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Re: The Library
« Reply #14440 on: December 03, 2014, 03:20:23 PM »

The Library
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Here in Florida I went last year to renew my license but didn't have all the documents I needed with me.  The clerk told me to go online and renew and it would be easy.  I renewed online in about 5 minutes without any documentation.  But I understand that you can only renew online every other time (8 years). I'll be so old the next time it rolls around who knows if I'll be driving then.  ;). At least the worry is over for now.  Good luck, Barb.

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« Reply #14441 on: December 03, 2014, 05:16:02 PM »
Well I called - my oh my - I do need my old license and my SS and my medicaid or is it medicare - whatever  - I need that card - I can use my voter registration but I still need another with a photo - I asked about an old license since before this last one was initiated - she was not sure - I told her about the Holy Card - no laugh, I think she is inundated with angry folks - I was in a phone que of 21 callers before me.

And yes, it sure sounds like they are weeding out folks - this is so against us - now chickens that were slaughtered and packaged here in the states at an affordable price by all these illegals are now being sent - get this - to China where the already slaughtered chickens will be prepped, packaged and sent back to the US for retail markets - so how old will this chicken be and how many more drugs will be ingested by a chicken so it does not go bad and we are going to eat this stuff because it was so important to stop businesses from hiring illegals - did anyone ever think why green onions and small veggies are so expensive - they can no longer be grown for retail in the US since the profit margin was taken when folks from across the border no longer came to our fields so they are all grown now in Mexico with a higher dollar on our grocery bill. Grrr I know this is hitting political buttons - I am sorry I just see us shooting ourselves in the foot - the increase in our food bills and the safety of our food is at stake.  
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Re: The Library
« Reply #14442 on: December 03, 2014, 06:50:59 PM »
Each state seems to vary so much in what is required. I just renewed mine on Dec. 1 and then remembered I have to wait 3 weeks for the real plastic one from the state.  You used to get the new plastic one right away from the same place you just did the eye test. Trying to cut down on fake licenses, they say.  They needed my old license, I took the eye test, said I was a US Citizen and had no physical or mental problems that would interfere with driving, paid my $8.00 for 2 years (after 70 or so, can only renew for 2 yrs).  Now to hope it comes before we leave this cold climate for a couple of months!  [The paper one they give you expires Dec. 31...but my real license is still good to the middle of January...and I had 60 days beyond that to renew with no problem...but I didn't like driving out of state with what appears to be an expired license.  It does get complicated!  ::)  ]

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« Reply #14443 on: December 03, 2014, 08:28:43 PM »
Mine is also Texas license.  All I have to do is sent MoneyOrder or Cashiers Check and the form they sent me, and I'm renewed.
Can't think why yours is such a problem.
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Re: The Library
« Reply #14444 on: December 03, 2014, 09:52:47 PM »
In Maryland, all you need is your old license and either to take the eye exam or to give them a form from the ophthalmologist, and you get the new one right then.  You can renew online every other time.  Presumably they don't want the photo to get too out of date--they take a new one when you come in.

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« Reply #14445 on: December 03, 2014, 10:44:59 PM »
Sally I did that the last time as well - it appears the rules all changed - I received a letter saying I had to come in; "I am not eligible to renew online" and then all these rules and requests for documents are listed including many that do not affect me like checking with and bringing a statement from Child Services that you are up to date with your support and the one I called in error looking for the correct phone number where you have to check and fill out some self certification affidavit that you checked that you are not on the sex offender list and if you were divorced, as I was, you now have to bring your divorce papers - the cost of renewal is $25 and it does not say, but my friend said after age 80 the license will be renewed for less time then when I was younger.

The ID Documents they want along with your current license - SS card, Vehicle registration or vehicle Title, insurance that includes Medicare or Health and Vehicle, a birth certificate issued by the state bureau of Vital Statistics in an agency from a US state, territory, D. of C. or Canadian province - Birth record issued by a hospital will not be accepted and a court order if you were born abroad - and if there was a name change, as mine was changed, at the time of a divorce or marriage you have to bring a copy of those stamped and recorded documents -

They will take as a second photo ID your current passport but mine is out of date and I am not going to go through all of that to update it plus it may not be back by the end of January - my grandson's took over two months and I went to the office to submit the paper work and check since he was born here in Austin.  

