I just have to share this thought that I read - I love the books Akiko Busch writes - I am reading "Geography of Home" and she makes this statement that I had to put the book down in awe it is so true.
She is discussing how today, although we like the idea of older traditional homes, our life and desire for rooms to accommodate our lifestyle is very different than the organized center hall with living on the right, dining on the left, kitchen in the back and bedrooms up stairs. She continues by giving examples of coexisting technology and nostalgia - and then in this chapter she makes this profound statement -
"We tend to reject the formal ceremony of the dining room and put the computer on the dining room table, or sort the laundry there. Then, missing the sense of ritual in our lives, we turn to the ceremonies of Native Americans or Tibetan monks. Such incongruities can confuse our lives. But I would argue that they are also the very basis for finding comfort at home. If anything, where we live can be a place that celebrates and thrives on these incongruities that have, in one way or another, been gracefully resolved..."
I love it - yes, we decide the ceremony of Sunday dinner or Wednesday night Supper with mother's good china and grandmother's silver is too much work but, we have Cd's playing and will pick up tickets to listen to the Tibetan monks chant throat singing and join a group once a week to mediate in a silent place. Oh dear, we are funny - Is it novelty we want in our life or, the excitement of something new and exotic or, just keeping up with what others have decided is the 'in' thing.
I love this author's books - she always makes me re-examine and think...
Geography of Home