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Re: The Library
« Reply #9680 on: October 26, 2012, 07:33:01 PM »

The Library

Our library cafe is open 24/7, the welcome mat is always out.
Do come in from daily chores and spend some time with us.

We look forward to hearing from you, about you and the books you are enjoying (or not).


Let the book talk begin here!




We all hope the storm isn't as bad as forecast.

The doc came by @ 5, and I'm home now.  I know I'll rest better here.  And I start PT next week.
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« Reply #9681 on: October 27, 2012, 06:51:34 AM »
MaryZ, know that you will rest easier at home.. Do take care and do your rehab. Shoulders are nothing to mess with.
Real Estate. Cub Fan,, I am with Barbara, I have never ever dealt with an agent like that.. and hope never to. I had one agent, who did in fact sell my house to a relative and I really think she should have disclosed, but it was not illegal,, just sort of unethical..
Still waiting for the appraisal..
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« Reply #9682 on: October 27, 2012, 08:37:15 AM »
 I find it alarming that the new hurricane, Sandy, is being dubbed a 'Frankenstorm'
and is headed for the East Coast. The East Coast has had enough grief. I think
prayers for 'MERCY!!!" are in order.
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« Reply #9683 on: October 27, 2012, 11:41:03 AM »
The hurricane is going to meet some other storms, which will magnify the effect, and 75 mph winds are expected over a very wide swath.  Whoever thought up the term "Frankenstorm" must be pleased with himself; the radio stations are using it nonstop.

Last time, I was without power for 5 days, but this time at least it won't be 100 degrees outside.  I've done what I can--have plenty of food, water, candles and flashlight batteries.

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« Reply #9684 on: October 27, 2012, 11:51:17 AM »
Your comment about the real estate agent selling your house to a relative reminds me of my parent's experience. They sold their house to a couple giving them several concessions that they would not have done if they had known that the couple were also real estate people. They did a few more fix ups and resold the house less than a year later at a much higher price. My parents were a bit put out at what they though of as dishonesty on the part of the buyers. So much for "helping" buyers out a bit. I am not sure if their agent knew or cared what the buyers were up to.
 
They are now calling for sustained winds in our area of about 35mph. Our friends in West VA will be in the snow region. Looks like NYC and Long Island will be in quite a pickle. The Giant Foods store down the road was our of water this morning so I am going to crank up the distiller a little later for a couple of extra gallons. I am surprised at the number of people buying refrigerated and frozen things ahead of the storm. If they don't have auxiliary power they may have wasted money. The air is very humid and heavy feeling already.

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« Reply #9685 on: October 27, 2012, 12:29:57 PM »
I do hope that all of you who are in the path of this storm will be safe. It's especially bad because of the size of it and the areas  it may hit are not often hit by hurricanes,  and I hope that you all will be OK.

It often does not take a direct hit to wreak destruction, either. The outlying storms are often quite ferocious, we lost a grape stand  this past April to a freak outlying storm not associated with a hurricane. As the storm passed by and it cleared up and the rain stopped,  lightning struck it and it was gone.. The weather this past year has just been horrific, never seen anything like it. Hopefully it will veer on out to sea.

Good luck, All!



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« Reply #9686 on: October 27, 2012, 12:50:06 PM »
I just now ran across an interesting volume called Chronicles of Dustypore: A Tale of
Modern Anglo-Indian Society
by Henry Stewart Cunningham. Modern in this case means 1877. It is on Project Gutenberg if anyone is interested in continuing their readings in Indian history, and more particularly, the Britiswh Raj period. http://www.gutenberg.org/ebooks/41190

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« Reply #9687 on: October 27, 2012, 06:41:48 PM »
Time for a little break. I've been rearranging my bookshelves. Oscar as decided that chewing on wires is fun, a thing I never had to worry about before. My CD player is now in the living room and all the wiring for it and the speaker wires are now behind furniture where he is unlikely to see it. That leaves my biography books and a large lamp homeless for the moment.

