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pedln

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Re: The Library
« Reply #2960 on: October 30, 2010, 11:51:30 AM »

The Library



Our library cafe is open 24/7, the welcome mat is  always out.
Do come in from daily chores and spend some time with us.

We look forward to hearing from you, about you and the books you are enjoying (or not).


Let the book talk begin here!





Bellemere, I’ve got Cutting for Stone on my Kindle, but have not had a chance to read it yet. The article below is about the author and his training methods for med students.

Abraham Verghese

So now I know of two docs who are doing things right – Abraham Verghese and Atul Gawande.

Babi, by all means join the Excellent Women discussion even if you don't have the book.  There will still be lots to talk about.


Frybabe

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Re: The Library
« Reply #2961 on: October 30, 2010, 03:05:09 PM »
Heads up Falco fans. I was just cruising around on Amazon and found a new Lindsey Davis book called Falco: The Official Companion.

From Amazon's product description:

Quote
Only here will readers learn the author’s private background, including her descent from a failed assassin and how atheism improved her knitting. Here too are the real glories and heartache involved in research and creation—why the baby had to be born in Barcelona, which plots evolved from intense loathing of management trainees, what part a thermal vest played in the iconic Falco’s conception. Enlightening quotations from the Falco books and eminent sources: Juvenal, through Chandler, to 1066 and All That are also included.

I hope I find a job soon. I need more books.  ;D

Frybabe

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Re: The Library
« Reply #2962 on: October 30, 2010, 09:51:45 PM »
 Does anyone here belong to the Good Reads site? I decided to give it a go, spent some time putting in a book list, and then checked out the discussion groups. I can't say that I am impressed by what is available. Lots of vampire, and role playing stuff. Some lonely soul started a discussion group in Harrisburg a few weeks ago, but no one has joined her - except me. I'll give it a week or two.

winsummm

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Re: The Library
« Reply #2963 on: October 30, 2010, 11:18:00 PM »
Hi Fry
I am a SOOKIE STACKHOUSE fan and have read all the available ones as well as covered the movies  on tv.  the new ones are slow in coming which isfrustratingand themost recent are very bloody, but the theme is becoming political in the vampire world so I'm still willing to follow when it gets back on the tv.

I'll pass on the group though since none of the other vampire things with the exception of the Harry Desdon wizards books appeal to me.
thimk

salan

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Re: The Library
« Reply #2964 on: October 31, 2010, 03:06:02 AM »
Bellemere,  Cutting for Stone is my ftf group's choice for March.  I haven't started it yet, but it sounds good.  Let me know what your group thinks so that I can share with my group.
Sally

Steph

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Re: The Library
« Reply #2965 on: October 31, 2010, 06:07:35 AM »
Obviously not that kind of trees, but you jogged a memory of a small girl once upon a time who loved to climb trees.. Took a book and up I went. My cousin who lived with us and my brother neither one liked to climb, so that was my escape when my Mom would not let me go with my pony.. I loved to be high.. Once won money for an Uncle. He bet his friend that I would climb to up to the weather vane on the barn.. up I went.. only mistake I made was to yell when I got up there to look at me. Unfortunately my Mother looked up and realized who was up there. I was in deep trouble when I came down..
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Babi

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« Reply #2966 on: October 31, 2010, 08:56:33 AM »
They do make that sound like fun, FRYBABE.  And best wishes on your job hunt.

 You were in trouble, STEPH?  What about that uncle who sent you up there so he could win
a bet?  I would have had his hide!  And I see we have another thing in common.  I also spent
a fair amount of time up a tree with a book.  Loved trees, loved books...perfect combination.
"I go to books and to nature as a bee goes to the flower, for a nectar that I can make into my own honey."  John Burroughs

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Re: The Library
« Reply #2967 on: October 31, 2010, 10:30:31 AM »
Frybabe, have you checked out the Constant Reader group at Goodreads?  That is my favorite reading group.  I get good recommendations for books and great movies from them. They actually include two reading lists, one a classics group and another just good books.  They also discuss poetry, art work and other things.

