Author Topic: The Library  (Read 2080190 times)

Tomereader1

  • Posts: 1868
Re: The Library
« Reply #21120 on: June 03, 2020, 03:04:33 PM »
Glad to see Jonathan turned up safe and well!
The reading of a fine book is an uninterrupted dialogue in which the book speaks and our soul replies.


André Maurois

rosemarykaye

  • Posts: 3055
Re: The Library
« Reply #21121 on: June 03, 2020, 03:55:07 PM »
Jonathan!  So lovely to hear from you. Your lunch sounds great. I am also keeping close to home. Boris Johnson may say what he will, I am listening to our First Minister, and she says stay at home as much as possible. Crowded beaches and beauty spots do not interest me - I am lucky to have the beautiful Dee on my doorstep just now. I’d love to see the libraries open when safe to do so, but I have plenty of books, DVDs, writing, etc to keep me happy.

We have had some very sunny spring days but at the moment we are back to rain, cloud and cooler temperatures. That is OK too though, in that most of the cyclists and walkers stay at home, and tonight I had the river walk almost to myself. Fishing is now allowed again, and there was a man standing in the water casting his rod. It’s not something I would want to do, but each to their own.

Enjoy your book, and your interesting lunches!

Rosemary

bellamarie

  • Posts: 4144
Re: The Library
« Reply #21122 on: June 03, 2020, 05:10:45 PM »
PatH.,  So glad you were not in your Portland apartment.  It would have been scary.  I was so saddened to see St. John's church basement set fire.  According to reports today, AG Barr ordered the perimeter be forced back one block each way earlier in the day, to avoid any more damage to the church.  No tear gas was used, and they announced over a loud speaker three times before the secret service came to broaden the perimeter, but the protestors refused to move.  There are mixed feelings about the "photo op," I was actually glad to see the president walk across to the church, and send a message that goodness would prevail.  In times like these, Christians need to be reminded, that evil can destroy churches, but can't destroy their faith. Ironically on the same day, Joe Biden did a photo op in a church in Wilmington Delaware, and media had nothing negative to say about it.  Politics will never stop, no matter what we are going through.   

Rosemary, sounds like your restrictions are making life just a little bit more livable, with being able to meet up with friends.  I sure hope this is not going to be our "new normal" as many say.  I long for freely having my grandchildren come spend the night, peaceful nights, and no more worrying about a virus or riots.  Today there is a protest planned at 5:00 p.m., about three miles from my area.  I pray it is peaceful. 

Today, my hubby and I for the first time in our forty-nine years of marriage, discussed if we should consider purchasing a firearm to protect ourselves.  It almost brought tears to my eyes, just sitting in the car having to talk about this possibility.  We are alone, and we do have pepper spray, and we have never felt comfortable owning a firearm.  He was a military policeman in the Air Force, so he was trained in shooting and safety.  My heart hurts just typing this, seeing the reality of our vulnerability.  When there was looting taking place a few nights ago, just two minutes from our house at the Target, TJ Max and wig store, I felt so frightened.  Then we were seeing posts, saying we are coming in your neighborhoods next.  I thought worrying about the virus caused me anxiety, now I feel this is even more threatening.  So yes, prayer plays a huge role in us being able to get up, and go on with life as best we can, and hope in our heart of hearts, we can one day see life go back to "our normal" before the virus and riots.

Jonathan, I am so glad to see you resurface!  "A grand open-faced sandwich with a Hazelnut and cocoa jam, topped off with mango and banana slices."  Now that is my kind of sandwich.  I absolutely love hazelnut.  I put banana slices on my peanut butter sandwiches.  MMMmm..... so good.  "My newspaper has endless speculation about where the world is heading. We're going to come out of this stronger and smarter. General consensus."  I like the optimism, of the general consensus, I sure hope they are right.  So you are looking forward to our elections, they will be interesting to say the least. Don't you stay away so long, you gave us a bit of a worry. 

Ginny, thank you for mentioning the acts of the Good Samaritan.  It truly does show how in the worst of times, the best of people can come to light. 

“What on earth could be more luxurious than a sofa, a book, and a cup of coffee?...Was ever anything so civil?”
__Anthony Trollope, The Warden

BarbStAubrey

  • BooksDL
  • Posts: 11346
  • Keep beauty alive...
    • Piled on Tables and Floors and Bureau Drawers
Re: The Library
« Reply #21123 on: June 03, 2020, 06:22:32 PM »
Never heard of Hazelnut and cocoa jam sounds yummy - in fact I do not know of a jam made with nuts of any kind and we do all sorts of things with pecans but no jam - lots of jams with various peppers like jalapeno and Habanero but no nuts that I know of.

It appears pretty quickly the protest was hijacked - I will be anxious to see if those who kicked and stoned the young store owner protecting his business in Dallas are brought to trail - they now face murder if the can be identified from the various video footage - the young man died from his injuries this morning in a Dallas hospital. Interesting to see last week the street photos of protestors all over the nation within 24 hours of the death of George Floyd wearing the exact same Tshirt with the exact same slogan and so many professionally made signs - somebody or group invested money -

here is the link from facebook where the garden Tshirt can be ordered - it does not appear to be a facebook link.

https://www.lisaapparel.com/garden-and-into-the-garden-i-go?retailProductCode=C6B0DCE137F0B7-0CA5A9B226FB-GS0-TC5-LTB&checkout=cart&fbclid=IwAR0GCoDttci3jUUhZU-d3mD9NS2MTS6JVVhDXkfaXi61SIPFCsk-FFhN-iE

Started the most interesting book - Angelic Music: The Story of Benjamin Franklin's Glass Armonica by Corey Mead.

Quote from the book..."Even at the end of his life, Franklin declared the glass armonica to be his most cherished creation. The armonica appeared at a time when the world’s population was exploding, and with that explosion came a rapid upsurge in the number of instrument makers, as well as the inventiveness and resourcefulness these makers needed to compete in a crowded field. The number of musicians, the quantity of performed music, the money spent on music, and the distribution of printed music were swiftly expanding, as well. For a period of time in the late eighteenth century, the glass armonica seemed, in scholar Heather Hadlock’s words, to “conjure up all the magic of which music was capable.”

Nothing new blooming this time of year but something blew in that has my sinuses in a tizzy - I'm wondering if it is some product used in building. I noticed a whole different group of vehicles parked on the street today and so another group of workmen are engaged in the building of the new school replacing the old one - I just wonder if my reaction is from the fumes of something they are using - doubly wondering since it is now a quarter after 5: and the vehicles have been leaving and lo and behold my sinuses are calming down. Either that or all the capsules I too have finally kicked in.

Well tonight is mystery night on PBS - mostly all female detectives -  so we have Miss Fisher followed by Frankie Drake then the Bletchley Circle and then 2 episodes of a male dominated series of Murder Maps, old murders mostly in London, some in other parts of Britain.

 
“A man should hear a little music, read a little poetry, and see a fine picture every day of his life, in order that worldly cares may not obliterate the sense of the beautiful which God has implanted in the human soul.” ~ Goethe

ginny

  • Administrator
  • Posts: 91469
Re: The Library
« Reply #21124 on: June 03, 2020, 06:35:14 PM »
I believe that it was an Episcopal priest at St. John's, a grey haired woman as she said in a clerical collar,   and a seminarian who were also ejected in broad daylight from  the front steps of  for that photo op...they had been organized by the  Episcopal Diocese as a "peaceful presence" and  were passing out hand sanitizers and water and other such things to the peaceful protesters assembled, and that's why the Bishop of that Diocese said what she did about the "photo op. "

Forbes:


Gerbasi, who serves as rector at a different St. John's in Georgetown, told Religious News Services that she arrived at St. John's Lafayette early Monday with 20+ other priests and a group of laypeople.

The volunteers and clergy offered water, snacks, and hand sanitizer to demonstrators gathered in Lafayette Park across the street.

