Well, this is all absolutely fascinating - we in the UK (or maybe I should just say "I") know virtually nothing about US culture apart from what we see on TV, and I am aware that vast swathes of the country are a mystery to me. I have just started reading Ladies of Covington as well, so now I am becoming increasingly keen to find out more about the south. I'm afraid US history for me began and ended with the War of Independence, studied briefly for O-level History. I would be glad to have recommendations for more novels that might broaden my view.
Although I have never had any of the foods mentioned, some of them did sound vaguely familiar. I have an old cookery book called Farmhouse Fare, which is a collection of recipes "from country housewives collected by Farmers Weekly" - it includes a whole section on "Pig Curing and By-Products", with recipes for how to make Brawn, black pudding, "oatmeal and pigs liver pudding", "pigs feet and parsley sauce" and the preparation of tripe. It also has a "market day savoury" that can be "left cooking on the stove while you go to market" - it consists of pork chops, pigs' kidneys, onions, potatoes, apple, sage and tomato sauce.
I too like MK Fisher - I love the "impressionist" feel of her writing. I used to re and re-read a library book by James Beard, about his childhood in Oregon - I imagine he was well known in the US. In the UK, I like some writers because their recipes work - Delia Smith and Mary Berry come to mind - but others because I just enjoy reading them - Nigel Slater, Constance Spry.
MaryPage, you write like an angel. That post ending "that was the last year we butchered" was like a short story - I could see the scene so well. It made me long to hear more about your childhood, which must have been so different from mine. I don't even know what a carriage house is. More please!
Rosemary