I'm reading Malcom Gladwell's "Outliers". He's the author of "Tipping Point". In a discussion at dinner last week, a dear friend said "i've got a book you've got to read. Come by the house after dinner and pick it up." then they went on a vacation and my husband and i are reading it until they get back home. We will have a lively discussion about it. His premise is that we tend to think of really successful people as being very smart and/or very talented, but there are many, many other factors that relate to success: one is one's timing of being in the world (Bill Gates coming of age at the same time as computers); having spent 10,000 hours working on your skill; having people to assist you at the right time and to do the right things, and your cultural heritage, which can be a positive or a negative in one's success. (not racial or ethnic background, but cultural behaviors) .
He has a very interesting chapter on the importance of independence vs authoritarian-leaning behavior. He uses the examples of captains and first officers' relationships in airplanes and the coorelation to airplane crashes because first officers and more subordinates didn't speak up, or nor assertively enough to stop the crash. It reminded me of something i heard along the way of my life/education about DDay and passed on to my management training and college history students......... Because of the US soldiers' history of independence and taking charge, when their officers were killed in battle, especially on DDay, the soldiers organized themselves and cont'd on with whatever they had to do. Because of generations, maybe centuries of European history of boarding schools and authoritarianism, when European, especially German, officers were injured or killed, their young soldiers sat down and waited for someone w/ authority to tell them what to do.
I found myself saying thru the book,"of course, of course". I believe there are many factors that create successful people and nobody does it alone, no one IMO is a "self-made" person. He made me think about that in a more focused way though and i am glad my friend suggested it. As i said, we'll have a lot to talk about at our next dinner. I recommend it.
Jean