Hmmmm… my thoughts as I finish this story: Never covet someone else’s riches for they may not be so valuable. *LOL*
1. De Maupassant writes: "since with women there is neither caste nor rank, for beauty charm and grace take the place of family and birth." What does this tell about French society and the position of women at the end of the 19th century? Beauty and posture are important as women are visual adornments only, chattel even.
2. Why does Mathilde believe she was "born to enjoy luxuries"? Does it sound as if the author is questioning the fairness of her position? Yes, he’s questioning the fairness of her position, after all she was naturally beautiful but without a dowry or title. Because beauty above all else was priority Mathilde felt deserving of a position much grander than the one she married into.
3. Did you find any of the characters in this story likeable? Can you relate to Mathilde at all, either at the beginning of the story or the end? No I couldn’t say I liked or disliked the other characters, as not enough background (focus) was given. Though I can relate to Mathilde yearning for status and riches because, like most people seeking wealth it cushions life’s hardships. Even offering up a sense of security too.
4. What do you think Mathilde's life would have been like after her great success at the ball, had she not lost the necklace? What were the chances her marriage would have survived? If Mathilde had not lost the necklace I foresaw divorce and then remarriage to a wealthier provider.
5. How would the story have ended without the twist, the couple learning years later, just by chance that the necklace was paste? Is there a moral to this story? Coveting can mislead perceptions [be deceptive]. In this case, discovering Madame Forestier’s diamond necklace was fake, though she is of a high rank in society. Had to have shocked Mathilde to her core.
6. De Maupassant wrote another, longer story during this same period, a comment on woman's position - said to be his finest. Have you had a chance to read Boule de Suif (Butterball, Ball of Fat)? Yes, I read this story, Boule de Suif. WOW! What an engaging short story that clearly shows how the upper class can be cruel and intolerant, but tolerant when it serves THEIR needs. I was infuriated with its ending, as it’s another story showing how wealthy power lords over working class people. In this story I favor the underdog of course; I adore Madame Boule de Suif. In spite of the others behavior she shared her food.
a. Also I loved this phrase in the story, contrasting marriage with prostitution, “…for legitimized love always despises its easygoing brother.” Page 6
b. As for the insulting title, I agree it is offensive. My abhorring the reference stems from being called “butterball” throughout my youth because I was never slender in build. The last time I ever saw or spoke to my paternal grandfather, his last words to me were, “You’ll always be a butterball!” I was 13 years old…