Did he or not do the deed - Bates sure came back more than discouraged - he could hardly look Anna in the eye and he swiftly left her after having been away for a day or two - not exactly the actions of a lover...!!!
Seems to me the Patrick incident was again showing history that I remember more from WWII but maybe is was a part of the WWI story as well - where men on the battle field share family intimacies and after their death, sometimes at the hands of the so called buddy, the buddy assumes his ID. Seems to me there was even movies or a movie about someone coming home from war assuming a battle field switch and passing himself off as a husband.
Edith can sure pick 'em - poor child - and angry Daisy - looks like others are more easily able to put feelings on the auction block and expected her to do the same.
Interesting dynamics as the under current between Cora, Violet and Isobel - Isobel is made to seem a pushy egotist and yet, when you consider we would expect that kind of focus, drive and hopefully a concern for humanity from any man trying to make a difference - Cora and Violet represent the traditional place that women were subject to before the woman's movement. Isobel may be before her time but the undercurrent seems to suggest that she is not to be admired but to show her as easily fooled because she is not playing the game that keeps women in their safe secure place. Thinking about it even her son, Matthew did a bit of female bashing in an earlier segment because of her headlong drive to bring change.
Unfortunately Isobel does not have the smoothness that allows her to play in the Cora, Violet playground but when you think of it her drive and ability to organize is the exact skills that successful operations look for in a leader. It appears they are also showing Cora to be a success running a large enterprise. Between the running of the Manor all those years and now the addition of running the convalescent hospital while retaining her traditional feminine ways today would make her an excellent manager rather than the CEO type leader that better matches Isobel. And of course Violet, makes the perfect politician - head of the Board of Directors.