When I was a youngster, and my mom would take me to the movies, or when we finally had TV, if something upset me, she would always say "It's just a movie--make believe". I think we may have gotten used to having our fears/sadness over-ridden by this tack, but now that we are older, we see more things in the media and in real life, that simply CANNOT be placed in that category...it's just a movie, i.e. pictures from Katrina, hurricanes, tornadoes, battlefield news clips, etc. I know that I am very sensitive nowadays, whenever I see one of the motorcades carrying a fallen serviceman to his hometown, I cry. When they show pictures of a young child who currently is suffering from, or has passed on from a hellacious disease, I cry. All manner of news stories which we are peppered with every day, school shootings, parents who kill their children, then themselves, cut me to the quick, and I say, "why, why, why"; knowing that it is not mine to know why.
Life is "definitely NOT a movie" anymore.