this book and think I will to the end.

Marvelle
June 28, 2003 - 03:08 pm
Hi Ginger! I've read both books, and like them both. Eugenides is a fine writer. I actually prefer Virgin Suicides and hope the movie follows the book closely, but even so, I heard good things about the movie.

Marvelle

Nellie Vrolyk
June 28, 2003 - 03:59 pm
Hello Ginger, Marvelle!

Ginger, Middlesex is a house or more properly said an estate.

I'll have to read The Virgin Suicides as well I think...

GingerWright
June 28, 2003 - 05:41 pm
Hi marvelle and Nellie, I forgot to pick up Virgin Suicides today as I got a call to go to a polish dinner and it was so good those homade noodles and all but I did pick up a powerball ticket. Don't gamble much any more but it is a big jackpot sooo. Glad you liked the Virgin Suicides Marvelle and I will get it.

Nellie, This book is keeping my interest.

GingerWright
June 29, 2003 - 01:14 am
Hello All, This book is suppose to fiction am I correct? If it is fictional, I think that there is so much truth in it that it running in middle of the road some where. Smile as I am really apprieciating it. Thank You Nellie for being the DL.

I have tried to rent the Virgin Suicide but he said WE DO NOT carry it here. I will keep trying but for now I am so enjoying Middlesex and am almost done so of course I want the Virgin Suicide right here when I finish. I will hold my breath and posting till August 1 but it won't be easy. Buy the way I live in Michigan.

Is there anyone out here to talk to? Sure but we cannot start Yet. OH OK. Smile.

MaryZ
June 29, 2003 - 05:54 am
Ginger, et al - The Virgin Suicides (1999) with James Woods is going to be on the Lifetime Channel on Thursday, 3 July, at 7 p.m.ET.

GingerWright
June 29, 2003 - 12:49 pm
MaryZ, Thanks I do not have lifetime and don't think that I can get in time. Maybe I can find one of my neibors that would let me watch there tv. I will keep searching for the video tho. I will check the library. Think I will call today.

GingerWright
June 29, 2003 - 08:05 pm
Mary Z

I let my fingers do the walking in the phone book and I found a great video place and got the The Virgin Suicides today and have watched it, Very Good. I like JEFFREY EUGENIDES style so will look for some more books.

Thank you so much.

Lightening
July 8, 2003 - 04:36 pm
Mary...I do like James Woods so will have to get the Virgin Suicides....Amazon may have a copy of the video on the used Private sellers section for a few pounds less. I am glad I now have a copy of Middlesex and surprisingly I am enjoying it.....I did see a documentary over here about children who are born with a similar genetic defect...although I don't think incest is the usual reason......I am keeping an open mind and am glad of the month to just read and enjoy before the discussion. This suits me.....as I am slow!...by the way GINGER.....Here I am again .....My old Hillbilly pal! Speak to you all again.

Marvelle
July 8, 2003 - 09:28 pm
Ginger, I've never seen the video of the Virgin Suicides and don't know how well it follows the book which I liked very much. Eugenides has only written two books: The Virgin Suicides and then his newest, Middlesex. I look forward to seeing what he writes in the future.

Marvelle

Coyote
July 9, 2003 - 08:39 am
I watched Virgin Suicides on TV last week and have read Middlesex. My guess is, the written book (Suicides) was better than the movie, simply because of Eugenides writing style. Any author using so much description and detail can't help but have something lost when a book is adapted to screen.

I will wait and express my opinion on the book, Middlesex, (truth vs. fiction, accuracy, etc.) in August. But I do have some definite opionions already, based on knowlege from other sources and the difference in his detail and accuaracy in the first half of the book and the second half.

GingerWright
July 9, 2003 - 11:02 am
Thank you for answering marvelle's question as we have been having storms here for a week.

Coyote
July 9, 2003 - 01:38 pm
GINGER - I wasn't really answering her question because I didn't read the Suicides - just saw the movie on TV. I am just making an assumption based on past experience when that sort of writer has a book made into a movie. Maybe the detail is all there in the movie, but I miss most of it, oblivious as I often am.

GingerWright
July 9, 2003 - 08:24 pm
No matter what you did a beter job than I would have.

Lightening
July 11, 2003 - 11:57 am
This is delicious...I am really enjoying "Middlesex"......Thank-you all the powers that be on Senior Net for choosing this for discussion. I would never have read it.....An absolute gem of description and info...I am going to order "Virgin Suicides" from the library now! Eugenides is a brilliant writer....I find myself sympathizing with the brother and sister....even against my better judgement......but enough, no discussing yet....By the way, were you talking about the weather over there...it's very hot and sticky here in Blighty just now!....Just keeping in touch...I haven't forgotten you all....JEN.

Nellie Vrolyk
July 24, 2003 - 04:40 pm
Hello everyone! Not long and our discussion will begin. I hope you are all ready?

Malryn (Mal)
July 24, 2003 - 05:48 pm

I'm here, NELLIE. Will start reading tonight.

Mal

Lightening
July 26, 2003 - 10:50 am
Hi there Nellie..I'm ready and enjoying the book. At my own slow pace. Hope I will be able to contribute something, however small to the discussion.I admire this writer.....He is one of the Greats! See you all soon.

Malryn (Mal)
July 27, 2003 - 06:25 am

Boy! This is quite a story. It's interesting, too, because we're just finishing up Life of Greece, the second volume of The Story of Civilization in the S of C discussion. There were many of Greek ancestry in my home town in Massachusetts, still are, as far as I know, and I grew up with them. A lot of the customs haven't changed since way back in ancient times. Can't wait for this discussion to start.

Mal

MalrynF
July 31, 2003 - 04:18 pm

Who's coming to this book opening tomorrow? NELLIE, are you there?

Mal

Nellie Vrolyk
July 31, 2003 - 04:32 pm
I'm hovering around like a large ghost, Mal. I have to think of a good welcoming or opening post for tomorrow...

Nellie Vrolyk
July 31, 2003 - 06:42 pm
Welcome Everyone

to our discussion of Middlesex!

Lightening
August 1, 2003 - 12:54 am
See you later Nellie and folks...Remember I'm posting from U.K. so will be out of sequence with you......but I will try to post some of my thoughts re this Great book......Learning a lot from it already!....How the "sins of the father's are visited unto the children unto the third and the fourth generation".....This was not nature gone wrong, but due to mankind's weakness....We are all guilty of lapses under duress.....I read the "tap" in re Bordache, an amazing person, so brave.....recommend this to folks as a background. Thanks for it........Jenny.

Coyote
August 1, 2003 - 06:07 am
Of course, the opening is a grabber. Many are curious about such things and some, even among us here on SN, have a more personal curiousity. However great my curiosity in reading this book, I believe the author has managed to make it real enough to leave us wondering if he is writing a sort of autobiography, or just a good tale. So I ask those of you who are just now reading to try to decide as you go along. How much is this book about the author's real life? I will ask this question more than once.

MalrynF
August 1, 2003 - 06:51 am

Hi, NELLIE, JENNY, BEN, GINGER and whoever else might come in. We're starting on a great adventure today. At least, I think it is one. I love this book, and I love the easy way Eugenides writes.

The first thing I'm going to say in this discussion is that, as most of you know, I had polio when I was a child. After the all-over-my-body paralysis eased up, and muscles started to rejuvenate, I was left with some paralysis and weakness on my left side, my left leg particularly, with weakness in my left arm and hand and left upper body down to the hip, leg and foot which were really affected. From the time I began to recover from being terribly sick and not expected to live, I have thought my body has two parts: the left, weaker female one, and the right, strong male one. You feminists out there, please don't come at me for saying that. I was only 7 years old when this idea came to my head, and it's never gone away. I have never told anyone this until now.

I don't really think this is a unique idea. I see male and female characteristics in many people. After all, we are a combination of male and female genes, aren't we, all of us?

In an interview, Eugenides said that authors must be hermaphroditic, because in order to write well they must get in the skin of their female characters and their male characters. (That's a paraphrase of the actual quote.) I'm a writer, and I know what he's talking about. I think many times we deny our opposite sex tendencies. I never have, though I don't think I've ever truly wanted to be a man. I've wondered what it's like, but I never wanted to be one. For one thing, I think polio must be much more difficult for a man than for a woman, if only because there's been such a stereotype built up by society for what a man should be . . . and for what a woman should be. Step across those lines, and problems can arise.

I've read further in this book than the chapters we've been assigned and find it fascinating, not just because of the discussion of hermaphrodism, but because of the historical thread and talk of Greek customs that run through it. The olivewood silkworm box with the two braids and the silver spoon fascinates me, as does Desdemona's method of determining the sex of an unborn baby.

Callie-Cal's father decides it's time for a girl, so has his own means of determining the baby's sex. Enough of these ancient Greek ways, he says, this is an age of science. Little did he know!

We have to think of inter-marriage here, marriage among relatives. Much of that went on in Greek villages. Much of it went on in small towns in the state of Maine where my father and his 7 siblings and my former husband's father and mother and their siblings lived. After I was married, my husband and I discovered that we had a cousin or two in common, for example. Where along the line that linkage happened I haven't taken the time to find out.

Of course, it's possible that this book is partially autobiographical, but frankly I don't think it makes any difference one way or another if Eugenides is describing some of his own experiences. If he is, then he has an inside track which keeps the book from being either sensational or maudlin. If he isn't, then he's done a darned good job of research, personal and academic.

Mal

dapphne
August 1, 2003 - 07:11 am
When I read this book, which was many, many months ago, I just assumed that it was his biography. Of course, that is proably not correct, but it just seemed so at the time.

I will be intereseted to hear opinions of what actually happened genetically, to cause his "problem".. I can't remember right now but I think that it was a double wamy that allowed the recessive genes to pop up.

Looking forward to hear all.

Marjorie
August 1, 2003 - 07:53 am
Over and over again I have asked myself "Is this book fiction or nonfiction?" So far I have read to the end of Book I. I am not a writer and don't know the "how" of writing. I can't imagine that the story of Lefty and Desdemona and how they left Greece and came to be married would be as complete without some autobiographical component. Maybe not the author's grandparents. Maybe just stories from the grandparents of friends.

MalrynF
August 1, 2003 - 09:04 am
From an interview with the author you can access HERE



"I met Jeffrey Eugenides in Café Einstein in Berlin, the city in which he has lived for the past three years with his wife, an artist, and their four-year-old daughter. (He was awarded a grant to write in Berlin for a year and they haven't yet got round to leaving.) The café makes a fleeting appearance in Middlesex, whose hero, like Eugenides, is a Greek-American raised in Detroit and now living in Berlin. So it seems appropriate to begin by asking how much of the novel is autobiographical.

" 'The story I am telling is very far from my own experience, so the only way I felt I could make it credible for me was to borrow from a certain amount of history and personal fact. It's autobiographical at the level of family detail or almost insignificant fact. I didn't set out to write about the Greek-American experience or originally to write a family saga at all. The idea was to write a fictional book about a hermaphrodite, and I wanted it to be medically accurate - to be a story of a real hermaphrodite, rather than a fanciful creature like Tiresias or Orlando who could shift in a paragraph; to avail myself of the mythological connections without making the character a myth.' "

" 'I went to medical libraries and read a lot of books. The genetic condition that I found happened to be a recessive mutation that only occurs in isolated communities where there's been a certain amount of inbreeding. At that point, I saw the possibility to bring in some of my family's story, the story of Greeks coming from Asia Minor, and I realized I had a large epic.



" 'Since it's about genetics, I thought the book should be a novelistic genome; that is, it should contain some of the oldest traits of writing and storytelling - it begins with epic events, old fashioned, almost Homeric ideas - and as it progresses it should gradually become a more deeply psychological, more modern novel.



" 'Without being too schematic, my idea was to have old traits carried along into the body of the book in the same way we have ancient genes in our body combining in a different way to create different human beings. I hoped by mixing all these elements to come up with something new.' "

Terry MS
August 1, 2003 - 09:24 am
Hi everyone: I, too, read this book many months ago so I'm a little foggy on some of the details. But I wondered, like Benjamin, if it was very autobiographical--partly because of the way the main character described himself. I kept turning to the author's photo and saying, "Hmm." So I'm interested in this interview, etc. I'm also thinking it's his skill as an author that makes us all feel it HAS to be real.

I truly loved this book, by the way. It had a slight flavor of "The World According to Garp" to me, because of what I think of as rather outlandish (or at least unusual to my life) characteristics told matter-of-factly. I absolutely suspended all disbelief willingly, when I read both books (Middlesex and Garp).

Terry http://www.terrymillershannon.com

Coyote
August 1, 2003 - 09:41 am
MAL - Thanks for the interview. I always like verification of my gut instincts. The first part seems too full of detailed info on a Greek-American family NOT to be true. The last part seems more like just research and facts on one or two case histories, rather than experience. That part brought up some other questions which I will get into later.

I should say, the only novels I really enjoy are the ones which have enough autobiographical reality to seem real. Pure fiction usually leaves me out in the cold. Now I am wondering if the house he lived in was really named Middlesex and that is why he conjured up this story. Hmmmnn.

MalrynF
August 1, 2003 - 10:05 am

BEN, as you know, most writers of fiction draw on their own experiences or what they have observed, read, or have been told. I've written several novels, some in the first person. Invariably, those written in the first person are interpreted by people who read them to be autobiographical.

"So you lived alone in New Hampshire in that old house, and you had a bad fall while you were putting on that musical show that had the lesbian entertainer and the college professor in it, right? What was it like to do all that show business work while you were using crutches?"

I've never lived in New Hampshire; never lived in an old house, never put on a real musical show, but I know New Hampshire, know old houses, have used crutches, know music and something about show business, have known some professors, and have friends who are lesbians, some of whom are entertainers. In other words, there was enough of me in what I wrote for it to seem real to readers. That's what Eugenides has done in this book. I think he's a very, very fine writer.

Mal

MalrynF
August 1, 2003 - 11:04 am


"Eugenides's second novel, (Middlesex) has an apt title for a book whose narrator is a hermaphrodite. But Middlesex is also the street in Grosse Pointe, Michigan, where Eugenides grew up . . . ."



"Eugenides first contemplated hermaphroditism about 20 years ago when he read a memoir by Alexina Barbin, a 19th-century French hermaphrodite. But he became frustrated that 'it was written by a convent schoolgirl, and it seemed to be written by a convent schoolgirl -- very melodramatic, evasive about anatomical details,' he said, adding, 'She was unable to describe her emotions.' He decided 'to write the story that I wasn't getting from the memoirs.' "

To read more of this article, click HERE

Coyote
August 1, 2003 - 01:41 pm
Just for more info, I checked out "pseudohermaphrodites" on google and found a brief written for teaching a class on the topic. Among other things, I found there were 15 different kinds of hermaphrodites, with some subsets in these categories. I believe the genetic form in Middlesex is the type I saw not too long ago on either Discovery or the Health channel. They had some footage of a small communtiy (quite intermarried) in South America. Many families had more than one child with the problem, but those kids who seemed female at birth, became fertile males after puberty. The Spanish name for the defect meant eggs at twelve (eggs refering to male gonads.) These people have near normal levels of testosterone, are fertile. If I remember, Eugenides refered to one group of people carrying the gene in South America as well as the group in Greece, so it sounds like the same defect.

Oh well, apart from the defective gene, I found the info about the silk industry to be fascinating. In my ignorance, I guess I figured it was only produced in the orient. I should have known some middle eastern countries were also involved.

Nellie Vrolyk
August 1, 2003 - 04:28 pm
Hello everyone! It is great to see you all here. I've enjoyed reading all your thoughtful posts.

Lightening, you are looking at the things in the book from a different viewpoint and that is very refreshing.

Benjamin, this book does read as an autobiography, but from what I read in the author interview it is only partly that. I'm keeping your question in mind...

Dapphne, welcome to the discussion.

Marjorie: good question "Is this book fiction or non-fiction?" I kept wondering the same thing as I was reading through the book for the first time.

Terry, hello and welcome. I've not read The World According to Garp, so I can't say anything about your comparison. I do want to hear more of your thoughts on Middlesex.

Mal, last but by no means least... I also love the way that Eugenides writes. He makes his characters so real. Yes, writers of fiction draw on their own experiences and Eugenides admits that he does. But people tend to believe that fictional stories told in the first person are autobiographical.

We all have in us both male and female aspects. So true.

What did you think of the juxtaposition of the scientific, portrayed by the method Milton uses to assure the baby will be a girl, and superstition, portrayed by Desdemona's use of the silver spoon to determine the sex of the unborn baby?

I find the historical background information to be interesting too.

Marjorie
August 2, 2003 - 06:55 am
NELLIE: You asked What did you think of the juxtaposition of the scientific, portrayed by the method Milton uses to assure the baby will be a girl, and superstition, portrayed by Desdemona's use of the silver spoon to determine the sex of the unborn baby?

As I was reading the book, Milton's method did not feel scientific because Eugenides has such a flowing style of writing. On reflection, it certainly is scientific.

Desdemona's use of the silver spoon seems very natural for her. I haven't finished the book so I don't know what she had to learn and how she had to change once she stepped foot in America. So far she seems very naive as evidenced by the game she and Lefty played when they boarded the ship -- strangers who have a shipboard romance.

MalrynF
August 2, 2003 - 09:34 am

On Page 9, the narrator says, "I can only explain the scientific mania that overtook my father during that spring of '59 as a symptom of the belief in progress that was infecting everyone back then. Remember, Sputnik had been launched only two years earlier."

Callie-Cal's father was following true scientific methods when he bought the basal thermometer and a kept a record of his wife, Tessie's temperature to determine the time of ovulation. On the other hand, there was nothing but myth and superstition which led to Desdemona's prediction of the baby's sex with a silver spoon.

Much of Greek culture was founded on mythology. How much of our modern Western culture is based on myths? Can you think of any examples? I think there's a myth in New England that says the first crop of peas is supposed to be planted by the light of a full moon.

Desdemona is filled with the ancient traditions and superstitions of her village in Greece. I haven't yet decided whether pretending she and Lefty had just met on the ship to cover the fact that they were brother and sister was naive or smart.

The Greek-Americans I knew when I was growing up still maintained traditions that went back to Ancient Greece. I love the mention of Desdemona's having two cups of strong coffee. I love Greek coffee. I remember the first time I had it and a piece of Baklava when I was about fourteen. It's a wonderful combination, and I wish I had some right now!

Mal

MalrynF
August 2, 2003 - 09:55 am

Oh, yes. I read The World According to Garp. John Irving is one of my favorite writers. He sometimes takes fact and turns it into fantasy and myth.

Eugenides, on the other hand, takes myths and turns them into fact, it seems to me. It's hard to say. So much of Greek history and what constitutes the character of the Greek people comes from Ancient Greek mythology that sometimes it's hard to tell what is fact, and what is not.

Mal

Lightening
August 2, 2003 - 01:26 pm
Calliope........the muse of epic poetry. ( Gk.Kalliope)Chambers Dictionary.

Metamorphosis...a marked change which some living beings undergo in the course of growth. Chambers Dictionary.

I feel that this novel is both biographical and scientific. This last will be noticed further on as the story unfolds as there are vivid genetic descriptions. It was then that I realised how much research had gone into this. Certainly a good study of biology will have helped.

I was very interested in the comparison drawn by the silk worm moth whose larva produces silk and the metamorphosis which will later occur when Callie becomes Cal...."Retrace the filament and go back to the cocoon's beginning in a tiny knot, a first tentative loop." This is exactly what Eugenides is doing.........He does go right back into the womb with such amazing descriptions. (If you haven't read on I won't say anymore) He holds me transfixed.

I think this story is based on the life of Berdache or a similar person, having read the web account of that life. I don't think it is based on Jeffrey's own experience. He is a married man with children.

I do have a friend who is a married man and has always had a problem with his gender. I think in his case it was due to problems in childhood.

I do see signs of birth defects in this part of the world. My own doctor is concerned at the amount of intermarrying between first cousins in the Asian community here and he says it is causing serious eye problems and malformed limbs. It doesn't take much to see that things can easily get worse.

Callie, "the descendent of a smuggling operation", just as silk worms were originally smuggled out of china, is a fascinating character.I am surprised she doesn't condemn anyone for the way that she was formed. If Lefty had married one of the two girls Desdemona attempted to match him with or if the parents hadn't been killed, or if the Turks hadn't invaded......No Callie, no Cal.

I like the way Cal as a boy pops up suddenly in Ch 3. I was just getting used to Callie as a girl telling the story. This is done so carefully that you accept this is the same person. It took a while to understand that Callie was now living as a man.. "When Calliope surfaces she does so like a childhood speech impediment."......... "Callie rises up inside me wearing my skin like a loose robe". This is a wonderful description. There is no escape for this duel person.

Thiis writer is brilliant.ABSOLUTELY!.

MalrynF
August 2, 2003 - 03:21 pm

JENNY, many of us have read only the assigned chapters for this week, from "The Silver Spoon" to the end of"The Silk Road" or to Page 76. It is helpful to us if those of you have read beyond that do not mention what happens until all of us have read what you have. I myself have not even met Cal yet.

A "gender problem", as you call it, is not caused by problems in childhood, as some participants in this discussion will vouch.

The author has said his interest in hermaphrodism was aroused by a memoir by Alexina Barbain, a 19th century French hermaphrodite. You can read this article by clicking this link. HERE.

Mal

Marjorie
August 2, 2003 - 03:49 pm
LIGHTENING: I read the part you quoted about Calliope surfacing too and went back to find out where. It is in the chapter An Immodest Proposal which is part of Book I. I like the way Eugenides writes. His images are so very sharp.

