Ella, I think you are right about ER. She was unhappy at times. However, I do believe that she enjoyed her travels during WWII. She saw the world, and gave to our service personnel. It seems to me that one of the joys of her life was doing for others.
I also think that as her mother died when she was young, she was not nurtured as much as she needed. She apparently never was close to her mother, and her father was an alcoholic. So, from what I have read, she didn't have good role models for healthy parenting.
Some people should never be parents. Perhaps she was one of those. She was ahead of her time. She was an indepedent woman. Even though she was married and a mother, she would have preferred being an executive woman, with another title, rather than "just" a mother and a wife. At least those are the impressions I have of her, from all I have read.
Personally, I wish there were more biographies of first ladies. I would love to read an accurate bio of Pat Nixon. But, the only one I could find was written by her daughter. I think discovering how she lived with Richard Nixon, would be an inteeresting read. How Ike's carreer affected his wife, would also be interesting. How did Herbert Hoover's life choices impact his wife?
We know a lot about our President's, but I for one, want to know more about their wifes. Isn't it time for we women to see more bios of women?
Back to bed now. I have intestinal flu, and have been spending all of my time, either in bed, or the bathroom.
Sheila