I can only imagine all this is because after a certain age they do want to test your eyes but now all this has come into the picture that is new since at least 2 years ago when a friend was requested to come in and simply took the eye test as easy as pie - we are guessing but do not know for sure when the Voter ID was changed all this went into affect as well.  

The two page letter is long with lots of addresses, web sites, phone numbers, emails to all these various agencies that you are supposed to check with and bring evidence the you are complying - a Veteran has to have something called an original DD-214. DD-215, NGB-22 or a letter from the Veterans Affairs disability and a letter showing they were honorably discharged or a general Discharge under honorable conditions.

Sally it goes on and on - you cannot imagine - or at least I could not when I opened this thing and started to read - of course the print is about a 9 so I had to find my magnifying glass to read it but after reading it no wonder she had 21 phone calls in que ahead of me -
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Re: The Library
« Reply #14446 on: December 04, 2014, 08:54:52 AM »
Florida is doing the same thing.. Both of my sons who have passports, say that you have to have a second picture id.. which is weird to put it mildly.. I have not been called in, but probably will the next time it is due.
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« Reply #14447 on: December 06, 2014, 01:40:24 PM »
Wow, Barb!!!  You've probably sent a lot of us scurrying to see what is required in our state.  Renewing, age 65  or older I can use a "raised" birth certificate or a current or expired passport, can verbally present SS#. I don't have to show evidence of where I was born.  But from what I read on the MO moter vehicle website it does seem they are trying to weed out folks who aren't what they say they are.  I've got another year before I have to do all that -- as long as I don't have to take a road test and parallel park.

Does anyone parallel park these days?

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« Reply #14448 on: December 06, 2014, 03:34:39 PM »
The Veteran's requirements are so they can get their license without a Fee.

How old are you Barb?  If you don't mind my asking?  Perhaps the requirements for you are age based?  Did you have moving violations?  Limitations on your current license?  Must be some reason they would ask for all that extra verification.
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« Reply #14449 on: December 06, 2014, 05:12:50 PM »
Sally NO violation for years - but I will be 82 in January when my license is to be renewed and that I think is the reason I must come in - but I also think all these new verifications are just that - new - because my friend who is 95 and had her license renewed 3 years ago did not have to have all these verifications -

This is a form letter so nothing just for me and no fill in the blanks in the letter that were filled in just for me -

I really think this all came about when the voter registration and showing two IDs in order to vote came in last year - we used to take an electric bill as proof but no more and most when they are voting use their registration card and their drivers license for their 2 IDs but then right after the law required the two, the voter registration cards went out with in the majority of cases the name NOT matching the license so we who work the polls in Travis county instead of making them vote with a provisional vote had a stack of cards where we sent into the county the name as it matched the drivers license for the county registrar  to change it and send out a new registration card.

What a huge dent in the budget because 2 out of 3 had been changed after the law and no longer matched the driver's license. And so I am thinking they are getting all the records updated and using this opportunity to make sure everyone is insured etc. Have no idea if everyone is going to have to come in for license renewal but I bet it is for me because of my age.
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« Reply #14450 on: December 07, 2014, 12:02:03 AM »
It's really become ludicrous as the fear mongerers have taken over the state houses. Our requirements changed after 2001. They are not as long as yours Barb, but we have to have a photo id and two additional govt issued forms, including a "valid" birth certificate, not the hospital one. The voter id lunatics have not gotten control of NJ's legislature yet, but considering that there have been some ridiculously low number, like .0004%, of potential fraud, it makes no sense. Of course, a lot of agencies are getting a lot of money by providing all the documents!

I just feel like the world has gone nuts!

Jean

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« Reply #14451 on: December 07, 2014, 08:56:47 AM »
Well Jean, I feel just the same way.  There have been almost no findings of fraud in voting anywhere in this country, but the airways are rife with loud voiced accusations and nightmarish picturings.  Most polling places, like my own, you get so that you KNOW the pollworkers and they know you.  How painful to have to turn away someone you have been seeing in there every couple of years for what feels like forever;  to have to tell that familiar face and name that they lack sufficient identification to cast their vote this time!  Drives me nuts!
AND, having been a worker in there myself for simply years (I am no longer able to stand the long day;  I'm just too frail for it), I KNOW the safeguards in place totally prevent cheating of any type.
Well, we know what all that posturing actually amounts to.  They truly believe some folk are animal-like creatures who do not deserve the rights their citizenship declares inalienable, and they are hell bent to deny these less deserving beings of their franchise.  I find it wicked.  I find the motivation raging through their bombast evil.