Nellie Vrolyk
August 2, 2003 - 04:20 pm
Thank you for all the posts everyone. We have guests so I'll be back later on to say more.

MalrynF
August 2, 2003 - 04:23 pm

Below is a link to an article I found about how people predict a baby's sex today.

Predicting

Marjorie
August 2, 2003 - 04:53 pm
MALRYN: The article about predicting a baby's sex was interesting. Although I am familiar with the thermometer being used to aid conception, I was definitely skeptical that you could ensure a particular sex for a baby as Milton did in the book.

GingerWright
August 2, 2003 - 05:16 pm
I am so Happy this discussion has taken off so well by "All" of you. I truly loved it with its history etc. The silver Spoon was used by the the Gypsies in this country for a long time before the way we have now.

Paige
August 2, 2003 - 05:52 pm
I listened to this book on tape a few weeks ago. Not only do I think that Eugenides is a great writer but the man who read the book on tape did a fabulous job. This does make a difference when listening to a book. I was riveted to the story.

GingerWright
August 2, 2003 - 07:30 pm
Welcome Paige it is so Good to have you here. This book whether on tape or reading the book is so Very interesting to me and am so glad that it is of interest to you also. We Must be understanding to All and I hope that We are.

The WOW for me is that we have both male and female in All of us as I Never understod this before as I thought that I was the only confused person on this earth at one time.

Nellie will Be in shortly to give you another Welcome and so will others.

I will be awaiting your posts along with others.

Coyote
August 3, 2003 - 07:59 am
MALRYN - As to what causes gender identity problems in the non-intersexual person (physically in-between in some way,) no one knows yet. Whether the person is born that way and the problems in early childhood come because the tot doesn't fit the expectations of one or both parents and society, or whether abuse or other trauma causes the child to use multiple personality coping techniques which produce an opposite sex personality which dominates, no one knows. My guess is there are multiple ways the problem starts. In any case, it is in full swing by age three or so, and has never been successfully relieved by any treatment other than sex change hormone and surgery treatment.

GINGER - Yes, we all are a mixture. If a person were totally male, he would be too agressive to be a good husband and father, so males who have a few female traits have been evolutionary successful. Women who have no tendency to fight enough to protect their young, etc. wouldn't make very good mothers, so a little mix of male traits has made them more successful. You get the idea. But those of us who have a more even mix, or more traits and feelings of the sex opposite our birth sex still have more trouble in modern society.

LIGHTENING - I agree, I don't think Eugenides is the pseudohermaphrodite in the book. At least, he stated this wasn't so in the New York Times interview linked by MALRYN. Besides, I don't think he knew the feelings and experiences of such a person as deeply as someone who lived the part. But don't let being married and having children throw you. With artificial insemination, etc., many non-fertile people marry and have children nowadays. Also, some intersexual people are fertile, though most aren't.

Paige
August 3, 2003 - 10:19 am
Because I don't have the book, it will be hard to truly participate in the discussion but I will pop in now and then if I remember the parts being discussed, if that is okay.

As a reentry student in the 70's, I was a teaching assistant in human sexuality classes. If I remember correctly, there is a difference between transexuals and hermaphrodites with transexuals having the feeling of having been born into the wrong body and hermaphrodites having physical mainifestations of both sexes. Also, I think it was Masters and Johnson who came up with a scale of 1 to 10 regarding sexual fluidity with all of us falling somewhere between 1 and 10 and having both male and female in us.

Coyote
August 3, 2003 - 01:45 pm
I just heard from a friend who was posting here, that she has been asked to leave because her style of posting seems intimidating to some of you. If finding out facts, posting links, and generally offering related information is not wanted in this discussion, I should probably leave, too. But I would first like to say, some of us were recruited to join this group because a few people wanted a discussion and were having trouble getting enough participants. We bought the book and dutifully read it, assuming our contributions would be welcome. Unlike me, for the other person, any expense was awkward at this time. Anyway, I didn't realize this was an exclusive clique of some sort. I guess I am guilty of equating love of reading with openess and wisdom. Looks like I was wrong.

dapphne
August 3, 2003 - 01:52 pm
What????

Say it isn't so!

That is too bad...

I will not lurk or respond if this is the case, and I do believe you Ben.

Check back later

dapph

Coyote
August 3, 2003 - 02:33 pm
DAPPHNE - I, too, will stay subscribed until those concerned have a chance to deny or explain the charges. I guess Eugenides' heroine/hero and others like him would all too well understand feeling a bit unwanted or appreciated.

GingerWright
August 3, 2003 - 02:47 pm
I have No idea what is going on so Ben email me please.

Nellie Vrolyk
August 3, 2003 - 04:12 pm
Hello all!

I'm not sure what is going on... I'm totally puzzled...

I enjoy everyone's informative posts...

Don't go anywhere. I'll see if I can find out what is going on. I know as little about whatever is going on as the rest of you...

Paige
August 3, 2003 - 05:41 pm
I guess fools rush in, perhaps I should not have jumped into this discussion. I don't know what is going on...sorry.

Coyote
August 4, 2003 - 07:16 am
NELLIE - I have chosen to email you with more detail - what prompted my post but certainly not what started the problem. I believe it may be some hard feelings from some previous site or something I know nothing about.

For the rest of you, if you aren't involved in the ruckus, let's get back to the book. That first "book" is certainly full of radical action, from burning bodies to incest in a lifeboat - with stimulation from a corset already. I have to hand it to Eugenides for pouring on the ideas. No matter what else, I can't accuse him of being boring.

Marjorie
August 4, 2003 - 07:44 am
I like the way that Eugenides paints pictures with words.

Early in the book there is the description of Desdemona's heart palpitations.

Squinting in the dim light, my grandmother looked down to see the front of her tunic visibly fluttering; and in that instant ... Desdemona became what she'd remain for the rest of her life: a sick person imprisoned in a healthy body.


A page or so later, to make sure we don't miss the point, Eugenides tells us:

Years later, in her widowhood, when she'd spend a decade in bed trying with great vitality to die ...


Someone else might just say that Desdemona is a hypochrondriac. What marvelous descriptions would be lost when using just one word as a description.

Nellie Vrolyk
August 4, 2003 - 09:32 am
Paige, I hope you stay around and read along, even if you don't actively participate.

Benjamin, I think that lifeboat scene is marvelous, specially that corset which becomes such a turn-on for Lefty. I found it so strangley incongruous that they got married before making love with each other -legitimizing their incestuous relationship. It's almost as if their pretense at being strangers makes them forget they are brother and sister, isn't it?

Marjorie, I like those two pieces, they paint pictures that's for sure. Here's one I like...

"As kids they'd scrabbled down the terraced mountainside like a four-legged, two-headed creature. She was accustomed to their Siamese shadow springing up against the whitewashed house at evening, and whenever she encountered her solitary outline, it seemed cut in half."

I think that paints such a good word picture of the closeness between Desdemona and her brother Lefty.

Marjorie
August 4, 2003 - 07:43 pm
Going to America was quite a big change for Desdemona and Lefty. They didn't know what they would find when they arrived. I am sure that they realized it wouldn't be like what they had known before.

Not only were they going to a strange country but they had trouble leaving their own country because no one wanted to help. A big struggle to get to an unknown future.

GingerWright
August 4, 2003 - 09:36 pm
When canllipoe's grandmother was doing the spoon thing the grandmother cried out it is a boy and the father said no the spoons are wrong to which he said it is science Ma. Oh we have come along way from that day.

Uncle Peter a lifelong batchelor "the chriopractor who had no famly in the US made it clear that to have a girl baby they had to have sexual congress 24 hrs. pior to ovalation so there is much confusion for all as to what is going on right from the begining.

Oh boy I hope that I got that P in Cals name in the right place. Cal is so much eaiser to spell. Smile.

Nellie Vrolyk
August 5, 2003 - 05:33 pm
Thank you for posting everyone

I'm busy this evening so shall be back in the morning when I'm all rested and ready to go.

Hi Ginger.

Nellie Vrolyk
August 6, 2003 - 07:21 pm
Any thoughts on Doctor Philobosian?

Marjorie
August 6, 2003 - 07:38 pm
I liked that the favor Dr. Philobosian did for Lefty was returned when Lefty helped him leave the country. I need to go back to the book to remind myself of the specifics of their interaction.

dapphne
August 7, 2003 - 05:27 am
I would like to know who is responsible for somebody losing access to this "MiddleSex" because some people are intimidated by their posts?

And I also understand that we are being deleted here, if we question these practices.

I will also be CCing Seniornet and Marcie to insure if my post gets deleted, someone in charge will be informed.

dapph

Joan Pearson
August 7, 2003 - 06:26 am
Dapphne, I would suggest that you send all correspondence directly to Marcie. The participants in this discussion do not have the answers to the questions you have posted. Also, you might not know this, but NO ONE has the authority to delete ANY SeniorNet posts, except Marcie. I hope this helps and the others who are interested in this book can get back to the discussion.

dapphne
August 7, 2003 - 06:33 am
I did that already Joan..

The participants may not have all the answers, but I think they deserve to know the questions.

Discrimination and censorship affects all of us, not only the ones being discriminated against, and/or censored.

thankyou

dapph

Nellie Vrolyk
August 7, 2003 - 09:31 am
Dapphne, I have read what you have written.

Marjorie, what Dr. Philobosian does for Lefty, bandaging up his wounded thumb, seems like such a simple thing. I like the way Eugenides writes this piece with Philobosian seeing the young refugee and helping him, and, while we can guess it is Lefty, we are not told for certain until a few paragraphs later.

It is Desdemona who keeps Philobosian from jumping in the water to kill himself after he has found his slaughtered family, and it is Lefty who gets him a visa so that he can come to America with them.

I wanted to look at a few more of what I call 'secondary characters'. One is the Greek General Hajienestis, who wakes up thinking his legs are made of glass. He also thought he was dead. Is he sane?

The second is Arthur Maxwell on the British ship Iron Duke, and his very bigoted opinions of the peoples of the area. Is Maxwell a product of his time?

From page 46 of my copy of the book, another piece I like:
"The first refugees had come with carpets and armchairs, radios, Victrolas, lampstands, dressers, spreading them out before the harbor, under the open sky."


I'll try to come back later with some more thoughts.

Marcie Schwarz
August 7, 2003 - 11:44 am
Dapphne, I am not aware that anyone is removing posts in this discussion. As, Joan, said, I am the only one with the authority to remove posts (unless they are commercial messages--some volunteers may remove those).

I will not discuss in a public message board actions taken in regard to specific individuals. And I will not discuss private email correspondence. There are several perspectives on every issue and some people may choose to take 'sides' even when there is not an issue of "sides."

This is not a censorship issue. It relates to posting behavior in a community web site. Anyone who has questions or concerns may email me.

Please do not take this book discussion off topic.

Marvelle
August 7, 2003 - 12:01 pm
Hi Everyone, I read Middlesex when it first came out and just now checked out a library copy. I did a super quick scan of Book 1 and see so many more things now then I did the first time. What beautiful writing.

In the midst of the horror of war, Dr. Philobosian did a good deed for Lefty and the favor was returned. I think this shows that good can never be entirely defeated. Dr. Philobosian trusted in his letter of safety from Mustafa Kemal (aka Ataturk) to protect him and his family and instead his family is horribly murdered. This is what happened to so many Greeks and Armenians.

Nellie, other nice lines (and there are so many) -- from Book 1 page 68, the marriage ceremony

"Hip to hip, arms interwoven to hold hands, Desdemona and Left circumambulated the captain, once, twice, and then again, spinning the cocoon of their life together. No partriarchial linearity here. We Geeks get married in circles, to impress upon ourselves the essential matrimonial facts: that to be happy you have to find variety in repetition; that to go forward you have to come back where you began."

More later....

Marvelle

GingerWright
August 7, 2003 - 04:30 pm
It is so good to see you joining us as the disruption has created a problem for me and probably others also but even Oprah has had a couple of segements on it as there are so many people out there that thought hey I am the only one who thinks as I do. It is so much acurant (sp) and needs to be talked about as we all need help in one way or another depending on the problem even the relegious problems we have now such as wars and having a Gay bishop Wow Middlesex is the time to coment on All of this book.

MarvelleHow beautiful you have told the Interwoven spinning the cocoon of their wedding and life together. Makes me think of the Silkworm and how it so much a part of the story and how it fits in so many ways.

Hi Nellie, I am still here and will be until the week I will be on vacation in Calgary but will return here as soon as I get back so do not get discouraged.

You that have wanted to talk about this book Please come back as I am sure you have much to say about the Book Middlesex as was your intensions. We await your posts About the Book.

Ginger

Marvelle
August 7, 2003 - 05:31 pm
Hi Ginger, what nice comments. I'll look for more Oprah shows on the subject. Thanks for mentioning her shows. This is a timely book, isn't it?

Statistics from the hawaii.edu website = between 1900-1923 from 3,500,000 to 4,300,000 Armenians, Greeks, Nestorians and other Christians were killed by the Turkish government. Such statistics on genocide are almost impossible to verify but this site seemed relatively conservative in their estimate and they checked their facts.

I lived in Turkey and Greece in the 60's and 70's and remember one instance when the grandfather of an American military officer came to visit him. The grandfather was Armenian, born in Turkey, who was forced to emigrate to the U.S in the early part of the 20th century. Turkish officials interrogated him many times regarding his purpose in returning to Turkey. I think they were afraid of revenge.

The Turkish government doesn't admit the killings. Turkey is an interesting place and I enjoyed getting to know the people. Many countries -- including the U.S. -- have committed acts they'd like to forget or deny.

Before the 20th century diaspora about 3/4 of the silk manufacturers and 4/5 of the textile factories in Turkey were operated by Greeks and Jews.

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Some neat links on silk production:

Silk Production Pictures

(Click on the sublinks at the bottom pages of the Silk Production link for more photos and information.)

About Silkworms

Bursa Today & Silk

From this link, at the bottom of the page, we find out that local silkworm farmers still bring cocoons into the city of Bursa to sell to silk producers. You can search for other parts of Turkey by the clickable guide at the top right side of the link.

_________________________

The process of silk production is intricate. Silkworms have been domesticated for so long that they cannot survive in the wild. The wings of adult moths are too weak for flying and a moth can crawl only about a foot or so. A female moth lays about 500 eggs which the silk farmers incubate and then they put the worms on specially constructed frames where each worm spins a cocoon with a mile-long single string. The farmers keep a few cocoons for breeding stock and use or sell the rest for silk production.

Silk producers first heat the cocoons to kill the larvae inside and then they boil them for about 5 minutes to get rid of the outside sticky substance. They then use a delicate knife or scapel to pick out a string from each cocoon. (I'm amazed at the photo in the second link which shows a man without magnifier doing this procedure. How is that possible? My eyesight was never that good.) About 10 or more of these strings are wound together as a finished thread for strength.

Marvelle

Marvelle
August 7, 2003 - 07:23 pm
I research when I want to learn about something in online discussions through Google. This is possible even with my out-of-date webtv unit. NELLIE, please tell me if I go overboard on links.

There's a wonderful spot at SN on how to post links suitable for a particular discussion as well as other handy hints. You also can practice techniques there which I still do from time to time. Click on Home - Discussions - How to Use Discussions & Chat.

Or else click on Posting Tips

Probably most posters know about links but, just in case, there you are.

Marvelle

GingerWright
August 7, 2003 - 09:40 pm
Your links are so much to digest but then so informational. Thanks.

GingerWright
August 7, 2003 - 09:45 pm
So the book continues I hope.

Come on Nellie, WE are awaiting your post. The Middlesex is Not over it is just beginning.

Marjorie
August 7, 2003 - 09:51 pm
MARVELLE: Your links brought to life a novel I read recently. Women of Silk by Gail Tsukiyama is a story about young women in China who work in a silk factory. The novel tells all the steps that were described in your link.

Coyote
August 8, 2003 - 07:16 am
MARVELLE - Thanks for the links and info on the silk industry. Reading the early part of this book brought back some memories from a couple of years before the war started, maybe 1939. My god parents were missionaries in China. They somehow sent (maybe with some other missionary who came back in time to avoid the Japenese invasion) several silkworms which we got and kept alive on mulberry leaves until they made cocoons. I don't remember much, probably because my parents found it hard to remember these people who were killed in China soon after.

I was remembering the whole thing a few years ago when I bought a house in Colorado with a huge mulberry tree out back. (No silkworms in this one, but every bird in the region came to visit when the berries were ripe.)

This is an example of what seems to happen so often. I read a book because of something I know about and have an interest in (in this case, I have a lot of experience and knowlege relating to the last half of the book,) then I learn about something entirely different while I am reading.

Marvelle
August 8, 2003 - 08:36 am
Wow Ben, your own cocoons? Isn't it funny how what we read can bring up memories that are half-dormant, just waiting for the right trigger. I read somewhere that silkworms eat white mulberry leaves and that in the 19th century the U.S. didn't have the right kind of tree and that's why the silkworm industry failed at that time. If your tree is a white mulberry I still don't think there'd be silkworms since they can't survive in the wild anymore. Maybe you could start your own silkworm factory though? (smile)

Thanks Marjorie for mentioning Women of Silk. I hope its at my local library because I'd love to read it. I've been caught up in silk fascination. I've enjoyed how Eugenides has entwined cocoons with the lives of Lefty and Desdemona, showing how their frame of reference is closely linked to the life and metamorphoses of the silkworm.

Are you all like me? Seeing cocoon references all over the pages of this book? (And I've only finished Book 1 so far.) At this point I think the cocoon is a symbol of Calliope's own metamorphoses.

I'm behind everyone else in the reading I think as I'm only a third of the way through Book 2. Will try to finish that section and then post later today.

Marvelle

Coyote
August 8, 2003 - 09:17 am
MARVELLE - The use of the cocoon as a symbol of change is far from original. Eugenides mentioned somewhere (probably one of the articles Mal linked) that he had read Crysalis (sp?) an early book written by a male to female transsexual (Jan Morrison?) In that one, the concept was probably for the change in general, but more for turning into the perceived beautiful butterfly from the ugly worm. I doubt someone who had lived as female and become a male would think of himself in that way. In any case, a cocoon symbolizes a dormant time, then an immergence into life, which is appropriate for the gene which brought the hero into being as he is.

Marvelle
August 8, 2003 - 11:02 am
Of course, Ben it's not an original symbol; but then that's the nature of symbols -- something so familiar that when one sees it, one recognizes its significance as a symbol and what it suggests.

I generally prefer not to read reviews of books or interviews of an author until after I've read the book. Otherwise I'd lose the enjoyment of unexplored territory and may unavoidably pick up another's ideas. There have been exceptional cases when I've felt the need to read about a book -- review, interview, criticism -- before actually reading the book itself. This rarely happens. This is my preference and personal way of reading. When someone posts a review, interview, or professional criticism, I thank the poster and save the link in my file to read afterwords. I do appreciate their contribution.

I'm glad we have reviews/interviews in posts and I look forward to reading them after the discussion with our final thoughts. Will love to see any indepth responses at that time.

I also assume people would do the same with any links I provide. Either one reads them now or in the future or else one doesn't read them at all. Some people feel such information gets in the way of the story and prefer not to read links. I can understand that choice. I research in order to learn and finding links to post is pure gravy for me.

Marvelle

Marvelle
August 8, 2003 - 11:45 am
About General Hajienestis, mentioned on page 44. He liked to play dead in bed to avoid the war but then that very same dead man would order lunch; or else he'd imagine his legs were made of glass.

"My thin, vitreous legs . . . . (If) your legs were made of glass you'd understand. I can't go into shore. That's exactly what Kemal [the Turkish general/leader] is banking on! To have me stand up and shatter my legs to pieces."

NELLIE, you mentioned this passage and perhaps intend to talk about it? Hajienestis had such a wonderful imagination.

Marvelle

Coyote
August 8, 2003 - 12:39 pm
MARVELLE - So this book has two hypochondriacs, one who thinks he is dead and one who wants to die, yet they both continue to eat. Nuts. If I were there, I just wouldn't feed them unless they got up and came to the table.

GingerWright
August 8, 2003 - 02:23 pm
Your solution sounds like a good one to me. I am LOL.

GingerWright
August 8, 2003 - 02:25 pm
Please come out and play with us. Bring your book on Middlesex.

annafair
August 8, 2003 - 04:55 pm
I am between book discussions and decided to peek in this discussion ...I am so sorry I didnt get the book and participate..what a fascinating story and one about real happenings. It seems a lot of us have been interested in one form or another about silk and its production..I cant recall the name of a book I read on the subject I think it was The Silk Trail???

In any case I once wrote a poem about silk ( as a seamtress who always made her own clothes I LOVED working with silk. It just has a special feel and the resulting garment worth all the effort. Whenever I made a ball gown I felt like a princess when I wore it. I use what is available now and have no need for ball gowns any more.

I realize this book has a deeper story and I am going to get the book and read it . You have whet my appetite and challenged my mind to see how the underlying problem is solved. And havent we come along way in understanding ? Will continue to visit and hope you all do the same..anna

Nellie Vrolyk
August 8, 2003 - 06:09 pm
This is the second time I'm trying to post this. I hope this time it takes -I have my fingers crossed X

Hello everyone!

I'm going to be off-topic for just a bit, and then I'll try to address all the things you have been saying on the book. But first the off-topic stuff.