The group was organized by the Episcopal Diocese of Washington to serve as a "peaceful presence in support of protesters."

At approximately 6:40 pm, police suddenly began to expel peaceful demonstrators from the park, firing tear gas and flash grenades to disperse the crowd.

Gerbasi said that a short time later, police in riot gear started "pushing on to the patio of St. John's," and that people around her began crying out in pain, claiming to be shot with non-lethal projectiles.

"I'm there in my little pink sweater in my collar, my gray hair up in a ponytail, my reading glasses on," said Gerbas, as she and others were forced to flee the scene.

https://www.forbes.com/sites/tommybeer/2020/06/02/before-trumps-photo-op-police-forcibly-removed-priest-from-church-grounds/#4ec668a83cf8


BarbStAubrey

  • BooksDL
  • Posts: 11346
  • Keep beauty alive...
    • Piled on Tables and Floors and Bureau Drawers
Re: The Library
« Reply #21125 on: June 03, 2020, 07:31:12 PM »
different reports on the incident Ginny - there is always a cleared area for a president - a lot happening with different perspectives - from several there was no tear gas issued -

The incident it is over - I'm thinking it is not changing anything to have our opinion that can easily take over - I would not like to be the police with all the hatred directed at them because of those who acted badly and may have been responsible for George Floyd's death - just as it does not excuse those who were responsible for the death of the retired police captain in St. Louis or the death of the business owner in Dallas or the shooting of four police or policemen shot in head in Nevada etc. Everyone is on edge and this protest has been hijacked which makes it so dangerous - regardless of our politics there is enough evidence that the Attorney General listed two organizations behind much of the rioting and property damage that affected Black and White businesses and cause damage that will take years to rebuild at the expense of retail and jobs lost to those mostly Black residents who live in the area -

From what we see the push against Washington D.C. started at the same time the push in NYC took place - between the police, FBI and a Federalized unit of national guard they saved the Church in question and quelled the riot where as, NYC is still seeing significant damage with continuous riots - I'm thinking the Pastor was not thinking of the state of protection ordered by those who stopped his social welfare for those needing help, in order to protect the very building where he serves -

Have you ever been caught in a situation where police were pushing back those who were in the way - it is not a calm or gentle experience regardless a beach on Padre, as was my experience or would I imagine in the streets and steps of a venerable historic church. We can all see ways to handle things differently but bottom line we are not there nor are we experiencing from either side the trauma that even the police keep closed-in till the events are over. There is no bubble of protection when anyone with the best intentions enters a riot or battle.
“A man should hear a little music, read a little poetry, and see a fine picture every day of his life, in order that worldly cares may not obliterate the sense of the beautiful which God has implanted in the human soul.” ~ Goethe

PatH

  • BooksDL
  • Posts: 10952
Re: The Library
« Reply #21126 on: June 03, 2020, 08:09:53 PM »
There are at least three St. John's Episcopal churches here.  Gerbasi is rector of the Georgetown St. John's; the rectors at Lafayette Square and Bethesda are men.

It's a technicality to say tear gas was not used.  What was used was capsaicin, the irritating ingredient in red pepper, which is often used as a tear gas.

It was a very confusing situation, and people at different spots tell conflicting stories.  It sounds difficult to sort out what happened, but looks to me like things went wrong and got out of hand.

PatH

  • BooksDL
  • Posts: 10952
Re: The Library
« Reply #21127 on: June 03, 2020, 08:13:03 PM »
Hazelnut and cocoa jam sounds like Nutella to me, and it is indeed delicious.  It has a consistency more like a thin nut butter than a jam.

ginny

  • Administrator
  • Posts: 91469
Re: The Library
« Reply #21128 on: June 03, 2020, 08:18:38 PM »
The Episcopal Diocese owns that church and sent them there, and the officers involved said they are going to review their procedures. That's all anybody can ask.  And I truly think if we have learned anything from the George Floyd horror, we must not look away and not have opinions when we see something that is wrong.

There is no church or synagogue  in the land which thinks that clearing was a good idea.




BarbStAubrey

  • BooksDL
  • Posts: 11346
  • Keep beauty alive...
    • Piled on Tables and Floors and Bureau Drawers
Re: The Library
« Reply #21129 on: June 03, 2020, 09:11:42 PM »
thanks Pat did not know the distinction between sprays - It is going to be a tough one - all three autopsies - one private by the family - shows he had enough drugs in his system to kill 3 men and when arrested as seen in the video he dropped a bag of cocaine on the ground - he was probably physically out of control reacting as any addict high on drugs - plus he had been in jail 9 times - and then there is the history of violence from the police officer - there is a split now among the Black community as to how and the cause of the riots - many have had their businesses destroyed and do not have the means to rebuild and are angry there was not more police protection - my thinking is this will not be over soon and like anything of late that hits the news it will become more and more Politicized. 
“A man should hear a little music, read a little poetry, and see a fine picture every day of his life, in order that worldly cares may not obliterate the sense of the beautiful which God has implanted in the human soul.” ~ Goethe

bellamarie

  • Posts: 4144
Re: The Library
« Reply #21130 on: June 03, 2020, 10:02:04 PM »
Yes, there are multiple reports of the incident of "broadening the perimeter of Lafayette Park", before the president took the walk across the street to the church. 

Today's reporting, is there were NO tear gas, and there were bottles and other things being thrown at the officers:

Deeper reporting reveals that protesters did begin to get arrested, throwing water bottles, rocks and other projectiles at the oncoming police.

“As many of the protesters became more combative, continued to throw projectiles, and attempted to grab officers’ weapons, officers then employed the use of smoke canisters and pepper balls.” Monahan’s statement also described “caches of glass bottles, baseball bats and metal poles hidden along the street.”

PepperBall is in fact a brand name touted on the company’s website as “your complete nonlethal solution.” The balls themselves resemble paint balls, and can be “launched” from different devices, most of which resemble weapons.


https://wtop.com/dc/2020/06/some-clarity-a-day-after-reports-of-tear-gas-in-lafayette-square-but-questions-remain/

When reporting we expect accuracy, yet we get narratives to fit the reporter's agendas. No one wants to acknowledge there were three loud speaker announcements, for the protestors to move back the perimeters.  They refused to.

Ginny, "There is no church or synagogue  in the land which thinks that clearing was a good idea" This is your opinion, since all the churches or synagogues have not weighed in, to my knowledge, unless you can site their statements.

Yet, it really doesn't matter if church leaders or others think broadening the perimeter was a good idea or not.  It was the Attorney General's decision, and he has that authority.

Confirmed reporting from The Washington Post that Barr and his office made the decision either late Sunday (May 31) or early Monday to extend the perimeter around the White House. When he arrived in the area on Monday afternoon, he surveyed the square and was disappointed his request had not yet been carried out.

At that point, after talking with police, the move to expand the perimeter started. A Department of Justice official, who spoke with The Washington Post on the condition of anonymity, said “he [Barr] basically said: ‘This needs to be done. Get it done.'”


Who anyone chooses to believe, really makes no difference, it turns into opinions at best.  The fact the church basement was set ablaze the night before, gives enough reason for AG Barr to broaden the perimeter. Was it a good idea for that Diocese to even send them there in the midst of all the violence, to pass out water and snacks?  My personal opinion, which doesn't carry much weight, is absolutely not.  If our Catholic Diocese has protected it's parishoners from the covid19 virus, by keeping us away from the churches, why on earth would the Episcopalian Diocese think if was safe to send these people into an violent, unrest area?   

"I'm there in my little pink sweater in my collar, my gray hair up in a ponytail, my reading glasses on," said Gerbas, as she and others were forced to flee the scene.


Better they were safely "forced to flee the scene"[/i] (reporters words not hers), rather they possibly get mixed into a violent situation, and it end in tragedy.

