JoanK., "Notice the little dig at Sir Walter: having failed to find a woman who would marry him, he announces that he is staying unmarried in memory of his wife (and maybe even believes it)."
Good minds think alike, I have felt throughout the entire book, JA did not especially like Sir Walter's character, and took digs at him. After searching and reading many different analysis, of Persuasion, every person gave the same opinion of Sir Walter. He was full of himself, pompous, careless, and uncaring. Even our Captain Wentworth feels this way in the last pages of the book, once he and Anne are finally together:
pg. 711 "Who can be in doubt of what followed? When any two young people take it into their heads to marry, they are pretty sure by perseverance to carry their point, be they ever so poor or ever so imprudent, or ever so little likely to be necessary to each other's ultimate comfort. This may be bad morality to conclude with, but I believe it to be truth; and if such parties succeed, how should a Captain Wentworth and an Anne Elliot, with the advantage of maturity of mind, consciousness of right, and one independent fortune between them, fail of bearing down every opposition? They might, in fact, have borne down a great deal more than they met with, for there was little to distress them beyond the want of graciousness and warmth. Sir Walter made no objection, and Elizabeth did nothing worse than look cold and unconcerned. Captain Wentworth, with five-and-twenty thousand pounds, and as high in his profession as merit and activity could place him, was no longer nobody. He was now esteemed quite worthy to address the daughter of a foolish, spendthrift baronet, who had not had principle or sense enough to maintain himself in the situation in which Providence had placed him, and who could give his daughter at present but a small part of the share of ten thousand pounds which must be hers hereafter.
Sir Walter, indeed, though he had no affection for Anne, had not vanity flattered, to make him really happy on the occasion, was very far from thinking it a bad match for her. On the contrary, when he saw more of Captain Wentworth, saw him repeatedly by daylight, and eyed him well, he was very much struck by his personal claims, and felt that his superiority of appearance might not be unfairly balanced against her superiority of rank; and all of this, assisted by his well-sounding name, enabled Sir Walter, at last to prepare his pen, with a very good grace, for the insertion of the marriage in the volume of honour."
pg. 712 "It cannot be doubted that Sir Walter and Elizabeth were shocked and mortified by the loss of their companion, (Mrs. Clay) and the discovery of their deception in her. They had their great cousins, to be sure, to resort to for comfort; but they must long feel that to flatter and follow others, without being flattered and followed in turn, is but a state of half enjoyment."
JA, really wanted to end this story with the readers not especially liking Sir Walter, or Elizabeth for that matter, showing how neither could care less, about Anne, or of her marrying Captain Wentworth, except for how they may benefit personally from it. With all due respect...... I feel he was a pompous ass!
Jonathan, What a very thoughtful and perfect gift to give to the newlyweds!
Yes, JoanK., JA, does get under your skin. After reading Pride and Prejudice, I would not ever want to read Death Comes to Pemberly if it would mar my great feelings, Pride and Prejudice left me with. Sometimes, it's better to leave perfection alone. Jonathan, I truly loved the humor and feistiness of Elizabeth. I may have to find the movie, and watch it, now that you have voiced you enjoyed it.
Barb, " Lady Russell and Sir Elliot - mother and son..."
NO!!!! I just don't think JA would have intended that scenario, without giving us a hint, or some basis for it.
PatH., I agree, I see Lady Russell as Anne's mother figure, and because of that, I can see her being friends and forgiving. Afterall, Anne did tell Captain Wentworth, pg. 710 "I have been thinking over the past, and trying impartially to judge of the right and wrong, I mean with regard to myself; and I must believe that I was right, much as I suffered from it, that I was perfectly right in being guided by the friend whom you will love better than you do now. To me, she was in the place of a parent. Do not mistake me, however. I am not saying that she did not err in her advice. It was, perhaps, one of those cases in which advice is good or bad only as the event decides; and for myself, I certainly never should, in any circumstance of tolerable similarity, give such advice. But I mean I was right in submitting to her, and that if I had none otherwise, I should have suffered in more in continuing the engagement than I did even in giving it up, because I should have suffered in my conscience. I have now, as far as such a sentiment is allowable in human nature, nothing to reproach myself with; and if I mistake not, a strong sense of duty is no bad part of a woman's portion."
Is this not what any mother/daughter relationship goes through? I know for myself, there were times my mother guided me away from my own feelings and judgement, and I listened to her out of respect and duty. Now that she is no longer with me, I have an enormous contented conscience, as I am certain Anne does.
Ciao for now~