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ginny

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« Reply #4000 on: February 05, 2011, 10:58:48 AM »

The Library



Our library cafe is open 24/7, the welcome mat is always out.
Do come in from daily chores and spend some time with us.

We look forward to hearing from you, about you and the books you are enjoying (or not).


Let the book talk begin here!









ginny

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« Reply #4001 on: February 05, 2011, 11:01:15 AM »

Mahlia,  Babi, and Steph,  thank you for the nice birthday wishes, and since I'm seeing them today, it just extends the joy. :)

Olle, how good to see you again! I am sorry you have been ill. I took a course once at Oxford in the Decline and Fall of the  British Empire in India, it was an eye opener.

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« Reply #4002 on: February 05, 2011, 12:18:06 PM »
Nolvikarn, what's Auster like?  I have City of Glass in my to be read pile, but haven't gotten to it yet.

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« Reply #4003 on: February 05, 2011, 01:46:08 PM »
Your blurb about Joyce Carol Oates, Olle, reminds me that I just saw that she has a memoir out now called A Widow's Story about her life after her husband's death. It looks very interesting. Has anyone read it yet?

rosemarykaye

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« Reply #4004 on: February 05, 2011, 02:45:48 PM »
Olle, you don't sound like an "old fool" to me. 

What you say about colonialism is all too true.  Many older people (my mother included) still believe that the colonies were better off under British rule - they point to all the grief that is now occurring in places like Zimbabwe, S Africa, etc and say "we managed them much better than they can manage themselves"; they don't see all that grief as a product of that so-called management.  It would be very interesting to see how these countries would have evolved if the west had never been involved.  It is difficult for us to understand now how justified Britain, France, Germany, Holland, etc felt in ruling their various colonies, just as it is hard to understand why the Crusaders felt that God was on their side in "subduing the heathen". 

I suppose it will be just the same when people judge our own generation - my daughter already tells me that we (or perhaps I personally, depending on her mood...!) have ruined the world for her generation. 

I guess we can only do our best, and I imagine that most people who ruled "British" India felt that they were "doing their duty" at the time.

Hope your flu is better!

Rosemary

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« Reply #4005 on: February 05, 2011, 06:05:48 PM »
Belated HAPPY BIRTHDAY, GINNY.  I hope you had a good one, with many of your favorite people, and things.  May the coming year hold many blessings for you.

I haven't been online for a couple of days.  Can't remember why not. 

Sheila

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« Reply #4006 on: February 05, 2011, 06:12:22 PM »
Happy Belated Birthday, Ginny.  I don't often post in this discussion but enjoy reading your posts.

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« Reply #4007 on: February 05, 2011, 06:27:02 PM »
Happy Belated Birthday, Ginny.  Hope you have a wonderful year.

Evelyn

ginny

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« Reply #4008 on: February 05, 2011, 09:53:47 PM »
Why thank you, Shelia, FlaJean and Evelyn! I appreciate that, it's just made a memorable birthday for sure.  I took my 4 year old  grandbaby to the circus and it was just a wonderful day. :)

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« Reply #4009 on: February 06, 2011, 03:18:27 AM »
Yes, and the same from me Ginny - happy belated birthday!  It sounds like you had a perfect day.

Rosemary

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« Reply #4010 on: February 06, 2011, 06:28:10 AM »
Yesterday was a shopping day, at least the afternoon was. My 15 yo granddaughter is in NROTC at school and there will be a military ball in late April,, but when you go to Nanas house, you see if Nana would like to look at gowns with you ( Hint hint) and what do you know.. she did.. So as you can imagine after careful considerations and many mind changes you realize that you cannot live without a midnight blue strapless long gown, your very first long gown.. and what do you know.. Nana says yes.. The saleslady at Bloomies is just thrilled, you are just thrilled.. and Nana.. well Nana is a sucker at best and you do look extra lovely..And when you get back, Nana looks in her jewel box since she remembered she had a lovely necklace that had a midnight blue stone and many zircons.. from when she was young ( dark ages of course) and used to wear strapless stuff.. So you also got a necklace ( It came from a wonderful store years ago in New Orleans called Fabulous Faux).. So it was a relaxing funny day. Ah the joys of Nanas.
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« Reply #4011 on: February 06, 2011, 09:00:34 AM »
Take heart, ROSEMARY. One day your daughter will have teenage
children of her own...and you will be revenged!

