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« Reply #21080 on: May 27, 2020, 05:03:58 PM »


The Library


Our library  is open 24/7; the welcome mat is always out.
Do come in from daily chores and spend some time with us.




Yey Rosemarykaye....obviously I don't live in the UK any more but I do so agree with everything you said... I didn't realise till recently that Cummings was behind Brexit, what a creep.  Boris is a buffoon.
Of-course we can't comment here on US politics so I won't!

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« Reply #21081 on: May 27, 2020, 10:45:25 PM »
WOW!  Just reading about all the remedies, and dyes in the medications, home grown, holistic, herbal, oils pharmaceutical, etc., give me the shivers.  I have a friend who sells the oils and swears by them, yet the other day, she was on Facebook asking those who use healing oils, what else besides what she is already using, (meant for migraines) could she try because she was having extreme headaches and panic attacks.  The response was so confusing and lengthy, I stopped trying to make any sense from it.  Bottom line I took away from that post is.... obviously the oils don't really work. 

Oh well, I am someone who generally trusts my physician, since he is the medical expert to prescribe what is best for me, except for when it came time for my hysterectomy. I was just about to turn fifty years old, when my doctor and I decided it was best to have a hysterectomy.  My friend told me not to let my doctor put me on hormone replacement therapy, she recommended I read a book called, What Your Doctor May NOT Tell You About Menapause (The Breakthrough book on Natural Hormone Balance) by Dr. John R. Lee.  I read the book, then asked my ob/gyn doctor if she had ever read it.  She said, no.  I told her it is a book she should read not only as a physician, but as a woman who will one day be faced with the decision on if she will take estrogen replacement. 

Long story short, I had my hysterectomy, my female doctor did the surgery and then left on vacation.  A big tall burly male partner walks into my room, and immediately says he will begin my hormone replacement medication.  I told him I read this book and I will begin with the smallest dosage of the patch, and wean myself off, using Arbonne natural progesterone cream, because women have more than enough estrogen in their environment and consumed in their body, there is no need to risk cancer in taking synthetic estrogen replacement.  I wish I had a camera, because the look on his face was priceless.  He balked and insisted I follow his replacement therapy.  I said, absolutely not!  We lose progesterone, when we go through the menopause process, and he needs to be more aware of safer methods to approach with his female patients after hysterectomies.  He walked out of my room as if he were God, and I was planning my own death sentence.  Needless to say, I did just as the book suggested, I weaned myself off of the estrogen patch in a few months, continued my progesterone cream, and had NO side effects like sleeplessness, mood swings, hot flashes, etc., all my older sisters said they went through.  I do believe every person has to decide for themselves what is the best treatment for them, just be very informed in making that decision. 

I recommend every female around the age of eighteen, and beyond read this book. It does not just deal with hormone replacement, but also menstruation. 

Rosemarykaye, I had to giggle at your opinions and thoughts on the leaders of the UK.  We here in the U.S.A.  are dealing with our own quandary, with the covid19 virus, and the media and politicians trying to place the blame on our president. I am a political junkie, but I rarely will discuss politics with anyone other than my hubby and son.  It's just too frustrating, because no friendship or family relationship should ever be ended due to politics, and yet I have experienced it in both. 

We had a great time at the pool party/cookout at my son's house. I must say there were more people there than I had expected, twenty-six that I counted.  I told my hubby I probably would not have gone, had I known this ahead of time.  We did self distance, and stayed outside for the most part.  Our state has loosened the guidelines, and almost everything has re opened except day cares, and schools.  I did see a post on Facebook a friend and his son went to Planet Fitness today.  Our Catholic Diocese has set this week end/ Pentecost to be the opening of our churches here in Ohio.  My church is under construction, so Mass will be held in Kotz Hall, a building we usually have our social gatherings.  They have posted the guidelines and procedures to follow coming in, and leaving and what to do during the Mass. No shaking hands, no hugging, no gathering around to talk, chairs will be six feet apart, and no Holy Communion given by mouth.  I have not decided if I am feeling comfortable enough to attempt going, but I suppose I will decide by Sunday.  They have added an extra Mass time, to accommodate smaller attendance.

I bought some beautiful annuals today for the front yard, and the patio flower bed.  Does gardening ever end?  My perennials are all blooming, and the pool is finally open.  Here are a few pics. 






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« Reply #21082 on: May 28, 2020, 05:39:05 AM »
Bellamarie - your garden looks absolutely stunning, so beautiful. And how lovely to have a pool.  I have managed to start some annuals from seeds - the morning glory that you recommended are popping up now, also more marigolds.  Unfortunately I have not been quite so successful with the pansies and parsley, probably owing to the greenhouse disaster - but you win some, you lose some in gardening.  And no, it never does end!

I really wanted to start building the pond, but my husband is now too worried that our annoying neighbours will complain and says we can’t do it. I personally think it is up to us what we do in our garden but I can see I am not going to win this one. I so want to move somewhere with no neighbours!

Re politics - actually I am much the same as you in not discussing them with people unless I know we broadly agree. I hate arguments.  The thing with Dominic Cummings is that probably less than 1% of people - and fewer than that in Scotland - think he should stay. He is universally loathed, even by many Tory MPs, and like I said, the very worst thing for me and most people is that he is unelected yet appears to have more power than our elected representatives (of any party.). Apart from the subject of him, I really only talk to my family about politics. Luckily we all ‘sing from the same hymn book’, as my husband’s work jargon would put it. My son is much less interested than the rest of us, and winds me up about my strong beliefs on occasion, but in a jokey way, and even he too has no time for Cummings. My husband, daughters and mother all agree about all the main things, thank goodness. When the first referendum on Scottish independence took place some time ago now, it was quite funny - many of my friends voted for it, as we did, but we were all too afraid of offending one another to say anything, so none of us knew if anyone agreed with us. Afterwards, it gradually came out and we were delighted to be able to discuss it!   I do have a few acquaintances who were dead against it - we know each others’ views and respect them, so we do not discuss it - though I did get slightly riled with one of my friends when she said she would never vote for Nicola Sturgeon (our First Minister) ‘because she has no dress sense’. This friend, by the way, is a highly educated medical doctor. I just laughed at her and she was not offended, we are still very good friends.