Their upcoming reading list includes The Thousand Acres of Jacob de Zoet by David Mitchell, The Good Soldier by Ford Maddox Ford, The Last Report on the Miracles at Little No Horse by Louise Edrich, Dr. Zhivao by Pasternak, Hotel on the Corner of Bitter and Sweet by Jamie Ford, Kings of the Earth by Jon Cinch and others.

Marj
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salan

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« Reply #2968 on: October 31, 2010, 12:19:37 PM »
Steph and Babi,
I had to smile at the mention of reading a book high up in the trees.  I used to do that, too.  It was one way I could lose my little sister for a while.  She was always following me around and interrupting my reading (when my mother wasn't!)  I had a favorite tree and a favorite spot where no one from the ground could see me.  Thanks for the memory~
Sally

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« Reply #2969 on: October 31, 2010, 12:20:47 PM »
Winsumm, The Harry Dresden wizard books are definitely on my future reads list. I've put off buying any more books for a while. I've got lots to read here already. BTW, my local used bookstore owner runs an f2f discussion group for the Dresden series books, and they are just about the only new books she sells at her store.

Marjifay, thanks for the pointer to Constant Reader. I don't think I saw that in the discussions listing, but I didn't go through all of them. I started a book list and ratings, but haven't put up any reviews.

mabel1015j

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« Reply #2970 on: October 31, 2010, 01:36:41 PM »
One of my favorite sites for free ebooks is

 www.manybooks.net

It is jammed full and you can search by author, genre, title recommendation, new books, etc for hours........I know, believe me, I KNOW, none of you need it, but it's so much fun.......Jean

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Re: The Library
« Reply #2971 on: October 31, 2010, 01:53:59 PM »
Does anyone here belong to the Good Reads site? I decided to give it a go, spent some time putting in a book list, and then checked out the discussion groups. I can't say that I am impressed by what is available. Lots of vampire, and role playing stuff. Some lonely soul started a discussion group in Harrisburg a few weeks ago, but no one has joined her - except me. I'll give it a week or two.

That site  doesn't work for me either, Frybabe.  I thought they'd go with my preferences, but what I see is a lot of vampire, etc. stuff that doesn't appeal to me.

jane

Steph

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Re: The Library
« Reply #2972 on: November 01, 2010, 06:06:45 AM »
I tried something like or maybe it it was.. Good Reads. But they did not really seem to have stuff that I wanted.. Not the variety that I crave. Best tree climbing memory that got me in trouble.. We had a mulberry treee. Never tell your Mom that you were not up the tree when you entire face is purple.
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« Reply #2973 on: November 01, 2010, 06:45:34 AM »
Steph - Mulberry trees & purple face - been there, done that!
 Mulberries are in season here. There is a large old tree just down the street which is always loaded.  Our neighbour is happy for us to take a container and fill it to our hearts content as often as we like. I don't climb anymore but my son will still scramble up for me so long as he gets to eat mulberry tart later.
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Steph

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« Reply #2974 on: November 02, 2010, 06:08:14 AM »
 I loved growing up in the country and being able to have lots of dreaming time. I know my grands tend to be regimented with both parents working. They have a lot of classes or scheduled activities. I had my ponies and dogs and cats and other animals.. Different type of life..
Its like when I was little, we did not go to the main library. We went to the bookmobile.. Now that brings back such joy.. She always seemed to have just what I wanted and My Mom wanted.. We were the big readers . My Dad took International Correspondence classes in just about everything, so he did not read much for pleasure. But oh the joy of the once a month visit in our little town..
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Re: The Library
« Reply #2975 on: November 02, 2010, 03:36:47 PM »
We didn't have bookmobiles in my hometown.  In fact, the library was very small.  In the summer starting at age 10 I would take the city bus and go to the next city, get off the bus and walk about 4 blocks to their library.  They had a whole floor for the children's section.  I can't imagine letting a child do that in this day and time but those days were so different.