I'm sorry I'm such an old poke in getting here. My reason for being so slow in getting here is that I'm writing an erotic novel and the only time I can work is during the day. Sometimes, like today, the words flow so good that it is almost impossible for me to stop. But I have the evenings set aside for my internet doings. Unfortunately I live out in the west, so while it is 6 PM for me right now, it is much later for a lot of you. I don't really know what to do about that...

I will show up sooner or later. Don't worry about that.

I forgot to pull the old page off my page a day calendar and spent the whole day thinking it was still the 7th -sorry about that. A senior moment and all those things

Marvelle, thank for your interesting posts. I saved the links to my favorites and will be putting a couple up in the heading. You can never go overboard with links as far as I'm concerned. Those figures of the number of people killed in that time period are frightful.

How interesting that you lived in Turkey for a while.

Ginger, I'm slow in getting here -I guess I've said that already, haven't I? Don't forget that I'll be in Calgary too.

Marjorie, Women of Silk sounds like an interesting book.

Benjamin, I enjoy reading your thoughtful posts and hope to be reading more.

Hello Annafair!

I'm going to post this and then put some new things up in the Heading. Then I'll post some more on the book itself. My stomach is growling at me, so I'll make myself a sandwich to nibble on while I post etc.

Nellie Vrolyk
August 8, 2003 - 06:42 pm
Ha! I just discovered I can't eat and look in the book at the same time... Ok I made space for the book...

Marvelle, I just wanted to have a short look at General Hajienestis. I think he's such a well developed secondary type character. I should check if he is based on a real person. I would assume so. But we are moving on to other things and General H is not the most important character in the book. Although, by deserting Smyrna he is in a way to blame for what happens there when the Turks re-invade the city.

A quote from page 73:
"In nervous cram sessions, illiterates learned how to pretend to read; bigamists to admit to only one wife; anarchists to deny having read Proudhon; heart patients to simulate vigor; epileptics to deny their fits; and carriers of hereditary diseases to neglect mentioning them..."


Is it any easier to get into the US as an immigrant in our time?

  • ********************

    We are going on to Book Two and the first chapter is: Henry Ford's English-Language Melting Pot

    This is a chapter that riled me up. I'll get into that more later on, it's hard for me to concentrate right now.
  • GingerWright
    August 8, 2003 - 06:51 pm
    I am Very much looking forward to meeting you in Calgary.

    Must not let that stomach growl so eat well I know because that is the only time I eat as I am a grazer and have not for a long time been able to sit down to a full meal.

    I would like Very much to read some of your writing. Have you had any thing published?

    Ok Now on with the Book Middlesex.

    BOO Everybody. Smile.

    Yep this is the 8th of August and we are ready to go on.

    GingerWright
    August 8, 2003 - 07:16 pm
    You have asked Is it any easier to get into the US as an immigrant in our time?

    I think it was easier to get into the US until 9-11 but now I hope that they are being more carefull who they let into this country.

    SpringCreekFarm
    August 8, 2003 - 07:36 pm
    Immigration is becoming harder by the day. Just this week, I read that people coming to America even on vacation must have a visa for each airport they stop in. Furthermore, it is more difficult for them to obtain a visa from U.S. Embassies around the world.

    I've been lurking in this discussion. Your posts are fascinating as is the information from the book. My library doesn't have it--and not likely to get it. Sue

    GingerWright
    August 8, 2003 - 07:57 pm
    I so wish you could get this book as it is so interesting There trials, tests, mixed emotions, What a book about Family Traditions. Keep observing and Please post again on what interests you. It is so good to have You join us. Thank You, Ginger

    SpringCreekFarm
    August 8, 2003 - 08:03 pm
    Thanks, Ginger. I subscribed because I saw a post from Marjorie in another discussion telling a little about the book. I'll keep looking in and maybe I'll get to read it yet. Sue

    GingerWright
    August 8, 2003 - 08:23 pm
    I do hope you get to read it as you will Not regret reading it I think but then you know if you have clicked on my name that I wear a Greek fishing hat, I have the blue one and a beige one But will be wareing a cowboy hat and western boots in Calgary as it is the kinda place you can wear them. Smile. I also wear purple with a red hat but have Not learnd to spit with dentures yet, never cared for hats before but age has changed that as hats keep our body heat from escaping I think ok I must get back to the book.

    Marjorie
    August 8, 2003 - 08:53 pm
    Arriving in this country was difficult for Desdemona. Lefty urged her into the YWCA tent and she left behind the clothes she was familiar with and they cut off her braids. Then before she could leave Ellis Island she had to throw away her silkworm eggs. Not a very happy beginning to a new life. I don't know if I would have the strength to go through what she did from the time she left her home.

    Marvelle
    August 9, 2003 - 12:01 am
    Hi Sue. Thanks for posting and I hope we can keep you here. This is a fascinating book.

    Nellie, you're writing a novel as well as leading this discussion?! That's true dedication. Can't wait to hear how Book 2 riled you.

    General Hajienestis was a real person. (I googled under Hajienestis and Hajianestis looking for information.) He actually played dead and claimed his legs were made of glass and sometimes he said of sugar. He spent the war on his yacht. He appears to have been truly crazy rather than a malingerer. Not really a surprise there.

    The following timeline and a few facts provided by kultur.gov.tr while the remaining narrative was gathered from worldandi.com which has excerpts of the book "Great Military Disasters" by Geoffrey Regan and published in 1987:

    Hajienestis was appointed Commander-in-Chief of the Greek Armies in Anatolia on 4 June 1922. He was replaced on 6 September 1922 by General Tricoupis who proved unable to assume command since he was already a prisoner of the Turks. [Now wasn't that a weird decision for a replacement?] In Greece on 28 November 1922, Hajienestis and cabinet members were sentenced to death due to the defeat of the Greek armies.

    _________________________

    Desdemona had to be strong as she couldn't go back but to have her long hair bobbed and to be forced to throw away her cocoons were terrible. And the good Dr. Philobosian gets an X when examined at Ellis Island?

    "One doctor, noticing inflammation under Dr. Philobosian's eyelids, had stopped the examination and chalked an X on his coat. He was led out of line. My grandparents hadn't seen him again. . . . Meanwhile, chalk continued to do its work all around them. It marked a Pg on the belly of a pregnant woman. It scrawled on H over an old man's failing heart. It diagnosed the C of conjunctivitis, the F of favus, and the T of trachoma." (Book 2 page 81)

    This isn't right -- being treated like cattle and these instant decisions that could mean life or death to an immigrant -- yet it has happened over and over again.

    Marvelle

    Marvelle
    August 9, 2003 - 12:22 am
    I guess having a cardboard sign placed around your neck at Ellis Island that declared your destination must have been fairly common during the great rush of immigration through the 1920s. It happened to my Slovene paternal grandmother Marie (then a young girl) and her brother Petr. They came to the U.S. as bond servants. They were separated at the train station. Petr was put on a northbound train while Marie's train went west. They didn't read or speak English, didn't know their final destinations, and never saw one another again. There were many separations of families at this time.

    Marvelle

    GingerWright
    August 9, 2003 - 12:46 am
    Bio of Jeffrey Eugenides

    Now Fiction or Non Fiction Help? I cannot help but wonder.

    Think I will do a search as how to get to him to let him know that we are discusing Middlesex on an International web site any help finding him would be apprieciated. Hint, Hint. Not that we will prying into his life but I would like to hear from him. When and if you read this Jeff I do hope you understand that some of us are searching also as your book Middlesex has perk our interests. Many of us here have read or watched the movie The Virgin Sucides (sp). Ginger Wright

    GingerWright
    August 9, 2003 - 01:43 am
    It is probably to late to get a hold of him any how, I am going to bed now as it is 430am Mich. time and 330sm Ind. time. I go with the Ind. time and just remember that Mich. time is one hour ahead.

    Our next part of this discussion start here: August 8 to 14: Book 2: Henry Ford's English-Language Melting Pot - Ex Ovo Omnia

    Nite, Nite to all of you.

    Nellie Vrolyk
    August 9, 2003 - 08:51 am
    Hello everyone! Here I am and for me relatively early

    The immigrant experience was quite something in those early days. People were treated more like cattle than human beings. Our experience when we immigrated to Canada from the Netherlands in 1954 was very different. Once we left the Netherlands we were on our own. Luckily there was no one to check us over, cut off hair and so forth when we arrived in Canada. If there had been, I'm sure I'd be living in the Netherlands now instead of in Canada, for we would have turned right around and gone home.

    Hello Sue, and a hearty welcome!

    I'll be back in a bit. I have to go out and get some groceries for the weekend.

    annafair
    August 9, 2003 - 11:05 am
    The more I read the more I regret not buying this book and participating...your posts are interesting and all the factual information just adds to my interest. I am only second generation Irish and German ....I would love to know what my grandparents went through to arrive here. Since only one of them were alive at the time I was born and she was already advanced in years. My little Irish grandmother came to live with us when I was about 9 and she certainly was a spirited lady. I would think that would be a requirement to survive. How awful to be separated and be treated like cattle which they were....makes me want to shake the daylights out of the "inspectors". I hope no one minds my peeking in and reading and posting ...this is such a great book. anna

    Marjorie
    August 9, 2003 - 04:33 pm
    My grandparents arrived in this country in the late 1800's. One set from Hungary and one from Poland. I never thought to ask them about their immigrant experience when they were alive. My maternal grandfather was the last to die at age 100 in 1975. I hope they didn't go through the same thing but wouldn't be surprised if they did.

    Marvelle
    August 9, 2003 - 04:34 pm
    Marjorie, we posted about the same time. I would tend to think you're right about your grandparents. I bet they had similar experiences considering the period in which they came to the U.S. I admire those brave enough to come to a new country and start a new life. Your grandparents had to be very strong individuals.

    Does Lefty adapt to being a machine? I think yes and no. Lefty is a survivor and if he has to be a machine to survive he'll be one but he has certain escapes such as his rebetika and hashish. He also learned from co-workers how to work but not to speed beyond what everyone else is working at. That ability of workers to control their pace was always limited, more so as the assembly-line developed, and that ability eroded over the years.

    I was angry at the arrogant "visit" of the two men from the Ford Sociological Department. Their purpose was to control employees and break down their independence and pride. They assumed the right to barge into a private residence, ask personal questions & even lecture on hygiene.

    "How often do you bathe? ....How often do you brush your teeth? ... What do you use? From now on use this ... Do I understand you to be refusing hygiene instruction?" etc etc (101)

    The house invasion and quesioning is a tactic which strips away a person's humanity and individuality. Lefty cooperates but at the cost of his dignity.

    _________________________

    About Big Businesses like Ford and immigration in general: "The Immigration Act of 1917 banned thirty-two kinds of undesirables from entering the United States, and so, in 1922, on the Giulia, passengers discussed how to escape the categories. In nervous cram sessions, illiterates learned to pretend to read; bigamists to admit to only one wife, anarchists to deny having read Proudhon; heart patients to simulate vigor; epileptics to deny their fits; and carriers of hereditary diseases to neglect mentioning them." (73-4) Proudhon was the nightmare of American industrialists such as Ford.

    Pierre-Joseph Proudhon (1809-1865)

    Proudhon opposed individual ownership of large industries because workers would lose their rights and ownership. His goal was to return te control of the productive process back to the workers (quite the opposite of what we see happen on the Ford assembly line).

    Proudhon believed in co-operative associations in large-scale property ownership. He was the enemy of state capitalism and state socialism as he wanted to limit such authority.

    ________________________

    Rebetika and hashish were ways to escape the grinding conformity to machine-like behavior and the loss of one's country. It's the melancholic music of the diaspora, of people without a country, or without a community.

    About Rebetika

    Rebetika (with some audio)

    Rosa Eskenazi Page

    The last link -- with incredibly hugh letters -- is dedicated to a famous rebetika artist. It has lyrics, a photo of Smyrna burning, and additional history and there are other sublinks with photos.

    Marvelle

    Marvelle
    August 9, 2003 - 05:40 pm
    My webtv doesn't accept RealAudio but here's a link, if it works, with many longer rebetika selections including some by Roza Eskenazi.

    Rebetika Audio

    Hope it works for you.

    Marvelle

    GingerWright
    August 9, 2003 - 06:00 pm
    Thank You for your Great post as it was Very educational.

    Coyote
    August 10, 2003 - 06:44 am
    In the '60s, I worked for Pacific Fruit and Produce in Seattle, a subsidiary of Procter and Gamble. In the old building (before it was condemned after an earthquake about 1965) there was still a list of old complany rules posted on the wall. Of course, they were no longer enforced, but they gave us an idea of what had been. Strict dress codes were posted, including ties and jackets for the salesmen and men in the office, skirts had to be at least a certain length for the women and no bare legs, no vulgar speech was allowed, employees were expected to attend religious services regularly, they were expected to save 10% of their income towards retirement, they were expected to avoid drinking alchohol, and I am sure there was something about cleanliness and getting enough sleep.

    Such rules were probably common practice, because some new employees were immigrants and some fresh off the farm. I worked a few places with other temporary workers in 1984, where I wish they had a few rules posted on personal hygene. (Men who are sleeping in cars can get a little rank.)

    Nellie Vrolyk
    August 10, 2003 - 05:02 pm
    Hello everyone. Here I am again, slow but sure

    Annafair, you are welcome to peek in and partake whenever you like.

    Marjorie, it seems like many of you come from families with the same immigrant experiences.

    Marvelle, thank you for those interesting links, I've saved them in my favourites and a couple will most likely end up in the Heading.

    What got me the most about that visit by the two men is that they actually teach Lefty how to brush his teeth. It seems to me that in those days companies took on a parental role when it came to their employees.

    And Lefty suffers the indignity for nothing since he's fired right after the graduation ceremony.

    What did you think of that ceremony? It made me think of something you would see in kindergarten.

    We have been introduced to two new characters: Sourmelina and Jimmy Zizmo. What are your first impressions of them?

    Hi Ginger!

    Hello Benjamin. I remember visiting a local historical museum where there was a one room schoolhouse and reading all the rules that the teacher had to abide by. I think employers thought of their employees more as children than as adults.

    I have to go and eat supper now...

    Marvelle
    August 10, 2003 - 06:34 pm
    Nellie, kindergarten is a perfect description for the graduation ceremony. It ties in with the arrogance of the two men from Ford who barged into a private home, giving orders on brushing teeth, types of food to eat, who to associate with etc. I felt sad to see Lefty and the other adults in the graduation, putting on a childish skit choreographed by their employer's representative. Ford and his company were definitely patriarchal which hurts employee's pride and ends being censorship of the worst kind.

    I rather liked Sourmelina (Lina) who would have been scandalous in those days. She was a Roaring Twenties girl, Greek style. She had a good heart to go with the bravado but she was sly with her husband Jimmy and that wasn't right. Then again is was an arranged marriage and perhaps they both got what they wanted from such a marriage. Jimmy Zizmo seems shady. Unlike Lina's blase attitude, Desdemona was disturbed to find out he was Pontian and also that he wasn't Greek Orthodox. Zizmo also became unpopular with a group of Greeks when he said that Greeks burned Smyrna. From the Turkish websites I've read, Turks claim that the Greeks burned their own homes. Greek websites claim the opposite. This got me to wondering about the nature of Pontus and Pontians and if Zizmo was Greek or not.

    Pontus: Short Short History

    Map of Pontus: Pre-Turkey

    Euxeinos Pontos is the Greek name for the Black Sea. Pontus is a northeast province of Asia Minor; a long and narrow strip of land on the southern coast of the Black Sea. Prior to the Ottoman Empire, Greek settlements abounded on Pontus with additional cities on the rest of the Black Sea shoreline. Pontus is now the northern part of Turkey and Turkish names have replaced Greek ones. Smyrna in the Bithynia region is now Izmir, and so on.

    Pontians Today

    I think Zizmo, as with modern-day Pontians, was viewed with suspicion by the Greeks as being a type of hybrid? His loyalty would be questionable. Lefty seemed to trust him and that trust seems to be based a lot on family-type relationships, however tenuous.

    Marvelle

    Marvelle
    August 10, 2003 - 07:17 pm
    Smyrna and Bursa, of course, weren't a part of the Pontus province. These are on the Aegean/Mediterranean Sea. I don't think I was clear about that difference, although, it is hazy overall when thinking about nationality and allegiance and who converted and who didn't.

    Marvelle

    Ginny
    August 11, 2003 - 05:51 am
    Hi, may I join the group? I had promised Nellie I would participate but my trip to Europe was scheduled to last longer than the discussion allowed but have returned home early, have read the first Two Books assignment and would like to get your understanding as I find myself floundering here, and I wonder if anybody else is?

    I've enjoyed your comments and like Ben have learned a great deal from reading the book that I did not expect, want to hear more about Turkey and have really enjoyed the links, Marvelle, and the reminiscences from all: the book really jolts them out of you, doesn't it? I myself could talk for ages on the factory/ Detroit thing but not in Detroit.

    Essentially, tho, I'm in a quandry. What is the author actually saying here? I can't figure out the TONE of the book? The writing of course is superb, he's a master. But the tone, the tone. In some places I have written "smart ass." Something is going on. Look at his photo on the back flyleaf of the book? The asides in the first person, to the reader, wink wink, is it tongue in cheek?

    The parallelism of plots, the juxtaposition of things in parallels, why is he doing this and what point is he making?

    On the one hand we have historical flashbacks, we're in Smyrna (I just watched, on the flight back from London, The Pianist, so the Smyrna thing here was almost unbearable and very well written), we're in Detroit, we're dealing with very serious historical matters and figures and the next minute we're dangling spoons superstitiously and naming characters Chapter Eleven and Lefty.

    I can't make it out.

    Smoke and mirrors, I think we're seeing. Like the reviewer (and I never read reviews, either, till after the book) says of his Virgin Suicides on the cover, he is
    a cocky performer, so seemingly at ease handling his dangerous material. We forget, for a moment, the grim meaning of these bright, lethal objects. We watch them spinning in the air, and we are entranced by their impermanent, improbable design."


    Yes indeed, in this book also?

    For instance, to cite ONE thing: lots made on this gene, huh? The coda repeated at the end of Book Two is this gene throughout the ages? Right? But then why why all the emphasis on the brother and sister married and what that might cause, their offspring marrying second cousins, the family wanted a girl and got a boy (now we all know families who wanted one member of a sex and got the other and how the other was treated AS a girl or boy, we've all seen that, why bring it up? For the contrast? As superstition?)

    Something's going on here, and whatever it is (I have not finished the book) the author is making a point. I don't know what it is. One minute the character is a male the next he looks at a photo of self as a child, and sees a pretty little girl, we can see that identity is one of the cores of the book, but under all this smoke and mirrors there's some other point the author is making and I don't know what it is, do you think he's serious or tongue in cheek throughout? And if he's serious what of the tone???

    What do you perceive the TONE to be, yourself?

    That's where I am at this point, but have a lot of small things I have no idea what he's saying for the next post, just wanted to see what your point of view is at this point, just sign me

    Confused Reader

    Marvelle
    August 11, 2003 - 07:01 am
    Dear Confused,
    Take two aspirin and call me (confused two).

    Welcome back, Ginny! Yeahhh!

    Maybe we should start a list of what's happening? No one is as they seem. Here's the whole immigration/assimilation process that makes an American but not an American -- the great melting pot scene is saying something like. And Zizmo is a Pontian which is Greek but not Greek and may be something else entirely. And brother and sister are husband and wife, and which is the relationship really -- both, neither? And your aunt is your cousin is your mother, your uncle is your cousin is your father. Meantime the cocoon keeps spinning, ready to metamorphose into another form and then back again to a cocoon. And the author photo in the back of the book does wink at us, don't you think? He's devilously funny. In "The Virgin Suicides" he uses a plot and people as a large metaphor and to say something universal.

    I think I need to take two aspirin myself.

    Welcome, Ginny, welcome welcome.

    Marvelle

    Coyote
    August 11, 2003 - 08:04 am
    GINNY - As are any readers, we are being manipulated. (I have read the whole book.) I will not get into details about the last part yet, but I feel I was manipulated into buying and reading this book (and getting into this discussion) because of the fact it is supposedly about a pseudohermaphrodite, while it is primarlily about a Greek American family over several generations. I have no real interest in such a history personally, so I would never have gotten into any of it based on that fact. According to the New York Times interview with the author, he was half Greek and is not pseudohermaphrodite. So the large part of the book is based on knowlege and some reality, while the last part has only a little research behind it. Maybe this is the joke. Maybe the sexual in-between character is simply a symbol for the in-between status of the immigrant, which seems to me to be the heart of the story.

    In any case, he has his pre-conception character observing much more than his pseudohermaphrodite does. Maybe this is his joke: that we know more before we are born than we do when we live. Or maybe he really is some sort of sexual in-between and his joke is that because of our mixed heritage in a mixed up country, we are all in-betweens of one sort or another. Whatever it is, I don't know, but I am quite sure you are right that we are being manipulated - quite well for the most part.

    Marvelle
    August 11, 2003 - 09:42 am
    Hi Ben. Yes, we are definitely being manipulated which I don't think is a bad thing so long as the author provides a way out of the confusion.

    VENIZELOS

    The Treaty of Lusanne of 1923, was known to Greeks as The Catastrophe of Asia Minor. After 3000 years of settlement on the Black Sea -- many of the settlements in what is now known as Turkey -- Greeks lose their independence. Useful sublinks on Venizelos are World War I, the Treaty and the Catastrophe.

    OTTOMAN EMPIRE MAP WWI

    The Ottoman Empire at its height consisted not only of Turkey but the countries of the Balkan Peninsula; the islands of the Mediterranean; parts of Hungary and Russia; Syria; Palestine; Egypt; part of Arabia; and most of North Africa. By the end of the 19th Century, the spirit of nationalism (that old spirit of place) grew and groups throughout the Empire were demanding independence.