I watched the protestors in Lafayette Park, in real time the other night, they were in the faces of the secret service near the White House, actually pounding on their face masks, grabbing their uniforms, spitting at them, throwing items at them, and trying to get them to engage with them.  I give high regard for the secret service for not engaging.  The hatred for this president and police has overshadowed George Floyd's death, and the message of injustice.  Yes, Barb, there are investigations going on now, that is leading directly to several hate groups who have been placing piles of bricks, malutof bottles, bats, lighters, and other weapons at certain points in the cities to use against the police, and to destroy the businesses. Who are funding these supplies, and bringing them into the cities? 

The video showing the retired, St. Louis Police Captain David Dorn killed by these looters, was just horrifying.

St. Louis Police Chief John Hayden said Dorn was murdered during a looting while “exercising law enforcement training.”

There is NO justice in unlawfulness, and no one should try to place blame on the police or president for trying to protect people and property during this rioting, which is their oath they are sworn to do.  Like this president or not, the media once again wants to direct your attention to their narrative, which is hating this president.  We call for unity, we call for justice, we call for law and order, but yet in the midst of this tragic unrest, what do the media and politicians do, deflect to hating the president. If he sits back and waits for the governors and mayors to step up to protect their cities, he is called cowardly, hiding in the bunker.  If he comes out and makes a speech, and says if the governors and mayors refuse to protect their people and property, he will take steps to do it, he is then called a dictator.  He is in a no win situation, because he is hated so much by the celebrities, democrats and media, and they drive the narrative.  The fact that the celebrities have a fund raising that has surpassed two million dollars, to help bail out the protestors, should tell you where their true concerns are. 

I just know good, law abiding citizens, who have worked their entire lives at their businesses, want this to stop!  Destroying cities, looting businesses, setting fires, defacing monuments, killing innocent people, is not in the name of justice for George Floyd.  Even his family is begging for it to stop.  Our country looks like a worn torn war time country.  It will take centuries to rebuild what has been destroyed, least we forget the pain and sorrow of the loss of the loved ones, and their livelihoods gone, at the hands of these criminals. 

Ginny, be certain, NO ONE is looking away, the entire country IS united in the unjustified murder of George Floyd.  The entire country is calling for justice. Likewise there is no justified reason for the actions of the criminals/murderers on the streets of our cities. The media wants us to look away, by talking about our president who walked across the street to show Americans our faith can never be destroyed. We are NOT looking away, we see clearly, justice, law and order will prevail. 

Barb, we were posting at the same time. 

"my thinking is this will not be over soon and like anything of late that hits the news it will become more and more Politicized."

Indeed it will. 
“What on earth could be more luxurious than a sofa, a book, and a cup of coffee?...Was ever anything so civil?”
__Anthony Trollope, The Warden

ginny

  • Administrator
  • Posts: 91469
Re: The Library
« Reply #21131 on: June 04, 2020, 09:06:11 AM »
Really? REALLY? I'm not going to dignify any of that with a response.

That was, is, and will be my opinion.

 It also seems to be the opinion of the Catholic Archbishop of Washington, and many religious leaders across the entire nation.

Let's move on. I didn't bring this subject up,  I merely offered  my opinion, and this discussion is not about politics, so it's off piste in this area:  we've got political areas here on the website.



In other news I finally did plant  the hollyhocks and I can see, Nlhome, why your mother did not want to plant them.  For one thing, they have very specific difficult  requirements for sun, drainage, water, etc. I wonder that any of them have ever survived. I have no idea what "rust" is and have never seen it but I remember them from my childhood and it would seem if they could grow them then,  in barnyards, and write in how can I get rid of them,  I can, too. So now they are in front of the barn at the ends of  two grape vine rows there  where they can hopefully get the exposure and requirements they need, though I sort of doubt it.

My husband is a dab hand with the herbicide, I must say. He really knows his plants, so he's able to get the weeds in those three abandoned flower beds  and miss the plants and even though it's an herbicide and I am opposed to the use of them, I must admit it's effective.   I've been reading in my new books that if you'll put newspaper down and cover IT with soil then next year it will decompose, kill the weeds and you'll have a nice bed ready when it's time to plant. Worth a try, we've got plenty of newspaper.



Welcome back, Jonathan! We have obviously missed you.

OH, did I mention...on the pump soap? I don't think I did. For those of you who do like antibiotic soap for hands, there seem to be two options, and one of them is the foam kind, which I really like. Of course here you can't get any refills or even the bottle for foaming soap refills but you can make your own, I have discovered, necessity being the mother of invention.

If you take something like Dawn Antibiotic soap for dishes and one of the empty pump disposers for foam soap,  and you put in about a 1/2 inch or so  of the dishwasher detergent  and fill that up with 2/3rds water and shake it, it makes a much better substantial  foamy soap. At first it's got all kinds of bubbles but shortly you can't tell it from the other and it's really very nice and a lot cheaper. One positive effect of the coronavirus.



Rosemary, I love the story of  your salvaged plants, isn't that amazing?  I have a new respect for the entire plant world after this experience.


We have  a couple of Lidl's here as well as Aldi, and they seem to be expanding their stores in size exponentially. 

I've only been in an  Aldi here, and I was surprised as they had no butcher shop there, no deli, it's all prepared food, which is different. Is Lidl the same? (I am hearing a lot of different pronunciations for Lidl here. How is it supposed to be pronounced?)  Our Ingles grocery chain gives discounts for your gas purchases with their card, and the savings are substantial, even when the prices for gas are low. Last Friday I got 80 cents off each gallon, I wonder what happens if the price of gas falls further, do you get it free? Or do they owe you? Such unprecedented times we're living in.

And speaking of that I wonder how long that 2 week curfew for those coming into the UK will last. It seems it will kill the airline industry there.

I was really shocked that British Air refunded very penny of my March trip, as I had no joy from the their representative  I spoke to on the phone  in March about it. In fact, he, apparently over sensitive  to the subject of refunds, possibly from being  harassed from dealing with irate customers all day, despite my cordiality, chose to respond in a nonconstructive way: shame, that.   I wrote them and politely  explained the dilemma, but  had given up and here it came in the mail, yesterday, a credit to my credit card:  every penny, even for the extra insurance and the seat upgrades. That's impressive, that beats Delta,  and a good thing,  because I would never have used them again to go from London to other countries as I usually do. They are the ones who cancelled the flight to Rome, not me, and it seems they actually did want to do the right thing. I'm impressed, I really am. Not all airlines have done that.



Well, another bright sunny day here on the farm.   Off to water the new transplants.

PatH

  • BooksDL
  • Posts: 10952
Re: The Library
« Reply #21132 on: June 04, 2020, 11:56:03 AM »
Southwest followed their standard procedure for the Portland trip I cancelled at the start of the virus mess--a credit for all of the cost.  (You never lose any money with them unless you just don't show up.)  Since then, they've extended the expiration date by two years.  I like to think it won't take that long for travel to become safer again.

Too bad I don't want to travel now.  They're offering me some amazing fares.

rosemarykaye

  • Posts: 3055
Re: The Library
« Reply #21133 on: June 04, 2020, 12:10:36 PM »
Ginny - I am so glad BA came up with the refund - like you said, it was they who cancelled the flights! I had a similar experience with Transavia (the budget arm of KLM I think) a couple of years ago - we are supposed to be refunded if the flight is delayed more than a certain number of hours, and mine was well over that. I was not too optimistic, as the other cheaper airlines like Ryanair and Easy Jet do not have a good track record on this, but Transavia immediately credited me with the full amount. I hope you will be able to come again before too long, and I agree, this 14 day quarantine thing is total nonsense when they were still letting people into the country with no checks whatsoever at the very height of the outbreak. I don't think it will last, they will end up with a list of 'low risk' countries (which with this government will be all the ones they want to stay economic friends with) and will only try to quarantine people from the rest. And just how they plan to 'police' this quarantine is anybody's guess. What is of more concern to me is that an actor in the Radio Times today said that he is worried that insurance will become impossible to get for anyone over 60. It is SO typical of insurance companies to refuse to insure anyone or anything that might result in a claim. (I even have the same trouble with my animals' insurance - if the pet is over 8 years old you simply cannot change companies, as no-one will take them on, and even with the one I have been with for many years, they slap you with paying 20% of any claim PLUS an enormous excess.)