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« Reply #14452 on: December 07, 2014, 09:11:44 AM »
Since I live in Florida, I do understand some of our new drivers license requirements.. But on the other hand, they let you take the drivers test in Spanish, which strikes me as odd, since no road signs are in Spanish.
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« Reply #14453 on: December 07, 2014, 03:15:17 PM »
Cynical yes, but I just have to wonder what all this collection of data is really about
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« Reply #14454 on: December 08, 2014, 09:00:17 AM »
I really dislike the amount of personal information floating around and do my best to limit mine..I don't even like to respond to the zip code enquiry in many stores. Tracking is their problem, not mine.
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Re: The Library
« Reply #14455 on: December 08, 2014, 09:15:13 AM »
The one that bugs me is all the info they ask for when you register a product.  It's only too obvious what they're going to do with it.  I never fill in that part.  They don't need to know my age, sex, income, and interests to repair my washing machine.

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« Reply #14456 on: December 08, 2014, 09:37:31 AM »
They like to know who they are selling to so they can better gear the advertising to that segment of the population. What annoys me is the sites I go to trying to recommend a product based on what I bought before (like I am going to go out and buy another microwave just after I bought one) or looked at. I like to see ALL options not just what they THINK I might want.


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« Reply #14457 on: December 08, 2014, 01:41:23 PM »
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They like to know who they are selling to so they can better gear the advertising to that segment of the population.
Exactly, and I'm not interested in their advertising, plus having them sell my name to whoever to get even more advertising.

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« Reply #14458 on: December 09, 2014, 12:27:50 PM »
I am with you, Pat.  I appreciate the fact that they need information for their marketing department, but I never fill out those things.  I am something of an old stick-in-the-mud anyway, these days, as I just feel there is TOO MUCH personal information out there.  Color me unfamous (and note that is un and not in), anonymous, unknown, nearly invisible, and I LIKE IT THIS WAY!  I won't even do Facebook.

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« Reply #14459 on: December 10, 2014, 09:27:13 AM »
FYI -- an email we just received:

This email is notification of server maintenance which will occur sometime tonight, 9 December, 2014 to 12 December, 2014, between 9:00 pm and 2:00 am MST (UTC/GMT-7), for the server which hosts seniorlearn.org.

We expect the estimated downtime to be 30 to 45 minutes while the server is rebooted

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« Reply #14460 on: December 10, 2014, 04:58:46 PM »
If any of you are Fitzgerard and/or Great Gatsby fans, here is a review of a new book about Gatsby that you might enjoy.

http://historynewsnetwork.org/article/156605

Jean

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« Reply #14461 on: December 10, 2014, 07:56:07 PM »
And if you read "No Ordinary Time" by Doris Kearns Goodwin, you have a 10 week tv series to look forward to. I loved that book, a lot of history (FDR's third term: pulling us out of a depression and preparing us for war, with a lot about ER) that read like a novel.

http://deadline.com/2014/08/no-ordinary-time-limited-series-fox-stephen-frears-bob-cooper-821178/

Jean

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« Reply #14462 on: December 11, 2014, 03:58:50 PM »
And if you watched Ken Burn's "The Roosevelts" you may like reading this review by Peter Dreier and check out his kudos to Frances Perkins if you read the recent book about her. Note that Dreier's most recent book is "The 100 Greatest Americans of the 20th Century: A Social Justice Hall of Fame" (Nation Books, 2012). That sounds interesting, might make a good discussion book for our non-fiction group.

http://historynewsnetwork.org/article/157061

Frances Perkins book

http://www.amazon.com/Woman-Behind-New-Deal-Conscience-ebook/dp/B001UFP6QC/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1418332516&sr=1-1&keywords=frances+perkins+the+woman+behind+the+new+deal

Peter Dreier book

http://www.amazon.com/100-Greatest-Americans-20th-Century-ebook/dp/B0080K3GDK/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1418332426&sr=1-1&keywords=peter+dreier

Have you figured out that i'm cleaning out my email inbox??? :)

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« Reply #14463 on: December 12, 2014, 09:55:14 AM »

I really thought the Roosevelts was a wonderful program. I didn't see much of it, snatches walking through the room but my husband was just entranced with it and I learned more in passing thru the room than I ever knew. I would like to see the entire thing. I remember our Book Clubs at the Roosevelt Memorial in Washington, it was the most amazing thing, I think. We went at night. Somewhere I have a photo of Ella Gibbons standing in the  Bread Line, those huge bronze statues and Ella... I just looked up images of the Memorial and I see that apparently she was not the only person who got in those lines.