I moved one of the bookshelves from the living room into the TV room and am in the process of rearranging stuff on the TV shelf and the other media shelf in an effort to make it difficult for Oscar to get behind. Hopefully, out of sight will be out of mind. My wicker elephant, which had no place to go earlier, now has a home where the bookshelf was. The displaced corner shelf from the TV room is going upstairs to hold more of my crafty things. I think I'll unplug the wire from the floor lamp unless I want to use it since I can't hide that.

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« Reply #9688 on: October 27, 2012, 07:01:37 PM »
 :D and Oscar makes his presence felt...
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« Reply #9689 on: October 28, 2012, 06:33:01 AM »
Ah the joys of pet ownership. My current male rescue loves wicker and guess who makes baskets.. hmm. ragged baskets at this moment.
I also started work yesterday on another scarf. It is knitting, but useing special material that has holes in the top and is silky..The effect is like a huge ruffle. I made one up in North Carolina dn like it so much, I want to do one for each daughter in law.
Storm gone here,, we just got wind, but the coast got wind, rain and really high tides. But I have a lot of old friends in the path. They are all trying their best to get all things in order.
I agree this summer has been a horrid year for storms and heat. ::)
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« Reply #9690 on: October 28, 2012, 09:21:04 AM »
  Do Oscar and the new rescue have chew toys?  Sounds like they are in that stage where they really need things to
chew on.   

 How old is this Mr. Cunningham, FRYBABE?  I'm trying to imagine the mind-set of someone who considers 1877 to
be 'modern' Anglo-Indian history.  ???
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« Reply #9691 on: October 28, 2012, 09:54:20 AM »
Morning Babi. Oscar has plenty of toys including several that he can chew at. He also has plenty of scratch pads and a potty box on each floor. He is generally quick to stop when I tell him no, but not always for long. Since he mostly follows me around I can monitor him fairly closely. I am primarily concerned about when I am not here.

Since the books was published in 1877, I think Mr. Cunningham should be long gone by now. Sorry I wasn't clear on that. By the way, 1877 was the year that Queen Victoria was made Empress of India. Also, the Great Famine of 1876-1877 was in progress at the time of publication. There are those who claim the famine was a result of British policies during a drought situation. I am looking forward to reading first and second hand accounts of India at that time although I doubt there will be much, if anything, about 1877 itself. Part, if not all, of the great British military presence in India was because of an effort to thwart France and Russia from gaining a trade and territorial foothold in India. In other words, Britain and the British East India Company didn't want to share any of the wealth.

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« Reply #9692 on: October 28, 2012, 10:02:20 AM »
 Ah, that makes perfect sense, FRYBABE.  And commercial interests still play a large part in any nation's foreign policy,
don't they?  I sometimes suspect, and fear,  that they have too large a control of that arena.
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« Reply #9693 on: October 28, 2012, 03:00:47 PM »
Oh man. I now  have the book Life at Home in the Twenty-First Century and it's absolutely fascinating. It's written by two professors of anthropology at the University of California and at Connecticut College and it's so engrossing.

It features, in  photographs and example,  35 Los Angels families,  but it came out of  a "larger interdisciplinary and collaborative research endeavor by the Center on Everyday Lives of families at UCLA."

I'm finding it fascinating. I was close, too,  on the books in the average home: 438.

One reason I'm finding it fascinating is it makes me feel better about my "Junk Room," which nobody is allowed to see. Apparently the norm is to  live  a cluttered existence.

It says, in fact, in a chapter titled "Most Possessions Per Family in Global History"  that "Never before has any society accumulated so many personal possessions. US households spend on average tens of thousands of dollars every year on new purchases. A substantial portion of these expenditures goes toward replacement goods such as trendy apparel and the latest media electronics, not to mention the newest models of cars. Many of these objects replace perfectly good antecedents that homeowners may only reluctantly part with. The result is typical clutter amassing in 'back stage' storage areas such as garages, closets, and attics, eventually extending to 'front stage' living spaces."