I’m afraid I agree with you about oils and things - I would love them to work but for me they just don’t. I do trust my doctor. I use French calendula oil on my face, and as a moisturiser for very dry skin it is brilliant, but as a medication I would not personally rely on oils.

And that’s very interesting about HRT. It is not routinely given here, in fact it is now hard to get a doctor to prescribe it. I have never had it, nor, so far as I know, has any of my friends. I did not have bad symptoms with the menopause, though I appreciate that many women do. My GP at the time gave me a list of alternative remedies that I could buy from the health food store. I did not bother but a friend bought most of them - some very expensive - and sadly none worked for her. I do get annoyed when women’s magazines go on about HRT and suggest that women are just being silly if they don’t ask for it. For one thing, as you say, the risks are well known, and for another, like I said, it would be like trying to get blood out of a stone to get it from most GPs. I think these writers live in the rarefied world of private medicine, which - in the UK - probably means you can demand more or less what you want. Although my husband’s job does provide private cover for hospital stays, physio, etc, it does not cover routine GP visits - very few people have that as it is unbelievably expensive and of course we can access the GP on the NHS. I see a lot of complaining about people having to wait weeks for GP appointments but I have never experienced that here in Scotland - maybe the system is just more pressurised in England, with the larger population there. My current GP practice in Edinburgh is excellent, and even has very nice receptionists - the breed who are notoriously difficult to deal with in many places! Same with my NHS dentist - lovely practice, lovely dentists and great receptionist too. I am lucky.

Finally finished my review of the book about Lady Grange, who was exiled to St Kilda in the 1730s, and now I must get on with the next one.

Rosemary

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« Reply #21083 on: May 28, 2020, 11:16:42 AM »
Rosemary, Hahaha WE in the US  can talk bully politicians,  just change the name, the rest applies,  but I won't start.

 Bedset? Love it, new word, there was a bath ensuite though. I have to say that THAT is the way to go to college, not 6 in a two room "suite" hahaha like we did.

More pretty garden photos, Bellamarie! Thank you, and how organized and well kept your garden looks!!  I am envious as I've not got anything like that control. I especially like your daisies.

I'll share a photo too, but  I can't get it all in the picture, it's a bank of hydrangeas, at least 20 feet long, maybe more.  I'm standing on the ground in front of them, so you can see the height, and the best part is it blooms on both sides,  so as you come up the drive you can see it on the left  as you drive along next to it and then you can also have the same view from the house on the other side. And there are other plants there too not blooming yet, you can just see the leaves of an althea  (Rose of Sharon) on the left in front of the bank  not yet in bloom. Can't imagine why it looks beaten down by the rain since it's rained every single day for....ever. :)



I can't get over all the growth here because of the rain. It was 91 degrees the other day, stultifying humidity and I've got geraniums, George Washington's Ivy,  ( they sell it at Mt. Vernon) and Vanilla and Strawberry  hydrangeas rooting just siting on the terrace (in some shade) in seed flats.  I never heard of that. It's not normal for us, either.

It's like a jungle here.

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« Reply #21084 on: May 28, 2020, 03:00:44 PM »
Bellamarie is that Azalea's growing next to the fence - the magenta color flowered bush. I bet you even have Rhododendron growing in your area. We have to work so hard to keep an azalea much less a Rhododendron that both do best in acid soil where as we are on a limestone mesa - you cannot dig more than a foot and it is rock and so we are really digging out flowerpots in the rock for our gardens. The white fence and white cafe set gives your garden such a nice crisp look.

And yes, Rosemary with Ginny agreeing, talking politics is like backing up into a stand or prickly pear cactus. I too have lost friends and this is only within the last few years - I was loosing family but after a monthly happy card for nearly a year and a few chit chat emails with my saying we can be family and not agree with each other over of all things our politics - and since my family is now even separated by different religious beliefs or non-beliefs we can be caring without ever even broaching the landmine subjects of politics or religion. OF course I can shake my head - and don't they realize - but then I am sure they are seeing life from a different perspective and for sure we are not sharing a common history - we are all so scattered living hundreds of miles from each other - I do believe the surrounding community think makes a difference -

I also see how folks assume intent based on how writers and journalists want to or maybe they are using their experiences where they live, to explain people from various areas that they know little about. It's a big country... A year or so ago there was a map going around that showed just the state of Texas would incorporate all of France, Germany, all the British Isles, Italy and still have space to add some of the other nations of Europe and we are only one of fifty one states. So of course there are different attitudes and opinions. 

Plus I did notice that newspapers, even though from the same organization, do not print the same news or headline or even include some of the news stories in the same way all over the nation - most printed news is regionalized and for sure I notice on TV our local news expresses the national scene very differently than the national news programs - and so no wonder we have differing opinions.

All to say that at least folks are aware and have opinions - oh I am sure some are simply following the drama and attitudes of friends however, I see more voicing a connection to what is happening - My mantra is 'follow the money' and as a result i have learned more about money, economics, differences between state and national income, trade, the world bank, national banks and their international influences, on and on. It has been a real education that is affecting my views on political groups and there is still so much more to learn.

For instance I was shocked to learn that personal taxes was a drop in the ocean to the nations income - at least 100 times more income flows into the national coffers through trade - not much written about exactly how but that is one of the many inquiries and curiosities I've got going along with the economics of development - developments that use loans from international banks or the world bank and how those hooks influence the governess of a nation.

Did you ever think to ask what bank does the city's business were you live and then realize members of that bank are on different advisory committees that influence the local politics?  I need to stop - for now, believe it or not following the money is me waxing poetic.   

