Elitism.....this word is so ugly, powerful, and prejudice when it comes to how those who are elite, can make others feel. Yet, if we all felt happy and content within ourselves, elitism would not be possible to have that empowering effect on others. I grew up on a rural road, in a small town, and wore hand me downs, but the ironic thing is I did not ever feel elitism around me. Yes, I know other kids at school had nicer clothes, but none of these kids ever made fun of, or treated me differently. The first time I ever can say I realized a name brand clothing, was in high school when a very pretty girl in my class had a Bobby Brooks outfit, sweater and skirt. It was just so beautiful and sharp looking, I could not help but notice. She was a very nice girl, and did not act stuck up or snobby, so elitism was not even a factor.
Now when my daughter went to a Catholic grade school in a suburban city, she dealt with girls who treated her cruelly because she did not wear the name brand styles of clothes. I bought her the name brands, Forenza, Swatch, Gap, Limited, etc., and she refused to wear them. She said she did not want to be associated with those type of girls. Now this is the first time I experienced elitism, and I was very proud of my daughter for not wanting to play into, or empowering these girls. One day the girls tripped my daughter on her way to the bus and caused her to skin her knee badly. The principal, Sr. Myra, saw it happen and since I taught in the school she informed me of who it was. When the girls came to my computer class, I asked them why they were treating my daughter so cruelly. The one girl's response was, "Julie makes us feel like we are stuck up and snobby, because she said she doesn't like to wear name brand clothes." Talk about reverse psychology! Most of the girls ended up liking my daughter Julie, and became friends with her.
It is so cruel when others who have more, treat others with less, inferior.