It also says there's a direct correlation between the amount of stuff on [edited for clarity] the front of your fridge door, photos, magnets, etc., etc., and the amount of clutter you can tolerate. Do you find that to be so?

On the books, the average counts per Los Angeles family are:

Books and Magazines: 438
Music CDs: 212
Toys: 139
DVDs and VHS Tapes: 90
Shoes (pairs)  39.

So you can see how typical you are against these Los Angeles families.   These are all "visible artifacts"  and don't include those hidden from view.

(Isn't it interesting to hear one's "stuff" called an artifact?)

This is making me want to:

 (1) Remove all clutter immediately from the "front stages" of my house as the photographs are depressing and cause a strange uneasiness  in this reader.

(2) Remove all the clutter from  the "back stages," since I could not find the Halloween decorations this year, and....

 (3) Learn more and finish the book, it's absolutely fascinating. I'm looking at "The Myth of 'Convenience' Foods," how many times we really sit down for dinner as a family together, television and daily life, what kind of leisure we really spend at home and what we are doing for that leisure and what we say we are doing for that leisure,   and fascinating facts: ("Americans have thrown out roughly 3 billion pounds of computing equipment during the last few decades.")

It's fascinating, it really is. And as it turns out, everything you choose to surround yourself with says volumes about YOU. I just handed it to my husband, it showed a garage absolutely stuffed to the gills. This is his hang up: he hates clutter. Sees no need in buying things.  How we live now in America, cluttered. It makes you want to go out and rip everything from the house. hahahaa  


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« Reply #9694 on: October 28, 2012, 03:32:37 PM »
no wonder it feels so overwhelming to declutter - also NO ONE WANTS even the good stuff - they can all afford new and prefer new - even your kids have their houses full and do not need anything you have - grandkids live a different lifestyle so that what we thought was important is not in their very mobile lifestyle.

Depressing all the hours of work to earn the money to buy things that no one wants...  :'(
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« Reply #9695 on: October 28, 2012, 03:49:50 PM »
GINNY,
I wonder how they would grade my DIL who is very close to being a hoarder.HMMMMMM!  She can't connect her clutter to hoarding.  She never misses a garage sale (where she always buys) and when they were younger, she taught the kids how to "dumpster dive".  Its amazing how much useful items that they found.  Repairable bicycles, scooters, tents, and furniture that could be refinished SOME DAY!

Since Ella moved into her new home, I have been wondering how to get Ralph to start throwing or giving away many things we don't need or use anymore.

Buuuuut, the first evidence we witnessed of stuffed garage clutter was when we lived in California in a tiny little home with a double garage.  We parked in ours!! And any time one drove down the street, some garage doors would be up and they were stuffed to the edges!  Very few parked in their garages.  It was unbelievable. But I understood why.  None of those homes had more than 1200 sq feet  and some of the folks living in them had raised families there. No basements, a lot which measured 100 by 150.  EGAD!!
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« Reply #9696 on: October 28, 2012, 04:20:55 PM »
Annie: when I moved to California, and was looking for a home, the realitor said "no one would buy a house that didn't have a garage."

Why, I wondered. the weather is so good here, you really don't need to park your car indoors. Back East, where the weather was much worse, most houses, including mine, didn't have garages.

I was told it's because the houses here don't have basements, so the garages serve instead as clutter places.

Indeed, our apartment garage space has clutter, mostly books.

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« Reply #9697 on: October 28, 2012, 04:32:08 PM »
"It also says there's a direct correlation between the amount of stuff on your fridge and the amount of clutter you can tolerate. Do you find that to be so?"

No. My house (like that of all my family members) has always been cluttered. But when my husband was alive, and my kids were growing, it seemed that the fridge was always empty. They ate food faster than I could replace it.