Aldi in the UK does not have any fresh food counters - it is really not their thing, I suppose the bigger profits are on the stuff that is easy to transport and stock. Ours does have frozen food, greengrocery and chilled items like cheese, milk and butter. It also sells packaged meats and fish. I have had their cod loin and their trout fillets and they were both excellent.
Lidl (yes, the pronunciation is a challenge! My German-speaking friend, who lives in Freiburg and is married to a German, calls it 'Leedell' but we persist in saying 'Lid-all'.  Who knows?) introduced a fresh bakery counter a few years ago and it is hugely popular. I don't really know how it works but I think the loaves, rolls, etc are delivered raw to the shop then baked there (that's no doubt what the other supermarkets do too, come to think about it.)  Lidl's low GI wholemeal loaf and their French boule and baguettes are delicious.   

They also sell only packaged meat and fish. Most of our large 'mainstream' supermarkets have done away with their fresh fish counters, I presume they just don't make enough money out of them - often they replace them with enormous pizza ordering stations. We love fish and we increasingly find that you can only buy a very narrow range of it in the stores - mainly salmon fillet (can't recall the last time I saw salmon steaks on sale), cod, haddock, and - this being Scotland - a lot of smoked fish, as it obviously has a longer shelf life. Also prawns. We find all of this very boring. There is a fantastic wet fish shop at Newhaven, just along the road from us in Edinburgh, they have queues every weekend and their range and quality is great, BUT my goodness are they expensive. There are also a few independent fishmongers in parts of Edinburgh, and they do offer a bit more choice than the supermarkets, but not much.

There are still butchers' shops in most places, but they can also be expensive. We have almost given up meat, I really only buy it at Christmas or when my son and DIL are coming (as for them a meal without meat is not a meal...)

That's a good idea for pump soap. It has come back into our stores now, Tesco even had shelves of (very overpriced) hand sanitiser last weekend. I imagine that now we are not allowed to go anywhere, not many people want it - it's easier just to wash your hands.

My daughter sent me a link to a cycle company in London that are recycling the pumps for use in hospitals and care homes. You just unscrew the top bit - the actual pump, which we are not supposed to put into our domestic recycling anyway - and when you have a few they will collect them (not from here I imagine!) or you can send them in.

I too disapprove of weed killer. It is a constant battle with my husband - I want a wildflower lawn, he wants something akin to a bowling club green. At least he's not as bad as our neighbours and their Astroturf.

We have a terrible weather forecast for tonight and all day tomorrow - very heavy rain and high winds - so to avoid anther disaster, the mini-greenhouse is currently inside the patio doors. Those marigolds and geraniums will think they're on holiday (then they will be cruelly cast back outside once the weather improves...)

Rosemary

PatH

  • BooksDL
  • Posts: 10952
Re: The Library
« Reply #21134 on: June 04, 2020, 12:44:35 PM »
Ginny, thanks for that recipe.  I'll try It if/when I run out of foaming soap.  Soap products are a problem for me, as I'm quite allergic to perfumes, so my choices are limited.

Rosemary, your mention of the Lake Country reminded me of a question I've been meaning to ask.  Did you read Arthur Ransome's sailing stories when you were a child?  They're about a bunch of children sailing small boats, most often in the Lake Country, and they gave me a lifelong interest in sailing and seamanship.

Life intervened in my desire to learn to sail small boats, and I didn't get a chance until I was 70, at which point I took a Coast Guard course in theory, and then practical lessons at a local marina and in Boston when visiting a daughter then living there.  I never got very good at it, but at least I had a lot of fun.  I just hit my window of opportunity too, as in a couple of years I became too stiff to do all the position shifting needed.

To an adult, the stories seem dated and definitely for ten year olds, but the sailing is still good, and I have a secret fondness fo them.

rosemarykaye

  • Posts: 3055
Re: The Library
« Reply #21135 on: June 04, 2020, 01:01:04 PM »
PatH - I think you mean Swallows and Amazons? No I have never read those books, not sure why - but my husband, who had holidays in the Lake District every year as a child, did, he remembers them well.  His uncle had a boat that he used to take the children out on - and David hated it!  He says all he remembers is being wet, cold and sick, and wanting to go home. He still isn't a good traveller.

I have recently recorded the Swallows & Amazons film, but haven't got round to watching it yet.

I don't know why those books didn't appeal to me - I was going to say that both the Lake District and the idea of sailing would have been completely outwith my comprehension as a child, but it's not that, as I adored all the Ruby Ferguson and Jill Pullein-Thomson pony books, and the likelihood of my ever having a horse was probably even more remote than a visit to the north of England. Similarly, I lapped up, and re-read constantly, Enid Blyton's Malory Towers and St Clare's boarding school stories, and not only was there absolutely no chance that i would ever have been sent to a private school, nor did I then know anyone who had ever been near one, but I also know full well that I would have hated it. So what it was about sailing, I do not know.

Rosemary

rosemarykaye

  • Posts: 3055
Re: The Library
« Reply #21136 on: June 04, 2020, 01:04:34 PM »
Has anyone else read Joan Smokes, by Angela Meyer?

It is a very small novella that won the inaugural Mslexia Novella Prize in 2019. It's about a woman reinventing herself in Las Vegas, It is brilliantly written, so spare and haunting, I loved it. But what shocked me as much as the plot was to find out that, even in the 1960s, the nuclear testing sites in Nevada and Arizona were treated as tourist attractions, with people going out there for an evening, sitting on bleachers and watching the test explosions - so close they could feel the blast of wind, and the earth shaking. I had no idea.

Rosemary

PatH

  • BooksDL
  • Posts: 10952
Re: The Library
« Reply #21137 on: June 04, 2020, 01:52:26 PM »
Yes, Swallows and Amazons is the first book.  I've never seen the movie.  It had a pretty brief run here, and was hard to come by afterward.  It's funny what does and doesn't appeal to a child.

I hadn't heard of Joan Smokes.  It does sound good.

BarbStAubrey

  • BooksDL
  • Posts: 11346
  • Keep beauty alive...
    • Piled on Tables and Floors and Bureau Drawers
Re: The Library
« Reply #21138 on: June 04, 2020, 02:41:30 PM »
Tip - so many of the soap combination to sanitize your hands are hard on your skin - you can get the same effect by using coconut oil -  Get a jar sold for cooking nothing fancy - most coconuts come from trees that are much older than our interest in organic or a green world and so paying extra for organic is buying marketing -

Anyhow coconut oil is antibacterial, antifungal, and antiviral agent - used as an antibiotic therapy in Southeast Asia, Indonesia and the Philippians - Coconut oil has long been known for its antiviral properties -

The Philippians has been studying the use of coconut oil as a treatment for the covid-19 - last I hear they were having good results.

And if you notice the hand sanitizer advertised on TV has three ingredients -  Coconut oil - Aloe Vera which is effective against some bacteria and fungus but mostly it builds your immune system - I forget the name of the third ingredient however when I looked it up it as simply something typically put in cosmetics to soothe the skin but has no other value. 