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« Reply #2976 on: November 03, 2010, 06:05:52 AM »
Our age group had so much freedom compared to the current child. Even my sons had more freedom and loved walking or biking to school. Now the parents worry and rightfully so about the walks to and from school. The parents go with them on Halloween. My boys would have been horrified. The parents were supposed to be home waiting ..Ah well, life changes.
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« Reply #2977 on: November 03, 2010, 10:11:21 AM »
My children (now aged 17, 15 and 12) have always walked to and from school by themselves, my elder and most independent daughter since the age of about 7, my son and my other daughter from maybe 9 or 10.  One of the mothers at school gave me a very hard time for letting Anna walk home by herself (it's all of a 5-10 min walk along a very well-frequented suburban street), but it gave Anna a great sense of achievement to do it.  Last year, aged 14, she went down to Edinburgh by herself and busked with a friend in the city centre - they made £120 in 2 days.  They need to stand on their own feet sometimes, even though it can be hard to let them.

Rosemary

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Re: The Library
« Reply #2978 on: November 03, 2010, 09:30:20 PM »
I took a bus to my drama school at age 6 all by myself every Saturday morning.

Carolyn

Steph

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Re: The Library
« Reply #2979 on: November 04, 2010, 05:55:54 AM »
I know, but both of you live other than the US.. In Florida, we had a little girl walking several blocks to home swept off the street, abused and killed just last year in Jacksonville..  Makes parents very wary.. Also bus stops  seem to be a haven for child abusers.. We have a case a week locally about males trying to pull 12-15 year olds off the street and into their car. Florida is simply not a good place for childrent to do things alone. Europe is somewhat different.
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rosemarykaye

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Re: The Library
« Reply #2980 on: November 04, 2010, 07:51:32 AM »
Goodness Steph, I had no idea.  Aberdeen may be wet cold and foggy (just typed "froggy"  :) but we certainly don't have that kind of thing, how awful.

Rosemary

pedln

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Re: The Library
« Reply #2981 on: November 04, 2010, 10:27:46 AM »
Rosemary, what is "busked?"  I gather it has earning power, but I haven't a clue what it is.

Yes the times have changed. And we also have more laws regarding child care.  If I would let young children do the things I let my kids do, I' d be brought up in some court somewhere.  A lot depends on the neighborhood.  Once they were in middle school my Maryland grandkids walked everywhere.  One thing I've noticed with both my Maryland and Seattle grands -- they weren't out playing with anyone in the neighborhood, only in their own backyard.  If other kids were there, it was because of a "playdate."  And that leads to not knowing your neighbors very well.


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Re: The Library
« Reply #2982 on: November 04, 2010, 11:09:34 AM »
I think "busking" is singing or performing on the street for money.  Toss a dollar in the guitar case, etc. 
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« Reply #2983 on: November 04, 2010, 11:44:09 AM »
That's right, Tomereader - my daughter is a first study singer, so she sang, and her friend is a first study clarinettist, so she played.  Busking in Edinburgh at Festival time is potentially very lucrative.  Another music school boy busked with his violin in Pittenweem (a lovely coastal village in Fife) during their art festival, and did pretty well.  I think people like to see teenagers making an effort. My daughter's friend has a v musical older sister who, with another girl, busked right across Europe; they also did St Andrews on the last day of the Open (golf) and made an absolute fortune from all the Japanese tourists returning home, who just showered them with the currency they no longer required.  The very best thing for busking is (?are) the bagpipes - and the pipers can also make a lot of money at weddings, etc.  Sadly my daughter has not shown any aptitude in that department, but a friend's son has been all over the world playing in his university pipe band.

When we first moved into the city from the countryside, my children were delighted to have children living right next door.  Unfortunately these children made it very clear they did not want to be friends, whereas in the village that we had previously inhabited, all of the children went to the same little school and played together in the fields.  As you say, it is now all playdates - not my favourite thing as they require so much input from the parent (usually me), and whenever Madeleine goes anywhere she seems to be taken swimming, or to a theme park, or out for lunch - there's very little just staying at the house and playing together.  Recently I had M's best friend round, a really nice girl with beautiful manners - we walked down to the cinema and what seemed to make it for her was just that - walking there.  She had never walked into town before, even though she lives not much further out than we do.