Now I'm in a small apartment, I make an effort to keep the clutter managable. But the food stays in the fridge longer.

I'm higher than average on books, but way lower on everything else. I'm a "depression baby", and use things long after most people would have thrown them out. The one wasteful consumption is that I recently abandoned my old, perfectly good but tiny screened TV for a larger screened one. (not huge -- I don't like it when the people on TV are bigger than I am). The old one is still sitting around, and I feel slightly guilty whenever I look at it.

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« Reply #9698 on: October 28, 2012, 05:24:56 PM »
Love the comments here. I need to be more clear on the fridge thing, they are referring to the magnets, photos, etc., that many of us (blush) cover the fridge with. If I took a photo of mine you would be hard pressed to say what color it was. hahahaa It's grandbaby art, or that's my excuse. :)

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« Reply #9699 on: October 28, 2012, 05:33:55 PM »
I assumed you were talking about what was on top of the fridge.  Either way, the whole thing is cluttered, inside and out, as is my house.   ::)
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« Reply #9700 on: October 28, 2012, 10:43:03 PM »
I am so old I can remember when no one put ANYthing on their ice boxes.  It just was not done.  I believe it sort of started in the sixties and later, much later, really took off.

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« Reply #9701 on: October 29, 2012, 08:56:50 AM »
 Oh, GINNY, I hate clutter, too. My daughter, however, tends to cling to everything anyone
ever gave her. It got so bad even she was forced to do some clearing out. The place still
has trinkets and 'decor' on every available surface.  And how do you decide which of the
many photos of children, grandchildren, parents, etc., to consign to oblivion?

 Ah, JoanK, I have clothes in my closet that are over 10 years old. I've managed to give
away some decent stuff I'll never wear again, but there are oldies I continue to use.
My biggest problem now is having to replace clothes because I keep losing weight. Most of
the pants in my closet right now are loose, and some threaten to fall off. I keep trying
to put some weight back on, so I don't want to discard them all. :-\
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« Reply #9702 on: October 29, 2012, 10:52:15 AM »
I think the refrigerator collages started when those "refrigerator magnets" were invented.  They not only hold everything on but are usually informative themselves.  I cleaned most of mine off recently but felt GUILTY afterward so I put up a few that I was attached to and now they are all slowly but surely returning to their rightful places. :D  And I have a confession to make!  I have most of all the older stuff (goes all the way back to the '60's) saved in plastic bags.  Every once in awhile, I come across them and sit down to read the jokes and sayings that I started with long ago.  There are so many that I should keep them in their own album.
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« Reply #9703 on: October 29, 2012, 11:48:31 AM »
Hmm, way above in books, way below in most of the rest.. Although I have 20 pairs of shoes and know that is too much. I keep my clothes forever, so I have what looks like too many. But some are from when we traveled to Europe at least once a year and having european friends, I learned to dress like they do when we went there and that is clothes you dont generally use here.
My fridge however. My husband and sons love to bring me magnets wherever they went.. so normally you cannot see my refrigerator.. However since i am preparing the house for sale.. It is pristine at the moment as are 90% of my closets. Just two more to go and the stupid garage.. They will be doing the video of the inside of the house, so I need to make sure less is more.
Got the car detailed inside this am.. How neat. It smells good,, is sparkling.. North Carolina was hard on the car. All that red clay.. I need washable foot things.. plus of course the dogs shed like crazy.
Babi.. Duncan has more toys than most children,, He does the wicker secretly.. It reminds me of the current day cigarette smokers. You never see him chew, but it happens.
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« Reply #9704 on: October 30, 2012, 04:24:20 AM »
I hope all of you are safe and warm over there - we are seeing horrifying footage of NYC and Atlantic City, but not much about anywhere else.  My friend outside Philadelphia emailed me to say they were all OK last night, but she won't be up yet to give me an update.  She is on the 11th floor, so should be OK re flooding at least.

Here in East Lothian it's a calm, cloudy morning.  Hard to imagine how different it is across with some of you.  You're all in our prayers.