So you can be kind to your skin and safe by simply using coconut oil that will be a solid white cream as long as it is not in the heat or sun - if it goes liquid, a bit of time in the frig will take care of that - it sinks into the skin immediately so there is no residue - at between $6 to $10 a jar you can have a jar in the kitchen, bathroom and sitting on any surface where you come into the house or pick up packages. I've always used it when I come in from gardening since with all the Deer and other animal life I like the protection   

Here is one of the sites about the study of coconut oil in response to covid-19 -
https://www.ift.org/iftnext/2020/april/researchers-think-coconut-oil-may-help-treat-covid-19-patients
“A man should hear a little music, read a little poetry, and see a fine picture every day of his life, in order that worldly cares may not obliterate the sense of the beautiful which God has implanted in the human soul.” ~ Goethe

BarbStAubrey

  • BooksDL
  • Posts: 11346
  • Keep beauty alive...
    • Piled on Tables and Floors and Bureau Drawers
Re: The Library
« Reply #21139 on: June 04, 2020, 03:02:45 PM »
Tra la tra la - I think I found it - the rain in Spain falls mainly in the plains  - Jonathan's Hazelnut with cocoa - may not be the brand he is using but I'm adding this to my order and I've included a mango as well.

Chocolate Hazelnut Butter by Justin's, Organic Cocoa - it appears to include Almond in the butter mixture and evidently has far less sugar then Nutella - there are other brands but locally the only brand I could find is Justin.

I even found a recipe to make Hazelnut butter at home -
https://www.shelovesbiscotti.com/easy-homemade-cocoa-hazelnut-butter/

Probably why I never heard of it is we do not have hazelnuts growing - lots and lots of pecans - even pecan orchards and some almonds but no hazelnuts or for that matter walnut trees either but somehow walnuts are available at the grocery
“A man should hear a little music, read a little poetry, and see a fine picture every day of his life, in order that worldly cares may not obliterate the sense of the beautiful which God has implanted in the human soul.” ~ Goethe

Dana

  • ::
  • Posts: 5349
Re: The Library
« Reply #21140 on: June 04, 2020, 04:07:53 PM »
just FYI...70% alcohol is viricidal.  We were told at our last IC conference that it is actually better than soap and water which acts by sliding off the virus (why you have to wash for so long)and is not viricidal.  Nowadays they use hand sanitizer in the OR.  Didn't know this as I only do psych hospitals now, I was surprised because I had kind of looked down on hand sanitizer as inferior to soap and water till then.  If you get it with an added emollient with which it normally comes it should be fine for your hands.

bellamarie

  • Posts: 4144
Re: The Library
« Reply #21141 on: June 05, 2020, 01:05:58 AM »
Barb, that recipe looks so delicious.  I have never had Nuetella. My dil buys it, and the grandkids say they love it.

Rosemary, I too am not a big fan of weed killer.  I have a little Shih Tzu, and I worry even when the lawn service man sprays the yard once a year for weeds.  I have been using the black mesh material for my flower gardens, placing top soil over the mesh, and then black mulch.  When I want to plant flowers, I just use a knife and cut a cross opening and plant them.  It works out great, NO weeds!

Ginny and Dana, Interesting to know how to make foam hand soap, and sanitizer.  I actually purchased six bottles of the foam hand soap online from Bath and Body.  I love the scents, Georgia Peach, Peach Bellini, Kitchen Lemon and Coconut Colada.

Pat, my sister is highly allergic to scents, and I have to be careful not to even put my Victoria Secret hand lotion on, when we are going to be together.  I sympathize with anyone who is sensitive to scents, because how do you avoid them. 

I could not find Lysol disinfectant wipes in any stores, so I took and cut up squares of paper towels, placed them in my empty Lysol wipe container, added some liquid Lysol cleaner and water, and it worked out great!  We are all figuring out ways to make do.

Well, I finally decided to sign up for a You Tube Channel.  I know very little about this, and I really only want it to share my flowers, birds, and nature videos.  It was fairly simple, although I am not sure about the setting "unlisted."  As much as I can determine, is I can share the link for others to see, but my videos will not be public.  I guess I'll learn as I go, but for now I will attempt to share with you all a couple of videos I captured today while my hubby and I were sitting out on our patio.  It seems the Finch have found my feeder, and were having a feast this afternoon.  I had a House finch come for the first time, which I had no idea they have red heads and tails.  Then later, there were four Finch in the Rose of Sharon and at the feeder.  I no sooner went into the house, and my hubby came in and said, you might want to get your camera, a Hummingbird is at the Azela tree.  So, let's give this a try and see if you all can view these two links.   

https://youtu.be/6y-6P80-xZQ

https://youtu.be/eebRPwwci-M

Here is the pic of the House Finch

“What on earth could be more luxurious than a sofa, a book, and a cup of coffee?...Was ever anything so civil?”
__Anthony Trollope, The Warden

Frybabe

  • Posts: 10028
Re: The Library
« Reply #21142 on: June 05, 2020, 05:58:32 AM »
Bellamarie, I stopped using perfumes when I started dating George way back in the 80's. He is also allergic to scents as well as a lot of other things. Oddly, since he had nasal surgery (they did it when he had the brain surgery), he does not seem to be nearly as bothered by nasal allergies now.

 Your videos came out well. Saw a glimpse of your clematis below the azalea.  As far as I can tell, untitled is where you would put your online name. As far as your pix of the house finch, I think it might be a Cassin's finch instead. It is really hard for me to tell the difference, but I don't think house finches have the red at the base of the tale and appear to have more red on the breast. Cassin's finches are not common in my area. See what you think.
Cornell Lab's All About Birds site: https://www.allaboutbirds.org/guide/Cassins_Finch/species-compare/63736771

PatH

  • BooksDL
  • Posts: 10952
Re: The Library
« Reply #21143 on: June 05, 2020, 07:39:05 AM »
Wow.  What a lot of good stuff to go with breakfast.  I have a lot to say, but I need to make my coffee first.   Back shortly.

PatH

  • BooksDL
  • Posts: 10952
Re: The Library
« Reply #21144 on: June 05, 2020, 08:15:59 AM »
Bellamarie, the movies are great.  Youtube is great for bird movies, because you can pause at the right moments and stare.  It was fun being able to pause the hummingbird soaring or zeroing in on a flower.  I used to get to see all sorts of hummingbirds when I visited JoanK, but a three year drought chased all the birds away from her area, and now, several years later, they're just starting to come back.  YouTube wouldn't let me leave a "like", and didn't count my visits.

PatH

  • BooksDL
  • Posts: 10952
Re: The Library
« Reply #21145 on: June 05, 2020, 08:40:18 AM »
It's a close call, but I vote for the house finch.  Mostly, the head isn't quite as red as Cassin's, and no little crest, the stripes effect on the lower breast, and how far the wings extend down the tail, which my book lists.  My book doesn't show Cassins going east far enough, but it's old, and ranges have changed a lot with warming.  Your picture is at a great angle for checking all the markings.

Bellamarie, you probably know this already, but Cornell's website is an amazing bird resource.  They also have a webcam set up by their feeder.  JoanK watches it sometimes to remind herself of eastern birds.

PatH

  • BooksDL
  • Posts: 10952
Re: The Library
« Reply #21146 on: June 05, 2020, 09:06:17 AM »
Quote
I sympathize with anyone who is sensitive to scents, because how do you avoid them.
 
You can't when you're out, alas, though my home is totally scent-free now.  The worst thing is being stuck in a reserved seat somewhere and having a perfumed person sit next to you.  My concert buddy Andy is always willing to swap seats with me, but that isn't always enough, and I have occasionally had to ask an usher to find me another seat.

I'm sensitive to some other chemicals too, and have to be very careful what I buy for my house, curtains, rugs, any furniture with particle board, etc.

rosemarykaye

  • Posts: 3055
Re: The Library
« Reply #21147 on: June 05, 2020, 11:07:21 AM »
I would love to know what some of the birds are that I see on my walks around here.

I have started identifying unknown trees and plants with a free app Madeleine found for me, but the only problem comes when it tells me something is an American plant that doesn't even grow here. However, I often find that if I take another photo from a different angle, it comes up with something more likely.  So far most of the trees on the paths have been various beeches, sycamore, ash, willow and wild cherry.