Thank you for those great recommendations!

What are you all hoping for as a  book gift this holiday season? Is there something on your Wish List?

Remember the old "Monkey Ward" catalogs? What fun they were, turning those colorful pages, and the SEARS, too! Those were the days. What bright colorful things to choose from.

I got one of the books on my wish list and I wish now I had not. Here's a warning if the reviews entice you, the book Can't We Talk  About Something Pleasant, which is supposedly about comedy in the face of  two parents aging  is not funny. At all.

I think it's the most depressing thing I ever read. It hits you as a child with aging parents and as that aging parent with children  at the same time. It's that sort of comic art and while I can relate to some of the issues it brings up as an only child,  yes there are SOME moments of humor in it...but  from the view of the parents, I can say with all honesty that I think the author would benefit from  therapy.

It is something like Maus, if you're familiar with that one or the one about the atomic bomb dropping in England and how the characters struggle to cope and come  out on top. It's one of those comic picture novels with illustrations drawn and  text in hand by the author.

I did skim to the end. There were two things in the book which make me think most seriously that this is not what it appears to be. I need to go back one day when I'm feeling particularly invincible and read all of the text, perhaps it's ameliorating and makes the rest easier to take. Perhaps the author needs therapy.

Do NOT put this on your Wish List, no matter what the reviews say,  unless you have an indefatigable sense of humor about decline.

On a brighter note, I also got Christmas Day in the Morning by Pearl Buck for my grandson and it's such a beautiful story, it's in a new edition book and the illustrations are wonderful, about a the son of a farmer who wants to do something for his daddy on Christmas. Beautiful little book.

Also got a picture book called Wenceslaus which is also a gorgeous thing for children,  and has a nice bio of the real Good King Wenceslaus,  it's an old book but beautifully done.

And a lovely  book called Blackie, which is about a horse who essentially stood still in a field in  California, progress in the form of a Mall Developer,   and how that made a difference in the community. It's a true story, the statue of the horse can be seen to this day. They also serve who only stand and wait type of thing.

Is there any book you are hoping to get for the holidays or does the instant book remove that type of list making this year?



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« Reply #14464 on: December 12, 2014, 11:41:14 AM »
Ginny, I have discovered that books/films described as dark humor or black comedy are NOT funny at all to me.  Most of them are just depressing and I avoid them!
Sally

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« Reply #14465 on: December 12, 2014, 12:16:04 PM »
I would wish for Ken Follett's WWII trilogy. 
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« Reply #14466 on: December 12, 2014, 12:28:10 PM »
It's important to me to get a book, but I don't have anything specific in mind.

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« Reply #14467 on: December 12, 2014, 12:33:22 PM »
Hi Ginny (Moorestown lit the Christmas tree at the Community House last night)

I didn't ask for a book for Christmas, but i did ask everyone to donate money to a book project. Amelia Fry had been interviewing Alice Paul for several decades and doing research for a book on AP's life. She died several years ago before writing the book. Jill Zahniser, an early board member of the Alice Paul Institute and now a professor of gender studies, has taken all of Amelia's research, and added her own, to write and publish a book "Alice Paul: Claiming Power". The book covers AP's early life up to the time of the passing of the suffrage amendment in 1920. She is now moving all those materials to the Alice Paul Institute at AP's homestead in Mt Laurel, NJ, to archive them for future researchers to use.

We needed at least $12,000 to move the materials from St Paul, where Jill now lives, to NJ and to digitize the tapes that Amelia had made of her interviews with Alice. So i asked everyone of my family to buy me no presents, but to donate money to API to have that happen. I had 3 wonderful afternoons this week with Jill Zahniser at API, refiling materials into archival folders and boxes. It was so hard not to stop and read all those interesting bits of information. But i live close by and can always go to API and read them.