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« Reply #9705 on: October 30, 2012, 08:42:55 AM »
Oscar and I spent the night down stairs just in case any of the trees decided to come down. One did. Fortunately, not on the house. One of the pine trees at the bottom of the yard (not the one I expected) snapped at the trunk about 25-30 feet from the ground. It will have to be removed. Enclosed porch has water damage, but it will dry out. Now I have to find out how and where the water got in. It is still pretty breezy and gusts are still expected over 40mph at times so I haven't gone out to inspect roof, chimney or siding yet. Maybe I can sneak out in the lull to check, the days is brightening up enough to see.

I really feel bad for the folks in NYC suburb that lost their homes to the fire that the responders couldn't get to.

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« Reply #9706 on: October 30, 2012, 08:59:46 AM »
40 mph is nothing to mess with. Stay inside until it calms down some more
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« Reply #9707 on: October 30, 2012, 09:19:32 AM »
I hit it lucky this time--didn't lose power or suffer tree damage.  There are over 300,000 without power, though.  We were more on the edge of things than predicted, so got off lightly.

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« Reply #9708 on: October 30, 2012, 09:20:49 AM »
 Ah, pets can be cunning, STEPH. One of our cats likes to push things off the counters,
while gazing innocently in the other direction. If you exclaim, "I saw that!!", she gives
you this innocent, puzzled, 'Who, me?" look.

 Those do seem to be the areas hardest hit, ROSEMARY.  The somewhat lesser damage
in other areas gets little mention during the crisis...much like New Orleans getting most
of the damage coverage when Katrina hit.  Some of the smaller cities/towns felt like their
needs and tragedies were neglected.
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« Reply #9709 on: October 30, 2012, 11:14:26 AM »
Believe it or not!  We have rain and high winds from Sandy.It hit us around 10pm last night and they are predicting higher winds, rain and flooding creeks for rest of the day.  We already had a dusting of snow when I woke up at 8am this morning.

I am more concerned about Ithaca NY where my daughter and her family live.  The winds there were already up to 55MPH around 4pm yesterday and it was predicted that the eye of Storm Sandy would pass roght over them around 10pm last night. I phoned this morning and had to leave a message. I haven't heard back yet.

Our friend, LucyLibr in Far Rockaway was supposed to evacuate two days ago but since I figured she would be really busy escaping the storm,  I haven't called.  Lots of prayers going out for all of NY.
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« Reply #9710 on: October 30, 2012, 11:27:13 AM »
I was trying to remember if any of you live in Queens, NY?  80 homes burned to ground there.  I have never seen such all-around devastation, seems like a "take-your-pick" disaster:  Hurricane, tropical storm effects, flooding, fires, snow in W.Virginia.  So many services disrupted in NY, NJ.
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« Reply #9711 on: October 30, 2012, 11:34:57 AM »
LucyLbr lives near Queens.  She is two 1/2 hours by train from the Leo House which is at 23rdSt & 8thAve in NYC. 
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« Reply #9712 on: October 30, 2012, 12:12:03 PM »
and do not forget an earthquake in Canada with a slight tsunami to Hawaii.
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« Reply #9713 on: October 30, 2012, 12:15:22 PM »
Yes, I remembered those, but just didn't add them to my post! 
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« Reply #9714 on: October 30, 2012, 12:44:55 PM »
Still waiting to hear from Lucy. She is in the Latin 204 and did not evacuate and the bridges closed the last she had posted.  That area was seriously hit.

I agree, Tome, it's awful.

 It's amazing how many of our Latin students live right in the path of the thing, we were getting reports all day yesterday. I'm hoping Lucy and everybody else is  ok.

It does seem to be making for Canada. I hope you all will be safe,  Ann!! We had winds from it last night and they were pretty substantial to be SO FAR, so very far, from the epicenter.


