I'm not reading the book, i'm still on the list at the library, but I'm enjoying lurking and reading your comments.
I'm sure many women can identify with the offensive actions of people around us who have thought "we", whoever "we" are, didn't "belong", wherever it might have been. It is probably especially true for women over 60, probably not as bad as these women had to deal with, but it may now be more subtle.
When I worked for Dept of Army, there were three times, once I had some authority, that men told me I was "intimidating", "not going to change my mind," "too strong." (I have a voice that is lower in tenor and strong, which has served me well as a teacher or presenter) Two of these men had just met me, the third was very frightened of authority and my position and work were backed by the chief-of-staff. Fortunately in the first two cases, people who I had worked with and knew me spoke up to say "I don't think anybody here is intimidated by Jean Perry, " and a young woman captain said "jean did just what we as officers are trained to, to be assertive and be confident, not aggressive."
The subtle message, of course, was we don't like women being so sure of themselves/being in control/having authority. I worked very hard at walking the line between those behaviors and being a person people wanted to work with/for. Most of the people I worked with were accepting of my authority/program, but a couple of men not being o k with me could be a hindrance.
It sounds like those women at NASA had to work even harder to get respect for what they knew and were capable of.
Jean