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« Reply #2984 on: November 05, 2010, 06:05:11 AM »
Aberdeen.. Good heavens, we were there for a wedding about 5 years ago.. April and cold. The wedding was out about half an hour, close to Balmoral in an very very old tiny chapel and then the reception was in the hunting lodge on the estate. Very very Scottish and great fun for all of the
Americans.. Our young male friend married a delightful Scottish girl.. Jamie and Liz live in Alaska now of all places.. They have traveled all over the world, since he is a boat Captain for luxury type yachts.. They now have two small children.
We went to the museum about the oil platforms.. interesting... and stayed in a delightful hotel. You could walk to downtown from where we were.
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rosemarykaye

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« Reply #2985 on: November 05, 2010, 08:16:47 AM »
Steph, was your wedding at Glen Tanar?  It is a huge estate on the South Deeside Road, west of Aboyne.  There is a tiny chapel there, I think it is called St Lesmo's, and they also hire out the ballroom, etc of the big house for weddings and such like.  The children of the family used to go to school with my son!  The estate has some fabulous walks, which we have done often.

Rosemary

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« Reply #2986 on: November 05, 2010, 09:31:03 AM »
  Ah, I see my question about 'busked' is answered. I am amazed that
a couple of teenagers could earn 120 pounds in two days. Think of what
a contribution that could be to their college fund.
 I walked to and from school in Junior High, about a mile, but a safe
residential neighborhood. At Anna's age, I also made bus trips into
the city (Houston) and treated myself to a Coney Island hot dog and a
matinee. This continued for a couple of years, until the day some bum
sidled up to me and muttered something I couldn't quite hear. I decided
then that the trip was no longer quite that safe.
  I do agree with your approach. ROSEMARY.  I encouraged my children to be independent and think for themselves. I felt it was the best safeguard I could give them against the wrong kinds of influence from their peers.
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bellemere

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« Reply #2987 on: November 05, 2010, 10:15:43 AM »
A funny book?  Please. If it is still in print, "I'll Take it" by Paul Rudnick.  A young unmarried guy pressured into accompanying his mom and aunts on a shopping tour of New England, ending at the Maine outlet malls, where mom is planning to rob L.L. Bean.  and, a little newer, "Then We Came top the End" humor plus pathos in a hip group of workers in a Chicago ad agency, circa 1980.  by Josiah
Ferris, one of the notable new "under 40 "  authors. 

salan

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« Reply #2988 on: November 05, 2010, 11:06:05 AM »
Isn't it funny that we were talking about "busking", and then last night on the tv series, "Bones", they were in an area where many buskers were performing??? I had not heard that word for a while and now it appears two days in a row!
Sally

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« Reply #2989 on: November 05, 2010, 11:11:20 AM »
Babi, when were you growing up in Houston?  I did, too, and during the late 40s and early 50s, I took the bus into downtown frequently on Saturday mornings and walked through the department stores (Foleys and Sakowitz).  I've often thought with my own children in the 60s and 70s that that would never happen again.  In the first place, there were no buses where we lived at that time.
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rosemarykaye

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« Reply #2990 on: November 05, 2010, 01:59:25 PM »
Babi - it could have been a good contribution to their college funds, but it was in fact all spent in New Look (fashion store) before they even came home  :)

I took the view that it was at least "their" money and they had fun, both earning and spending it.

Rosemary

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« Reply #2991 on: November 05, 2010, 05:29:27 PM »
So, that's what busking is.  I love the story about Joshua Bell "busking" somewhere near L'enfant Plaza in downtown DC, in the morning rush hour and NOBODY recognized him. Apparently it was a stunt or some such, cooked up by someone, to see if anyone would even look at him.