  The price of being a grandmother, STEPH, but one of the nicer ones.
 I can remember the year my Canadian granddaughter, who has always
been a pretty girl, came to visit with her Dad after a three-year absence.  I was stunned; she was gorgeous!  I whispered as much to
my son, who smiled wryly and whispered back,  "I know. Why do you
think I'm going gray?"
"I go to books and to nature as a bee goes to the flower, for a nectar that I can make into my own honey."  John Burroughs

roshanarose

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« Reply #4012 on: February 06, 2011, 10:08:26 AM »
Gumtree - My thoughts are with you tonight.  I do hope that you are not in harm's way of the bushfires that continue to blaze their way across parts of WA.  When will it end?
How can you prove whether at this moment we are sleeping, and all our thoughts are a dream; or whether we are awake, and talking to one another in the waking state?  - Plato

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« Reply #4013 on: February 06, 2011, 10:32:56 AM »
Roshanarose Thanks for thinking of me.  They are very worrying fires as they're just on the edge of the metro area. I'm not anywhere near them and have a lot of built up area between me and the fire. The winds are very strong and not expected to abate until around midday tomorrow but by then anything could have happened. Several houses already totally burnt out and streets evacuated, roads closed. It's beautiful countryside that's being burned - semi rural, hilly, inaccessible spots, pristine bush areas. I'm wondering what we've all done.
Reading is an art and the reader an artist. Holbrook Jackson

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« Reply #4014 on: February 06, 2011, 10:58:26 AM »
My husband responded to a compliment on our daughters.  Someone said, "I never knew your daughters were so beautiful"  He smugly replied," Well, you only get out of it what you put into it." this is the same guy who thinks all-A report cards are "boring."

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« Reply #4015 on: February 06, 2011, 02:12:44 PM »
Each week from the Library of America I receive an email with a short story - this being 100 years since the birth of Elizabeth Bishop [died 1979] - among her papers and letters recently was found one of her short stories.  Although best known as a poet she did have published a few short stories. She was a regular contributer to the New Yorker magazine known for including great poetry. The New Yorker did publish 3 of her short stories.

Here is the link to the page that has the link to the short story - interesting - in fact, facinating - short, yes - took me a bit to get the point - Receiving these weekly short stories by email is free and I like the fun of interupting my 'duties' refreshed by quickly reading a short story written by a revered author.

http://storyoftheweek.loa.org/2011/02/was-it-in-his-hand.html
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Steph

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« Reply #4016 on: February 07, 2011, 06:05:57 AM »
Back to alone, but I did have a nice family type weekend. I am so sorry to hear about the fires. We in Florida have fire problems during our dry season, but this year, we have had rain just enough, it seems..We are still seriously short in the aquifer. This has been a horrid winter.. Ice and snow,, fire and wind.. All over the world.
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« Reply #4017 on: February 07, 2011, 01:15:00 PM »
That certainly was an interesting short story, Barb.

When I was young, I read a lot of short stories and essays. I got away from them, however, for no particular reason that I can think of. I've been thinking it is time to dig back into reading some poetry, too. I do know why I stopped reading poetry. I had a teacher one year who, instead of making it interesting, force fed us too much without giving us the time or incentive to enjoy it.

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« Reply #4018 on: February 08, 2011, 06:03:52 AM »
I like essays in that I can read one and then put the book down for another time. I have a new Nora Ephron and am doing that. She is funny, but in small doses.
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« Reply #4019 on: February 09, 2011, 02:25:20 PM »
Steph, is that the one about "I don't remember" -- and I don't remember the title.

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« Reply #4020 on: February 09, 2011, 03:41:16 PM »
The people from Ladies' Home Journal keep sending that magazine to me for some unknown reason (I'm sure not paying for it! That's the last magazine I'd be reading).  But before I threw the last issue in the trash, I noticed a home decorating article and glanced at it.  The writer said a great idea for decorating was to arrange the books on your bookshelves by color!  Can you imagine that?  Now lets see, did my book on China I wanted to read have a red or a blue cover....

Marj
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« Reply #4021 on: February 09, 2011, 05:46:12 PM »
Marg - what a horrible thought.  I wouldn't even have my books in alphabetical order for some years, though I did finally give in to husband's moaning and put all the fiction As, Bs, Cs, etc together (I still won't have them in order within the letter).  I also sorted out all the detective stories into one bookcase, all the biographies into another, and it does make life easier - but books as interior decoration - what next?