    MAP OF BLACK SEA TODAY

    Of course, countries are appearing and disappearing quickly all over the world; but this is a pretty current map.

    MAP OF MIDDLE EAST TODAY

    Iraq is the pink land mass in lower right, bordered by Turkey, Syria, Iran and Saudi Arabia. Turkey has the Pontus area on the Black Sea.

    In 1914 the Ottoman Empire (now reduced to one country: Turkey) entered World War I, joining Germany, Ausria-Hungary and Bulgaria (the Central Powers) against the Allied Powers which included Russia, France, England, and -- later -- the U.S.

    The Allies won the war and the Ottoman Empire was cut up amongst the allies, many anxious to have control of areas with the potential for oil production. The Paris Peace Conference of 1919, which ironed out the terms of division and reparation, is where I believe Clemenceau made his infamous remarks about oil.

    From three disparate provinces of the Ottoman Empire potentially rich in oil, Britain created, under its control, a new country called Iraq.

    IRAQ's CREATION

    The other allies were anxious to be a part of the oil industry. Major Arthur Maxwell in the novel symbolizes those interests and that's why he wasn't interested in the fate of Armenian or Greek refugees. The eyes of the allies were fixed on oil profits and for strategic locale in the oil-producing world. The U.S. had become an ally of the new Turkey. In the Greco-Turkish War that made Lefty, Desdemona and Dr. Philobosian homeless, Britain and the U.S. withdrew financial support from Greece while France and Italy supplied arms to the Turks.

    Marvelle

    Nellie Vrolyk
    August 11, 2003 - 07:18 pm
    Hello all!

    Marvelle, you make such interesting posts and give good links to look at. Thank you. I think on page 86 we are told that Sourmelina is a lesbian in a round-about way.

    Benjamin, this book does seem to be a lot about being in between one thing and another. Since I like science fiction I think of this book in that way, but I don't think that makes it easier to read or understand.

    Ginny! Of course you may join! LOL You have sent my head into a spin with all your questions. I'll begin by asking you a question. Did you realize that the whole book is more or less outlined in the first three paragraphs of the book?

    Since it is Cal telling us the story of his grand-parents, the asides come from him -I haven't come to the conclusion as to whether these remarks are tongue-in-cheek yet. They could be because there is a subtle tone of humour in this book -at least there is to me.

    Now you've got me dredging through my memory for anything that I learned in my genetics courses. I may have to dig out my genetics textbooks to study up on it... or search the Web. I do know this, when a gene is recessive you need two copies for it to express itself, and with inbreeding there is a greater chance of receiving two copies -if I remember things right. So the brother and sister marriage, and the second cousins marrying is important to the over all plot of the book.

    Now I've forgotten what else I wanted to say... I'll think of it later on when I'm ready to go to sleep.

    I like Ginny's question about tone. I see this book as having a humorous tone. What tone do you all see in it?

    Coyote
    August 12, 2003 - 06:15 am
    I do agree with the look on the face of the author in the picture chosen for the back cover. It does have to influence the way I interpret the book to some extent. He has a look I call, "He who laughs last, laughs best" look.

    Ginny
    August 12, 2003 - 06:56 am
    Whoo what fabulous posts, whoo? Whoo. Blew me away.

    Thanks for the welcomes, I was a bit afraid to enter this territory because I still don't know what he's saying but you all are more intersting hahahaha.

    Back to front here: Ben, that look? You know what I see, so far (and I have not finished the book like you have so am at a big disadvantage) I see "Do you get it? I put it there, do you get it?"

    Sometimes he has to explain as if he's afraid we didn't. In the case of Sourmelina, some editor may have pointed out we might have missed the sour signifigance so he SAYS it blatantly, I get a sort of...... er.....disregard for the reader.

    Nellie asks what is the tone: she sees humor?....what do we see? The TONE is troubling to me.

    Nellie! I forgot about your scientific nature, so you're saying that "I do know this, when a gene is recessive you need two copies for it to express itself, and with inbreeding there is a greater chance of receiving two copies -if I remember things right. So the brother and sister marriage, and the second cousins marrying is important to the over all plot of the book." Blue eyes are recessive, too, but you don't need a brother and sister to marry to get them, do you think he's making another point, perhaps? Let us know about the science here, that totally escapes me!

    You said, "Since it is Cal telling us the story of his grand-parents, the asides come from him." I'm not so sure. I'm not so sure that Cal is the one addressing us. I see a lot of author presence in this book, do any of you? Kind of hits on Marjorie's question in the heading. When the author intrudes into the story, there's a term for it, it's very clever but when it happens, to me, the story is weakened. We saw this in Remains (was it? My mind is gone) and there's a term for same, I'll try to look it up. Essentially you're in the main character or protagonist's head and suddenly the author is spouting his own dogma at you: what's the term? It's happening here, I believe, I could be wrong. wink wink.

    "Did you realize that the whole book is more or less outlined in the first three paragraphs of the book?" No and I need to come back to that, fabulous post, our Nellie!

    Now BEN!! What perceptive posts, would you explain some of the things? I just read an artidcle on hermaphroditism, in, of all places, Vanity Fair which asserts the last Duchess of Windsor may, in fact, have been a hermaprodite. I looked that up and think I understand, but what is a "pseudohermaphrodite" if you don't mind explaining?

    THIS: "In any case, he has his pre-conception character observing much more than his pseudohermaphrodite does. Maybe this is his joke: that we know more before we are born than we do when we live. Or maybe he really is some sort of sexual in-between and his joke is that because of our mixed heritage in a mixed up country, we are all in-betweens of one sort or another. Whatever it is, I don't know, but I am quite sure you are right that we are being manipulated - quite well for the most part. " Wow! The hardest thing for ME in this is to winnow out WHAT conclusions we should be making from what he's saying (it's a good book for discussion) why on earth would a pre conception being know more than the result of his own life experiences? Does the "melting pot" metaphor apply to the genes thing? He could have said that much simpler and in less words hahahaha

    "Maybe the sexual in-between character is simply a symbol for the in-between status of the immigrant, which seems to me to be the heart of the story." Ok so Ben sees the status or identity (or is identity not good there) as the heart of the story? What a good point. What IS the heart of the story, to you? That's where I falter and die here, I think the immigrant/ history/ stuff is smoke and mirrors for something else, another point, I just don't know what it IS.

    Ben, why do you say readers are manipulated? That's a new concept for me, I would like to understand, I hope you all don't mind the Question Box here, but I sure do have them!

    "I think I need to take two aspirin myself," hahaha Marvelle, thank you for the marvelous links and information, and your email is bouncing too.

    "In "The Virgin Suicides" he uses a plot and people as a large metaphor and to say something universal."

    Oh does he just? Well he might be doing the same thing here, that was my initial thought, but what the heck IS it, the cocoon thing really does not stand the strain, does it? Or does it?

    "And your aunt is your cousin is your mother, your uncle is your cousin is your father. " Bingo, it's almost ludicrous, is that for a point??

    "Maybe we should start a list of what's happening"..oh please do if you like, I can't keep track of anything here, it's swirling, swirling like water in a drain, the melting pot is mixed (genetically? socially? historically?) to what END?

    Ok help help, what is Christ Pantocrator? What does that mean? It's all over everywhere? Too many vowels for Mario Cuomo? What does that mean for Ahnold? Is this the first time you've heard this particular idea?

    I do happen to know one thing, "Lefty's" secret knock on page 135? The secret "dactylic spondaic knock on the basement door..." I do know what that is. The dactyl is a metrical foot in literature, here's the skinny in Greek and Latin Poetry:

    Greek and Latin Poetry

    The metrical "feet" in the classical languages were based on the length of time taken to pronounce each syllable, which were categorized as either "long" syllables or "short" syllables. The foot is often compared to a musical measure and the long and short syllables to whole notes and half notes. In English poetry, feet are determined by emphasis rather than length, with stressed and unstressed syllables serving the same function as long and short syllables in classical meter.

    http://www.wikipedia.org/wiki/Metrical_foot

    SO the dactyl is /uu and the spondee is // so in other words, the "secret knock" on page 135 sounded like BAM bam bam BAM BAM: a very fancy way of saying so.

    S o "Lefty" was quite intelligent or the author would like us to know the author is is, whatever!

    What does "Mana" mean on page 139?

    Somewhere there's a reference to the "Holocaust Industry" and one of the characters says "I don't know I didn't read that book." What are they talking about, do you know" I hate to be left out of such converstions. Does the reader feel "left out" a lot in this book, do you think?

    And now back to Nellie and the First Three Paragraphs, I'm going to study them this afternoon and see what I can see. In the class I just took, that's what we did: we studied passages to see if we could understand or make out or read thru the lines, what was really being said, I am eager for this challenge!!!

    Super points, Everybody!

    ginny

    Marvelle
    August 12, 2003 - 08:26 am
    GINNY, the reference to the Holocaust industry is on pages 183-4. See B&N for "The Holocaust Industry" by Norman Finkelstein.

    Distillation of some reviews on the claims of the book: the Holocaust has been employed to advance political interests . . . . compensation money intended for survivors has been diverted and claimed by the Holocaust industry from German and Swiss governments. . . . interest in the Final Solution only arose after the 1967 Arab-Israeli War when it was needed as a political weapon. Finkelstein supports the Palestinan cause. He is the son of camp survivors and professor at Columbia U.

    Obviously this is a controversial book and one has to navigate strong bias on the issues (pro/con Finkelstein). Take the book's claims as you will.

    Marvelle

    Marvelle
    August 12, 2003 - 08:47 am
    Christ Pantocrator is the name for Christ "Ruler of All" and a strong image in the Greek Orthodox Church.

    Icon at the Hermitage Museum

    Monastery of Christ Pantocrator

    Origins of Christ Pantocrator

    The Byzantium influence of Christ Pantocrator can be seen, in one case, in Russia's orthodox church. The Greek Orthodox Church sometimes uses the title of "Almighty Lord of Heaven and Earth" but I think "Ruler of All" is more to the point.

    Marvelle

    annafair
    August 12, 2003 - 08:55 am
    My library has a copy and I can pick it up tomorrow ..hooray ..I am going to make some notes from your posts so I can think about what you are asking and what you have gleaned from your read. anna

    Marvelle
    August 12, 2003 - 09:06 am
    Greek-English Dictionary

    According to the above link, mana means "mother". Since Lefty uses that word a lot, it might be rather like the trite, stereotypical Irish exclamation of "Saints preserve us" or "Jesus Mary and Joseph!" -- swearing without swearing. (Do the Irish really say such things?) In my Slovene upraising -- Roman Catholic -- adults used JM&J a lot.

    I can't verify the accuracy of the dictionary but will use it for a while and see how it holds up.

    ANNA, hoorah! You're getting the book! Your participation has been awesome already; can't wait to see what you do with the book in hand.

    Marvelle

    Coyote
    August 12, 2003 - 02:17 pm
    GINNY - So many questions - you make me miss my kids when they were little. Intermarriage to close relatives just increases the odds of two ressive genes pairing. Animal breeds with very few basic ancestors have a high incidence of genetic defects compared to crossbreeds or mongrels. The smaller the genetic pool, the higher the risk.

    A hermaphrodite is technically a living being with the fertile organs of both sexes. Many lower animals and plants are hermaphrodite - some trees and flowers are and some aren't. Some slower moving animals like snails and angle worms are. They travel very slowly and don't go far, so it doubles their chance of finding a mate. Most human defects commonly refered to as hemaphrodite are really pseudohermaphrodite, or some physical characteristics of both sexes, but not fertile in more than one and usually not fertile at all.

    Some folks believe we all know everything before we are born, then forget it and start over again. I do believe in some genetic memories, or instinct, but not nearly that detailed in humans.

    Of course, all readers, especially of fiction, are manipulated. Or in movies, we get it from all sides, especially from the background music, etc. Most of us do like being carried away by a story or play, or whatever.

    I feel much of the humor in this book is intended for a Greek-American audience and, yes, I did feel quite left out because I am not in that audience.

    Traude S
    August 12, 2003 - 03:11 pm
    NELLIE, this discussion is a delight but, I confess, I've only been here on a few occasions and do not have the book.

    But I saw a reference here recently to Gail Tsukiyama's book Women of the Silk . Though I posted a similar message in the Fiction/Nonfiction folder, I wanted to leave word here, because "here" is where the book was mentioned, by Marvelle, I think, and Marjorie had read it, I believe. May I say the mention was well deserved!

    The author was born in San Francisco, studied and taught there and has garnered several literary honors. The Samurais's Garden was my first experience (though not her first book), and I have since read every other book she wrote, save for the latest.

    Allow me to say that the posts here are wonderful, my compliments to you all. Benjamin is right, we are inundated with subliminal messages all day long in every way possible; it can be numbing to the senses.

    My apologies for the intrusion.

    Marvelle
    August 12, 2003 - 03:20 pm
    TRAUDE, we posted at the same time. Thanks for the recommendation of Women of the Silk, I've decided that since my library doesn't have a copy I'll order from B&N or wherever its available. It sounds too delicious to pass up. Can I start with Women..., Traude or Marjorie, or should I begin with one of her other books first?

    BEN, I'm not sure about the humor of the book appealing only to Greek-Americans. That would be a limited audience. I'm not sure.

    On a first reading I noted to myself how ambitious the author was, attempting to be the American James Joyce. Joyce in his novel Ulysses melded Irish culture with scenarios, twisted though they be, from Homer's Odyssey in a thematic wandering in search of finding oneself. (And I'm oversimplifying Ulysses theme and plot.) Joyce incorporated the ancient with the modern in his story and time itself turns every which way. That's how I see Middlesex. I formed an opinion after first reading M of how successful Eugenides was/wasn't regarding his literary ambitions; and that opinion may change by the end of this discussion with the help of everyone's insightful posts.

    From the first stanza of Homer's Odyssey:

    Sing to me, Muse, and through me tell the story
    of that man skilled in all ways of contending,
    the wanderer, harried for years on end,
    after he plundered the stronghold
    on the proud height of Troy.

    -- Homer's "Odyssey," Fitzgerald translation

    Plundering the stronghold of Troy refers to Homer's previous tale of The Iliad where Greeks waged war at the gates of Troy (now known to have been located in Turkey). Odysseus is one of the conquering Greeks, he who thought of the infamous Wooden Horse to trick the Trojans, but when he tried to return home the Gods kept waylaying him with misadventures.

    Eugenides calls upon his Muse in the third paragraph of the book:

    "Sing now, O Muse, of the recessive mutation on my fifth chromosome! Sing how ...Mount Olympus ....nine generations .. Providence ... massacre ... blew like a seed...to America ... industrial rains ...fertile soil . . . ." [and this paragraph followed by] "Sorry if I get a little Homeric at times. That's genetic, too."

    I think this is an homage to Homer and Joyce as well as giving readers a thematic wink-wink. Of course, it was common practice for Ancient Greek writers to call upon the Muse in the beginning of their tale as well as throughout the tale. And while there are other works that address the Muse, the allusion of Troy/Turkey and Greece seems to connect Middlesex, Odyssey, and -- by reflection -- to Joyce's Ulysses.

    GINNY, I don't know if we can say that Eugenides disregards the reader because, so far, he seems to be playing fair which IMO is the opposite of disregard. Perhaps he distrusts a reader's ability to notice allusions or remember history and that's why the heavy wink-winks? So far his allusions and other literary techniques seem above-board.

    Please understand that while I read a lot of Greek literature (in translation) I'm posting a hypothesis and will test it throughout this discussion to see if it holds true. There are also many other aspects to this novel.

    Marvelle

    seldom958
    August 12, 2003 - 05:03 pm
    I was startled to see how the author failed in his research about WWII.

    On page 169 he talks about B-52s being made in Willow Run. B-52s were not made during WWII, but Willow Run did produce B-24s.

    On page 181 he has Milton "enlisting" in the Navy sometime in 1944, I believe. This was impossible because "enlistments" were not permitted after sometime in late 1942. One could only contact his Draft Board and "volunteer" to be drafted. And, if he was already classified 4F the Draft Board would not have permited him to "volunteer."

    I know because I "volunteered" in Jan 1943.

    I also know---picky, picky, picky.

    Traude S
    August 12, 2003 - 05:10 pm
    MARVELLE, "Women of the Silk" was Tsukiyama's first book and an unexpected bestseller; "The Samurai's Garden" her second. "The Language of Threads" (1999) is a sequel to "Women of the Silk. If you begin with her first book, you may want to read the sequel (The Language of Threads) next.

    The author considers herself an examiner of what she calls the lives of early Chinese feminists - represented by the silk wrkers in her first novel. Happy reading!

    Nellie Vrolyk
    August 12, 2003 - 05:15 pm
    Great posts everyone. I must be quick, there is an ugly dark sky outside and we have been given tornado warnings -two have already touched down outside the city/

    Traude, you are welcome here and not intruding at all.

    Ginny and all, I'll address your posts when the weather is less threatening.

    Now I'm off...

    SpringCreekFarm
    August 12, 2003 - 06:34 pm
    Seldom, thanks for the information on the "volunteer" draft. My Daddy, who was too old for the Draft, did exactly that. We always thought he'd enlisted.

    Ginny, your comments on the brother/sister/aunt/uncle relationships reminded me of a silly Hillbilly song from earlier days, "I'm my own Grandpaw". Are you familiar with it? It's not about hermaphrodites, but about inter-family marriage. Meant to be funny, I think, but probably true in some Mountain communities. Sue

    GingerWright
    August 12, 2003 - 07:58 pm
    Is this what you are Atalkin about?

    I'm my own Grandpa

    Hey Y'all dont for git to click on the music at the top so Y'all can hear it to, OK.

    Smile as I head out to Calgray tomorrow, be back in a week so keep the Home fires a burnin.

    Coyote
    August 12, 2003 - 09:37 pm
    My Own Grandpa wasn't intermarriage, just danged confusin'.

    GingerWright
    August 12, 2003 - 11:10 pm
    Hi there Eugenides here is a ; for you.

    SpringCreekFarm
    August 13, 2003 - 08:06 am
    Thanks, Ginger. That's the one I had in mind. Silly, wasn't it? I suppose it actually could happen. And Ben is right, it wasn't really intermarriage, just unusual circumstances. Sue

    Nellie Vrolyk
    August 13, 2003 - 06:49 pm
    Hello all!

    First, like Ginger, I'll be attending the Seniornet Bash in Calgary, so I won't be around for a bit. I'll be leaving tomorrow morning with a fellow Seniornetter -North Star.

    Ginny, I think the mutated recessive gene Cal talks about exists only in his family, and I would think it stays in existence because of the constant inbreeding.

    Any thoughts to share on The Minotaurs chapter? Has it happened in real life that two women in the same house conceived at almost the same moment, or is that something that can only happen in a book?

    See you in a few days -Sunday maybe, but Monday for sure!

    Coyote
    August 14, 2003 - 06:02 am
    On women in the same house being fertile at the same time, I can't answer, but it makes sense. I was a dairy farmer for several years and can say there is a tendency for the pheramones and/or behavior of a cow in heat to bring several others into heat soon after, thus bringing about a coiciding of births nine months later. There may be a similer coicidence in humans, because cows, like humans, are fertile all year, with heats coming about every three weeks rather than the four weeks of human females. (Many other mammals have regular breeding seasons at one or two times a year when many females come into heat about the same time.)

    Certainly, circumstances can increase the odds of similar timing of births. Many years ago, Whidbey Island, northwest of Seattle, had many arson set brush fires at night. The volunteers were called out after midnight sometime, then worked until early morning to get the fires clear out. By the time they got home, it was too late to get cleaned up, go back to sleep, then get up for work, so evidently many men went back to bed wide awake, etc. About nine months later, the local hospital nursery was so full of new babies, many women were sent to nearby mainland hospitals. That bunch of kids produced a swell right through the grade school years with an extra classroom being needed for that grade.

    So I can see how seeing the play together could have been an inspiration fo our two couples.

    seldom958
    August 14, 2003 - 08:44 am
    I appear to be a minority here because I've found it very difficult to find this a novel I wish to read. So, after reading 274 boring and often confusing pages I am returning it to the library.

    I think the final straw was when Milton got paid off by three different insurance companies when his business was destroyed by a riot. Several things wrong here; believe all policies say loss by a riot are not covered; no way would the insurance industry/or laws permit one to get paid three times one's actual loss, even by a loss that was covered. But will stand corrected by an insurance experet.

    Anyway, hope the rest of you can continue to enjoy the story, but I'm out-a-here.

    Ben,that was a great post about "heat." Now that was interesting.

    Marvelle
    August 14, 2003 - 09:42 am
    SELDOM, I'd love for you to be here for final thoughts (Aug 29-31) when we wrap things up and also discuss our impressions of the book.

    Sometimes, after initially being dubious about a book's value, after the discussion and during our wrap-up in final thoughts I've realized that the book was a keeper for me. And then there are those other times. I sloughed through Drabble's Seven Sisters but in final thoughts I concluded that the book wasn't worth the read and she's off my list of to-read authors. Never ever again will I read Drabble.

    Feel free to come back for final thoughts when we share our impressions and evaluate the book.

    BEN, now that is interesting. So your experience has shown that Simultaneous Conception is possible? I was intrigued with how Zizmo put clues and conclusions together over the silmultaneous pregnancies. Two pregnancies = Lina is gay (if I've got that part of the book right). Do you understand his response? How he came to his conclusion? Perhaps this is a version of the SC among a herd of cattle. Did Zizmo say or imply that Lefty was guilty?