I remember Monarch of the Glen shown for several seasons on our local PBS station - the shots of the estate showing what appeared to be red deer with bellowing bucks were wonderful - the vegetation was almost garden like even in the woodlands - truly an Eden. I remember the movie, in fact two about the Marigold Hotel in India with Judy Dench and one of my favorites Bill Nighy - did not know there was a series on TV or on youtube -

Rather than a movie once I get into youtube for entertainment I seem to find all the bits I can find with Patrick Bruel, the French singer - I like his work as an older man even more than the shows when he was younger. He is really a performer rather than simply a singer and his many concerts, how the audience sings along I find so uplifting.  here he is joined by two friends at a more formal and small concert that harken back to his Algerian roots when his family being Jewish fled Algeria during the purge of the French in the 1930s

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sY1324yf-Eo
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« Reply #21085 on: May 28, 2020, 05:48:25 PM »
Thank you all for the compliments of my gardens.  You all who garden, know exactly how much work goes into getting these results.  It is endless!
Barb, yes, that is the Azalea bush. It has tripled in size the past couple of years.  Anything I plant in the back flourishes. 
Ginny your hydrangeas are absolutely beautiful!  Mine are the Annabelle, which looks like huge snowballs.  They will bloom mid June - Sept.  My Rose of Sharon is just now turning green, the birds love to hang out in it.  I just gave a friend a pot of my daisies for her yard.  I split them and put them all over, they multiply and grow just about in any type of soil.
Rosemarykaye, you are going to love those Morning Glories, but it took mine a long time to grow and bloom. They went crazy once they did, long about July/August.  Here is a pic of them.  The vine was just enormous.  I may start another one this year.  I did them in pots two years ago.


Rosemarykaye, you are lucky your family as you put it, ‘sing from the same hymn book’. lol I love it!  My hubby and I agree on almost everything where politics are concerned, and my oldest son is not aligned with his wife, and would not voice his opinions, for fear of her getting upset.  Well, in the past few years, he has come to find he is no longer going to stay silent about being a conservative.  It is what he feels aligns with his faith, and moral values, so he will not be ashamed of it.  I was extremely proud of him, because no matter what your political beliefs are, you should always have the right and respect, to have them.  Out of seven of us siblings, I am the only conservative.  I am either what some call the black sheep of the family, or an independent thinker.  Either way I am okay. I just don't want to lose any more family or friends due to our differences, because ultimately, we should be able to have relationships, regardless of our views.  I do tend to use the phrase, "We can agree to disagree." lol At one point I told my sister who I am very close to, while she was going on and on, I said, "We need to stop discussing this, we are not going to change either's mind, and I love you too much, for us to let this cause a rift between us." Took her a few days to let that sink in, but agreed with me, we are not going to talk politics any more. I mean she loves flowers, and I love flowers....... so we can talk about flowers!  lol

I am so excited, my Dr. Seuss fabric I ordered came today.  I am anxious to begin making the children's masks for my granddaughter's preschool students for this August.  So far the CDC is "recommending" students wear a mask when they return to school.  I'll have them all ready for her by then.

Stay safe & stay healthy!

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« Reply #21086 on: May 29, 2020, 12:32:12 AM »
Barb,  Merci pour le lien vers le concert c'était magnifique!
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« Reply #21087 on: May 29, 2020, 02:31:14 AM »
content que tu aimes ça - here is another of my favorites with the two Patricks - Patrick Bruel and Patrick Fiori, known for his role as the knight in Notre Dame de Paris

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=roy5PIonrPc&list=RDkOWZODlQZVE&index=2

and just one more - from his concert tour celebrating his 60th Birthday

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Il8r6Ev-zm8&list=RDkOWZODlQZVE&index=17
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« Reply #21088 on: May 30, 2020, 06:55:22 AM »
Looks like our library is kind of opening up beginning June 1. They are doing a "contactless pick-up" only  service for books on hold, and then only by appointment.

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« Reply #21089 on: May 30, 2020, 07:02:02 AM »
Frybabe - at least that’s a step in the right direction!  No sign of our libraries doing anything of the sort, but unfortunately they are just not valued here as they should be. To reserve a book you have to pay, so I am not sure how many people will have done that, most of us just go in and browse.

Our recycling collections did at least resume yesterday. A friend told me he would need a fork lift truck to get his bin from the garden to the curb side!

Rosemary

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« Reply #21090 on: May 30, 2020, 11:01:17 AM »
Wow Rosemary never imagined the garbage pickup would stop the recycling - as it is our recycle bin is so monstrously large I can hardly handle getting it out to the curb but at least we continued to have the pickup every other week - interesting how various areas of the world handled this virus.

We too frybabe - and as you say in phases - curbside pick up and returns this week with online requests continuing - then next week I think it is a certain number at a time that would represent 25% capacity -

Here the roads are filling up again as are the restaurants and bars and the furor over the police death of George Floyd has chased off the front page anything about Covid-19. Here yesterday about 2 dozen, actually mostly white folks marched themselves to the steps of the capitol and as one of the Black men interviewed said, it was heartening that so many honked horns in agreement or gave a thumbs up - and so no riot taking place here - as to the masks - very few are wearing masks, no one from the group that marched to the capitol but then with temps in the 90s it is too hot - actually since we know the sun kills a virus in a minute or less I do not see that much risk any longer at least in our area of the world. There was an increase last week that they attributed to families gathering for Easter and Mother's Day but even with the increase of 68 they were not hospitalized.

Bastrop county had an increase of 12 and they did have 1 death making their total deaths 3. Again, attributed to family gatherings - our area has a huge Mexican American population that when families gather there are 35 - 40 - sometimes as many as 60 all partying in a backyard with a few in the family always playing their instrument, everyone brings something to eat. New to the area folks not used to it call the police who join in and dance a bit before leaving, Spring is the time of year that most Mexican American families gather to visit and honor the elder grandmothers which means a party.

Watching the 2 part series on the Stuarts never put it together that the Black Plague was rampant in the 1600s when the colonists were still settling places like Maryland and Connecticut and the '65 and '66 return in London of the plague is when the English had defeated the Dutch establishing New York and New Jersey. I wonder if there are a stash of letters archived in some library or antique collection that the correspondence includes talk of the plague or the changes after Cromwell - I do know there are many old ballads that talk of Bonnie Prince Charlie, the last of the Stuarts to attempt regaining the throne. Maybe it is those ballads rather than letters that gave folks here the 'pertinent' news. 

Well Sun today, rain again tomorrow and for the following two days - at least it is June and so no cold will come with the rain - but till I heal I'm not looking forward to the pain that gets worse when it's raining - I did finally have a great night's sleep last night so hopefully it won't be too much longer and I can start to do things again without every little thing sending me to the sofa or bed.
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« Reply #21091 on: May 30, 2020, 11:26:26 AM »
huh come to think of it - there was the childhood ditty that we sing songed when we skipped rope - looked it up and it was published in 1642

Oh, the grand old Duke of York,
He had ten thousand men;
He marched them up to the top of the hill,
And he marched them down again.