I once visited someone who asked me, in shocked tones, whether I actually had my books out on display at all - the implication seemed to be that they were something to keep hidden away as some sort of embarrassment - equally weird.

R

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« Reply #4022 on: February 09, 2011, 07:28:48 PM »
Well at least there are some with a public forum who are attempting to get across the idea that it is OK to have books in a home - Hurray color coordinated direction or not...

I must see at least 30 homes a week - most occupied by the seller - averaging about 1000 occupied homes a year - If I see 20 of those homes in a YEAR with books on shelves I am lucky - I do see about a quarter of them with books on nightstands, usually the houses that  you can tell because all of his clothes are gone therefore, she must sell because of divorce where as, the guys in the same circumstances we see dishes in the sink, beer cans next to his chair facing the TV or, everything is stripped clean and there is a medicine chest of bottles on his nightstand.

Over the years I can actually list the few homes with a Library of books rather than the shelves filled with trophies or some other collection much less a  house with books bulging from every nook and cranny - usually the book owners are folks who live near UT or in older houses in the hills without a typical subdivision builder planned house.  

I was shocked for many years to walk in the homes where children live in a family and NO books - NONE - I could not believe it and then when the computers came along they were set up in each bedroom but still no books or magazines. Amazing...

Now there is one explanation that I have to take into consideration - my daughter-in-law reads at least one book a week but as soon as she is finished reading the book is given away or sold to half price book stores. But at least they do have a collection of woodworking magazines and a few books given as gifts over the years. All the boys books were packed up and given to the Battered Women's Center and so her house does not have bulging bookcases either.
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« Reply #4023 on: February 09, 2011, 08:35:25 PM »
I cannot imagine a life without books being number one.  My happiest childhood hours were spent lying on my stomach on my bed or on the lawn reading a book.  Wow, I could not get my body in that position now if my life depended upon it, but would love to!  Used to climb up into trees to read, as well!  Short term memory dreadfully poor, but bet I could read you all of Beatrix Potter's A Tale of Peter Rabbit by heart right from my head.  Was age 4/5 when reading that.  To this day, when I spy a bunny rabbit, as I did early this morning, I instantly picture its burrow with Mother Rabbit in a bright blue checked dress with apron and the fireplace and candle and bunny sisters and brothers.

Books have been the fuel of my life.  It is not a judgment I make of people, as there are Perfect Loves out there who never read, but I do have a difficult time having a prolonged conversation with and relating to people who do not read.  Do you know what I mean?

If you come into my 1 bedroom with den, 2 bath condo, the very first thing you will see is bookcases, bookcases, bookcases.  Crammed with books:  2 layers per shelf!  Six in my living room, one in my foyer, one in my dining room, two in the den, and one in my bedroom.  Books piled on tables all over the place.  Oh yes, the larger bathroom contains a small bookcase!  I swear!  And yes, I read and give away a huge number.  But there are reference books and histories and biographies and poetry and coffee table books and books written by friends or family and favorite fiction you just never want to let go!

Take away my books, and I die.  Literally.

PatH

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« Reply #4024 on: February 09, 2011, 09:21:06 PM »
Amen, MaryPage!

kiwilady

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« Reply #4025 on: February 09, 2011, 11:40:40 PM »
I have given away many books as I don't have room for them but I keep my special books. Those given to me. Some much treasured as sent to me by SN bookies now deceased. Some books that are out of print and I just love to read them over and over again. Some biographies and autobiographies of famous people I have admired over my lifetime. Nostalgic books from my childhood. (Uncle Toms Cabin for one). Oh how I cried over that book as a ten year old.

Carolyn

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« Reply #4026 on: February 10, 2011, 01:10:33 AM »
Carolyn, the real person who was the inspiration for Uncle Tom lived about 3 miles north of my house.  His cabin is gone, but another building of similar appearance, I think a sort of kitchen, where he worked, is still around, with a new roof, now stuck on the side of a suburban house.  The county recently bought it to preserve as a historical site.


kiwilady

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« Reply #4027 on: February 10, 2011, 01:31:07 AM »
Oh Thank you for the photograph!

Carolyn

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« Reply #4028 on: February 10, 2011, 03:21:36 AM »
PatH - what a lovely photograph - where is this?