    Marvelle

    seldom958
    August 14, 2003 - 10:04 am
    I should've said that I had just read East of Eden by John Steinbeck.

    It was a somewhat similar plot about a family over several generations. I could hardly put it down. So this contributed to my feelings about Middlesex.

    Coyote
    August 14, 2003 - 11:23 am
    MARVELLE - I am not sure I understand your question. Were you thinking one person fathered both kids? Or were you thinking a gay woman would have a hard time getting pregnant? (Absolutely not so - it is not necessary for a female to be excited in order to get pregnant.) As for my experience with a herd of cows, I used artificial insemination rather than keep a bull. I was pleased when the breeder could take care of more than one cow with the same visit. But I doubt the story implies one bull took care of both cows, so to speak.

    Ginny
    August 14, 2003 - 12:33 pm
    Loads of super comments here today, and I really would like to address a couple of them, first off, Sue, hahaha yes I love that crazy old thing and that's exactly the feeling you get here, thank you and Ginger for that one!! hahahaah, I'm My Own Grandpa, love it almost as well as my own fave, "Grandma Got Run Over by a Reindeer." .

    Seldom, I really appreciate your knowledge about WWII and the draft, that's one of the benefits of our book discussions, and it's a great one. Now when you read something like that (or see a movie where Julius Caesar flashes a Roladex,) how does that make you feel about the book (or movie)? Does that ruin your "willing suspension of disbelief?"

    I am sorry to hear you will be leaving the discussion, I don't think our book discussions are about "enjoying the story," but rather discussing the various issues in the book: I've enjoyed your participation, sorry I could not get on yesterday.

    Traude, super point on Women of the Silk, the entire section on the silkworm brings up so many memories for me, and I've learned a lot too: for instance in Provence we like to stay at La Magnanerie or however it's spelled: it means silkworm factory, who knew they were so nasty?ahahaha

    Do any of you remember a children's school book called Neighbors and Helpers? With the MOST gorgeous illustrations? Well they had an entire section on silk production and I've been in love with it ever since, if my own scanner will allow me I hope to scan in some of the wonderful illustrations before this discussion is over...but....

    Ginny
    August 14, 2003 - 12:36 pm
    In rereading the first three paragraphs as Nellie suggested, I see an outline for a plot and the inference that this is the story of a gene thru time. Marvelle, thank you for the background of the Odyssey, so are we to conclude, then, that this is the Odyssey of a Gene? If so, that's the plot but that's not the reason behind the plot or the message, I think there's a message here, I peeked ahead and see some very poignant stuff, in other words I see more here than the plot outline of an intergenerational story of a gene thru time, am I the only one?

    Calliope, of course was a Muse. I find Ben's question fascinating about the Bull (is that the Minotaur reference Nellie gave) because of course you know Desdemona in Othello was accused of being unfaithful. The names in this thing fascinate me, maybe unduly?

    The author also, in the first three paragraphs, refers to Tiresias (spelled Teiresias) whom I believe Marvelle mentioned earlier: I'm fascinated by his many myths and personnas: he had many forms in Greek mythology, he was a Greek seer. One of his incarnations says he saw snakes coupling and killed on of them with a stick, whereupon he changed into a woman....later the same thing happened again and he changed back into a man. Since he was "now unusually qualified to answer, Zeus and Hera consulted him as to whether a man or a women derives more pleasure from the act of love. When Teriesias replied that women received nine times as much pleasure as men, Hera struck him blind, but Zeus gave him the gift of unerring proophecy. In the Odyssey, Odysseus is sent to the Underworld to consult him about his reutrn to Ithaca." (Oxford Companion to Classical Literature, New Edition). He's also in Sophocles' Anitigone and Odeipus Tyrannus, in Euripides' Bacchae and Phonenissae and in Statius' Thebaid.

    In other words, he changed sex (that's the plot) but was a blind seer at the same time, it will be interesting to see if our little parallel Odyssey refers to anything remotely paralleling it.

    Annafair, looking forward to your comments, as always wonderful.

    Marvelle, thank you for the definition of Mana and also the Holocaust book, I have heard of it, but have never read it, appreciate that. I was very pleased to learn the meaning of "Kukla," remember Kukla, Fran and Ollie? hahahah Never knew what that meant?

    SPEAKING of plot, am I the only person annoyed by Jimmy Zizmo's miraculous (and powerful) reappearance after he supposedly disappeared thru the ice? How can that be? What does" Zizmo" mean? It sounds like gizmo and I don't know the origin of that word, either. There was something I wanted everybody's take on thought of it in the middle of the night, something to do with the silkworm box ....er....now I don't know what it was, is there something symbolic at all about the box or what remains in it or....?? hahahah, I need to keep a pen by the bed, that did seem brilliant to me at the time, haahahahHAHAHAHA

    Ben, hahhaah, yes lots of questions, have always had them (I think that it's much easier to ASK them than think for myself hahahaah) thank you so much for that definition of pseudohermaphrodite, because I thought pesudo meant false I thought it was some kind of psychological thing; am glad to know what it means.

    I think studies have shown that women who work and live in close proximity find their cyclical times for want of a better word, coincide, as well, somewhere somebody wrote on that phenomenon.

    I'm still on about the TONE here and the throwaway lines that reveal so much! Like this one, on page 12:

    "And my mother, who tried all her life to believe in God without ever quite succeeding, looked up at him for guidance." Whoops! That's a biggie, there? What What?? Whoops? Throw away lines and we move right on to this one, also a throw away line, what did you make of it, same page:

    "Why you want more children, Tessie?" she had asked with studied nonchalalance. Beinding to look in the oven, hiding the alarm on her face (an alarm that would go unexplained for another sixteen years...)


    Hello? What?? Ok um...why? What alarm? Why unexplained for another 16 years? What have I missed?

    OK here's another on the tone:

    OK page 125 the two children are born. They are named.

    But there was something else I wanted to mention about those babies. Something impossible to see with the naked eye. Look closer. There. That's right:
    One mutation apiece.


    Who is the speaker here? What speaker can see mutations in babies? Is this Cal? Is this the author? Who IS this? Whoever it is, he's talking to us. And while we're at it, this "voice," or whoever it is, is definitely masculine, do you agree?

    BEN!! Can we discuss this? "Of course, all readers, especially of fiction, are manipulated. "

    Now why do you say that? Do you think Eugeides is trying to or is manipulating us? If so, toward what point? Can a reader be manipulated against his will? I thought....I thought reading was...hmmmmm. I thought reading was a joint sort of thing between an author and a reader, not...hmmmmm what a prococative thought, can't get it out of my mind.

    And Nellie poses the Minatour question, why is THAT in the book? And IF the book is the Odyssey or Journey of a Gene than is the Gene going to meet monsters like Odysseus did?

    Why did Desdemona have a look of "triumphant desolation" on page 194 right before she took to her bed and said, "God has brought the judgment down on us that we deserve," when according to the all knowing (omniscient) narrator as we saw earlier, she did not believe in God?

    Were you surprised that kyria means something so different from kyrie? I was, you can't say we're not learning things in this book and I must say that the desription of Henry Ford's production lines is the first time I ever understood why automation was better.

    What is the Theory of Preformation on page 199?

    And then there's the strange stuff about the egg, the imagery of the egg, ex ovo omnia...u.there's this on page 210: "Zeus liberated all living things from an egg. Ex ovo omnia The white flew up to become the sky, the yolk descended into earth. And on Greek Easter, we still play the egg-cracking game...." etc.... I am confused with all the swirling images here, the eggs on Greek Easter are red because of the blood of Christ, I am not sure what that might have to do with Zeus and the ex ovo and all the egg references.

    The author has made a giant leap here in a few sentences, we have Zeus liberating the world from the egg (which came first, Zeus or the egg? hahaha) and then....the white is the sk....I dunno here, how did you all take this passage, what am I (and I'm sure I am missing a lot) missing? Leap in Logic: one minute we've got the "biology gods" and the next we're talking about Easter and Zeus?

    What did you think about all this imagery, the little gene in the egg wanting out, what's being said here, I wonder, I wonder.

    ginny

    Marvelle
    August 14, 2003 - 04:01 pm
    Hello, GINNY! What maze-like, powerful questions you've posed. What fun I'm going to have re-reading your latest post and I hope to respond more fully later tonight.

    I do agree that the allusion to Homer and also Joyce in the third paragraph is about plot -- the surface events that'll occur within the novel but it may also be something more. In which case I do think there should be monsters in Middlesex. I'm trying to make sense of this novel and wonder if that first section sets out the theme or intent of the author. I think we'd need to look at the WHY of the Odyssey (not just the WHAT or HOW?). Why was Odysseus punished by the Gods with wanderings; why did Stephen and Bloom have their odyssey in the streets of Dublin. Knowing the why may or may not help with the theme but I think the allusion is there for more than just the plot.

    If I can understand the theme then the plot would naturally follow. Don't know if the theme is that clear in the beginning?

    _________________________

    BEN, I wasn't suggesting an interpretation to the Minotaur episode and/or Zizmo's response to the pregnancies. I was asking for help. The episode left me confused, totally baffled, and I thought you might know or have an idea of what was going on in Zizmo's head? (Pages 117-120) It probably doesn't matter that much as far as the rest of the novel goes.

    Marvelle

    Marvelle
    August 14, 2003 - 10:32 pm
    Others in this discussion will be able to talk of the Preformation Theory with a clearer understanding than I can. I did research a bit and find it has to do with time, space, consciousness, homunuclus, blind sight, Augustine -- Perhaps its being used as a concept of racial memory? Therefore the I, or narrator, or observer would be without time and space.

    SWAMMERDAM's THEORY OF PREFORMATION

    Theory that the caterpillar and the adult were the same individual in different forms and that adult forms were hidden within the juvenile body. There is not generation but growth. Note that the second paragraph in the link gives the example of boxes which may be symbolized in Desdemona's silkworm box.

    _________________________

    From Stedman's Medical Dictionary: "HOMUNCULUS: 1) an exceedingly minute body which, according to the views of development [preformation] held by some medical scientists of the 16th and 17th centuries, was contained in a sex cell. From this preformed by infinitely small structure the human body was thought to be developed. 2) The figure of a human sometimes superimposed on pictures of the surface of the brain to represent the motor or sensory regions of the body represented there."

    Marvelle

    Marvelle
    August 14, 2003 - 10:53 pm
    Actually, Augustine had an earlier and similar theory to Preformation. Augustine stated that, by the creation of the first woman, all following generations were also preformed in this first mother of ours. GINNY, did Darwin follow this theory, more or less? Later scientists such as Mendel and Thomas Hunt Morgan upset these old theories of heredity.

    IMMEDIATE EXPERIENCE & BLIND SIGHT

    THEORY OF CONSCIOUSNESS

    The above discussion of the theory of consciousness states (with interesting sublinks at the end of the article)

    that Descartes, Kant, William James and others "define conscious experience as things arranged in time and space that are at a point ... Conscious experience was described be Descartes (1641) as the experience of things arranged in an extended space around a central, thinking observer who seems to occupy no space. Descartes also mentions that things in our experience can be assigned a duration and Kant elaborates upon this, pointing out that without representation in time the concepts of simultaneity and succession would be unknown to us."

    The article continues: "The problem of the homunculus is closely related to the problems of space and time. If we observe the contents of our minds as if they are separate from us or historical than what is doing the observing?" [Emphasis mine]

    _________________________

    Can someone help tie this together, add to it, or subtract the extraneous? From what I've read I think this is why we're getting from our reading the 'my grandfather is my uncle is my cousin' examples as a type of timeless and spaceless human racial memory.

    I'm strongly inclined to throw up my hands and say "Rubish" about this theory of preformation. But I'm waiting for cooler, clearer heads to prevail. Since its being used as a literary device, I'd like to understand it better and its purpose in the book.

    Marvelle

    Marvelle
    August 15, 2003 - 12:13 am
    GINNY, you can tell we were kids about the same time because I immediately thought about Kukla, Fran, and Ollie. My first priority was to translate KUKLA too.

    Marvelle

    Coyote
    August 15, 2003 - 07:31 am
    GINNY - Of course, readers are manipulated. We give an author permission to do this when we start reading and can always choose to close the book. This is true when we attend a symphony concert, a ballet, go see a play or a movie, or most especially attend a religious service. Once we are adults, no one forces us to allow this manipulation.

    I am not a student of mythology, even though I took one class in it at high school level. I don't need to understand all the meanings to someone who liked or believed all of that in this book. What I get is much more simple. Cal, and I am still wondering if also Eugenides, is saying the gods and fates, with their warped or humorous motives, made him the way he is. This is the message which is getting to me. I am guessing the point of the book is to make people believe this, rather than blaming a sexual in-between for choosing to be like he is. I probably will never know if Eugenides is actually some sort of in-between, but I find it hard to believe he isn't. (Personally, I don't believe he is the sort Cal is, for reasons I will discuss when we are a little farther along.)

    Ginny
    August 15, 2003 - 08:36 am
    Whoops, I see I did not read far enough in this assignment for today, I missed The Gun on the Wall, so I really can't say what I had hoped to. Marvelle, thank you for that background, to me Eugenides's writing is like watching somebody fill up a grocery cart. Ben said initially that it seemed to be the story of a Greek American family thru the generations, and by gum, that is exactly what it appears to be (I'm up to 270, stupid me, thought that was the next book hahahaha) thus far. But it's the saga of this family with a twist: you think about it: you want to tell your family's story, Lefty, Desdemona, etc., how are you going to do it? Whose point of view are you going to use?

    What approach are you going to take?

    Here, Marvelle, is where I falter on the honesty of the author, what you might call the...."disdain" of the author for the reader, wink wink. Here, Ben is where I am so interested in your "Manipulation" Theory. Whose perspective do we take in this book? A talking gene. Or an omniscient being who views the gene, it's an "Orlando" like thing? A parallel to Orlando?

    This being was present at his own birth, who remembers his own birth and who can go back further and view his father's conception, to me, and I need to withdraw judgment till the bitter end, there's something about the presentation which is ambiguous, maybe even...dare I say it, confused identity wise with the presentation itself. But I need to read to the end of today's assignment for Pete's sake (no wonder I thought that was so easy).

    On the mythological references? You don't have to be a student of or believer in Greek mythology to see them present, and to me, and maybe only to me, every single thing the author puts in a book is there for a reason. The grocery cart in this one is packed with arcane and fabulous goodies: historical figures and events, mythology, science, it's packed. Either we say the author is jerking us around or we take him seriously, once we can figure out what he is talking about (assuming we ever do, I personally, having read almost 300 pages, am beginning to wonder)....what's the book about I keep asking myself? What's the book about? IF it's about the intergenerational saga of a Greek American family with a lot of other grocery items thrown in than why the (to me) dishonest narrator?

    ginny

    Coyote
    August 15, 2003 - 09:35 am
    I am guessing the saga of the family is, besides being an important story to the author, part of the message I spoke of above. Maybe the message is that people who are ambiguous sexually in some way, can no more control being born that way than they can control having a mixed up heritage such as that of this Greek American immigrant family.

    Of course, in any book, the story can always be just a great tale the author enjoyed telling. Some fairy tales had morals, some didn't.

    Ginny
    August 15, 2003 - 10:24 am
    That's another good one, Ben, you've done a lot of thinking on this one! Trying to catch up....

    Coyote
    August 15, 2003 - 10:57 am
    Ginny - Don't worry about me doing a lot of thinking about anything. Ideas pop in while I am playing with other ideas. I think we seem to be having so much fun, those new ideas just want to play, too.

    Marjorie
    August 15, 2003 - 04:00 pm
    I haven't finished the "assignment" for today either. I keep getting caught up in the images created by the author's words. I am thinking of the part where Chapter Eleven cuts open a golf ball and ends up with white dots all over him in the home movie.

    I particularly liked the part where the author/narrator said he/she wants more words for "complicated hybrid emotions". (i.e. "the hatred of mirrors that begins in middle age;" "the disappointment of sleeping with one's fantasy; "the happiness that attends disaster," etc.

    Marvelle
    August 16, 2003 - 12:24 am
    Novels have a plot, a story of events, of 'who did what where when.' Complex works add to the basic plot with literary techniques such as allusions, symbols, narrative voice in order to say something universal about the human condition. Since it requires great effort for an author to weave a complex work, I agree with Ginny that "every single thing the author puts in a book is there for a reason."

    So far the message I'm getting from Eugenides is the philosophy that time is circular rather than linear which we see, for instance, in Greek-Turkish wars from the Iliad to the 1920's aftermath of WWI and onward to today. We see the idea adapted from Preformation about growth rather than linear generation and this idea is circular also. The narrator's consciousness is representative of that concept of circular time. Past, present, and future in consciousness and events are not separate and linear but circular.

    I've been trying to think of the beginning allusion to the war in the Iliad and the aftermath of Odysseus' punishment. The allusion to Odysseus starts with the ending of the Greek-Turkish wars in Troy, after Odysseus had pillaged Troy. (The idea of war as profit is not new nor is defining one's worth with wealth however obtained.) Odysseus didn't pay proper reverence to the gods for a victory -- he felt he'd won because of his own intelligence. The god Poseidon delays Odysseus' return home through a series of misadventures as punishment for his hubris in thinking he controlled nature/fate.

    I'll wait until Marjorie and Ginny have finished reading Book 3 before talking about anything specific in that part.

    Marvelle

    Ginny
    August 16, 2003 - 12:51 pm
    Well.

    Marjorie, great minds (hahaha I flatter myself) run together, I thought just the same thing when I read that, and I felt a little guilty for not liking the book, so well written, (although our book discussions are not about "liking or disliking" the book but rather discussing what's IN the book), and then I remembered Ben and the "manipulation" and realized the author was doing sort of a coy thing here and saying wish I had the words, when he's literally drowned us in picturesque words, and it MIGHT be (and it MIGHT not) some of that manipulation: "look how well I write, wish I had better words, etc.," because what's your natural instinct? It's to say, oh but you write so well, Jeffrey.

    And he does.

    And Marjorie's question of much earlier: is this fiction or non fiction? I found myself doodling "boring" next to the saga and I truly think this IS the real story of somebody, maybe many families, old "legends" handed down from many branches, embellished in fiction, the stories are too true not to have some versimilitude here, but it's where the author intrudes I have the problems.

    So we now learn what "Middlesex" really is, what it stands for, what it means. We see Desdemona, at probably a younger age than I am, taking to her bed, you don't see that much any more. Nor the fans, I could write a book on fans and my own grandmother, but you'd probably be bored, were you with this?

    I believe the reason for the book is on page 302:



    Even back then the Great Books were working on me, silently urging me to pursue the mjost futile human dream of all, the dream of writng a book worth of joining their number, a one hundred and sixteenth Great Book with another long Greek name on the cover: Stephanides. That was when I was young and full of grand dreams. Now I've given up any hope of lasting fame or literary perfection. I don't care if I write a great book any more, but just one which, whatever its flaws, will leave a record of my impossible life.


    I believe that's the reason he wrote this book and I believe (with no proof) that some of the tales here are real: non fiction, embellished with imagination.

    THEN we get to wade thru adolescence! The object of his affection is called The Obscure Object. or The Object. I don't know about you all, how did YOU feel about this name? THE OBJECT? How can you take any author seriously who calls his love interest THE OBJECT? OK and now we have the first sexual encounter (did we have to?) and his first..girl on girl encounter (with THE OBSCURE OBJECT) and let's see here...Chapter Eleven, shock of the world, has turned into a hopped up drugged out whatnot, defying his father and eschewing his standards (but that happened all the time I can hear Mr. Eugenides whine) in the 60's and so forth: the counter culture. Yes, quaint, wasn't it? Isn't it?

    Found a hair INSIDE the egg Tessie just cracked? Ok, I'll play, this means the egg had a hair gene? ahahah Sorry sorry, the names of the characters show such a lack of respect, such disdain, such lack of compassion I cannot have any for...(well I did feel sorry for Desdemona, I felt self aging right along with her, that WAS good writing and I suppose there are people who just thought the adolescent part was totally right). Did you all?

    Why is it in there? Why were trees killed to print this...er....

    Marvelle, I studied your post many times on that Preformation stuff and still don't understand it, but if you saw the Wall Street Journal yesterday you know that the new thing is "Epigenetic variation," which, insofar as I can understand it, shows that "Biologists have long known that having a particular gene is no guarantee you will express the associated trait, any more than having a colleciton of CD's will fill your home with music. LIke CD's genes are silent unless they are activated. Because activation and silencing doesn't alter the sequence of the gene, such changes are called epicgenetic.

    Epigenetics is to genetics as the dark matter in the universe is to the stars: we know it's important, but it's difficult to see..." And so on, so actuallly the gene itself is not...oh well?

    Boy I was right on with the Tiresias thing, huh? Just in case the reader missed it, our hero Cal takes the part (as a girl) of Tiresias (that is ALMOST too too) in the play in school, and it's the blind seeer version as well, just in case you missed that illusion?

    OK will somebody who really appreciates what the author has done lo these 397 pages (yes I see him valiantly trying to tie in the silkworm imagery on page 397) PLEASE say something good here and point out what I'm missing? I would, at this point, REALLY like to know what everybody else is thinking?

    Marvelle
    August 16, 2003 - 01:54 pm
    GINNY, right now I can't say anything good. You are verging on a verdict of 'boring' while I'm close to saying 'rubish.' I'll wait until the end of the discussion to figure out what my ultimate feeling is about this book.