This morning I started one of the books my son sent me - The Last Hillwalker, by John D Burns. I must admit I feared it would be far too earnestly outdoorsy for me, but in fact it is great - he starts off by explaining how his interest in the hills began, talks about his very not rural upbringing in suburban Merseyside (NW England), his school and university days, and his first forays into the Lake District with his equally unprepared friends. They have no money and almost no equipment - his friend walks the Pennine Way in his school shoes!  They are permanently soaked, covered in mud, and - when they camp in the Scottish Highlands - bitten half to death by midges. Burns is apparently also a performance poet, storyteller and playwright, and has toured his one man shows around the country and to the Edinburgh Fringe, and this shows in his writing, which is very entertaining and easy to read. One interesting thing is that when they stagger into various villages along the Pennine Way they find that most cafes and pubs won't admit walkers at all - and this is on one of the main walking routes in the country!  This was the 1970s, and the owners did not want muddy boots all over their floors. I'm glad to say that once they get to Scotland they are welcomed with open arms and enjoy many lock-ins in Highland bars (where Burns is confused by a barman telling him for food they have 'poisoned bridies' - someone eventually translates this is 'Pies and bridies' (bridies are a kind of Scottish meat pasty.)

I am also listening to Dara McAnulty reading his own Diary of a Young Naturalist on BBC Sounds. I'm not sure if I have mentioned him before - he is an autistic boy who has struggled with life and was horribly bullied at school.  He found solace in nature. This, his first book, is wonderful and has gone down a storm. He has already become something of a celebrity and even worked with Chris Packham and Robert Macfarlane. He's only 17 now; he lives in Northern Ireland with his parents and autistic brother and sister. I think he will go far. This should be a link to a Guardian article about him: https://www.theguardian.com/books/2020/may/16/dara-mcanulty-nature-writing-diary-of-a-young-naturalist

Rosemary

bellamarie

  • Posts: 4144
Re: The Library
« Reply #21148 on: June 05, 2020, 01:02:11 PM »
I'm so glad the video came out well.  One more thing I have learned, in my aging years.

Frybabe,"As far as I can tell, untitled is where you would put your online name."
Hmmm.... I thought it had something to do with the privacy settings.  I was a little skeptical of having my videos "public", have no idea why, since it is a public viewing site, so I clicked untitled, until I learn a little more about it. 

Pat., Yes!  I follow the Cornell site, and oh how beautiful the pics are of the birds.  I at first thought my House Finch (not sure if it is a House or Cassin) was a Woodpecker, with it's red head showing from my kitchen window.  When I went out and took the pics and zoomed in, I realized it was not a Woodpecker, so I Googled and found a House Finch looks similar.  I'm glad to hear Joan's birds are returning.

Rosemary, isn't it fun taking pics and learning about the names of trees, plants, flowers and birds?  I know I am obsessed at this time of year.  My Peonies just opened up today and my Asiatic Lillies are about to bloom.  Honestly, every morning I take a walk around the yard, and just marvel at the beauty we can appreciate, and then my hubby and I sit on the patio with our coffee, and just listen to the birds and watch how they come to the feeders, chase each other away, and in comes some new ones. Then we go about our day, and end up right back on the patio after dinner time and watch it all over again.  Being retired together, having a lot of the same interests, really does make life pretty grand.  Although, we both need our separate times as well. 

I clicked your link and oh wow!  This immediately grabbed my interest:

Dara McAnulty is being hailed by the likes of Robert Macfarlane and Chris Packham as a bright new voice. He talks about life with autism and finding peace in the wilds of Northern Ireland

My grandson Zak is also autistic, he was diagnosed on the spectrum at the age of around three years old, he is now going into Jr. High, in August.  He is extremely intelligent, loves giving speeches to his class mates about autism, and has in the past few years begun playing school sports.  He is finding writing as a true talent.  I tell him he gets the writing from me, along with his cousin Hayden, who also loves to write at the age of fourteen.  I read the book, Population One Autism Adversity and The Will to Succeed by Tyler Mcnamer.  He wrote the book out of high school, if I am not mistaken.  I read it to help me better understand what it is like for my Zak, and others on the spectrum to deal with situations in school, friendships, and organized sports.  Zak had a friend who lives two doors down from them, who began bullying him as they got in middle school.  I was over their house a few times when I noticed Evan saying inappropriate things to Zak, putting him down.  My son and dil finally decided it was best they no longer spend time together.  Evan later was expelled from the Catholic school they attend, due to bullying on social groups.  I can never understand how kids can be so cruel.  Some say it's taught in the home. I have got to read this book, and give a copy to Zak. Thank you for mentioning it.

Okay, I have procrastinated enough....laundry is calling me. 

Ya'll have a great day. 

Frybabe, Yes, my Clematis is blooming beautifully.  I heard they like plants at the base of them that keep their roots moist, like a Hosta, and I just planted a Hosta there a week or so ago. Here is a pic of it.

“What on earth could be more luxurious than a sofa, a book, and a cup of coffee?...Was ever anything so civil?”
__Anthony Trollope, The Warden

Frybabe

  • Posts: 10028
Re: The Library
« Reply #21149 on: June 06, 2020, 06:24:36 AM »
You are right Pat. I checked my old Peterson's (1966) and found that House Finches, at that time, were the ones that were rare in the East and only seen in a small area including my home. The new maps show they have expanded range greatly since then. Purple finches were and are common here too. Cassin's Finches seem to have remained a Western bird. So, unless Cassin's made a very recent and huge move, what Bellamarie photographed is not a Cassin's.  That's what I get for misremembering a very old bird book and not more current range maps.

My new microwave table has arrived, so today I am going to be rearranging that corner of my kitchen and putting the table together. This is going to involve moving two sturdy wood cabinets (sold as bathroom cabinets when I bought them) and the old microwave cart. After the new table is moved into the space, I will have enough left to move a tall, thin bookcase that I used to have in my last kitchen to keep my cookbooks (much reduced now). I have not quite decided what to do with the wood bathroom cabinets.

I am back to reading  A Splendid Exchange: How Trade Shaped the World by William J. Bernstein. I had set it aside a while back and never got back to it until now. The chapter I am on now (The Disease of Trade) is about how disease was spread through trade routes and its effects. The book was published in 2008, well before our current pandemic, but oh so timely and familiar feeling now.



bellamarie

  • Posts: 4144
Re: The Library
« Reply #21150 on: June 06, 2020, 07:29:32 AM »
Aha!  I found it....https://studio300.org/2014/03/11/private-vs-unlisted-on-youtube/

Unlisted means your video will not come up in search results or on your channel either.  Only those who know the link can view it, and you can share the link with anyone, even those who do not have a YouTube account/username. This means that this video could still be seen by anyone, but only if they guess the link!

Frybabe, you sound like you have a pretty big project ahead of you with moving those cabinets, but I bet it will be perfect for your needs once finished.  Your book sounds interesting.  I, like many, were a bit shocked to see the numbers come out yesterday for the drop in unemployment, and the rise in jobs for May.  No analyst was expecting a comeback like that for months.  I think it shows Americans were excited and anxious to get back to work.  Before this pandemic, our stock market, unemployment and job rates were off the charts.  The best ever in history.  Now, if we can just see the beginning of rebuilding the destroyed businesses.  I feel so sad for all the store owners, especially the Mom & Pop locals, who may never rebuild or reopen.  Americans always show their greatest strengths and resilience in the worst of times, that's why so many want to come to our country. 

Today we commemorate the 76th Anniversary of D-Day...June 6, 1944 British troops landed on the beaches of Normandy to fight for freedom.  They began the liberation of Western Europe from fascism.  We remember those who fought for that great cause. As the saying goes, and no greater truth be told... "Freedom isn't free."

Ya'll have a great Saturday! 