MaryPage - Amen again!  Barb - when we have been looking for somewhere to live, we have frequently turned to each other (out of earshot of the seller, because in Scotland the usual practice is for the owner to show the house) and said (1) "where would the piano go?" and (2) "no room for books".  Like you, we (or I should say principally Madeleine and I) have books everywhere - floor to ceiling bookshelves in the sitting room, more in the dining room, bookcases (stuffed) in my bedroom, her bedroom, and even in Anna's and Freddie's rooms, plus piles of cookery books in the kitchen, plus overflow in the loft, plus books scattered in all sorts of other places where we just happened to be reading them.

I too have seen lots of houses with children and no books, just tons of electronic gadgetry; depressing.  My neighbour always buys new books for her children, but the minute they are read they are out of the door - I recently helped her take some stuff to a charity shop and struggled to stop myself rescuing the pristine hardback books she was handing in - though at least they were going to a good cause.  The awful man who used to "manage" the books for another  local charity shop used to go through the boxes as they came in and literally throw the ones he didn't like into the rubbish bin - not because they were in poor condition, just because, in his opinion, "nobody would want to read that" - I am relieved to see that he seems to have been discharged of his duties!

I fully understand that books take up a lot of space and if you don't have that space you have to be selective, but there is so much pleasure in being surrounded by the books that tell the story of your life, - I often go into the sitting room for one book and find myself browsing through several others that I had forgotten about.  That's no doubt why I never get anything done  :D.

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« Reply #4029 on: February 10, 2011, 04:28:50 AM »
Rosemary - your house sounds like my house. Books in almost every room plus some stored in the garage. Floor to ceiling shelving in two rooms most of which has the dreaded double shelving to accommodate extra books - bookcases everywhere. Right now DH is trying to cull out some of his stuff - his shelves look as though they have been ransacked but the books to be discarded are in the interim stage and still have to undergo a final check before they go to charity shop - many will somehow find their way back onto his shelves.

I worry about downsizing - which may have to come fairly soon - how will I decide which books to keep and which ones I'll be able to live without. Too hard!
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« Reply #4030 on: February 10, 2011, 05:19:42 AM »
Me, too!  Books overflow in my home.  One of my first dreams, as a child, was to grow up and have my very, own library.  Books were my first love, and remain so.  When I was about 6 years old, my mother took me to the neighborhood, and helped me to get my first library card.  I was more excited, and thrilled with that, than my first driver's license.  The library was only a block away, on the same street where we lived.  I was allowed to go by myself, and check out whatever I wanted.  Before that, my mother read to me daily.

Now, I periodically go through my own library, and weed out books to give to the local library.  Doing that always involves a lot of difficult decisions.  I told my grandson that he will inheirit my books.  One Christmas when he was about 5, his first opened gift was a picture dictionary for children.  Well, he crawled up in a chair and began to "read" it.  He was not at all interested in the other gifts.  We all felt thrilled to watch him.

I love my Kindle, too.  With already over 200 books.  What a gift, to be able to chose a book that I am in the mood to read.  Right at my fingertips.  I can easily carry all of them with me.  It is light weight, and the size of the font can be enlarged.  Amazon has great service, too.  Just a phone call away.  IF I end up in an assissted living facility, in a small room, my Kindle, and it's contents will fit.

Sheila

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« Reply #4031 on: February 10, 2011, 06:04:46 AM »
Pedlin, yes, the Nora Ephron is I dont Remember.. Before that I had read Sorry about my Neck.. I like her for short stuff. She is funny and sharp..
I have way too many books, plus a large genealogical library of New York State.. I really need to put together a list of "When I die", so that my sons know where I want the geneological stuff to go.
Both of my sons have books everywhere as well.. We are simply a bookie family.. All of us ask for books for Christmas and birthdays.. I trade books to my daughter in laws if they are things they might like to read. They both know where my book trade box is and raid it when they visit.
I sold real estate for a while and I agree with Barbara. It is simply amazing to me how few books are in most homes..
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« Reply #4032 on: February 10, 2011, 07:17:55 AM »
So sad to see homes without books, especially where there are children.  Like most of you, I have overflowing bookshelves all over (not in my little bathroom yet, tho' (LOL).  

Reminds me of when I was newly married and we visited another couple's home.  They were so proud of their fabulous new stereo equipment.  But the only music they had were shelves of albums of Elvis Presley.  Now, Elvis was okay in his way, but only Elvis?.....  My husband and I just shook our heads, unbelieving, after we left.

