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The memoir is the most popular of literary genres.
The phrase is attributed to a 1944 edition of the African journal American Speech: “You can't judge a book by its binding.” It was popularized even more when it appeared in the 1946 murder mystery Murder in the Glass Room by Lester Fuller and Edwin Rolfe: “You can never tell a book by its cover.” https://www.google.com/search?q=quote+never+buy+a+book+by+its+cover&rlz=1C1CHBF_enUS722US722&oq=quote+never+buy+a+book+by+its+cover&aqs=chrome..69i57j33.10804j0j8&sourceid=chrome&ie=UTF-8I was discussing this book with my neighbor friend, who has taught special needs students in grades 5-6 for almost 40 years. She has not yet read the book. I told her, for someone to write a book and title it Educated, attend Cambridge and Harvard, two of the most prestigious colleges, and earn a PhD in Intellectual History, she seems to me to be "uneducated."
When you listen to her interviews she defends Dad, saying he's got some kind of disorder mentally (bi polar, perhaps?) but loved his children and would never put them in harm's way...
I see the book as an attempt at reconciliation with her father and the rest of the family. Even with that sadistic brother, Shawn. Tara would like to go home to her beloved Buck's Peak.
I have a feeling she does want reconciliation with her father and family. Why? Would any of you? Child's life was a combat zone.
She strikes me in the video interviews as a very impressive, attractive extremely intelligent young woman.
I started feeling like I was under a dark cloud, a kind of indefinite wave of suffocating menace, getting stronger as the book went on.
Reflecting on it now, I'm not sure the injury changed him that much, but I convinced myself that it had, and that any cruelty on his part was entirely new. I can read my journals from this period and trace the evolution--of a young girl rewriting her history. In the reality she constructed for herself nothing had been wrong before her brother fell off that pallet. I wish I had my best friend back, she wrote. Before his injury, I never got hurt at all.
As we all know in relating history there are three kinds of sources: primary, secondary and tertiary.
First I believe every word she's written about her own observations. What she actually saw, the primary history she lived. I always do believe every word. It's her story as she felt it and lived it and that's all she's writing. That's all anybody can write.
I believe her, all the way.
Tara's story is an appeal for forgiveness all around.I can't ever imagine her family seeing this story other than what their lawyer has spoken for them, "maligns them, their religion, their country, and homeschooling,”
And here the story is told by someone who, whatever version you believe, is describing a childhood full of traumatic events, the hardest to remember correctly, especially if you are yourself in shock or pain.
But I'm going to stick with my view of seeing the book as an olive branch to her father. An extraordinary man. She needs her father. He should be made to see that. He has let her down.
To me, here, this revision is not any sort of fiction except that she can't even believe her own child self, she has such a need to make Dad OK.
You have read the book twice, and closely. I could only stomach it once.Yes, I did read the book twice. I first read the book earlier, before you had decided to have it as our July mini discussion. I was lucky enough to get it from my library, finished it, and passed it on to my friend, who is in an online book club and they were going to discuss it. She was on the waiting list at the library, #54, so she was really excited I could pass mine on to her, and she returned it to the library for me. When you announced Educated would be our July mini discussion, I knew there was no chance I was going to get a copy from my library. This book is as you know, is a very popular read. So, I bought the book, skimmed through it, making post it notes, where I felt was interesting to discuss, and all the discrepancies, inconsistencies, contradictions, and parts she was making up from her imagination, and where she would footnote, saying she could be incorrect.
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Somehow, despite even being provided with proof she exists, without any education at all, she manages to take the ACT, pass it, go to Brigham Young University, graduate with honors, go to talk to an advisor and be advised to try for Cambridge, she can do university work and she qualifies, gets the scholarship and graduates from Cambridge University in the UK with a PhD.
AND write a bestselling book.
Surely THAT is anybody's idea of incredible achievement! And she's so young.
'Where did this severely marginalized child get the...the wherewithal, the inner strength, the dedication, the mind boggles...What enables some people to achieve as incredibly she has?'
I find the answer in her using her experience and her reason.
Let's discuss the soaring positive luminous thing out of all this which she downplays as if it were normal: her rise. Her many achievements, modestly downplayed as if a matter of fact everyday accomplishment. All this and STILL she rises. How? What do you think allowed her to do this? What sort of characteristic or dedication? How did she teach herself to READ? To do advanced math which she says is like a language in itself, I loved that.
I could only stomach it once. I could not put it down, I was VERY glad to see her triumphant ending, but I also now can't pick it back up and desperately want to say something positive about SOMETHING in it.
I think it's this quality of the book which lifts it into the "Love it" category.
What do you think?
I doubt she tried to report Shawn's violence. If she had, the family uproar it would cause would have been too major not to be part of the story.
I hope there have been, I doubt any exist. What's her physical proof? She has no physical proof of her own issues, the dog disappeared, and everybody says she is lying. Even now. And as in so many domestic violence issues what can the police do if everybody says it didn't happen. The headlines are full of why something was not reported at the time, it seems. Maybe the lesson here for all of us is report now repent later.
To me, the book these many years later IS a report, of what happened then.
This doesn't help us to know if she is writing fact or fiction; you still need to tell your story properly even if it's true.
This, after she did certainly as a child report it to her parents and was not believed, nor did anything about it. THEY in this thing and in all others, are the responsible adults , supposedly, neglectful as they are, and are to blame, surely not the victim herself.
Really?
They appear to be spinning like mad, trying to save face.
(I still don't know what the "End Times" are. But apparently you can drive when they come.)
She must stay strong and find the strength to not waver, to do that would be the last betrayal of that girl who was abused and betrayed with no protection offered
I see the book as an attempt at reconciliation with her father and the rest of the family. Even with that sadistic brother, Shawn. Tara would like to go home to her beloved Buck's Peak.
Her mother did take the time to teach her. Not homeschooling. She says so flatly in one of the video links I put up here in an interview (with blond hair) when asked directly (as she skirts around it in the book) what homeschooling she received from her mother, that her mother by the time she came along was too busy with the Oils and 7 children (or something like that, it's there for anybody to see) to do any homeschooling.
And apparently too busy to teach the child anything about hygiene, health, and personal cleanliness, either, as witness to the others in college and afterwards who encountered her, at her own admission.
So Mom, while I'm sure providing support in some things and instruction in some things, apparently skipped these two major issues. And of course SHE is bottling oils for health.
Tara as a historian. What made her choose that as a major?
So how do you see the Westovers's saga playing out? Will people forget this?
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Please rest assured that everyone here HAS read your words above, several times, and DOES understand that they are your considered opinion on the veracity of the book, and that you need feel no anxiety to repeat them: we've got it. :)
Instead of using this situation as a teachable moment to explain cleanliness, Mom succumbs to the green eyed demon herself, "and a jealousy lights her eyes."