    There are a lot of examples of hybrids or splinterings in this book. Zizmo/Fard, Cal/Callie, empires and nations, conflicts withiin nations. Is humanity's hubris the cause?

    (There really was a Fard by the way and he was a silk merchant.)

    NATION OF ISLAM TIMELINE

    The first part of the timeline gives information on Fard.

    Marvelle

    Marvelle
    August 16, 2003 - 02:12 pm
    "Under my fathers pillow is the .45 automatic he brought back from the war. / Chekhov's first rule of playwriting goes something like this: 'If there's a gun on the wall in act one, scene one, you must fire the gun by act three, scene two.' I can't help thinking about that storytelling precept as I contemplate the gun beneath my father's pillow." (236)

    There are race riots in Detroit and the narrator's father, Milton, goes to his store, gun in hand, to protect it from looters. Milton hears someone try to break into the store: "He put down the sandwich [he was eating] and tiptoes out from behind the counter, holding the gun. / He didn't intend to use it. The idea was to scare the looter off .... And without thinking Milton stepped toward the glass door and shouted, 'I've got a gun!' / Except it wasn't the gun. It was the ham sandwich." (245)

    Now fast forward to the chapter "The Gun on the Wall" (377-397). Callie is visiting the summer home of The Object: "As I crossed the living room I noticed an old hunting rifle over the mantel. Another gun on the wall. I tiptoed by it." (378)

    Callie has sex with Jerome and The Object. Then an accident and hospital visit:

    "Chekhov was right. If there's a gun on the wall, it's got to go off. In real life, however, you never know where the gun is hanging. The gun my father kept under his pillow never fired a shot. The rifle over the Object's mantel never did either. But in the emergency room things were different. There was no smoke, no gunpowder smell, absolutely no sound at all. Only the way the doctor and nurse reacted made it clear that my body had lived up to the narrative requirements." (396)

    The last part of the chapter comments on the silkworm. Any thoughts on this or any other aspect of Book 3?

    Marvelle

    Ginny
    August 17, 2003 - 07:10 am
    Playing the Devil's Advocate here:

    But first, well done Marvelle, in pointing out that:
    The author knows plot structure and parallelism and has deliberately chosen to do it his way and points out that he did in fact, shoot the gun, metaphorically.

    Good point.

    This morning in desperation I read the reviews in the link above, they are quite interesting, I think: the link on the right. Most reviewers, while praising the wonderful intergenerational saganess of the book, were disappointed, the reviews range wildly, apparently you either love it or hate it.

    I was going to come in as a fake ID hahaha, so I would not look more nuts than normal, but I will play Devil's Advocate this morning and say this:



    Listen, this book won the Pulitzer Prize for Fiction, just look at what it won:


    Winner of the 2003 Pulitzer Prize for Fiction.
    Nominated for the 2002 National Book Critics Circle Award, Fiction.
    2002 Lambda Literary Award Finalist, Transgender.


    So there's something good about it. It IS a fabulous intergenerational sprawl of a Greek American family and the older immigrant stories and people are so real you think you knew them (or you suspect you knew a couple of them). It touches, effortlessly, many key events of history, like a Woody Allen movie, kind of a James Michener Woody Allen combo. The writing is good, plenty of classical allusions and threads and metaphors (Drabble on Speed) and essentially it's a good sprawling beach book, very enjoyable.

    The hermaphrodite bits don't actually fit in very well but am not thru the book yet and out of respect for the Pulitzers (need to go look up WHY they gave it and who the other books nominated were) need to say that yes, (are there no other Greek saga writers around? Too bad Michener died, his own The Fires of Spring does this bildungsroman so much better). But again, it's an epic with all the trappings of a modern Odyssey, let's give the guy a break.

    The Devil's Advocate.

    Marvelle
    August 17, 2003 - 09:24 am
    Now I know The Advocate is desperate when she starts looking at reviews. (smile) I'm not ready for reviews yet. Eugenides' first book "The Virgin Suicides" was an award-winner I think; I haven't checked out any awards for this one, his second book and I'll wait to look at reviews when we get to the Book 4 discussion. I've an idea -- possibly -- of what's carrying this book, the author's point, and enhancing the surface story but haven't been able to clarify it to others yet.

    Hope that for now we can talk about what's inside this book.

    Marvelle

    Coyote
    August 17, 2003 - 10:02 am
    So THIS book won the prize? I had figured all along the sticker on the front dust cover was for the author having won it for the one I didn't read. Oh well, no accounting for taste. The main subject in this book, the Greek American family story, has left me bored and reading on only because I promised to when I joined this discussion. The second subject in this book, intersexuals, is rather shallow and incomplete. If Eugenides is really talking about himself, he reveals very little of his feelings and real reactions to this life. I have only been educated a little, while being disappointed a lot.

    OK, this is a good time to stir up this discussion a little by sharing something. For those of you who don't know, I successfully changed sex (female to male) starting when I was nearly 50. (Unlike Cal, I had normal amounts of female hormones, quite easily having and nursing four kids along the way.) The fact of my own experience can't help but color my reactions to Eugenides' tale. Now maybe Cal's lack of knowlege before the teen years is typical for a pseudohermaohrodite, I really am not sure even though I have personally met and talked with a couple of these folks (that I know of.) But this is hard for me to believe. All the transsexuals I have known personally (over 40 or so) and read about, knew as early as they could remember, usually before age three. We all struggled throughout childhood either fighting society's demands or trying to pretend to go along with them, or usually some of each. We are the living proof that Cal's Dr. Luce was wrong. Whether a child is raised as male or female doesn't determine its sexual identity. That seems to be the result of something inborn. (My parents tried valiantly to socialize me as a girl, while I spent every free minute playing with boys, fighting my way up to run a gang of 10 to 14-year-olds. I played tackle football and hardball, while flatly refusing to play softball or volleyball, which I saw as GIRLS' games (YUCK!) Yes, I still knit and crochet, which I only did when I was sick as a kid. I absolutely did NOT want my friends (boys) to know. Now I don't care what the other guys think.

    So maybe I was disappointed with Callie so sweetly accepting her female status as a child and shocked that Cal had to learn to walk or talk like a male. For me, it was a matter of people constantly trying to get me to walk, talk, sneeze, burp, even quit spitting, to be like a female for my first 49 years. And, yes, a barbershop was a deligtful relief from a beauty shop, but I sought refuge in them by the age of 10 by just going along and waiting for my friends.

    In any case, back to the book. I may have just had incorrect expectations. Maybe Cal's sort of in-between actually feels female until puberty. Maybe that sort doesn't have as many deep feelings as early. I am stuck with the opinion that if Eugenides was writing about himself, he did not commit the depth of feeling and expression I would expect. But if he wasn't writing about himself, he certainly has the skills to have made a better novel out of this story. As others of you have already mentioned, the constant shifting around with who is telling the story, including the author's frequent comments are confusing and disruptive for the reader.

    In any case, I am tired of defending him. I wanted and expected a well written book which would educate me a little and reach some of my feelings. Eugenides is doing very little of either. All my stack of maybes and excuses doesn't keep me from saying I wouldn't recommend this book to anyone unless they were of a Greek heritage and might possibly enjoy it for that reason. I wish I were currently in contact with a real pseudohermaphrodite so I could ask his/her/it(?) for an opinion on this book, but I am not.

    Coyote
    August 17, 2003 - 10:14 am
    I should add, I am quite comfortable with myself and with questions, no matter how personal, because I did speaking engagements for the gay organization, helped organize a training conference on sexuality for helping professionals while in college, etc. However, if such questions have no bearing on this book, I suggest you email them to me and I will answer personally so we don't disrupt this discussion too much.

    Also, I make it a policy to tell folks when it is appropriate and to choose not to otherwise. I will appreciate it if you folks can do the same so as not to offend any more of the religiously challenged, etc., than necessary. Thanks.

    Marvelle
    August 17, 2003 - 03:38 pm
    Thanks for sharing, Ben. I think there are a lot of unrealistic parts to the book including the part you point out about "Callie so sweetly accepting her female status as a child ...Cal had to learn to walk and talk like a male."

    SELDOM mentioned too about Milton's 1944 enlistment. And to me the 1960s era scenes are vague, appearing to be not immediate experiences but something casually gleaned by the author from news acounts.

    I just found out about Lefty's name (late information I know). Lefty is often used as a nickname for Eleftherios which means 'freedom' in Greek. Calliope as GINNY mentioned is a Greek muse. She's the muse of epic poetry; suitable for the narrator certainly. Desdemona in Shakespeare's play was quite dramatic wasn't she? She took to her bed too like Eugenides' Des, never to rise again although for a different reason.

    Marvelle

    Marvelle
    August 17, 2003 - 04:17 pm
    Here are some themes I think are emerging in this book:

    -- Free Will versus Fate

    -- Individualism versus Conformity

    -- Humans connected through history (events, culture,

    genetic)

    -- Circular nature of repeating history

    -- Culture of money and the ramifications

    -- Transformation of identity/reinventing the self (a familiar

    theme among immigrants)

    -- The dual nature of life

    These are not opinions/conclusions/judgments of the author (or myself) but a list of possible themes in Middlesex that underlie and enhance the surface plot. Themes in fiction are the subject matter but not the argument for/against that subject matter. I believe that Eugenides' novel is ambiguous on themes/issues and doesn't provide the 'one right answer' which would be different for each of us anyway. That isn't his intent as far as I can determine from the text.

    Please post any additional themes to the list. I think there are more.

    Marvelle

    Marjorie
    August 17, 2003 - 08:03 pm
    One thing I see repeating is the individual's denial of something that person does not REALLY want to know -- Desdemona/Lefty brother & sister; Martin protecting his restaurant during the riot (not wanting to admit that it failed); Callie a girl and not a girl; etc.

    Marvelle
    August 18, 2003 - 05:31 am
    Denial is a good one, Marjorie. I find I can't suspend disbelief over the marriage of brother and sister since they were otherwise so tradition-bound and conventional. The had to deny like crazy, and ignore or forget the taboo, in order to marry and have children.

    Marvelle

    Ginny
    August 18, 2003 - 01:37 pm
    Ben, how interesting, that did, (as you surmised) liven up the discussion, thank you for that and I do have a bunch of questions which I hope also pertain to the book, so hopefully you will not mind answering a few, I do appreciate your sharing that with us, we can all learn something, (or I can, anyway) Many thanks.

    Marvelle, thank you for the Desdemona, missed that taking to her bed, forgot that in Othello, and the origin of Lefty, in Freedom, I was caught up with the left hand thing (the "sinister" connotations and not letting your right hand know what your left hand is doing) and missed that one! Also great list of the themes, and Marjorie, great point on the denial (I canNOT hear that word and not think Cleopatra, Queen of Denial) that really does play a big part in the book.

    I looked up (again in desperation) a study guide for this book and found lots of questions, some of them would cross your eyes with their banality, many we have addressed, some are obvious, lots on Greek mytholgical implications and symbolism, one on the house symbolism we might want to see if we have a thought on, but here's one that pertains to what Ben said and something that has nagged me throughout the entire book, so I have come to try to ask this question non explosively, if possible, of you all?

    The study guide quesstion (From B&N, not your best source of reader's questions) is this:
    6. "All I know is this: despite my androgenized brain, there's an innate feminine circularity in the story I have to tell" (p. 20). What does Cal mean by this? Is his manner of telling his story connected to the question of his gender? How?

    followed by this:

    7. How are Cal's early sexual experiences similar to those of any adolescent? How are they different? Are the differences more significant than the similarities?

    followed by this:

    9. How does Cal's experience reflect on the "nature vs. nurture" debate about gender identity?


    OK now when you contrast this with what Ben said above,

    Now maybe Cal's lack of knowlege before the teen years is typical for a pseudohermaohrodite, I really am not sure even though I have personally met and talked with a couple of these folks (that I know of.) But this is hard for me to believe. All the transsexuals I have known personally (over 40 or so) and read about, knew as early as they could remember, usually before age three. We all struggled throughout childhood either fighting society's demands or trying to pretend to go along with them, or usually some of each. We are the living proof that Cal's Dr. Luce was wrong. Whether a child is raised as male or female doesn't determine its sexual identity. That seems to be the result of something inborn. (My parents tried valiantly to socialize me as a girl, while I spent every free minute playing with boys, fighting my way up to run a gang of 10 to 14-year-olds. I played tackle football and hardball, while flatly refusing to play softball or volleyball, which I saw as GIRLS' games (YUCK!)

    For me, it was a matter of people constantly trying to get me to walk, talk, sneeze, burp, even quit spitting, to be like a female...




    I am not sure I agree that children as young as three years of age think or act in terms of gender, I am aware of the studies asserting same and of the debunking that's been done recently with some of the older findings, some were, quite simply, faked or based on unsound conclusions.

    I'm not sure there are gender specific activities for young children or a special way of talking or walking, are there?

    I don't, even now, think in terms of gender, does a soul have gender at all?

    BUT I'm also the one who said the story to me was told with a masculine type of expression. I can't believe I said that, but it's true. It never sounded like a girl to me, what does "sound like a girl," mean? How can I say I don't think in terms of gender and then say it "sounds like a man?" Maybe the book is confusing me, and I never thought much about it, at all. Can't you think as you'd like without attaching (I need to ask myself) labels as to who is male, who female, etc?

    As far as number 9 above goes, what nature versus nurture? Cal the Child knew something was wrong, but what adolescent doesn't think something is wrong, but he's not sure exactly what (is that right?) till he goes to the ER and they discover "the smoking gun." Or did he know he was a boy or just different? Or nobody else knew? He has been raised a girl and is entering into sexual whatever WITH a girl, so....are we supposed to think that.....because he's "really" by nature a boy... I dunno. If his parents thought he was a girl and he thought he was a girl and the doctors thought he was a girl despite all the excuses given (and I don't see a lot of I'm really a boy here in girl's skin) and he was raised and nurtured AS a girl, then it's kind of hard to say it's nature versus nurture even when he's involved in homosexual activity, or maybe I missed the point of that interlude...

    Here's two interesting ones:
    17. Describe Middlesex. Does the house have a symbolic function in the novel? ...

    12. Calliope is the name of the classical Greek muse of eloquence and epic poetry. What elements of Greek mythology figure in Cal's story? Is this novel meant to be a new "myth"?



    I like that one on Middlesex, that's the name of the development, not the house itself, right? And of course the double entendre.

    I have no idea what the symbolic function of the house has in the book, does anybody??

    Still Confused (but now equally confusING) hahaha Reader

    Nellie Vrolyk
    August 18, 2003 - 01:51 pm
    Hello everyone, I'm back from the Bash! I had a fabulous time!

    I have just read all your great posts, and now have a lot of thinking and reading back and forth in the book to do.

    Ben, thank you for sharing your own personal story.

    I have all your names jotted down and the usual cryptic one word notes to remind me of what aspects of what you said I want to address. But I won't do that now -later maybe but not now -because I want to give some of my thoughts on the book.

    To me personally, Middlesex seems to be two books in one. It is the story of a Greek immigrant family, which takes up most of the first part of the book, and it is the story of the intersexual Cal/Calliope. I agree with what has been said about neither story being as good as it could be.

    Marvelle, that brother-sister marriage is bothersome -I can just see the author manipulating things here. I can imagine the author studying up on the type of genetic mutation that might cause the sort of pseudohermaphroditism Cal has and what would cause two copies to be passed on to one person, and deciding that Desdemona has to marry her brother Eleutherios (Lefty). But the author hasn't provided me with any logical or believable reason for them doing so. Yes they were very close as children and very close still. They share the same bedroom, but are separated by a curtain strung up between the beds, and see each other as shadows as they prepare for bed.I think, however, none of those things would engender a desire for marriage. I was very close to my two brothers who came into the world after me -I'm the oldest in the family -and I slept in the same room with them until close to my eighteenth year. And we were not separated by a curtain. I certainly never had any desire to marry my brothers, nor the other way around.

    True, lefty was always looking for prostitutes who resembled Desdemona. To me it would have been more logical if he had found and married someone who resembled her.

    The Obscure Object -what a strange term to give to someone Cal loves. Object. Makes her sound like less than nothing, doesn't it?

    I'd better post this before I jabber on too much at once...

    Nellie Vrolyk
    August 18, 2003 - 02:13 pm
    Ginny, you popped in ahead of me...

    Coyote
    August 18, 2003 - 02:23 pm
    GINNY - I agree it wasn't told in a typical female fashion - plenty of emotion and envolvement. The teller is always apart, outside looking in - more like an unfeeling observer, if a somewhat show off scholar. I'm not sure that means masculine, though. I believe that just means outside and apart. Maybe that is why I never identified very strongly with anyone in the book. One part, in next week's "assignment", which seems very male in perspective, is the way Cal earned money when he got in a pinch. Male to female transsexuals and transvestites often earn money by exotic dancing or just plain prostitution, but I have never met anyone changing from female to male who has done so. (But then, I have never known a intersexual person becoming either male or female to earn money in that way, but my knowlege is limited.) So I must call that a male point of view and also one of the reasons I doubt the accuracy of the story about Cal's emergence.

    Coyote
    August 18, 2003 - 02:45 pm
    One fact I would like to clear up is that Cal's attraction to girls may seem to a reader, and may have seemed to Cal, to mean he wasn't female. That is certainly not true. Gender identity isn't necessarily linked to the gender we are attracted to. About half of gay people are somewhat like the opposite gender and about half aren't. Many transsexuals are attracted to what becomes (after their change) their opposite gender, but many were originally attracted to the opposite gender and become, by definition, gay after their change. Then many are bisexual, so fit in to some extent before and after.

    On gender identity by three: studies I have read and a lot of personal observation (my own and a nursery full of about 60 two and three-year-olds where I helped out,) have me remembering two-year-olds playing with any toy and trying to do what any bigger person is doing. But three-year-olds generally immitate the same sex and prefer more sex-appropriate toys. One thing I have read and noticed is that higher IQ kids tend to want to try more toys appropriate to both their own and the opposite sex than lower IQ kids. Maybe they are just so curious, they don't want to miss anything. Anyway, for many kids, there seems to be a natural tendency to immitate (model their behavior on) older same sex people by the age of three or so. They may also start showing some attraction to the opposite sex parent, like a little girl flirting with daddy or a little boy acting extremely masculine to show off for his mother. Many times, some jealousy shows up about then which can only be related to a sort of sexual attraction to the opposite sex parent.

    As the author points out, androgeny was the popular idea in the '60s and '70s. During that time, any study which favored nuture over nature was widely published and read. Since then, more studies showing some natural differences between sexes, often by age three or so, have gotten into print again. I am not always current, of course, but I am very curious about the subject and tend to follow it as much as I can.

    Maybe Eugenides' Callie is more factual than we know. It could be that such an intersexual person would have less hormone led drive to immitate either sex, so might be more easily swayed by nuture than nature, at least until puberty gave over more control to hormones. I really am only guessing on that.

    Marvelle
    August 18, 2003 - 06:42 pm
    Welcome back, Nellie! We missed you (and missed Ginger too, who may be back tomorrow?).

    Interesting posts everyone. I need to take time and read them over thoroughly before any comments on my part.

    _________________________

    Cal explains first attraction for The Obscure Object by likening that to feelings generated in "Pied Beauty," a poem by Gerard Manley Hopkins which begins, Cal says:

    "... 'Glory be to God for dappled things.' When I think back about my immediate reaction to that redheaded girl, it seems to spring from an appreciation of natural beauty. I mean the heart pleasure you get from looking at speckled leaves or the palimpsested bark of plane trees in Provence. There was something richly appealing in her color combination, the ginger snaps floating in the milk-white skin, the gold highlights in the strawberry hair. It was like autumn, lookng at her. It was like driving up north to see the colors." (323-4)

    PIED BEAUTY by Gerard Manley Hopkins (1844-89)

    I found Eugenides' poetic allusion to be clunky and not much of an allusion since he gives us the title and full author's name. He could have been less obvious so the impressions of why Cal was attracted would be discovered by us rather than being told to us. He could have left off the famous poet's name and title and the beginning line too. Maybe just describe her 'pied beauty' or 'dappled looks'. Eugenides didn't trust his readers to recognize a more subtle allusion to a famous poem.

    __________________________

    Here is how Cal explains the naming of The Obscure Object.

    "Luis Bunuel's That Obscure Object of Desire didn't come out until 1977. By that time the redheaded girl and I were no longer in touch.... [That film] is what I think about when I think about her.... The plot was clear enough.... An older gentleman played by Fernando Rey is smitten with a young and beautiful girl .... I didn't care about any of that. It was the surrealist touch that got me. In many scenes Fernando Rey is shown holding a heavy sack over his shoulder. The reason for this sack is never explained. (Or if it is, I missed that, too.) He just goes around lugging this sack, into restaurants and through city parks. That was exactly how I felt, a mysterious, unexplained burden or weight. I'm going to call her that, if you don't mind. I'm going to call her the Obscure Object. For sentimental reasons. (I also have to protect her identity.)" (325)

    So this is Cal about the attaction and the naming (romance and anonymity). I thought the Obscure Object was from a recent book/film but on re-reading the section of Middlesex, it's Brunel who pops up. Have you seen any of his films? I remember the unexplained visual of a dead donkey in a grand piano in one film. Strange and surreal images and full of hidden meanings, seemingly deep, that dominate the screen and viewer's mind.

    Marvelle

    GingerWright
    August 18, 2003 - 10:42 pm
    I am back but to tired to get back into the book for now. You have all carried on Wonderfull. I will miss Sue and already miss Annafair.

    It was Great to meet Nellie. Hi Nellie. See ya all tomorrow.