So i feel like my Christmas presents will be alive for all future researchers of local Quakers, the English suffrage movement (AP while studying at the London Schl of Economics learned about civil disobedience and demonstrations at the knee of the Pankhurst mother and dgts who led the English movement), and the American suffrage movement from 1910-1920 when it passed. When you see pictures of the suffragists standing at the White House with their banners so Pres Wilson will see them as he drove into the White House, that was AP's idea and organization. She was arrested and jailed and force fed in both England and the U.S.

After 1920 she got 3 law degrees (she's the most educated women i've ever read about: BA in biology from Swarthmore, masters in social work from Columbia, PhD from U of Pa, 3law degrees)  so she could write an Equal Rights Amendment that could get passed in Congress and fought for 52 years to get Congress to pass it, which happened in 1972. Unfortunately only 35 of the 38 states needed for ratification did so. The ERA is still being introduced in every session of Congress.

She also helped Jewish refugees escaping from the Nazis during WWII, and worked with Eleanor Roosevelt on the UN Declaration of Human Rights, and fought to get "sex" added to the Civil Rights Act of 1964. I hope someone will right a book on her life from 1920 to the 70s.

Jean

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« Reply #14468 on: December 12, 2014, 01:32:47 PM »
Back from my two night, three day Savannah trip.. Done by my 55+ community, so it was slow enough to be fun.. We ate at the Pirate House ( touristy, but not bad food) and Mrs. Wilkes. Fun, but way way too much food.. Did a tour, took in a wonderful Christmas show in their restored movie and theatre combined and toured the area in our bus.. It was fun although for our poor Floridians, cold.
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« Reply #14469 on: December 12, 2014, 05:07:28 PM »
Sounds like fun trip, Steph.  Glad you got out.
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« Reply #14470 on: December 12, 2014, 07:36:50 PM »
We'll be in Savannah for a bit this month. But the temperatures will probably feel warm for us. The Pirates House looks like it must have been fun, Steph.

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« Reply #14471 on: December 13, 2014, 08:37:18 AM »
Jean, that sounds wonderful. You are  a tireless advocate for Alice Paul, I think YOU should have an award! I BET it's exciting reading those old files! Memories of Moorestown. I was thinking this morning about New Jersey.

My DIL and grandson and I  went to NYC for a week this summer, my first time back in the old stomping grounds for quite a while except to fly out of Newark,  and I enjoyed it SO much,  (and he wants to live there hahahaa) it was a magic trip. The new One World Trade Center (Freedom  Tower) and the Memorial and the fire station with the bronzes on it are SO impressive and moving. I had not been to "Ground Zero," very moving what they've done.

 The people were wonderful! (My grandson is absolutely the cutest thing and a major draw everywhere we went...strangers just came up and started talking). My DIL could not get over it. I had more seats offered to me on the subway than I have had in Italy, and that's a lot... (Do I look old? hahahaa) Apparently!  hahahaa

  That's the most conversations I've ever had in NYC, everybody was SO kind and helpful and just started chatting to us everywhere we went.  I was so proud of NYC.  We did not get to Moorestown, hopefully next time. Of course the bakery is gone. hahahahahaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

I'm proud of what you're doing, making a difference for generations to come!

Salan, and there's MORE! This week's issue of People Magazine has the 10 Best Books of the Year and guess what is #1? Guess? Can't We Talk About Something More Pleasant!  THEY say everybody should read this book? Smart women talking about smart things?

Woman is seriously and I'm not kidding in need of therapy.  Why do I say that? Is it the sketches of her mother as she lay dying? Who wants to be photographed or drawn on your death bed? Raise your hands.

Was it the photographs of her mom's cluttered study? Or her dad's? Who wants their clutter photographed for all eternity? This was a couple in their 90's, the mom physically unable and the father with Alzheimer's or dementia.

I mean...sure, let's all read it. Tell you one thing, I'm getting that  "spare room" cleaned out before this holiday is over, I can tell you that, tho I am quite sure neither of my sons would do something like that. This house is sagging here on the hilltop under the weight of accumulated STUFF. STUFF!!! It's a wonder it doesn't disappear like a sink hole in the ground.

I've still got the skirts I wore in high school. Maybe they will come back in fashion. Maybe somewhere some pencil thin anorexic  might like them. I expect I could not get a leg in them. Ridiculous!

Am loving everybody's wish lists, my goodness you all are widely read!  So many interests~!


Stephanie, did you do the Midnight in the Garden of Good and Evil tour/ spottings?