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« Reply #2992 on: November 05, 2010, 08:48:47 PM »
I love the story about Joshua Bell "busking" somewhere near L'enfant Plaza in downtown DC, in the morning rush hour and NOBODY recognized him. Apparently it was a stunt or some such, cooked up by someone, to see if anyone would even look at him.
It was cooked up by the Washington Post.  He stood at the exit to the L'Enfant Plaza Metro stop, playing Bach on his Stradivarius, and aside from the woman who recognized him, he got 5 dollars plus change.  His biggest triumph was that the woman running a concession in the station, who always called the cops on buskers, let him play on.

Frybabe

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Re: The Library
« Reply #2993 on: November 05, 2010, 11:58:40 PM »
And here it is. The video is a bit fuzzy, though.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hnOPu0_YWhw&feature=fvsr

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« Reply #2994 on: November 06, 2010, 08:39:56 AM »
The wedding was very very close to Balmoral.. I think the tiny village close to it was called Balleter?? It was funny since this was the week that Prince Charles Married his second wife and they were honeymooning at Balmoral.. Lots of press and Jamie and Liz( the couple) were funny in that they had planned their wedding a whole year in advance..
I know that the reception was at a very old hunting lodge.. Hundreds of antlers all over the walls.. The brides family even provided.. dancers, bagpipes, etc etc.. A lovely day was had by all and they the little bus returned all of us to Aberdeen.. That is,, we were staying at a lovely hotel, but most of the rest were friends of the brides family.. I only wished that they had told me that Hats are still worn at weddings.. Felt funny to be one of the few who did not have a hat.
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« Reply #2995 on: November 06, 2010, 09:55:19 AM »
 MARYZ, we were living in one of the small town suburbs of Houston,
and the time frame is the same...late 40's-early 50's. You would never
have found me walking through department stores, tho'. I was there for
Coney Island and the matinee! 
  Of course it was, ROSEMARY. I never thought for a minute they didn't
spend at least some of that money.  But since it was so successful, it
could have been a great fund-raiser when they needed it. I could use
on of those right now! 
  Look at it this way, STEPH. Not having a hat helped the guests identify
the American relatives who came so far to honor the bride and groom.
"I go to books and to nature as a bee goes to the flower, for a nectar that I can make into my own honey."  John Burroughs

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« Reply #2996 on: November 06, 2010, 10:16:33 AM »
Babi, we lived in Park Place when we first moved to Houston during WW2, then moved to Bellaire after the war ended.  I graduated from Lamar in 1953, then went to Rice.  It's a small world.
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« Reply #2997 on: November 06, 2010, 01:10:56 PM »
Steph, the wedding venue must surely have been Mar Lodge - now a National Trust property near Braemar.  It has a room full of those antlers.  I have been there once and my husband was more recently on a work "bonding" weekend there.  Ballater is indeed a village, between there and Aberdeen, although it is not tiny really.  The church that the royals attend when at Balmoral is in the very tiny village of Crathie, so maybe that was it.

I wouldn't worry one bit about hats - I certainly wouldn't have worn one myself, and I'm glad that you enjoyed the day.

Rosemary

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« Reply #2998 on: November 06, 2010, 02:32:05 PM »
Loved seeing Joshua Bell busking at L'Enfant Plaza. I used to commute through that station when I worked, but  I went through the other entrance. There was a wonderful busker who played classical music on his violin (with music) in the morning-- I assume a young music student. It was wonderful, walking through that dreary station to be greeted by Bach. I always gave him money, and told him once how muchhis playing meant to me.

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« Reply #2999 on: November 07, 2010, 05:52:59 AM »
The hats were quite lovely actually and you are quite accurate with the wedding and reception. Probabyly 90% of the men were in kilts. It was really a dresssy affair.. The mother and sister of the groom had rented hats?? Sounded weird, but they said that the mother of the bride had recommended it, so they did not have to pack something like that.
After the wedding,, the wedding party put on bright yellow and green wellies and went off through the spring flower fields to walk to the reception. The rest of us climbed in the buses and stayed warm..
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