I think the only logical solution is to have a female, male, and gender neutral, bathroom, locker room and shower. How is a transgender going to feel any more uncomfortable going into the gender neutral bathroom, locker room or shower, than they would be standing next to someone with the opposite genital parts? It's not about shaming or being insensitive, it is allowing all civil rights and privacy to be met.
Frybabe, I could not have put it more eloquently as you stated about the out of bounds of president, courts, and congress. Everyone seems to forget their responsibilities and who actually "makes the law", who "enforces it", and who determines when it is not being accurately constitutional. Not to mention they all have forgotten they are "elected" by the people to serve the people, not their own personal agendas and ideologies. In the process they are trampling our Constitution and civil rights. I see them using the transgenders as a political chess piece, just as they use race, religion and creed. Nothing is sacred anymore.