Only we used to say 'He marched them up the top a the hill - and marched them down again.'
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« Reply #21092 on: May 30, 2020, 11:58:34 AM »
Fascinating one minute video (scroll down)  of the  relationship between common nursery rhyme and history: http://www.rhymes.org.uk/the_grand_old_duke_of_york.htm

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« Reply #21093 on: May 30, 2020, 03:05:14 PM »
ah so it was about an older time in English history and not about James coming from York - I wonder if kids still play using these old rhymes - although seldom see kids jumping rope or bouncing a ball using their leg to go over - but we did and that means this rhyme continued to be used for 500 years -

With all the advantages the web sure changed our culture along with the changes in curriculum that took place in the early 70s - only read recently that many of the older books (except Jane Austin) are no longer popular is because the sentence structure and use of vocabulary was strengthened by the study of Latin -

I say except Jane Austin because for sure her books are written in the same mode of many a nineteenth century author but some how they remain popular - I wonder if part of it has to do with her female characters do not seem as frivolous and less 'caged' compared to so many of the nineteenth and earlier female characters. Why do you think Jane Austin's books are so popular? 
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« Reply #21094 on: May 30, 2020, 04:21:29 PM »
 Sorry, I didn't pay any attention to that part,  (and I think there are many candidates for the  Duke of York title there) but  the little videos are so fun. The first one is 1 minute, I never knew that about Mary Mary quite contrary!   And at the bottom there's another one, the blue band with a silver moon is  a really CUTE trivia quiz, can you identify the nursery rhyme?

If you hadn't put in the Duke of York I'd have missed that one, but as I had just read it,  I was able to go  on but missed a couple of those at the end.

Thanks to my mother and her reading to me  of Mother Goose, I did get the Elizabeth I one on the pilgrimage.  I missed the cannon entirely.  Such fun. If you miss one, you can hit the return arrow and try again.

And,  like you, I can recite most of the ones in the little Trivia Quiz I have heard of.



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« Reply #21095 on: May 30, 2020, 05:43:29 PM »
ah ha - had to scroll down to find the clip you were talking about - I had not heard the ring around the rosy was associated with the plague but it makes sense - now Mary I had heard about but not the reference to her ways of torture.
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« Reply #21096 on: May 30, 2020, 09:07:55 PM »
My oh my - I never knew this - it is amazing what determination can accomplish... just have to share this - Did y'all know this bit of history?

"In 1867 one of the best engineers of his time, John Roebling, decided to build a spectacular suspension bridge that would connect Brooklyn with Manhattan in New York. As there was no bridge of such magnitude ever built before, engineers around the world said, “Building a bridge of this type is impossible. Forget this idea.”

Despite the opinions of colleagues, John Roebling wholeheartedly believed that he could build the bridge of his dreams. The only person who shared John’s vision was his son Washington, who at that time was an upcoming engineer. Together they created a detailed plan, hired a crew and started working on the bridge with a lot of enthusiasm.

A few months after a tragic accident at the site in 1869, John died and Washington took charge of the entire project. Fate was so cruel that shortly after Washington took charge of the bridge, as a result of construction-related decompression sickness, his body was completely paralyzed. He wasn’t able to walk or talk and the only body part that he could move was one finger.

The experts who said before the project started that building a bridge of this type was impossible now said, “Remember how we said that starting this project was totally unreasonable? John and Washington Roebling are crazy fools!”

Most people would certainly give up at this point but Washington, although handicapped, was determined to accomplish building the bridge, even though he didn’t know how yet. One day an idea came to Washington while he was lying on his hospital bed: “Hey, the only thing I can do is move one finger. I will develop a code to communicate with my wife by moving a single finger!”

Thus Washington developed a code that allowed him to communicate with his wife, Emily, by tapping with his finger on her arm. For 13 years, Emily interpreted Washington’s instructions for engineers and helped to supervise the construction until the bridge was finally completed in 1883. "

Thus the Brooklyn Bridge in New York City that connected Manhattan and Brooklyn. It is one of the oldest suspension bridges in United States and a first steel-wire suspension bridge in the world.



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« Reply #21097 on: May 30, 2020, 11:04:39 PM »
My heart is just breaking seeing all the destruction going on around the country.  The injustice of killing George Floyd, the way that police officer did is just horrible, and to see the other cops stood and did nothing to stop it, is abhorrent, but this in no longer about George Floyd.  It is dishonoring the memory of him.  How does burning down a city, torching, and looting businesses solve anything?  Martin Luther King Jr. would weep to see this.  Outside forces are escalating this, and I just don't know when or how it will end. 

As if the covid19 virus didn't have me already on my last nerve, now we have riots breaking out everywhere.  If the virus is still a threat, can you imagine the outbursts that will take place in the next fourteen days.  I think it's safe to say, the reopening of our country is no longer in question.  They have just gone beyond Phase 1, 2, 3 and any other phase they intended.  I fear the military may have to be called into some cities to stop this violence. 

Gosh, I just don't know how to settle down with all of this. Please pray for our country.
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« Reply #21098 on: May 30, 2020, 11:48:47 PM »
I know - this is when the Serenity Prayer is my saving grace - I cannot do anything to change others - all I can do is share my love to those I know and pray - Today it seems by many that prayer is nothing but voodoo however, there are too many stories of prayer making a difference - I know I've received strength from prayers -

Interesting, even Barr says there are groups behind this and local mayors say the behavior is from those who do not live in their cities - it was easy to light a match to this chaos with many having been sequestered in less then ideal conditions, many having lost their job and the stress of not knowing how they can provide - but also, jobs and attending school brings an order to life that does not promote feelings running wild where as,  the past 3 months all that order and social norm was missing - only daily fear and stress in often cramped quarters and so this chaos had a lot of pent up frustration behind it...

I remember reading a few years ago a book on crowd mentality that actually replaces individual thinking - I'm hoping that full churches tomorrow will bring another crowd mentality that can if nothing else, balance the out of control chaotic behavior being drummed up. We too in Austin have had over night folks descend and what yesterday was a city supported action today became an unruly mob stopping traffic on I35 the major interstate that runs from Mexico to Minneapolis on to its end in Duluth - Police have their hands full - the instigators are very brazen and then the locals follow. At least in this part of the country the police still have horses - it is difficult to take down a policemen when he is on horseback - however I do understand one of those horses knocked down a female demonstrator in Houston. No serious injury. News trying to make it appear to be the rider's fault who was blowing his whistle that in this part of the country we all know means police on horseback coming through.