“What on earth could be more luxurious than a sofa, a book, and a cup of coffee?...Was ever anything so civil?”
__Anthony Trollope, The Warden

PatH

  • BooksDL
  • Posts: 10952
Re: The Library
« Reply #21151 on: June 06, 2020, 11:05:53 AM »
Bellamarie, I had a lot of fun yesterday with the hummingbird video.  I paused it, then used the position marker at the bottom of the screen to see a series of stills. If you use a very delicate touch doing that, you can get at least 6 different positions per second.  You can stare at him at your leisure, caught in flight, and watch his path darting into the flowers.  If he's moving fast, he's pretty fuzzy, but there are lots of clear moments too.  Sometimes he's hard to spot, but still there.  You can expand the picture to full screen--bigger but fuzzier.  Early in second 25 he comes out from behind the flowers and you can start following him easily.  At the boundary between 26 and 27, he's flying up, with the white siding for background, and you can see his red throat.  Later in 27 he turns, and starts darting in and out of flowers, sometimes clear, sometimes fuzzy.  He's awfully fast; I'm surprised you could keep him well in the picture for so long.

BarbStAubrey

  • BooksDL
  • Posts: 11346
  • Keep beauty alive...
    • Piled on Tables and Floors and Bureau Drawers
Re: The Library
« Reply #21152 on: June 06, 2020, 12:10:06 PM »
Amazing to realize for as long as WWII raged on - once we along with the Brits hit the beaches of Normandy it was only 15 months later that we finished the war - looks like once we tackle anything we get the job done - the pandemic was likened to a war and we sure went after it as if fighting WWII and so sure enough as you point out Bellemarie - in months we are on top of it. 

Summer temps arrived yesterday - never looked to see how hot but it was hot enough that the AC was spilling out water taken from the house and that is the sign of summer.

Birds - just brings up the painful behavior of two neighbors - we had so many birds and a family of bluejays that returned for nearly 40 years but the guy behind me and the one next to me decided to install these spotlights on their houses that shine all night long - at first I Thought they were having a backyard party but it kept up and kept up - I even spoke to the one guy about the light shining in my window to no avail - of course there lights chased all the birds away - birds need to sleep - here of late I've seen some tiny sparrows and sometimes the grackles bunch up in the yard of an hour or so - and I still get the fluttery jittery flocks of birds flying through on their way north or in the fall, south but the joy of sitting by the window with my coffee watching birds is no longer - I notice my other neighbor installed a 10 foot fence along the back of his property - actually illegal in that the fences are only allowed to be 6 feet but I sure am not going to make a report and he does have many trees that the only ones who will notice is the very culprits with their lights because behind him he too has a neighbor with spotlights in addition to the one behind me - there is a sizeable tree that protects me from his back neighbor's lights and the way the windows are placed I don't have my next door neighbor's lights flooding my home - but birds are gone grrr

However, I have a great memory of helping someone sell their house who lived in an area where everyone lived in very modest homes on at least 5 acres - she had a couple of humming bird feeders hanging on her front porch and close to the house was a tree that had been cut down with about 3 feet of the various branches still part of this tree structure - the entire tree and the feeders and flitting in the air between were hundreds of hummingbirds - various colors and sizes - I never did look them up but I bet just about every family of hummingbird hung out at her 'way' station. I even used it in the MLS description saying hummingbirds convey.

Been reading the most unusual book - took a bit to figure out what was going on - starts out with an older women in her 60s getting married for the first time and the guy does not show up - when she calls he is drunk and says things to indicate he got cold feet - then all of a sudden with no apparent connection so that I thought I was reading a book of short stories, there is a young women whose best friend from childhood gets into local politics and they end up fighting realizing their lives have taken different paths but they cannot break their long time friendship till several months later all of a sudden the gal who entered politics does not show for their weekly coffee meet - and after a couple of missed weekly coffee chats with no call explaining the girl realizes it is over and there is nothing keeping her in the town - and then a third women, while a teen her sister crawls out the window and down the tree to meet yet another guy but this time she never returns. She too decides a new location would help clear her mind of the unexplained loss.

Then another seemingly unrelated chapter about this guy who inherits a house from an Aunt with all these rules - he is never to go in the attic nor ever play music before the year 1952 - the story tells of how the Aunt's husband had hung himself in the attic and when his business partner came to help he also hangs himself and according to the guy's sister the Aunt believed the two men  haunt the house and she suggests instead of living with all the rules that even included never to plant flowers in the front yard - he should rent it out - he refurbishes the house into 3 apartments and sure enough if the three women become the tenants. Finally things were meshing so it really is one story.

I'm up to the part of the story where the shades appear to be at it, each woman has already complained to each other about the loud closing of doors at night but the crux of the story appears to be because the mail is soaking wet and the weekly shopping ads but more important a letter torn in half so that none of the three know which of them the half a letter is for and it indicates someone had stopped by and whom ever was not home and suggested they meet at a local named cafe in the afternoon but the date or time is in the missing part. They all three know the cafe and the half letter said afternoon so they decide to meet for coffee everyday at the cafe till whomever shows up - they are all cagey but they all have someone in their past that it could be - I'm thinking they end up sharing their stories and bring some closure to their experiences but we shall see what we shall see -

I must say the author uses the most marvelous analogies and metaphors to describe feelings I have ever read - a couple of examples --- "Her body became bloated with questions; she felt them in her feet when she walked, and they flowed through her veins and whispered in her head at night." another "...expelling warm blasts of mint gum and halitosis so pungent it almost tricked you into thinking you could see it, like smog."

The book is written by Suzy Krause. Sorry I Missed You: A Novel not exactly a sit on the edge of your chair page turner but I sure want to know what happens because now as one of the three is on her way to work there is an unexpected blast in town with all the police cordoning off the area that includes the cafe, which in this smaller town is only a few doors down on either side from where two of these women work - and there is a strange older man who seems to have more information... hmm...
“A man should hear a little music, read a little poetry, and see a fine picture every day of his life, in order that worldly cares may not obliterate the sense of the beautiful which God has implanted in the human soul.” ~ Goethe

bellamarie

  • Posts: 4144
Re: The Library
« Reply #21153 on: June 06, 2020, 05:23:13 PM »
Barb, I am noticing more and more books begin with each chapter introducing each character one by one.  The book The Island I am reading does this, and by the time I finally get to the sixth or seventh chapter, telling me about the character, I have done forgot the others.  That's sorta sad that the friend just stopped coming to their weekly coffee meets, because of their differences in politics.  I had a high school friend I reconnected with on Facebook about five years ago.  Once she realized we did not follow the same party, poof...she was gone.

Pat, I like stopping my videos and taking a snap pic of a certain frame, making it a picture.  When my grandkids play sports, I video tape them at their games, and then from it I get the best action pics from the still frame. 

Hummingbirds are so fast, they are difficult to capture, and they love going from one flower to the other.  The ones that come in my yard prefer flowers to the feeder, I have for them. 

Barb, I had NO idea birds will stop coming if they can not sleep at night.  I learn something new every day in this room.  Those spotlights would drive me crazy.  We have a motion one for our back patio, and when I go to bed I generally remember to flip the switch off, so the wind does not trigger the light, because my neighbor's bedroom is near where the light shines.

Well, I redesigned one more section of the backyard today.  I almost have everything to exactly how I have envisioned it for years.  My hubby keeps asking if I am done yet?  I always say, almost. 

My Peony bush is in full bloom now, so I have to share a pic of them.  I always cut them and bring them inside, they fill the house with the best aroma.  Pat, you could not ever have them inside your house, I can smell them as soon as I wake up in the morning, coming to the top of the stairs.  They may make you sneeze, just looking at them.