    Coyote
    August 19, 2003 - 06:19 am
    With all the literary references, etc., when I read about a crush on a red-headed girl, I always think of the popular one, Charley Brown's object of desire. Having really loved two different red-heads when I was young and still quite innocent, I had no trouble identifying with Charley Brown. Unlike Cal's red-head, both of my attractive women are still wonderful women who have led tremendous lives. One, with her husband, took in a couple of hundred different foster kids, then took care of her parents when her mother had mental difficulties as she aged. The other was one of the first two people in my state to join the Peace Corps, married a man who had escaped from Hungary in the '50s, was the first woman ever ordained in the Hungarian Reform Church, has been a choir director, minister, councelling psychologist, foster mother of some special needs older kids, and is currently living in Hungary where she and her husband have been helping rebuild the Hungarian church. My point is, I was attracted to both of those girls for a lot more than the patterns of their freckles, so it is very difficult for me to identify with Cal. (Maybe he was more male than I am on that score?)

    Marvelle
    August 19, 2003 - 07:58 am
    BEN, you wrote "I was attracted to both of those girls for a lot more than the pattern of their freckles." IMO the poem "Pied Beauty" talks of more than freckles; it speaks of diversity and complexity; the duality of nature. I don't know, however, if some other things in this passage on The Obscure Object are opinions from Cal or from Eugenides.

    Marvelle

    Nellie Vrolyk
    August 19, 2003 - 06:51 pm
    Hello all!

    Ben, you come up with such interesting information, specially on the question of gender identity.

    I found the whole first time having sex scene (pages 374-376) quite interesting. Here are two couples: Rex Reese and the Obscure Object, and Jerome and Calliope. While Jerome is busy trying to get inside Calliope's pants, she pretends that she is Rex -getting into the male viewpoint so easily proves to Calliope that she must be more male than female.

    But how does she know at this point that she is neither totally female nor totally male?

    The sharp pain upon being 'taken' by Jerome could easily have come from the hymen being broken -is one allowed to say that? -and not because of not being female.

    Marvelle, it is hard to know whether we are getting Cal's opinions or the author's at any one point in the story.

    Hello Ginger! It was so nice to meet you in person

    Marjorie
    August 19, 2003 - 08:09 pm
    One of tonight's banners is this one.



    In light of our discussion, I found that humorous.

    GingerWright
    August 19, 2003 - 09:43 pm
    I will check it out thanks for your input.

    annafair
    August 20, 2003 - 09:01 am
    I have reached the second book and have to say I am so sorry I didnt think I would enjoy this book because I am. And there is a gift in it for me. We were in Europe for 4 years and while I never visited either Greece or Turkey my husband who was a pilot did. Everything he saw interested him and since he was a great communicator via daily letters and then when he was home his experiences became mine as well. Here I am reading a book that seems so familiar, the names , the different drinks and food, habits etc. In the Second book some of my cousins whose fathers were sharecroppers left the south for Detroit.. I love the detail in the writing and if his motive is to manipulate me than I am a willing subject.

    I love the language, the plots and subplots and have lived long enough I feel I have met some of the characters in my life. It is oh yes I remember a person like her or him or them...the fact I have no desire to peek at the end tells me that for me this is a book I want to see it through. I dont want to hurry the end but to follow the story as if it were unfolding as I read it. I hope that makes sense.

    It is only after I read a book I question the author or find fault with some of his "facts" but then this is a fiction...and I give the author the right to twist the facts to make his story what he wants. In any case I am off to read more..which I do with my meals , while waiting in the doctors office and before I go to bed. He has my attention....Love all the posts, all the questions and information. Aside from the book I am learning a lot and what can be better than that....? anna

    Nellie Vrolyk
    August 20, 2003 - 06:52 pm
    Marjorie, that was a funny coincidence

    Hi Ginger!

    Annafair, what a lovely post. Thank you.

    I'm tired tonight and can't concentrate on the book right now. Shall return bright eyed and bushy tailed after a good night's sleep...

    GingerWright
    August 20, 2003 - 10:59 pm
    Never fear as I will be here but had to go to the once a month Bendix Lunch Bunch unpack, wash. dry and put away clothes etc. We had a "Great time in Calgary didn't we Nellie. Need to call the yard man as the weeds are high and the cleaning lady comes tomorrow, but I have Not forgot this discussion and will be posting about the book soon as I settle down. If you have Never been to a S/N International Gathering and can do so in the future please consider it as it really does make us feel like extended family. OK I have drifted from the book but just wanted to explain why I have not posted recently. Sorry for the interuption, carry on.

    Marvelle
    August 20, 2003 - 11:35 pm
    ANNA, what a lovely post. As a "willing subject" of the author's writing, you follow the story like a leaf in a river current. Please do keep posting whenever you wish. Welcome back, GINGER! You were missed. Sounds like you had great fun? Hope to hear more about your trip and also any thoughts on Middlesex.

    GINNY posted a B&N question from their Reading Guide

    '#6 "All I know is this: despite my androgenized brain, there's an innate feminine circularity in the story I have to tell." (Cal pg 20) What does Cal mean by this? Is his manner of telling his story connected to the question of his gender? How?'

    Part of circular storytelling, and world perception too, is based on time and space. There are male authors who have this way of thinking and perceiving -- in lesser or greater degrees from one another -- including William Faulkner and James Joyce. Faulkner once said (and I have this quote in yellowing paper taped over a bookcase):

    "It's all now, you see. Yesterday wont be over until tomorrow and tomorrow began ten thousand years ago."

    The typical approach to communication is viewed either as male=linear and female=circular. Of course this division doesn't hold all the way (re Joyce & Faulkner and many native cultures).

    _________________________

    LINEAR = the end is most important. Hierarchy; rational order. A linear thinker assumes their goal is prime and the other person has no goal of their own. Exclusive viewpoint in that the other (person) is outside. Time goes in a straight line from point A to point B to point C. Time is non-reversible, nonrepeatable; events separated by space and time. Events are cause, then effect.

    CIRCULAR = process of developing; and the means are as important as the ends. Emphasis on the interconnectedness of all. Circular is often thought of as feminine and cyclical, in tune with a woman's body and/or the cycles of nature. Time is not a straight line but a circle where beginning and end meet and in circular (women's) storytelling themes are repeated and sometimes revised/changed. Sense of open-endedness. Inclusive viewpoint.

    _________________________

    We see in Middlesex, the repeating history such as Turkish and Greek hostilities, then expansion to wars in general, the sense of growth/change in events or people rather than a new generation of events or people; the telling isn't linear because the narrator tells in the present what happened in the past (Bursa, Smyrna, events before Cal's birth etc) and so many other similarities to circular/gender storytelling.

    Marvelle

    Marvelle
    August 20, 2003 - 11:48 pm
    Middlesex is a quest tale. Here's an easy-to-read essay on the differences between circular and linear quest stories.

    HERO & HEROINE STORYTELLING

    From the link: "Open-endedness [in circular tales] does not preclude success. The emphasis is on learning, growing and changing. The emphasis in women's quests is on dealing with people and life's tasks as successfully as possible, not with achieving an end result. Self-enlightenment in a woman's quest is a never-ending, ongoing process .... Men's quests achieve self-knowledge by exclusion of the 'other' while women's quests are fulfilled by inclusion of the other."

    Well-known authors on 'feminine circularity in the story' are Helene Ciroux and Irigaray.

    Marvelle

    Coyote
    August 21, 2003 - 06:01 am
    Well, the idea of circular story-telling being female while a linear story is male suits me fine. I can easily use it as an excuse for not liking this book. Its author not only tries to connect everything constantly, but all too frequently drops me out of the story while he is meandering and commenting. How convenient to blame it all on his feminine side. The trouble with telling a story this way, is that it is like playing crack the whip while skating. The kids on the end of the line frequently get thrown off by the centrifical force from all the whirling around. I guess I was out at the end of the line somewhere when I was really hoping to get somewhere.

    By the way, male, or linear thinking, doesn't mean a man has no respect for another person's view. It just means he isn't caught up in it enough to start going around in circles, but continues in the direction he was headed. The difference is in respecting other folks' opinions and being gullible and too easily influenced by them. I have never thought of it as a male trait, but more one of rationality, which I consider to be a trait of some of the women I most admire, too.

    Nellie Vrolyk
    August 21, 2003 - 07:01 pm
    Ginger, I did have a fun time at the Bash.

    Marvelle, nice posts on the circularity of female stories. But do all female writers write circular stories? And is Eugenides exagerating the circularity of Cal's/Calliope's story because he is a man pretending to tell a story from a female perspective?

    From page 379: "So do boys and men announce their intentions. They cover you like a sarcophagus lid. And call it love." Can you imagine any teenage girl who would think of something like that?

    Ben, I quite understand what you are saying...

    Marvelle
    August 21, 2003 - 10:10 pm
    NELLIE, since the question on female circularity was in the B&N Reading Guide, I responded to the question.

    B&N READING GUIDE QUESTION #6 " 'All I know is this: despite my androgenized brain, there's an innate feminine circularity in the story I have to tell.' (Cal pg 20) What does Cal mean by this? Is his manner of telling his story connected to the question of his gender? How?"

    Androgenized means containing male characteristics and Cal says that despite this, there's female circularity in the storytelling.

    While such circularity is traditionally, historically, acknowledged as originating with the female, I believe I said that it wasn't all females or all males this or that. Joyce and Faulkner are circular storytellers as I mentioned. I also noted that many native cultures are storytellers in that tradition. And Cal is saying -- masculine brain but feminine circularity in storytelling.

    _________________________

    NELLIE asks "...is Eugenides exaggerating the circularity of Cal's/Calliope's story because he is a man pretending to tell a story from a female perspective?"

    I don't know that he's exaggerating the style any more than James Joyce or William Faulkner. Even Joseph Conrad's "Heart of Darkness" has some of the aspects of circular storytelling. I also don't think Eugendes is a man pretending to tell a story from a female perspective, but rather that he's reconciling and merging male/female perspectives in what Cal calls his androgenized brain. There's been a lot in the novel about merging/mixing/androgenizing, almost a Mendelian hybridity, that we see in immigrant's becoming Americans, to Zizmo/Fard and his speckled history, and Cal/Calliope. Circular storytelling, as Faulkner and Joyce saw it, is a more inclusive and ultimately more powerful form of stories.

    All crystallized in the poem "Pied Beauty."

    I'm still considering what the novel is ultimately about and don't expect to find a single satisfactory answer, if I find an answer at all. Certainly there's the surface plot which is important on its own level. But Middlesex also can be a story about breaking down barriers between male/female and merging the two and accepting a more inclusive (male/female) voice. And I begin to perceive that Eugenides -- on one level of the novel -- is talking about the metamorphosis of himself towards circular storytelling. (A circular retrospective?) That is one of the many levels of meaning in the text. I don't know but what Eugenides may be saying that the melding of the two makes a more powerful whole. We'll see.

    _________________________

    In talking of circularity in storytelling, I was responding to the B&N Reading Guide's specific question (quoted above) that GINNY posted. I love having the Guide as a concrete base from which to explore aspects of the novel and to see what unfolds; I learn through the such questions and my search to answer the questions.

    I didn't judge the novel, pro or con, in my response to the B&N Reading Guide question. Final thoughts of the novel's merits/demerits will come later; now I'm exploring what the author is saying and how he is saying it.

    Marvelle

    GingerWright
    August 21, 2003 - 10:50 pm
    Thanks.

    Henry Ford Melting Pot: many of us got caught up in it as I did working where I did in an automotive type thing and were like cattle to them untill the robots took over that did not work well so they sent the work overseas Not understanding that if we are out of work as it is now Who will be able to buy there products, Well it has come to that today as so many in this country can not find a job let alone one that will support a family. Ok that is backlog while we were away. Now on to the next step.

    Coyote
    August 22, 2003 - 07:41 am
    According to my schedule, we are on the last book finally. Great. I found the last part the most disappointing, and was glad to finish reading it (as I will be to be finished discussing it.) Some things that seemed fishy to me, were: the way Cal supported himself (quite likely for one who started out male and was becoming female, but not the other way around,) the too convenient way his employer found him on the road so he didn't have to make a decision to seek out such work, and the kidnap plot and too convenient death of his father. Since I know it is more often a father who has trouble accepting the sexual minority status of his child than a mother, I see the sudden death a way of avoiding that whole issue. (Some such fathers go to their deaths trying to bring back daughters/sons they feel they have lost, but not nearly so conveniently.) Also, I see that whole incident as simply a ploy for the author to make the story have more appeal to a movie audience and thus raise the odds of selling screen rights. (Don't all movies nowadays have to have a car chase just like the old Keystone Cops?)

    In any case, if Eugenides worked nine years on this novel (as I read somewhere,) then I am sure he didn't spend very much of it on the last book. This is a shame, because I feel the real grist of the novel could have been right there. If he really wanted to write a book about a hermaphrodite, this last section should have been the book, but he failed.

    Since I am not Greek American and am one kind of sexual in-between, I wish he had saved a couple of hundred pages by not constantly telling us why and how he was writing the story, then used the extra really telling the story of Cal. I consider the blurb on the book, the personal invitation to buy the book and join this discussion, and the intro at the top of this page to all be false advertising.

    Marvelle
    August 22, 2003 - 08:04 am
    Now we're on Book 4, the last of the novel, to be discussed Aug 22-28. Final thoughts on Aug 29-31. Any questions we should consider, Nellie, regarding part 4?

    Marvelle

    Nellie Vrolyk
    August 22, 2003 - 06:54 pm
    Hello everyone! Good posts

    Marvelle, I'm not great with questions but I'll leave you all with one. I questioned the whole Calliope changing into Cal business. Somehow it didn't sit right with me.

    What did you think of this change from female persona to male persona?

    Is she rebeling or protecting herself against the operation the doctor who studies her/him wants to do?

    I'll be back with some more questions in the morning.

    Marjorie
    August 22, 2003 - 08:40 pm
    NELLIE: I think Cal is running away from the horror of the exerience at the Clinic and reading the dictionary at the public library. There is certainly no planning or goal. Just acceptance of the dictionary definition of terms she heard the doctors use and a need to change her/his life. As I read about the bias of the Dr. Luce and the denial of Milt and Tessie they seemed very believable. Treating the "patient" as if he/she has no "need to know" what is going on is also believable and, in my opinion, could happen in many different situations not just with pseudohermaphroditism. There was no one that Cal could go to to help clarify what was happening.

    Coyote
    August 23, 2003 - 06:29 am
    NELLIE - The changing did seem so abrupt as to be a teen-age rebellion or just running away from a problem as you said. My feeling was the same, but I didn't question her becoming male, rather just that she didn't feel more male and more rebelious as a child. Maybe this sudden change of identity is typical for this sort of pseudohermaphrodite. I suppose it is possible, but since I have never known a person with this exact problem, I really can't say. Nevertheless, I had trouble believing it. That is the big reason I felt the author didn't even interview anyone who had actually experienced this problem. Instead, I think he had his own idea and accepted a grossly simplified concept of Cal growing up a happy female as a little girl because some doctor's book wanted to assume that was the truth.

    MARJORIE - Yes, unfortunately, the doctor deciding for the parents, convincing them, then telling the patient a watered down version was the only way a few years ago. Now, it still happens all too often. The same medical facility which housed me for ten days after a planned suicide (back in the '60s after I had been working, raising four kids alone awhile AND trying to deal with my own problem on close to four hours sleep a night,) was doing sex change hormone treatment and surgery. They had the experts right in the same building. The doctors must have decided it wasn't appropriate for me because I wanted to keep my family together and they knew I would probably lose custody of my children if I elected to make a change. But they were terribly wrong not to tell me of their diagnosis and the option available to give me some hope for the future. I could have waited and planned with much more direction if I had been informed. (Hope is nothing more than the difference between a belief of possible and impossible in such a case.)

    Anyway, for many reasons, the last book doesn't feel true. I think it doesn't feel true to more ordinary readers, either. Ordinary men would doubt anyone being part female and reared that way, could become male. Ordinary women seem to doubt anyone who was a happy girl child could suddenly want to change into male. The author claims to be some of each enough to write from a female point of view, but I believe he fails totally in most of the sexual/emotional scenes. Everything seems to be written as if Cal is preoccupied with sex and desires, feeling either desire (with a female partner,) or fear and pain (with males.) Every woman or inbetween I have known has been capable of quite a bit of romantic attraction, which seemed to be lacking or passed over by Eugenides. Are we supposed to believe a happy little girl would express a totally male way of loving or wanting love as a teen-ager?

    Well, as I said earlier, I was very disappointed this last part of the book didn't seem very accurate or very real, when it could have made a great book out of this whole thing.

    Ginny
    August 23, 2003 - 08:23 am
    Wow, well here's another opinion way out in left field? I really enjoyed the last section of the book (good dividing up of the book, Nellie, for discussion) and I have particularly enjoyed, you, Ben, getting to know you in this discussion, I have tremendously enjoyed your insights as well as all of those in the group, (I think this is the first discussion you and I have been in) but I like this section!

    And is IS about hermaphroditeism, isn't it?

    The whole section is?

    I don't know about how real it was, but I do know those doctor's visits and it was quite common for the patients not to be allowed to see the medical records then. (Kind of hokey, the minute he was called out you KNEW what was going to happen)and (I am too lazy to look it up: IS there a Dr. Luce in real life? I think several of you mentioned him earlier: was he a real person?) and Marvelle, I enjoyed your circular/linear thing and here at the end we find full circle again, right? haahah My notes....for instance when Milton died.....going off the bridge when he sailed off my margin says, "Oh for Pete's sake!" but he DIDN'T? He didn't sail off, he just thought he did and except for his crying I loved that part just loved it, it's real to me, I've been (God forbid I'm ever in another one) in accidents and your mind does go off.

    This last part is really schmalzy? Right? And of course the implements discarded along the way begin to come back, the silkworm box, DESDEMONA for Pete's sake, and I just HATED the author saying to US the reader, well I left her out (apologia) because she did not feature in my life, ...PUHLEEZE....agg agg, but over all a strong ending very powerful emotionally, the father in quest for his child gets killed, (Father Mike? Szhmaltzy)

    The "dragging his hand with him," on paqe 504 was hilarious, very very good writing, I think the last part was written first, or at least stands alone: if the entire book had been like the last part (discounting the flaws you all see in the gender identification and focusing on the writing) I would have enjoyed it more! hahaha Talk about differences!!

    now Ben I was all set to argue your thing about the children and gender identity so first went out to lunch with my friend who has just retired after 32 years of teaching young children, I advanced your careful thoughts to her and she said he's right. And I said no no, what if there is no male figure in the home for instance, who can the child identify with there are precious few in elementary school and she said, no ginny, the boys gravitate to the other boys and the girls to the other girls, didn't you? And of course I didn't but played with the boys so I can't identify but I also can't argue! hahahaha

    So this book discussion went out to lunch!

    Also I believe I do see the answer to the question about what the house symbolized? Right here at the end? Page 529:

    Middlesex was now almost seventy years old. Though we had ruined it with our colonial furniture it was still the beacon it was intended to be, a place with few interior walls, divested of the formalities of bourgeois life, a place desinged for a new type of human being who would inhabit a new world, I couldn't help feeling, of course, that that person was me, me and all the others like me.


    There it is?



    Are you seeing a confusion with the name of the house and the subdivision? Isn't the subdivision named Middlesex, not the house?

    The writing here at the end is more focused, the character and her sexual change may not be real but the writing is better, to me, than any other place in the book, ....it's more....emotional? Or...I dunno but it's certainly different, even if it's schmaltzy which I think is intentional: to cap off with a tear or so this grand epic.

    Coyote
    August 23, 2003 - 01:50 pm
    GINNY - No, though I have always been a reader, I have never gotten myself roped into a book discussion, though I do regularly hit the Curious Minds (on vacation right now,) because my mind has been nothing if not curious all my life. I didn't even realize it was under the books category for awhile. I am a regular on the walking site, gripes and grumbles, and the knitting/crocheting site, the arthritis site and quite a few others where I only post occassionaly, music for instrumentalists, the gay site since I have one brother who is gay, and the pet site. I stay away from the chat, solitare, etc. now that I am married (Ms. E, formerly Winddancer, who I met on seniornet.) I also stay away from the religious sites (I have been atheist for many years) and the political ones for the most part. I would rather make an afghan for the bazaar at our senior center than sit and argue with somebody as hard-headed as I am.

    Ginny
    August 23, 2003 - 01:56 pm
    Well maybe "argue" is not the best word, and was only considered in the most positive light in the first place, let's say I have enjoyed exchanging ideas and hearing perspectives and especially reading your thoughts on the book, which I found particularly insightful, in fact, I have enjoyed everybody and everything except the book, but maybe that last part? I was so glad to actually find something readable, I was overjoyed.

    hahaha

    Yes Curious Minds is part of the Books: it was created by Charlie Wendell and has explored some fascinating articles and points of view, we're glad you're in there!

    ginny

    robert b. iadeluca
    August 23, 2003 - 02:52 pm
    Ben:--I remember your being an active participant in the discussion where I was DL called "About Men."

    Robby

    Ginny
    August 23, 2003 - 03:48 pm
    Oh I forgot to say something, hi Robby, I forgot to say that I have a running argument with my husband on sighting on the right off the tractor. In essence he says that any person sights on the right, that is. the bushhog (ours offset one side or the other) is set to offset to the right and any person can see better how close they are getting to vines, posts, and other delicate things better on the right? I can't. I have to sight on the left, I want it lined up on the left. WELL!! There we are on page 478:
    Why can't women parallel park?