Yes, it is difficult to focus on a book or a film - the neighborhood group has focused all day on the space lift off - Thank goodness PBS on Saturday night is full of British and Australian programing. Been catching up on a couple of books I started and were over 65% read - I found 6 such books on my Kindle alone never mind several hardbacks. Reminds me of cleaning out a closet and finding all these half finished projects or memorabilia from the past that stops the cleaning out as a stitch pattern is finished that ends up taking more than the projected half hour.

Say a few prayers Bellemarie - we never know the rhyme or reason but my experience is every thing that I ever thought was the worst thing that could happen turned out to provide a new path that I never could have imagined.   
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« Reply #21099 on: May 31, 2020, 12:22:47 AM »
Doubt that there will be full churches tomorrow, Barb.  They haven't said that here.  I know there were disruptions to traffic on 75 here in Dallas, brazen people walking across lanes of traffic, stopping cars head-on, throwing milk on cars.  Someone had obviously told the protestors that milk would help if they got tear-gassed. Milk company here has donated thousands of gallons of milk which was being given away to the families in need, along with boxes of food. Hope they weren't using that donated milk for their "purposes".

It's terrible in California.  Northern states too. And we don't have enough on our minds with the Cvirus.  And I don't think for a minute that having been cooped up in quarantine had one iota to do with the protests/riots/civil disobedience.   
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« Reply #21100 on: May 31, 2020, 01:58:21 AM »
Tomereader, I don't think being cooped up has anything to do with this.  But who knows.

Many cities that are arresting people say they do not live in their state.  So who is funding transportation for all of these people?  I think we all have our own theories.  The policeman was arrested and charged, so why continue, night after night.  The entire country was standing against the injustice, the president acted swiftly calling for immediate investigations, Minneapolis says this was the fastest arrest made in history for something of this magnitude.  So why is this continuing? 

I just saw on Facebook a Target store not even one mile from my house was being looted, there was a post where one of the looters were on her cell phone tagging all her friends letting them know to come and get stuff.  They were responding no way, you are all going to get arrested.  The police were coming so she ended the convo.  With social media and cell phones, this shows people can be assembled in minutes.  I think the military are going to have to be brought in to put an end to this.  Our Mayor went out and marched with protesters earlier today, and talked with the protesters, hoping to show his solidarity, understanding and willingness to listen to them. 

Barb, I am praying fervently.  It's a bit ironic that today, is Pentecostal Sunday.  The beginning of the church.  I do agree, so many in this generation are not faith guided.  It is all about instant self gratification, lawlessness, and no respect for authority.  I am all for peaceful protest, and there are those who think they are showing up for just that, but once they get with the crowds, the violent mentality of those who are there to cause major harm to the police and cities, or to take advantage of the looting, takes over.

Barb, a new path....it's going to take a very long time for our country to recover from this.  Businesses were already hurting by the virus, now they no longer have a store to open. A post office was burnt to the ground last night in Minn. It's as if some were told to go in and destroy as much as possible, to hurt the rebuilding of the economy.  As badly as our president does not want to interfere, and let the mayors and governors be in charge of their states, he may have to at some point call a national emergency, and bring in the military.  What ever way he decides to handle this, he will be hit by the media and others criticizing him.  Hard to believe today we made history, sending two men into space with no help from Russia, for the first time, and yet it's hard to celebrate such a huge feat, while cities are burning.   

Well, I am going to bed, and pray this ends soon.  Rosemarykaye, I just may need to come bunk with you in Scotland for a bit.  lol 

Ya'll stay safe & stay healthy!
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« Reply #21102 on: May 31, 2020, 09:34:23 PM »
 I've always loved that poem, Dana, thank you for putting it in here. I keep thinking of lines of it.

Thank you,  Bellamarie, we have some of those hydrangeas, too. When they finish turning white I'll put in a photo.

After watching  the news tonight and the films of destruction all day long,  I needed a break, so  walked outside to such delightful new  sights I  thought I'd share some here.  Many of these  were once left for dead or written off, so to speak, and which show the strength of the plant world to survive and prosper with a little help, which I took as a positive message in such negative times.

 Here is a  Reclaimed From the Dead Cinco de Mayo. My DIL gave it  to me a couple of years ago and it pretty much died in a pot into a couple of pitiful dead stalks out of neglect, and was about to be on the scrap heap when I decided to reclaim all these beds, and here he is, in a new bed with great soil,  literally covered with flowers (it's a floribunda) and spreading out everywhere this evening:




Here is a flower which so reminds me of the white rose of York, but it's another one reclaimed from a dead pot in the garden which last year bloomed once about 4 inches from the ground and never bloomed again. He was literally about to be plowed under and, replanted in good soil  with lots of water,  absolutely is  taking over the new rose bed and is covered with these gorgeous flowers. I think it's some kind of white landscape rose? His label  is long gone. I've never liked single roses until now.



Here's a 2020 mistake. I bought these "sun" impatiens which don't like the sun, so what to do with them? I have no control over most of the beds right now. I  just plunked them in this planter and they do seem happy,

Shelia's Perfume, which I first saw in  Britain, has finally bloomed. It's got 12 buds on it and they are not all blooming at the same time, so it's a lovely long show, and just today I began to smell its glorious fragrance. I've waited a long time to see this and each bloom is prettier than the last (I think it's in shock over the sudden 90 degree days after the monsoon). I hope it makes it.


Here is another salvaged plant, it's one of two " supposed dwarf" gardenia plants which were on the trash heap at WalMart a couple of years ago,  they were literally being thrown away, about 4 inches of bare stalks. And a couple of leaves each. Everybody said oh they won't grow. We are keeping them to about 5 feet with a lot of difficulty and effort and for some reason for the first year they are also blooming in the spring which to me is a shock and a sign of good beginnings to come: 

 The bush is covered with these gorgeous blooms  and are placed so that you can't miss the fragrance going in or out of the house.  It seems every day after these flooding rains that nature produces another beautiful result  or flower I had given up on or forgotten, and the sight of them is very welcome right now.