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« Reply #9715 on: October 30, 2012, 01:38:33 PM »
Thanks for the heads up on LucyLbr.  I seem to remember another time when she elected to remain in her home.  Sure hope she is okay.

My daughter just called from Ithaca, NY about the promise of the eye of the storm and the already high winds.  They had nothing like what was promised! Just slightly higher winds around 1am this morning and now they are fine.She did see a big tree down on her way to work but it was a weeping willow and they don't have deep roots.  

We are having mild winds right now and a little rain.  Creek in back of us has not risen at all.  Big relief!
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« Reply #9716 on: October 30, 2012, 08:04:23 PM »
Mine called from Connecticut. Lots of trees down and the whole area without power but so far all O.K.  Husband kept in line at a open station to get more gas for the generator they use. Its a big one so uses a lot of gas. Little ones have their tents and sleeping bags going.  Think they are camping. Not upset about Halloween because the Village had theirs Saturday.  Lots have it worse. Hope it stops soon.

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« Reply #9717 on: October 31, 2012, 03:16:21 AM »
Hi everyone.

Have not posted in a long time because my  Desktop has been down. My laptop does not have any of the passwords saved for my favourite sites or even a loaded email program. I use it purely for browsing and FB. Alex next door sorted out my desktop today. (Alex is a student in Computer Sciences) He has Aspergers syndrome and says anything that comes into his head. If you are not used to him it can be disconcerting but I like him very much.

I also have just finished reading "The Help" I had seen the movie but the book is so much more. How I loved those black women! I know what its like now to be a minority. 40% of Aucklanders were born in another country and in my street I am one of the few Europeans. Auckland has a huge Asian population. Mainland Chinese are buying up housing stock like its going out of fashion. Some buy houses but live in China. One Landlord has four houses in my little area. You pay a fortune for a small run down house in this city. Its got beyond ridiculous and soon the taxes will force residents born and bred here out of this city. Especially retirees I think.

We have had terrible weather this Spring. High winds and rain rain rain! Cold too until the end of last week. Overnight temps are still only about 9C but the last couple of days have been lovely and sunny . I am suffering terribly from allergic rhinitis and it feels as if I have had a never ending cold!

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« Reply #9718 on: October 31, 2012, 03:29:59 AM »
I think I have told you before my daughter is a Childrens librarian in a low socio economic area. She is much more than that. An example: This morning a wee boy came in to the library. My daughter sat beside him and asked him gently why he was not in school. He said he had to bike to another suburb and his bike had got a puncture so he had no way to get to school. He would not go home so daughter assumed he was scared to go there. He also had a terrible untreated stye in his eye. All he had for lunch was a cake of dried noodles. My daughter is very good at getting kids to talk to her.

My daughter phoned the school and spoke to them about the situation. The school said someone would come get the wee boy and they would treat the Stye at school. While he was waiting for his ride the library staff made up a lunch box for him with some of their lunches and a nice cake purchased from the cafe next door. The staff at this library are all very compassionate with the kids and clients. None of them live in this area but know too well how people struggle now with so many jobs gone off shore.

rosemarykaye

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Re: The Library
« Reply #9719 on: October 31, 2012, 05:04:18 AM »
Hi Kiwilady,

That is such a lovely story, and illustrates so well why libraries must be kept open and properly staffed.  Machines cannot provide the social contact that librarians offer on a daily basis - the ladies in our local libraries are fantastic, and although it's not a 'deprived' area, there are many retired people living alone who pop in every day for a chat.  Also mothers with young children - I remember only too well how isolating that can be.  Our politicians in the UK - most of whom have probably never stepped foot inside a library - think they are a superfluous luxury (meanwhile we spend gazillions of billions on renewing the pointless Trident missiles) and are closing them right left and centre.  It really is a crime, IMO.  They are taking away people's access to knowledge as well as to social interaction, and knowledge = power, which is of course what they want to keep for themselves.

Rant over!

Your daughter is a star!

Rosemary