Aha!
Jude, that's exactly what I was feeling! Pip couldn't have changed that much by age 30, could he? If we had a different picture of him - happily married and settled, with his own little family, it would be one thing - we could readily accept that he had gotten over his unreasonable "expectations" regarding a future with Estella....
I've been rereading the two endings and all of your posts regarding the two endings. I can see where many would prefer a happier ending where there is some hope...rather than leave poor Pip forever caught up in an impossible dream.
I suppose that this was the reason Dickens went against his original conclusion and edited what he wrote to leave the possibility that somehow Estella would soften further and they would find happiness together..
I read that it was Wilkie Collins, a close friend and author of
The Woman in White, who objected to the not-happy ending Dickens first wrote for Great Expectations.
Here are some objections to Dickens' revised ending -
"The second ending has generally been published from Dickens's time to our own, so that it is the one which most readers know. Critics have been arguing the merits of both endings since the novel's publication. Dickens's friend and biographer, John Forster, felt the original ending was "more consistent with the draft, as well as the natural working out of the tale." The writers George Gissing, George Bernard Shaw, George Orwell, William Dean Howells, Edmund Wilson and Angus Wilson agreed with Forster's preference. In modern criticism, the stronger arguments tend to support the second ending."
George Bernard Shaw: The novel "is too serious a book to be a trivially happy one. Its beginning is unhappy; its middle is unhappy; and the conventional happy ending is an outrage on it."
The second ending is an artistically indefensible and morally cheap about-face; its purpose is to please a popular audience which expects a conventional happy ending (i.e., marriage)."
Some of you have already expressed your preference for the original or for the revised.
I find myself agreeing with what
Jonathan wrote on the subject -
"Despite its ambiguities, Chapter 59 is a beautifully written epilogue to this strange tale.
The strange variations in the endings seem suitable in a way, in this land of mists and shadows."