Book wise, I've got a great new book called SouthEast Home Landscaping which is full of landscape designs and plant suggestions,  and I hope in future  to imitate  one of the flower borders I've taken photos of while traveling with similar plants which do well in the south.

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« Reply #21103 on: May 31, 2020, 10:14:58 PM »
Beautiful flowers.

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« Reply #21104 on: May 31, 2020, 10:26:37 PM »
Oh Ginny, these flowers are beautiful, I can't even imagine they were dead, and came back to life, and have such healthy looking blooms.  You've truly given me a bit of hope, where I have been getting so down in the past few days.

I've done really well with staying upbeat, through the covid19 virus.  Making the masks, planting my flowers, playing Words With Friends, and my Cashman Slots have kept my mind busy.  But, just as I could see a light at the end of the virus tunnel, we enter this chaos, mayhem and violence, that has been going on for days now.  As you all know, I am a Christian person, I have always turned to prayer in good, bad, and ugly days.  Today, our church re opened for Pentecost Sunday, and I chose not to attend, instead my hubby and I watched the live-streaming of our Mass.  I have to admit, I think I was hoping for a homily to really lift me from this sadness that wants to take over me.  Didn't happen.  My twelve year old grandson, Zak facetimed me today, and was a bit down.  He is used to spending the night with me and Papa, and now that his school is officially done with (online), he is really missing our time together.  I told him in a couple of weeks maybe we can try a sleepover.  In the meantime, maybe we could to a cook out again.  That seemed to lift his spirits. 

Ginny, your flowers coming to life, showing the beauty of what was little hope, has given me that lift.  Thank you for sharing the pictures. 

We have not heard from Jonathan for a very long time.  Is there any way someone can contact him to make sure he is okay? 

Barb, I do hope you are doing better with your injury.

Okay, I am going to shut the TV off, since I can't concentrate on anything, and refuse to watch any more of these riots, and I am going to have a nice bowl of praline/caramel ice cream, and read my book The Islander. 

You all take care.
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« Reply #21105 on: June 01, 2020, 09:43:21 AM »
I'm so glad you liked them, nlhome and bellmarie! I keep thinking about  the lilies of the field.

It's a funny thing what simple things mean sometimes. I love hearing the birds in the trees when I step outside now. When my grandson was small and stayed with us so much, we'd always have a dialogue with the mockingbirds. :)   This slowdown has made me appreciate some things  a lot more, which I guess I should have, all along.  I guess this is why cities plant parks.

When this is all over,  and it will be, I hope I don't get so caught up in what I'm doing otherwise,  which I love, that I neglect this type of thing again.

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« Reply #21106 on: June 01, 2020, 11:57:49 AM »
Ginny, I have become an avid bird watcher over the past years, along with gardening.  It has truly taught me to slow down, and appreciate the little things in life.  I wake up to the birds singing, I look out my kitchen window and see all types of birds at the feeders.  They have become so adjusted to my hubby, that they do not fly away when he goes out to put feed in the feeders.  They patiently wait for him to be done.  My yellow finch are my favorite, because it has taken me so long to attract them.  Now, they are coming morning, noon and night.

We visit our local parks throughout the year.  We had a picnic a few years back at our park, and a deer came right up to our blanket.  My hubby gave him an apple, and he ate it while I video taped him.  Nature brings us back to a peaceful place, I can't find any where else. 

Enjoy!

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« Reply #21107 on: June 01, 2020, 01:53:39 PM »
Bellamarie, I keep forgetting to ask how successful are you at getting birds to nest in the birdhouses, and what species like them?

Indeed, birdwatching can be a source of great joy.  This has been a particularly good year for courting couples in my yard, fun to watch.

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« Reply #21108 on: June 01, 2020, 01:54:44 PM »
I love this...

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« Reply #21109 on: June 01, 2020, 06:50:11 PM »
PatH., I have not yet gotten any birds to nest in my bird houses yet.  That is my next goal.  I have two friends who put a wreath out for Spring and robins nested inside them.  I may give it a try.  My sister has birdhouses in Michigan, and she has great success with them nesting in hers.  I will have to ask her which birds come.

Barb, that tee is so cute.  My hubby bought me this tee for Mother's Day.



I look like a bank robber in this new style mask I made.  It seems to be a hit with everyone, asking me to make them one.  I like the pleated mask pattern much better.

These were my project today.  Children's adjustable elastic bands, using pony beads. I purchased the fabric online.  A bit pricey, but it's worth it to make a child happy to wear a mask in school, or day care.   



Has anyone gotten the recent book, The Jane Austen Book Society: A Novel by Natalie Jenner? 

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« Reply #21110 on: June 02, 2020, 11:47:16 AM »
Good afternoon everyone,

I have not been able to get on here for a couple of days. First, David turned off all the electricity to install new extractor fans that he had ordered, and when he put it back on my computer was so confused I had to wait for David to sort it out. Then I needed to change my password on several things as it appeared that it might have been compromised - managed fine with my bank and a few others, then tried to do it on gmail and the whole thing went wrong. Whatever email I tried, whatever password, whatever 'retrieval' phone number, all I got were error messages. So again I had to wait for David to try to sort it out - took him some time and in the end he had to delete the accounts and load new ones. Seems google had got gmail and googlemail mixed up, which was a bit much when it was they who kept nagging me endlessly to update from googlemail to gmail (which I had in fact done some time ago.)  Oh well, all sorted now - but if David had been away as he so often is normally, I don't think I could have got it fixed until either he came back or one of my children came home.

Then on Friday my sister-in-law let us know that my father-in-law, who is 90+, has severe dementia, and lives in a very nice care home near her in the south of England, had been diagnosed with coronavirus. It was a shock, as no-one else in the entire home had shown any symptoms (and so far as I know, still hasn't). The doctor diagnosed it without a test. My FIL has been ill with various chest infections and urinary infections for some months. None of the residents is allowed any visitors, and we wondered why, in the event that a carer had inadvertently brought the virus in, no-one else was ill. The GP finally managed to arrange a test - and it came back negative. Such a relief for the home, where the staff have worked so hard to keep the virus out all these weeks. Meanwhile FIL is improving and responding to antibiotics given to him re the chest infections. I don't think antibiotics have any effect on coronavirus so that is another pointer that he probably did not have it. The GP has ordered a second test - I suppose the home needs to be absolutely sure. So it was a stressful weekend for my husband and his family. They are all hoping that their father lives long enough for them all to be able to visit at least once more.

