I have truly tried to look at it from every possible angle: to put every fact and occurrence on the table in order to attempt to see it from another viewpoint, but for the life of me, I cannot see why there is any conflict between the attack on the diplomatic compound in Benghazi being a terrorist attack, or having been thought to have been a terrorist attack, and it being thought that the CAUSE was a video that Muslims took offense at.
I mean, there is usually a REASON for a particular terrorist attack. There is a reason why they attack. So where is the conflict between the first speculations that were voiced to the effect that it was likely to have been the result of anger over that video and calling it a terrorist attack? Please point out to me, so that it makes sense in this dense old head, where there is a conflict or a "lie" in the two statements. Me, I just do not see a conflict there, or a lie, for that matter. Why could it not have been a terrorist attack that was set off by a hated video?
As for being a feminist, I am one. Have been one for years. I am a woman, you see, and I do not believe in my lifetime there has been an equal chance for women in so many fields, or an equal fairness for women under our laws. Yes, things have gotten better; but they are not equal yet. And they should be. But consider this: when you condemn feminists or Feminism, you are making a generalization toward a group who share one core opinion but VOICE it in a myriad ways. And that is just flat out not fair! Any tried and true blue feminist, and the dictionary, will tell you that feminism means believing in EQUAL rights of the sexes. Period. In other ways we differ as much as our personalities allow. As much as the adherents of any belief or philosophy or political system or religion or tribe anywhere on this planet differ in the particulars and intensities of their belief. So please don't shoot us all down with lurid accusations about our behavior! I shudder, as I never have and never would, for instance, burn a bra. Shucks, and seriously, I am not used to saying "bra" in public, as it is still, to my sensitivities, a private and intimate garment. I have had, and adored, three worthy husbands, feminists all, and really like men, as long as they truly admire women and believe fiercely in their equality under the law. I will rage like an animal whose young are threatened whenever and wherever I perceive that insidious masculine need to control. I still believe in all sincerity that the ERA should be passed.