Gosh what wonderful, thoughtful points. It's really interesting and speaks to WHY one reads in the first place. They are all different points of view and they are all valid. Really interesting discussion.
I am not sure what I am personally looking for. Good writing and escapism, I think. Certain themes which transcend the ages, a new approach to an old theme, maybe? Be nice to learn something useful but if not, one can enjoy the ride. But I'm picky what escape I want. I like cleverness, and good writing. If we made a list of the books we really liked mine would be Brideshead Revisited, Remains of the Day, the House of Mr. Biswas, The Palace Thief (short story from which the movie The Emperor's Club was made), Gentlemen and Players, etc.
I hear what you're saying, MaryPage, and am sorry you are sick. As far as the news goes, I'm almost the opposite of you in newspaper habits. I can't, simply can't stand to read the latest atrocities, spelled out in loving detail in the newspapers and magazines we take. I have nightmares for weeks.
In fact, I've begun only looking at CNN and BBC on the ipad. We take three newspapers and I do admit to reading the Sunday NY Times.
But on CNN on the ipad, I can somewhat cut the parade of horror off. I can choose without being exposed to the lurid articles, which news items i want to read. I check CNN on the ipad, every monting, you get a choice of 248+ stories just as they were broadcast, and you can pick and choose, you can watch the broadcast and/ or read the headlines, and/ or read the longer article which accompanies it.
Man's inhumanity to man is spelled out daily in the news, I like to try to control my exposure to the atrocities if I can, and still stay somewhat informed.
In that way, even tho I have to read the headline I don't have to read the rest, (and for some reason I can't NOT read the rest). Or experience it. And they have begun to put in things which are NOT news but which are funny or quaint or interesting. We take Time. Newsweek was better written but I have not looked once at the Daily Beast or whatever she called it.
I don't have a need to identify with any character in a book, or live vicariously thru them. The writing in Gone Girl was superb and it kind of spoke to the dark side most people have but would not act on or even admit. We've all had negative thoughts, it's a hard book to categorize. I'm amazed so many people hated it, but if one were looking for a character to identify with, one would not find it there. It's all mental, tho, all thought. Why do so many people read Vampire books? Surely none of them harbor the idea for a second they are vampires, do they?
Gone Girl is more suspense than anything else, it's a very well written book.