In between all of that, I have been carrying on with my reading, writing, reviewing, walking, gardening, as well as I could.

Ginny, those flowers are so beautiful, thank you for posting the pictures. I myself got some plants free from Lidl a few years ago - they never do water them properly when they are on the racks, and they thought these ones had died. I took them home and gave them some TLC and they came right back and lasted a long time. They may well still be blooming, as we moved from that house (and my lovely garden!) some time ago.

I am so sorry to read of all the problems in the USA. Bellamarie, you are most welcome to come to Scotland and hide any time you wish! (Although I bet you would be surprised at the size of our houses - and our fridges and freezers! - compared to yours in America! I myself am not finding much inspiration from the output of my own church through this crisis. I am more helped by Father James Martin's faith sharing videos on Facebook.

I have started reading another review book, Miss Blaine's Prefect and the Vampire Menace. The author, Olga Wotjas, is an Edinburgh resident. It is based on the idea that Miss Blaine, the head of Miss Blaine's School for Girls - on which the school in The Prime of Miss Jean Brodie was based - returns to modern day Edinburgh to vent her wrath on her school being associated in any way with Jean Brodiem of whom she strongly disapproves. Shonagh McGonagel is the 50-something librarian at Morningside (a highly respectable, smart area of Edinburgh, where the fictional Miss Brodie was supposed to live). Shonagh is also an alumna of Miss Blaine's school. Miss Blaine sends Shonagh on a time travelling mission back to a small village in early 20th century France. It is called Sans Soleil, and indeed the sun cannot reach it. All of the residents are quite odd, and strangely pale. Shonagh knows that she has been sent to help someone, but she doesn't know who or why. So far it is entertaining, mainly thanks to Shonagh's sharp wit and her inability to see what is right under her nose, despite constantly talking herself up as an expert in all things and a perfect representative of her old school. 

The hot weather has broken here and today it is cloudy and damp. I have to admit I prefer it. I will go for my walk in a minute.

Barb - I do hope you are starting to recover. I agree, damp weather is not great for sore muscles and bones.

I hope everyone is having a good day. Has anyone worked out how to contact Jonathan?

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« Reply #21111 on: June 02, 2020, 05:22:47 PM »
Rosemary,  I am so sorry to hear about your FIL, I'm glad he is showing improvement.  I pray his second test comes back negative as the first one did.  Thank you for your graciousness, you are so sweet.  That is interesting how turning off the electrical could cause your computer to go haywire like that.  Thank goodness your hubby was home to fix it.

I'm wondering where we go in the USA, with the virus now that these thousands and thousands of protestors and rioters have been out in public for days.  Pretty hard to put the safety precautions back in place, after they have been ignored.  I pray we do not have a second wave of the virus, due to this.  Rosemary, where are you as far as restrictions being lifted with this virus?  Has Scotland begun any phases to begin reopening and loosening restrictions?  Are you all still wearing masks in public? 

I have been concerned about Jonathan, he will every now and then pop in just to let us know he's okay.  I'm hoping he's curled up involved in some lengthy book, and will pop in again soon. 

We are presently in the mids 80's with high humidity, so I have stayed inside, sewing.  I promised to do a few for friends, and had to get them done.  Now, I am taking a break.

You all stay safe & stay healthy!



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« Reply #21112 on: June 02, 2020, 11:41:00 PM »
Jonathan is listed as being online now.

HI, JONATHAN!

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« Reply #21113 on: June 03, 2020, 01:18:48 AM »
So glad Jonathan surfaced - I'm guessing all is well...
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« Reply #21114 on: June 03, 2020, 06:50:15 AM »
Good morning from a damp, drizzly but thankfully cooler Deeside.

Bellamarie - here in Scotland almost all of the restrictions are still in place. I am glad to say that our FM is being very cautious, so there are now a lot of differences between the rules north and south of the border. (Wales is also being cautious, and has similar rules to Scotland.) Unfortunately Nicola Sturgeon has no power to close the border itself, so people from the south can still bring the virus up here - but they do have to observe our rules once they get here. On Monday only one virus-related death was reported in Scotland. Whilst even one is, of course, terrible, in England there were over 300.

We are now allowed to meet up with one household that is not our own, but social distancing must be observed and there must be no more than 8 people present in total. You must not meet with more than one other household per day. At my mother's sheltered housing they are now allowed one pre-arranged visitor, and must meet with them in the garden, not in their rooms. We are allowed to go out for exercise as often as we like, and to have socially distanced picnics, but if we meet with another household to do so we must each bring our own food and cutlery, etc. There has been a lot of complaining that the local councils have not opened the public toilets in the car parks at beauty spots and beaches, but so far as I understand it they would be impossible to keep clean to the standards currently required.

Some more shops have been allowed to open - the only ones of interest to me are garden centres, but I decided not to go last weekend as I knew they would be extremely busy, especially as the weather was so hot at the time. Golf courses are now also open, and you can do other outdoors activities like fishing and bowling (on grass not indoors). The principle is, I think, that it is far harder for the virus to infect people who are out in the fresh air. Some takeaways have opened - I saw on TV that there were huge queues at the McDonalds that have opened - personally I just could not be bothered, but if that is what someone has been craving, I understand!

We are advised but not ordered to wear masks in very busy indoor places like supermarkets, and on public transport. I must say neither of us has worn one yet, but the only time we go to the supermarkets is late evening when they are practically empty. None of the staff seem required to wear them. The cashiers are however shielded by huge perspex screens.  I have not been on public transport - we are still not supposed to use it unless it's essential. There are more and more cars back on the roads - the South Deeside Road was positively teeming with cars on Saturday when we were out walking.

