Oh I know how easy it is to digress - and yes, there were strong women who flaunted the traditions of the day - but then do we say there are some strong men who flaunted the traditions to make their mark - and also, upon reading I find more often than not these strong women were from the upper class.
We also find many women today trying to show evidence of a society where women were the ruling class - there is talk of the society before the one Homer is telling us about - Crete - that because of paintings on the wall of women jumping over the bulls as the young men jump therefore, they were equal - well maybe but there is nothing else so far other than the paintings and then the tale goes - well look at Egypt - well just look at the life of the average Egyptian women - a few female rulers does not make society free from Misogyny, the World's oldest Prejudice
There are all sorts of statues and paintings of woman as symbols for a nation or freedom or justice but then a Dove is a symbol of peace - when there is a release of Doves for a national or community event that does not magically make peace and so the same with symbols of figures of women.
Most of us are already behind Penelope - she is weak and is being the 'good' women but our understanding and appreciation for Helen is straining our concept of what a 'good' girl/woman should be. We do not hear of Agamemnon offering one of his sons to the gods - no, it is his granddaughter - the sons can fight and if they perish so be it but they are actors in their own death.
Been reading like crazy Margaret George's
Helen of Troy and it appears I must read the entire book to get to the end to understand from this author's point of view why Helen was back in Sparta with Menelaus - the book is 639 pages and filled with one gripping event after the other - each chapter has me on the edge of my chair - she is some page turner of a writer - you can almost see how she gathered facts, little known facts and weaved them into this story based on what Greek [ or is it Hellas
] writers have told us about Helen.
So far Margaret George has both Helen and Paris acting because of the interference of Aphrodite - seems that the night of Helen's marriage to Menelaus she called on two other goddesses and forgot Aphrodite and so her punishment was her bedroom life with Menelaus was without satisfaction - then he is not a passionate man although, she finds him with a slave girl he impregnated the day before he leaves for Crete for the funeral of his father. He protests with the usual - 'it was nothing' - but does sound sincere as if he reveres Helen more than he feels passion for her and please forgive him - Helen is numb - says nothing one way or the other and reminds him the ships are waiting for him - Paris is 9 years younger and she was immediately aroused when she saw him - 9 days of 'Hospitality' to Paris and his cousin took precedence over the trip to Crete and in that time sparks flashed - now she goes to the alter built for a pet snake and lo and behold who comes - you guessed it..
Then it turns out later, after their mock up marriage in the forest on the way to Troy and after they learn that Agamemnon is planning to attack and lots of other events that include skirmishes with an angry, then feisty King Priam and Hecuba, his parents, we learn Paris had an experience
before he was accepted back in the folds of his family, while still living in the forest, three goddesses, Hera, Athena, and Aphrodite approach him along with Hermes and Paris had to choose the prettiest - each goddess promises him a power and Aphrodite promises him Helen.
And so this whole story is supposed to be because Aphrodite set the wheels in motion. Taking the goddess aspect away and looking at this from today's point of view - again, it sounds like desire and emotion took over - but then to look at this story as an allegory or myth and reading how Helen means the
Sun ray or shining light, torch or shining one she could be, as Jude suggested, the symbol and name sake for the Greeks.and although, many Greek gods, they could be similar to the God of Abraham who holds the power of the universe. But back to women, even the goddesses are shown as manipulative that we take sides based on our learned concept of place. Helpful is OK - making things happen - ah maybe, according to who is benefiting but not the best of characteristic's.
Well the war is unfolding so back to my book,
Helen of Troy and then I can get back to the Epic of Homer.