Happy to see you here with us,
mynioga To echo
Annie,
WELCOME!Jean, I got the feeling that Bernadette's family was happy and supportive of her wishes to have another child. These are Irish Catholics - one child was not the norm. I wonder how Sullivan took the repeated attempts and disappointment before the first baby was adopted. I think the Doyles would have been happy with that baby - with Tip, but then the mother wanted them to take the younger child - and so they did.
I went back and reread the opening chapter to get a sense of how the family had accepted the boys. I thought it was telling when they came to the Doyle's house shortly after Bernadette's death to collect the statue, which they felt belonged to Bernadette's niece - "because the statue always goes to a daughter." When Doyle responded that "it has in the past but it isn't a law. It can go to a son for one generation and everyone will survive."
The two women, the aunts knew that Doyle didn't mean Sullivan, his oldest son.
He meant the other ones, the "little boys" ...And why should two adopted sons, two
black adopted sons, own the statue..." The italics are the author's. Do you get the feeling that that is their main objection - or the fact that they are boys, adopted boys? What is the point Ann Patchett is making with this issue?
It's a good thing the aunts accepted Uncle Sullivan's viewpoint - Tip and Teddy were able to keep the statue - which meant so much to them.
I've had some experience with the distribution of family heirlooms following my father's death.{My mother died when I was very young.} It was just assumed by my four younger siblings that the real heirlooms were to be mine - my mother's engagement ring, the old Family Bible, family history recorded inside.. I'm not sure where these should go after I'm gone. Years later, I learn that my sister had always wanted the family pictures...newspaper clippings, obituaries, my mother's artwork - all stored at my house.
I can't see my guys fighting over these things, but how do I decide which of my siblings to pass them on to? I understand Doyle's point in this case - but in general, the old way seems to be an easy place to start. How do you handle this sort of thing?
Thanks for the explanation,
Babi - wish I could say I was "bushtailed" first thing in the morning.