The police in England have reportedly told the government that they simply do not have the manpower to enforce the rules in every location.  The pictures of beaches and beauty spots in the south of England were appalling - thousands of people crammed together, the police doing their best to sort it out and often being abused as a result. I don't think that has happened up here as the rules are a lot clearer, whereas in England now they are really vague. The coastguards have also been out retrieving people from the cliffs and the sea - some people seem to think it is fine to set sail (as it were) in inflatable dinghies and even lilos - again I think this has been a problem in the south of England and the West Country. The amount of litter left behind has been awful. The Lake District National Park did a survey over the weekend, and found that something like 80% of visitors were there for the first time - they are not the usual Lake District types, who are there for walking, climbing and wildlife and are usually reasonably well equipped, I think the numbers are due partly to people having been cooped up, but also to the fact that at the moment they cannot fly off to their usual holidays on the beaches of mainland Europe. I saw this morning that certain European countries have said they now welcome holidaymakers back - eg Portugal - but as the government here has said they have to be quarantined for 14 days on their return, there is not much incentive for most people to go. It is ridiculous really, as when they should have done this, they didn't, and people were pouring into our airports from all over the world until the beginning of this month, with no checks or restrictions whatsoever.

However, I am thankful that we do not have the civil unrest that is taking place in the USA.   It is not completely unheard of for small scale local rioting to break out in the UK, but the last time I remember it was years ago, and it was very focused on a small area of London. I think that on the whole people in the UK just cannot be bothered, I don't think they are necessarily any better or worse than anyone else, just, perhaps, harder to motivate - viz the dreadfully low turn out at many elections.

So I personally am just carrying on much as I was before. Sometimes I do wonder if this is now going to be my life!  My husband says of course it isn't, and sooner or later we will return to normal - I do hope he is right.

Have a good day everyone,

Rosemary

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« Reply #21115 on: June 03, 2020, 10:15:56 AM »
We won't be sure Jonathan is all right until he tells us so, but I'm encouraged.

Life seems rather odd at the moment.  It's personally totally peaceful, but places that are part of my life are in turmoil.  If I were in my Portland apartment, several nights ago I would have gotten just a tiny whiff of tear gas, and seen the same scene of some reporters going to an active area both on TV and out my window.  No violence or crowds within range, though.  One daughter is even closer to the action, though not in personal danger.

Here outside DC, I'm miles away from action, but St. John's Church was where my college Episcopalian student group met, so I'm pretty familiar with it.  It's a beautiful historic building, and when I heard it had been set on fire I was pretty distressed, but it turned out that the only damage done was to one basement room.  A day later, though, a priest and other church people giving water and snacks to peaceful protesters were chased away from the church front with tear gas to clear things for a photo op.

So the whole thing seems pretty surreal.

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« Reply #21116 on: June 03, 2020, 10:30:57 AM »
Rosemary, I, too, having been advised that my email was compromised, (turns out they wrote me at my address about it,  but it was my husband's all the time!!!!). He doesn't  use or want it in the first place, it was a dummy auxiliary account demanded by some origination somewhere. But I   went through the same frustrating sequences with my own email,  but with AT&T for 2 days straight, and Microsoft and also Thunderbird (my former email client). It seems that AT&T chose that precise moment to make sweeping changes in their system, which unfortunately even the tech people (such nice patient people) were not up on,  but the result is I am apparently permanently shut out of my email client Thunderbird, which gave up, (nice people trying to help there, too)  which, despite having been issued a Secure Key from AT&T will not allow me to do anything at all with email, so am switching to Outlook which, due to the password situation, has also been a wash until now, but at least I can now get email on the server. Whoopee.

This little thing, coming on the pile of events recently  really does seem like the final frustration, so one has to withdraw and do something escapism and fun to keep sanity and a positive attitude..  Honestly if it had not been for Louella Shakespeare (on the right) and Frank Hathaway here to provide a laugh and a clever mystery, I might have not had such fun  in all this time. Happily they are also on PBS now.  Nice armchair traveling as well in it of the Stratford area. Lifesaver right now..

Sorry to hear about your father in law, they say actually this morning that perhaps Ibuprofen helps after all, they are doing trials with it, I think in the UK,  so maybe antibiotics should not be disregarded, either, after all. I hope he will soon recover.


Barbara, I love that tee shirt, can you say where you found it?

Bellamarie, I can't get that link to work about the deer? Those are cute masks, the tee shirt was a sweet gift.

Lovely piece in the news of the man who opened his doors to protestors trapped and being hurt, as many as 80 overnight  in the house, good Samaritans live,  after all. Like he said, THAT'S America. Lovely piece on the store owner  who has had donated online over a million dollars to rebuild his store and what he's going to do with it to help the community as well.  Lots and lots of unsung heroes who are making a difference.

Even in iste mundus furibundus (this raging world) the goodness shines through and always will.


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Re: The Library
« Reply #21117 on: June 03, 2020, 10:33:07 AM »
Pat, yes, surreal. The Guardian (a British newspaper) pointed out this morning that every day seems to bring a new outrage presented as normal behavior  and that we are having to become used to the surreal as if it were the norm and it's very difficult. Absolutely right.

PatH

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Re: The Library
« Reply #21118 on: June 03, 2020, 11:42:04 AM »
I can't view the deer either.  You have to be a Facebook member, and I'm not.

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Re: The Library
« Reply #21119 on: June 03, 2020, 03:01:57 PM »
Hi,everybody. I'm alive and well. Thank you all for your concern. The pandemic is  keeping me close to home, but that suits me, after thirty years of retirement. Making my own lunch, rather than going out, has become an extraordinary experience. I've just had mine - how delectable! With what I picked up at the grocery. (senior shopping 7 to 8, every morning.) A grand open-faced sandwich with a Hazelnut and cocoa jam, topped off with mango and banana slices.

And now it's off to sit in the sunshine on my patio. I keep thinking how much nicer it would look if I had all the lovely flowers you're posting, were blooming around me.

My reading is all over the place. My newspaper has endless speculation about where the world is heading. We're going to come out of this stronger and smarter. General concensus. The U.S. presidential election in the   offing is going to be awesome to follow, and politics in England are just as interesting with the combative personalities. Thanks for the information, Rosemary. My newspaper tells me England is enjoying an exceptionally sunny spring.

My reading. I've just started The Man To See. Edward Bennett Williams, ultimate insider, legendary trial lawyer, by
Evan Thomas.
  Both RFK and LBJ appear in it. What useful lives some lawyers live, keeping or getting people out of trouble.