I’m also reading a very good book titled Civil War Wives: Angelina Grimke Weld, Varina Davis (Jefferson’s wife), Julia Dent Grant (Gen Grant’s wife) by Carol Berkin. Berkin is a prof at CUNY and a historian you may have seen onCSPAN especially when talking about 18th and 19th century. I enjoy her writing.
The Grimke sisters are two of my favorite women in American history. They were born on a plantation in the Carolinas which had slaves. As young adults they moved to Philadelphia and became some of the first women to speak to coed audiences as abolitionists, telling of their facts about slavery. She married another abolitionist Theodore Weld.
Varina Davis has a life that you should read about when you think you are having a bad day. She was 18 when she married Jeff, who was 18 yrs older than her. Others spoke of her as an intellectual and charming and witty person, but that was not appropriate behavior for a southern belle and Jefferson chastised her infront of others about her behavior. She moved to his family’s home and was very lonely and homesick, resulting in frequent physical illnesse. As with many couples at the time she and JD lost several children to illness. She nursed Jefferson through several illnesses that were aggravated by stress. She traveled, under very tough conditions, to be with him in Washington, back and forth several times. When he became the Confederate president she traveled for 4 days with 4 children sitting on a train to get to Richmond, the capitol of the Confederacy. Then there were all the trials and trauma of the war which was followed by 2 yrs of her working and lobbying deligently to get better prison conditions for JD and eventually got him out on bail, having just had a new baby as the war was ending and sending four older children to Canada, fearing for them to live in the U S!!!
Haven’t read the Julia Grant section yet, but what I already know about her, she had a much nicer and easier life than Varina.
Do any of you who have ipads find that after a some time the touch screen takes more pressure than orginally? My spacebar is much less sensitive than when I had first had it. Actually, I’m trying to discern if the screen is not working as well, or if my touch is not as strong.......could be. ...
Jean