“What on earth could be more luxurious than a sofa, a book, and a cup of coffee?...Was ever anything so civil?”
__Anthony Trollope, The Warden

Frybabe

  • Posts: 10028
Re: The Library
« Reply #21154 on: June 06, 2020, 05:32:30 PM »
Peonies are such beautiful flowers. Mom had some.  Do you have trouble with them attracting ants? I seem to remember ours always seemed to have ants crawling around on them.

PatH

  • BooksDL
  • Posts: 10952
Re: The Library
« Reply #21155 on: June 06, 2020, 10:19:51 PM »
Ours did too, when I was growing up.  I’ll have to ask my neighbor.

nlhome

  • Posts: 984
Re: The Library
« Reply #21156 on: June 06, 2020, 10:24:25 PM »
We have peonies. This year, I have seen no ants. I believe they are drawn to the nectar in the blossoms.

bellamarie

  • Posts: 4144
Re: The Library
« Reply #21157 on: June 06, 2020, 11:02:26 PM »
I cut mine as soon as they bloom, before the ants have a chance to get to them.  Did not see one ant on any of them, but yes, they are known to attract them for the nectar as nlhome pointed out.
“What on earth could be more luxurious than a sofa, a book, and a cup of coffee?...Was ever anything so civil?”
__Anthony Trollope, The Warden

ginny

  • Administrator
  • Posts: 91469
Re: The Library
« Reply #21158 on: June 07, 2020, 07:43:15 AM »
Going back a bit to some of the great things put here:

Dana, I appreciate hearing the minimum requirement for a viricide is now 70 percent alcohol.  People were saying it had to be 90 percent alcohol which is not that easy to find in a hand sanitizer  (not here, anyway)...Right after reading your post I went to WalMart (to find some "Wellies," that was a waste of time), but I did see a large new  display (only one each) of hand sanitizer, but 62.5 percent alcohol...so can we conclude then that it might clean some bacteria off, but not get any viruses?

I've never had any confidence in hand sanitizers but swear by Wet Ones as they have literally saved my bacon several times including the time I ran face first into a transparent door on a Frecciarossa  train, splitting my top lip into two pieces. Imagine the germs, but you'd not know today it ever happened, and this time I did not opt for stitches. Made quite a scene with my bandage mustache in the TSA lines, however,  provided some Japanese tourists with the giggles.. I am a traveling pharmacy, though, between the wet ones and the hydro bandages, they can take on almost any injury.  Like you, however, I have always sort of looked down on hand sanitizer, but I did think the normal ones Wet Ones (the red  letter ones) (not the sensitive skin ones, which do not kill the same bacteria)  with the killing 99 percent of bacteria, etc., because of the amount of fluid, worked.  But I admit I have never looked at the alcohol percentages of the "red" ones. If I ever get the chance to get my hands on one again, I will. :)




Beautiful bird and peony photos, Bellamarie! I love peonies, too, and there are so many different kinds.



Barbara, interesting about the light and wild birds. In egg production for a chicken, you are advised to have light in the chicken house 24/7 (and we used to have a radio playing soothing music...believe it or not).  The radio no longer plays because the commercials got more and more strident hahahaa....it's even possible to jangle the nerves of a chicken.....The light in the chicken house also keeps predators at bay, or so I think,  but it's Fort Chicken anyway, so HOPEFULLY we won't lose any, so far so good: the 2 left from a flock of 25 are 8 years old. They always have the option to go outside if they prefer the dark.



PatH!!!! What a wonderful thing! Life intervened in my desire to learn to sail small boats, and I didn't get a chance until I was 70, at which point I took a Coast Guard course in theory, and then practical lessons at a local marina and in Boston when visiting a daughter then living there.  I never got very good at it, but at least I had a lot of fun.  I just hit my window of opportunity too, as in a couple of years I became too stiff to do all the position shifting needed.

I think that's fabulous. There is NOTHING so personally satisfying  as finally getting to do a dream deferred as Langston Hughes put it, though he was talking about something else entirely.  I also have always  had a desire to sail a small sailboat, I have no idea why. The entire idea is romantic to me.  I used to have friends even in high school  who did that and always invited me for a sail or a picnic but I never went, and I don't know why. I do so admire your doing it, that reads like a story in a book.  I love that. People getting to do or taking the chance to do something they have always wanted to do is SO inspiring.

Makes one want to run out and do something one has "always wanted to do,"  doesn't it?  If not now, when?



Rosemary, I have heard that Lidl pronunciation too, thank you for the Aldi and Lidl explanations.  We actually have 2  butcher shops in the town closest to us here,  and one store that only deals in fish, and as you say the prices are astronomical because the grocery stores also have butchers who will cut it for you, too, and we have fish counters, too, in the groceries.  It's funny about meat in general, I never ate meat at all till the coronavirus and now I seem to eat it all the time, which is very odd. I'm putting off my GP annual visit because I'm sure my cholesterol level is through the roof.

I do like salmon and do try to eat it twice a week, supposedly is good for the brain, it has...what it is? Telemeres? Telemones? Which otherwise are hard to get and are vital for your mind, or so "they" say. I like the wild caught sockeye salmon, and we can get it here frozen (which I know is anathema, but we are an entire country away  from Alaska sockeye salmon) and we can  get it whole or already cut in individually sealed frozen pieces.   Funny that I don't eat farmed salmon which is about all you can get in a restaurant, looks different, tastes different, and eats different things, though I suppose one could whinge on about mercury in the wild caught, too.



Frybabe, your industry astounds me, you are always building something or moving something! I could no more assemble a table than walk on the moon, and if I did, it would fall down.



Rosemary: What is of more concern to me is that an actor in the Radio Times today said that he is worried that insurance will become impossible to get for anyone over 60. It is SO typical of insurance companies to refuse to insure anyone or anything that might result in a claim

 That's true for pets, too. I was absolutely shocked to see, as a result of the coronavirus, what our "travel insurance" supposedly WILL pay for. I did not make a claim, because I switched my Virgin Atlantic  flights but in going to the website of the main travel insurer in the US out of curiosity,  I was shocked to see the notice that "fear of the coronavirus is not a valid excuse for a claim," even IF you paid extra for the "cancel for any reason." AND they were only paying out percentages of the total which is not clearly revealed in the 100 pages of fine print which accompanies your  policy!!!!  There was also a disclaimer about lawsuits!!

THAT was a head's up.

ginny

  • Administrator
  • Posts: 91469
Re: The Library
« Reply #21159 on: June 07, 2020, 07:56:50 AM »
I do have to add one thing about Microsoft. I've had no end of email issues due to ATT suddenly deciding to change their security logins last week and the need for an OUATH or whatever it is, OR a security key, now installed,  and at the same time problems with Windows 10, which as the computer guy who fixes my computer said, was a mess when it came out. He advised against getting the Windows 365, he was offended by the very thought of  it, but I did, I was desperate as all the images in my PowerPoints going back 15 years disappeared, and the handouts, ditto. I thought to get the entire new  Office Suite would help, apparently there is a fix for that  you don't need to get the entire thing but anyway, I did and immediately Outlook (email client) which worked fine with ATT,  went down. And would not open. (Still can't get the  Ipad and ATT to collaborate on the send email, but it receives it. All week long. ALL WEEK, every day, all day, struggling with ATT and Thunderbird  customer support online and by phone (ATT)  nothing worked.

Thunderbird also went down. It was a down week. So I got 365 and still could not get the email to work so I was told by many about Microsoft's outstanding service, so went online and got a choice of chat or email or phone, whatever, so I called. And got the most extraordinary young man who reinstalled the thing, and had to call back 3 times to be sure it finished installing, (took 3 hours)  and THEN while waiting for the last thing, remotely fixed an issue not related to the problem at all,  I had with the desktop wallpaper, got Outlook to work, enlarged the entire fonts in a new desktop configuration....In other words he did free what I paid 3 times the cost of a  year's 365  to have done locally and he was really good.

I am very impressed with them. And I'm glad I got it. Something positive for a change in service, which was really neat.