Anna, you sound absolutely wonderful and I wish you lived near me!
I am interested to hear that you have two Golden Retrievers, as we are thinking about getting another dog, but I have always said no more Retrievers, as the last one was so strong and just about pulled me over. My daughters were not able to help with the walking as he was just too powerful for them - son used to walk him at night, but he (son!) is now away from home, so it would be down to me and my 12 year old. My husband only really wants a Retriever, and I must say I do miss having one around, but I was wondering if we had just had an exceptionally hyper model last time - our first was a female and fairly placid, second was a male we acquired aged 5 when his owners had to move abroad. How do you manage with yours and do you have any tips for (i) choosing one and (ii) training?
I have heard quite a few people say that they were not happy in retirement communties, and some have in fact moved out back into the "real" world. It is very sad that your relation was so unhappy.
To return to the books - if anyone would like a copy of Excellent Women, I have two and would be happy to send one to you. I have found in my correspondence with people in the Pym group that if I send things surface mail from here they inevitably arrive in the US within a week, and at a fraction of the cost - I have also inherited a large amount of stamps from my husband's uncle, so happy to cover the postage - just let me know.
Rosemary