    (Because low testosterone inhitibts spatial ability).
    HAH I screamed (I'm a very good parallel parker, but forget that for the moment), HAH!! THAT'S why I can't sight on the right! hahahaah

    I'll leave off here my husband's reply but it was not in the general tenor of intelligent exchange of opinion hahaaha HAH!! I always knew, that alone is (I hope he's right) worth the cost of the book. HAH I say HAH!

    Hah

    annafair
    August 23, 2003 - 06:53 pm
    Well not really it looks like I have about 1/4 of the book yet to finish,....I think a lot of the book is based on real events with others added as the author thought it make it a fuller book. Sometimes I think he has read something ( which I have) and felt he wanted to include in his book.

    I have a very active mind..by that I mean every time I read something new to me I think about it, dream about it and sometimes write ( mostly in my thoughts) a story about it. There have been many stories lately about gender change. And some stories ( These are true stories I am speaking about ) about children raised as one sex and later undergoing surgery to change that sex. Pictures of either sex as a child certainly showed a happy looking child. If your parents treat you and tell you ...you are a boy or girl I think most smaller children will respond. A girl might be called a tomboy and a boy might be called a sissy but still I think they would accept whatever their parents accepted.

    I have found the book interesting ..and I understand and can find no fault with the circular writing ...if that is the feminine side then I have it in abundance. Maybe it is just an overactive imagination. I can remember reading a small paragraph in the paper and my mind wrote a whole story based on the that paragraph. I have done the same with just a headline.

    I think the author has a curious mind ...and I cant fault him for that either. Since some of you have finished the book I am anxious to do the same.It will be interesting to see what I find at the end. Again I wish I had started in the beginning with everyone. It is obvious it has opened good discussions. So that makes it a success!

    Back to the book ASAP..anna

    Nellie Vrolyk
    August 23, 2003 - 07:28 pm
    Hello Marjorie, Ben, Ginny, Annafair:-)

    You have all made some good insightful posts.

    I tend to agree that this last part of the book should have been the whole book. I think then the author would have been able to develop the character of Calliope/Cal in a more believable way. LOL I'm probably dreaming if I think that.

    Why does Calliope think she is male because she has a yen for another girl? Wouldn't it make more sense for her to consider that she might be a lesbian? Or just plain female?

    I need to do a bit of re-reading and then I'll be along with some more thoughts. I was going to this morning, but it was so gloomy and dark that I couldn't see and I didn't want to turn on a light -too cheap to use up the power LOL.

    Marvelle
    August 23, 2003 - 09:37 pm
    Hi All! I'm having to play catch-up so can't respond to everyone's great posts at the moment. I'm just following the silk threads of my thoughts upon re-reading Book 4.

    Well-done circular writing, ANNA, is more interesting to me than the linear which I feel is generally narrow and constricting.

    Like many of my fellow posters, I preferred Book 4 where everything now seemed to fit -- which might be the intention of the author, a coming together and melding of diverse parts.

    GINNY (hi!) once mentioned the tone of the author and how it was confused. I thought back on the various sections of the novel and think the tone deliberately changed/mutated/metaphorsized with each book.

    Book 1 was written like a Greek myth with magical overtones, almost magical-realism.

    Book 2 was second generation Greek with ethnic color and tension about assimilation.

    Book 3 was the maturing Cal/Calliope with a more detached voice but still confused.

    Book 4 is the "Pied Beauty" of melded diversity where Cal faces issues and finds/defines himself. Cal accepts his different parts of male and female rather than trying to be just one.

    We finally see too the meaning to Chapter 11's name but it's part of the (genetic?) controversy. Did he live up to his name (fate/genetic determinism) or did he create a new name for himself by his later actions (free will). What kind of genetic theory covers the last one of free will? Wouldn't the same two theories be considered for the Cal/Calliope metamorphoses? Fate or free will?

    Marvelle

    GingerWright
    August 23, 2003 - 11:08 pm
    I am sorry but I did have a good post and lost it but such is life I guess. Tomorrow is another day and I hope to recapture what my thoughts were about this book and all of you posters. Marvelle, You are a mavel to me as I see your posts in many discussions as you do get to heart of things. Thanks.

    Marvelle
    August 24, 2003 - 09:34 am
    I read a literary work on my own first for pleasure and for its surface plot, and I may pick up unconsciously the heightened meanings of submerged plots through the author's literary technique. But I read a second time more deliberately, to understand the entire book and to look at what the book is saying and how it's saying it.

    Only at the end of a discussion and/or a second-read, do I look at reviews of the book or author interviews. We're at that point now and I found some incredible interviews. I must say that I find Eugenides funny, with a Greek sense of humor, intelligent and kind. I found things in the interviews that confirmed some of my speculations while reading, and some were not confirmed.

    From the New Yorker interview: "[The question of gender has interested] humanity for a very long time, which is why hermaphrodites appear in so many classical epics and creation myths. Plato claimed that the original human was hermaphroditic. These two halves were sundered and now must go eternally in search of each other, which is apparently why it's so hard to get a dinner reservation on Valentine's Day .... [The] nature of the novelist is already hermaphroditic."

    Eugenides also speaks on nature vs nurture and fate vs free will in

    NEW YORKER INTERVIEW

    From PBS NewsHour, Eugenides speaks of going through a personal metamorphoses as writer and father; Greek myth influence:

    PBS NEWSHOUR INTERVIEW

    With Borders, the author talks about having to learn to write again with Middlesex and the real prototype for Dr. Luce:

    BORDERS INTERVIEW

    With Powells, Eugenides talks about the point-of-view, the real Obscure Object and Cal inventing the past in order to understand his life and this quote: "I have a tragic-comic sensibility, I guess. I can't imagine writing something devoid of humor, yet I don't like slapstick that doesn't admit tragedy. I blend them. It's just central to the way I see them."

    POWELLS INTERVIEW

    The BOMB interview is the longest and interested me the most as a writer. Eugenides spoke of the influence on Middlesex of the birth of his daughter; how he wanted to create a comic epic; said Grace Paley was right; and spoke of one of my favorite chapters in Jame Joyce's Ulysses:

    BOMB INTERVIEW

    I don't read reviews or pay much attention to the notes on dustjackets until after I've read a book. Interviews come later too. I want to decide on my own what the book is about and that way, even if a book disappoints artistically, I've had the pleasure of exploring uncharted territory.

    Marvelle

    Marvelle
    August 24, 2003 - 10:14 am
    Hi, Ginger! I had such a time getting the links to open in my latest post (and they do open at last) that I ran out of time to include a response to your remarks. It's so frustrating to lose a post and to have to write a new one, but I hope you are able to post again soon. I like to hear your thoughts on Middlesex.

    Marvelle

    Marvelle
    August 24, 2003 - 04:34 pm
    The last three interviews I'm posting. The Courier Post -- James Joyce's cane and the Zebra Room; Sunday Business Post -- talks about part of Eugenides' research; B&N -- bio, chrono, written and audio interview, and Eugenides lists some of his favorite books. (Ginny will like the list.)

    COURIER POST INTERVIEW

    SUNDAY BUSINESS POST INTERVIEW

    B&N INTERVIEW

    There actually aren't that many interviews online but these are representative. The B&N audio wouldn't work for my webtv but computers should be able to play it.

    Marvelle

    Nellie Vrolyk
    August 24, 2003 - 06:53 pm
    Ginger, I'm sorry you lost your long post!

    Marvelle, those links explain things a lot more clearly than the book seems to to me. It must have been mentioned in the book and I missed it, but until now I didn't realize that the genetic mutation used in the book causes the person under its influence to become male -actually he is male- in nature at puberty. Not a true male by any stretch of the imagination, for Cal doesn't have functioning male genitals. At least not in the way I know them to be. I think Cal becomes a pseudohermaphrodite or hermaphrodite at puberty, having both a male-like part and a female-like part. Of course, as Calliope, he was not truly female appearance not withstanding because he lacked functional female parts. Just my thoughts on the subject.

    Interesting stuff! Even knowing that Cal was genetically a male, still doesn't make the sudden complete change to male behaviour believable to me.

    I did catch the humour in the book in a way.

    More later...

    Coyote
    August 25, 2003 - 07:00 am
    MARVELLE - Thanks for the links. The Borders one, I think, finally helped me remember John Money's name - the Dr. Luce in the book, as I suspected. I read any of Money's books I could find in libraries while I was trying to define/diagnose myself about 1980 or so. (Before that time, I had accepted society's gay label. It wasn't until I was surrounded by gay students and faculty members in college, I became aware how different I was from gays.) The trouble was, many of the books had been stolen. According to a friend who was a librarian at WSU, intersexual people are so afraid of revealing their problem, they steal the books rather than check them out, so they won't have to let a librarian know they are reading them. Fortunately for people seeking information today, we have the internet, where information is always out on the shelf so we can find it. (Most censor programs don't block subjects like gender or transgender like they do the word transsexual, so kids can find what they need to know.)

    Anyway, John Money was the doctor who believed any child's sexual identitly was determined by how he/she was raised. His pusblished work was largely responsible for the many unnecessary surgeries performed on intersexual babies to "make them female" because they didn't have totally male parts on the outside. Most intersexual people nowadays feel such babies should not have such surgery, but be allowed to grow and see if they want to physically become one sex or the other when they are old enough to decide for themselves. (The two intersex people I knew personally were attending a sexual minority support group to obtain information for such reassignment as young adults. One was genetically female, had been androgenized in-utero, and wanted to become more female with hormones and surgery. One had surgery shortly after birth and wanted hormones and surgery to become more male.)

    Coyote
    August 25, 2003 - 11:08 am
    ROBBY - Yes, I remember the Men discussion, which had more women participants, if I remember correctly. You encouraged me to tell my story on the site to let folks know why I understand the differences between male and female better than most, etc. I declined because at that time, several different women on SN were emailing me, somewhat romantically, and some knew and some didn't. Many women dropped me off their lists of their own accord as they got to know me better, so I saw no need to tell them early in a relationship if we were never going to meet. Again, if I remember correctly, my wife, Ms. E, was one of those I hadn't told yet. I waited to tell her when we met in person. She was surprised but not thwarted, so I am glad I didn't scare her away by posting too much honesty too soon.

    After the hormones and surgery, I was much like the middle-aged Cal in the book when it came to romantic involvement. I avoided sexual relationships with women unless I really liked and trusted them enough to risk frightening them with the truth. (My body is normal enough looking for a locker room, but not so normal that a sober sexual partner wouldn't notice.)

    Nellie Vrolyk
    August 25, 2003 - 05:43 pm
    Ben, thank you for sharing more about yourself.

    Hello to all and am somewhat brainless tonight and can't come up with any coherent thoughts on the book. So will return later.

    Any thoughts on Cal's time in the peep show?

    robert b. iadeluca
    August 25, 2003 - 05:44 pm
    Benjamin:--I remember your declining to publicize it and, as you know, I respected your privacy but now am glad that you are helping us to understand this "complicated" subject by posting personal experiences.

    Robby

    Nellie Vrolyk
    August 26, 2003 - 07:04 pm
    Just a quick thought...

    I'm thinking that Cal joined the peepshow/freakshow because he took that mention in the dictionary of him being a 'monster' too much to heart.

    What do you think?

    Hi Robby!

    GingerWright
    August 26, 2003 - 07:17 pm
    I have Not been able to capture the thoughts on the post that I lost but will say that I have learned a lot from the book and the posts. Thank You All so Much.

    Coyote
    August 27, 2003 - 04:24 am
    NELLIE - Maybe the label, "monster," was the excuse in the book, but the real reasons many young people go into the sex/entertainment industry are a little different. Of course, first and foremost is the fact many have left home, or been kicked out of home, before they are 18, so just are very limited in ways to earn a living. But from the transsexuals (MtoFs) I have known, many seem to see being female as being pretty, being able to show off their bodies, being in entertainment, or just being able to dress up and show off as females. Stripping can start with fancy dressing, which is the big attraction. (Many young male gays who are cross sexual in identity somewhat as well as some straight transvestites are also drawn into this sort of money making arrangement for the same sort of reasons.) They may prefer this kind of work to just being prostitutes, if that seems their only option. They can be with folks that seem like their own kind - a family of sorts. To be accepted as they are is so delightful, the harder, dangerous, more sordid parts of the job may seem tolerable.

    As I have said before, I have never heard of anyone wanting to be, or changing into a male, who has done this sort of work. Of course, I don't know everyone in the world, but from those I have known, I am pretty sure it is unlikely Cal would have accepted this sort of work as a solution. I think this part of the story was from a generalization on Eugenides' part, which was based on facts about people going the other way. Being labeled a monster could have made him believe his parents would never accept him again, so made the acceptance from the other hermaphrodite he roomed with very likely, but not the exibitionist sort of work. Being examined by several doctors as an teen, doesn't turn someone shy about their body into and exhibitionist overnight.

    Marvelle
    August 27, 2003 - 05:48 am
    Well BEN, I'm not able to subscribe to 'the real reasons' young people do certain things. I think that why someone behaves a certain way depends on the individual. Different people can respond to similar circumstances in different ways. I do feel that Cal's motivation is shown in the strong reaction to the 'monster' definition LORRIE mentions. That categorization as a monster is reinforced in the park scene and it seems that Cal, needing money and not emotionally ready to go home where his family perceives him a certain way, finally accepts the peepshow.

    From how Eugenides presents this phase in Cal's life, Cal tries on a label/identity and then ultimately makes his own identity by choosing what he'll accept and not accept.

    Marvelle

    Nellie Vrolyk
    August 28, 2003 - 07:14 pm
    Hello Ben, Marvelle. Good posts!

    OK I think that we can give our over all thoughts on this book. What did you think of it?

    I thought it was quite good the first time I read it. I enjoyed the historical bits and the information on the gene. I even liked Calliope's and Cal's lives. I liked the way Eugenides turned a phrase.

    But reading it through for the second time for the purposes of this discussion, I find the book to be boring and uninteresting. There isn't enough there for me to discover new things upon a second reading.

    I'll have some more detailed thoughts on this later on...

    Marjorie
    August 28, 2003 - 07:20 pm
    I sort of liked the book. Not enough to be anxious to read another book by the same author.

    I liked the information that was new to me (the historical facts). I got very tired of the back and forth of the book. The plot was moving forward and then, all of a sudden, everything went off in a completely different direction and/or time period. The transition never felt smooth to me and it was disturbing.

    Sometimes I enjoyed the very carefully descriptive language and other times I just wanted to put the book down. I don't know how much of my reaction was affected by things other than the was this book was written (e.g., being tired).

    GingerWright
    August 28, 2003 - 09:41 pm
    It took a brave person to be a DL for this book and I do so thank you for caring it to the finish.

    Marvelle, You have done a wonderfull job in here to keep this discussion ALIVE so I Thank You so Much for your research (clickables) and post.

    Ben You have been so Honest and helpful in this discussion, What can I say except THANK YOU So Much. It takes a village to make things work No Matter what the subject may be. Thank You for being you. Your buddy, Ginger

    I wish to Thank everyone who took the time and courage to post in this discussion as it was Not a comfortable discussion till each and every one You posted. Thanks from my heart as I was concerned that it would Not be ago. Love to All of You, Ginger

    GingerWright
    August 28, 2003 - 09:55 pm
    We were stumbling over each other I see. I feel to Thank you for All you have done. Thanks a bunch.

    Many do Not know what it takes to make the headers, collect readers and Go Forward with such a discussion as this one as a DL that is Not a easy discussion but we know don't we how much time, concentration en al it takes.

    Thanks again to all of You Posters whether you posted once or many times as You have made the discussion a go and for me a Good one as I loved each post.

    Awe Gee I am getting sloppy, or something in here but I mean every word.

    Coyote
    August 29, 2003 - 05:11 am
    Well, folks, I came here on a personal invitation and learned a few things.

    I don't know why Eugenides got the prize for this one. It was a disappointment to me, for the reasons I have elaborated on before. More than that, I learned I won't bother to try any more book discussions here. I learned the only time I want to see any research on a book is before I waste money buying it and time reading it. I learned I would feel more comfortable handling ferral cats than I was when the personal scrap started between some women on this site (and formerly on this site.)

    I spent yesterday at a training session for volunteers helping kids in the local schools learn to read and enjoy reading. If I decide I can handle the physical demands of the job, I may take my love of GOOD books there where it will do some good.

    As far as Middlesex, since I got the heavy, hard bound edition, it will be great for pressing my four-leaf clovers. Might even be thick enough to use for a booster seat for a great grandkid.

    Marvelle
    August 29, 2003 - 12:13 pm
    I was a latecomer to this discussion and had to rush to catch up with the other posters. I enjoyed discussing this book with everyone. Loved learning about silkworms and silk production.

    My thoughts on the book tally with Marjorie and Lorrie to a great extent. (Oh I agree wholeheartedly MARJORIE about the lack of smoothness, BEN's disappointment, and LORRIE's sense of boredom.) Can't say that I liked the book when I read it the first time some months ago but I had a better idea what the author was doing in the second read. Overall I think Middlesex is rough around the edges and wish the author had laid it aside for a few more months (after 9 years of writing!) and then gone back to it to iron out the kinks. Eugenides is a fine writer and his first book The Virgin Suicides was a success even with its depressing subject.

    The first impression I had of Middlesex still stands in that I thought Eugenides was trying to write the GAN by mostly emulating the masterpeice Ulysses by James Joyce. Everything was thrown into the novel including the kitchen sink and they weren't woven together, a necessity when writing with such complexity. IMO this is its major flaw. Joyce managed complexity; Eugenides didn't although I say "Bravo" for the effort and ambition.

    There few -- if any -- American writers who have the talent to go as far as Eugenides has. It was an original work, that's for sure. Eugenides' ambition obviously wasn't to write a popular novel to be forgotten in a year or two, but only time will tell if this is a lasting book.

    I read a book first for pleasure. If I find it's an interesting work (and/or if I'm in a book discussion like this one at SN), I'll read it again and this time look for the literary techniques. My second read of this book confirmed my first impression but at least I got a better idea of Eugenides' technique and understood the humor and that he wasn't disregarding the reader deliberately. I would read anything else written by him because he has incredible writing ability and because he said he wasn't going to attempt such a complex work again. (smile)

    Oh okay, okay, if he does write another complex work, I'd read him hoping he'd learned from Middlesex what works for him and what doesn't.

    I had fun, gang! Thanks everyone and a special thanks to GINGER for her catching enthusiasm and to NELLIE for her leadership; and MARJORIE, BEN, FAIRANNA and Everyone who's posted here, you're all great. Now where is our GINNY? I'm on pins and needles waiting for her final thoughts.

    Marvelle

    Nellie Vrolyk
    August 29, 2003 - 07:27 pm
    Marjorie, I thank you for spending time here and for your posts.

    Ben, thank you for sharing a part of your life with me and everyone who took a part and thank you for sticking to the discussion to the end. I appreciate it very much. Thank you also for your thoughtful posts.

    Marvelle, I thank you for the informative and interesting posts, and for your presence here.

    Ginger, thank you for being a stanch supporter.

    More thoughts on the book: there were things in it that just were not believable enough for me. Like Desdemona and Lefty: they just didn't seem passionately in love enough to make their going against the conventions of society ring true for me.

    Nellie Vrolyk
    August 31, 2003 - 08:20 am
    Again, I want to thank everyone for their great posts and participation.

    Ginny, I loved your posts and thank you for spending the time.

    Marvelle, thank you for spending time finding links and those informative posts.

    Ben, thank you for sharing the very personal, and for informative posts, and for your thoughts on the book.

    Ginger, thank you for just being here.

    Marjorie, thank you for taking the time to stop in and post.

    Annafair, thank you for your nice posts.

    A big thank you to everyone who stopped by, for spending time here and posting.

    This discussion is now finished.

    annafair
    August 31, 2003 - 05:04 pm
    I dont know if any will read this or if it already being archived..but today I finally had time to finish the book. First I wanted to see what everyone thought and again I say I wish I had been at the beginning.

    Since my husband shared so much of his Greek expierience I felt like I was a Greek when I read the story. I loved the writing, the fullness of the descriptions and his vocabulary. I keep thinking if I had read this book when I was a teenager I would have put it down and not finished it. It took you to places as a teenager (as I was anyway) you dont really care to go. I think his writing was deft and he had a interesting story line.

    When I recall his description of CAl resembling a fawn I nearly laughed out loud. His picture agrees with that. His look back over his shoulder is purposeful ..It seems to me he is daring us to ask IS THIS BASED ON PERSONAL EXPERIENCE? HOW MUCH IS JUST MY IMAGINATION AND HOW MUCH IS REAL?

    I dont think I would re read it again. Mostly because there are too many books I also want to read and not enough time. Tomorrow I will drop it in the book slot at the library...but I think I will say goodbye reluctantly. He kept my attention and that says a lot to me. anna

    GingerWright
    August 31, 2003 - 05:29 pm
    Thank you so much as many think I am a Nut for enjoying and kinda learning from it. Whoope You agree some what. Thanks for your post as I thought that the time that I have spent was to no availile (sp) and then you come in here, Yes,

    Marjorie
    August 31, 2003 - 08:04 pm
    GINGER: If you liked the book, it was worth your time no matter how many people didn't like it. Your opinion is as valid as mine.

    ANNA: I am glad to see your post and know that you enjoyed the book.

    GingerWright
    September 1, 2003 - 09:11 am

    Marjorie
    September 1, 2003 - 10:57 am
    I am archiving this discussion. It is now Read Only.