Steph

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« Reply #14472 on: December 13, 2014, 09:28:53 AM »
Did the Midnight tours some years ago.. Way too cold for the little trolleys this time..
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« Reply #14473 on: December 13, 2014, 01:28:45 PM »
Re:  Roz Chast --

Not just People Magazine, Ginny.  NY Times has it as on of the 10 Best also.

I can't believe this was a National Book Award finalist for non-fiction.  I just finished reading a few reviews in the Guardian, NY Times and elsewhere.  She worries about her inheritance?  Knowing how her parents lived I can't imagine what made her think there would ever be one.

This is supposed to be a funny book?  Lots of writers have written about their parents, most of them positively.  I don't really know about negative ones – Mommie Dearest?

Thanks for the heads up.  I'll be sure NOT to read it.

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« Reply #14474 on: December 14, 2014, 09:19:00 AM »
Considering all the commotion about Gone Girl last year and I read it and hated it.. I will believe anything on these lists. Trendy is the name of the game, not readable.
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« Reply #14475 on: December 14, 2014, 09:29:53 AM »
:) Well, again, some of us liked Gone Girl.

Pedln, I saw that!! And I read the Guardian article and they list those things and  STILL insist you should run out and buy it.

I'm not sure what one is supposed to take away from it. What I got out of it and the photos and the in extremis drawings, was " look at poor me, what I've had to deal with."

Instead  I felt sorry for the parents, and still do. Everybody is different, in reading taste and in other things, so I'm sure if I had not skimmed to the end and had read all of the handwritten text I would understand better.  But it was distasteful to me, shocking, even, and unlike a work of fiction, real.

Still it's a good thing for parents to know, maybe, sort of a head's up on how one's children, maybe only the  unlucky parents,  really feel about one's (inevitable or is there something new nobody told me about?) decline, which (unless again, somebody knows something I don't) will come to all  of us, including the cartoonist. Would really love to know what her mother would have thought of it.


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« Reply #14476 on: December 14, 2014, 09:56:11 AM »
On a happier more seasonal note, the kids and I went up to Biltmore House yesterday, an annual event, and did the candlelight tour at night, it was really spectacular. I love it at night, they've got all those fireplaces roaring, gas,  of course,  now but they are huge and wonderful, there were choirs and musicians everywhere, just a really joyful experience.  I even got to ride the 120 year old (next year) elevator, due to my decrepitude, and that brought back memories of other elevators which didn't stop right AT the floor, remember those? And the wire cages through which you could see the walls. They said the motor was the same motor, too.

They said that Biltmore employs 1800 employees, 2000 at Christmas, I believe it.

They are having an exhibition of Downton Abbey period costumes and I did see one on this tour, it's a costume that Maggie Smith wears with a sign explaining it and photo of her in it. Very interesting. I really like the house at night.  It also interested me that for those who need to take the elevator instead of the stairs, there is a film, a 15 minute film off one of the halls showing what is on the top floors (assuming you will not be climbing the steps) and the basement.  The interesting thing was the explanations. That's new, to me.




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« Reply #14477 on: December 14, 2014, 10:01:01 AM »
Ginny, I don't know why anyone who has lived through the experience of dealing with aging parents and especially one with dementia would want to read that book.

By mid January I will be joining you as a person from South Carolina as we are moving to North Augusta to be where our son lives.  It is time as we are becoming the aged parents and may one day need a little help from him.  

It has been years but I have never forgotten the tour of the Biltmore House.  Downton Abbey should resume for a few episodes probably next month and I am looking forward to it.  I just checked it the new season will start on January 4th on PBS for season 5.  
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« Reply #14478 on: December 14, 2014, 11:12:15 AM »
Ginny, your tour of the Biltmore sounds so interesting!  We did tour the Breakers in Newport several years ago, but (interesting as it was) it doesn't compare to the Biltmore.

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« Reply #14479 on: December 14, 2014, 01:19:31 PM »
This being the 150th Anniversary of many of the Civil War experiences The Library of America has been featuring stories about the time most often written at the time by those affected or participating in the events - this week is the anniversary of Sherman's March to the Sea and here is this weeks short story written at the time.

http://links.loa.org/YesConnect/HtmlMessagePreview?a=LC4v8esGlVhRwYGjekscw8

or here is a link to the PDF of the story without including the engraving

http://www.loa.org/images/pdf/Mallard_Looters.pdf
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