Marj
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« Reply #4033 on: February 10, 2011, 09:49:47 AM »
 MARYPAGE, we could have kept one another perfect company reading
when we were young...assuming there were to comfortable limbs in
that tree. Always plenty of room on the lawn, of course, ..and under
a tree.
  I do understand what you mean about prolonged conversations. When
I was growing up, social gatherings tended to split into male groups
and female groups. The talk in the female groups tended to be very
boring, to me at least, and an attempt to join the male group was met
with stares of disbelief. Needless to say, I didn't enjoy social
gatherings very much.
"I go to books and to nature as a bee goes to the flower, for a nectar that I can make into my own honey."  John Burroughs

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« Reply #4034 on: February 10, 2011, 11:49:11 AM »
We are soulmates.  I believe I have said that previously here, but conversation over time simply proves the fact.

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« Reply #4035 on: February 10, 2011, 12:07:07 PM »
Barb- interesting descriptions of the homes, i think there is a book to be written from that.  ;D

Interesting to think about what's in my house and what is in other people's houses. I'm sitting in what we call the sunroom, simply bcs it has two 7 ft corner windows where the sun shines in brilliantly in the morning. It is largely "my room" and has all the things i love in it......right next to the door from the kitchen is a 5 and a half ft book case that has at least two rows of books on it's five shelves. On the other side of the room is an entertainment center w/ the obligatory tv, stereo, cd player, turntable, tapes- both video and audio,  cd's, pictures of the family. I was just saying to a grand-nephew who is a musician, that i wld have been dead a long time ago w/out music in my life, i will now amend that and say "books and music". Also on that wall is the computer. Catty-cornered from the computer is a corner where a sofa and loveseat come together and almost hides the bags of yarn and knitting and crocheting projects i am working on.

In the living room, which is my husband's nook, is a long table in one corner that acts as his desk, which has some books. On the other side is a tv/etc, and a large bookcase/display/glass enclosed piece that has more of my books, pictures and a small Norton depression glass collection i have.
My nightstand always has 6 or 8 library books on or around it. My DH's has a couple books. So we're not overwhelmed w/ books, but you can see what is important to us by looking at our house. When i think back to my parent's house, however, altho my mother and i always had a book "going", there were not a lot of books visible. The reason was that my Mom was very neat and we had a small house and not a lot of money, so very few books were bought.

See Barb, you could write a psychology book abt what people's houses say abt them.......loved the beer cans and dishes in the sink description. You wld never find dishes sitting in my Mother's sink.......nor my husband's. He hates clutter, so he immediately puts any dirty dishes in the dwasher. You notice i didn't mention my sink....... :)

Steph - enjoy your trip, the weather is supposes to be warmer - 40's - this weekend......oh, i think you were talking abt it on the " fiction" site.

 

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« Reply #4036 on: February 10, 2011, 01:44:28 PM »
PatH - what a lovely photograph - where is this
It's in Bethesda, a Maryland suburb of Washington, DC, 5 or 6 miles north of the DC boundary.  I live half way between the cabin and the DC line.

This now crowded suburbia was farmland back then.

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« Reply #4037 on: February 10, 2011, 01:54:39 PM »
Good grief, PatH, I had no idea you were so close to me.  I lived in Bethesda back in the early sixties.  Seems like yesterday, but, Good Grief Charlie Brown, I am talking 48 years ago!  Still have friends and family over there.  Do you still drive?  Would you like to visit me one day and get my 5¢ tour of Annapolis and have lunch?  I only drive a little bit around town here now.  Never go on the highways, so I cannot possibly come to you.  Well, not that I've been invited, but just FYI.  Ta!

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« Reply #4038 on: February 11, 2011, 12:35:50 AM »
MaryPage, I was already here in the early sixties, so we might very well have bumped baskets in the grocery store.  I live a little inside the Beltway, just off Old Georgetown Road, 3 blocks west of the YMCA.

Unfortunately, I never drive on highways any more either, or I'd love to come see you.  Annapolis is certainly lovely.

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« Reply #4039 on: February 11, 2011, 12:39:24 AM »
PatH - The long arm of coincidence.  My ex-husband's grandparents used to reside in Bethesda.  Their surname was Anderson, and he was a Paediatrician.
How can you prove whether at this moment we are sleeping, and all our thoughts are a dream; or whether we are awake, and talking to one another in the waking state?  - Plato