hats, When I was teaching we had annual workshops we had to attend, teaching us what was and was not appropriate, and what was unlawful for us to do with students. Now, years later, I still teach nightly CCD classes once a week, and I am required to be certified through VIRTUS, an insurance program the Catholic Diocese has for ALL teachers, janitors, coaches, volunteer parents, anyone who enters the school, that will be in contact with the students in some capacity. We have to be finger printed, a background check, and must take the online awareness class in order to get a certification. We have to be re-certified every four years.
I speak with males who used to be active in helping out, who have decided they no longer want to put themselves at risk of an inappropriate charge being lodged against them, so they no longer want to be involved with students or coaching. I personally feel, any adult who would even consider anything inappropriate with a student, be it in talk or actions, is a character flaw in them, not in the system, but the system must provide every possible tool to protect the children, their schools, sports programs, etc., from people like this. Our church recently had to dismiss and report, a very involved male, who was found to be texting, and trying to get involved personally in male students lives. This guy was so admired for all his volunteer coaching, and youth group work, for years at our church and school, it was a shock to learn of his behavior. My daughter when in a public high school, had a gym teacher who would make the girls run around the gym, and then make sexual comments about how their,"T & As" looked while running. He was later convicted of having relationships with female students. We can't ever be too careful, and we must educate our children of all the signs and actions of inappropriate behavior. I have to teach a VIRTUS lesson/video each year to my CCD 3rd graders, along with the 4th and 5th grade classes. It is very informative, teaching them the awareness of inappropriate behavior, and knowing its okay to report it to their parents, teacher, principal or policeman. I don't feel this is something new we have to deal with, it's is something we are finally, bringing to the forefront, and dealing with it. Teachers must also know their social media is not their private property, it is "social" and can be seen by many, beyond their private settings. One more lesson to be taught....