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Re: The Library
« Reply #21040 on: May 21, 2020, 09:19:36 AM »



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Yes Jonathan, please do let us know, we are worrying about you.

I've just finished listening to Jim Crumley reading from his new book The Nature of Summer. It was a section about him sitting silently beside a tree and watching roe deer in the Highlands; he's a writer who can really take you there with his words. It's on Saraband's Facebook page if anyone wants to listen (it's only about 10 mins long but they had a lot of trouble getting it to start - quite relieved to know it's not only me who has trouble with this sort of thing...)

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Re: The Library
« Reply #21041 on: May 21, 2020, 01:16:46 PM »
Oh lordy - put this in another folder and forgot to say anything in the Library - and so I will simply copy and paste.

Last week well after midnight and I was not sleeping so decided to get up and take a warm shower - we did have a storm raging and I did shut off the computers just in case but went ahead with my shower and was getting out just as we lost electricity - floor was wet and I could not see and felt myself falling - grabbed the towel bar that helped but was not strong enough and it was pulled out from the wall as I crashed on my back with my spine getting the brunt on the tile floor - after a minute rolled over and pulled myself onto the bedroom carpet - thank goodness I had dried myself while standing in the tub - was able to pull myself up on a nearby chair -

Thank goodness I have a few jar candles in place and could feel in the drawer for the bic lighter - knew in the freezer I had some ice packs and knew where my herb capsules were for bruising and broken bones - and I keep a small step ladder behind the door of my closet that I slid over to get into bed - Whatever I did all a Doctor will do is take an MRI so I will let this heal and see how it goes - thank goodness I still had some pain meds from when I had some dental surgery a couple of years ago - all that taking care with a few candles - took over 4 hours for the electricity fix to turn lights back on.

Over the years I've cracked my spine at least twice and when I walked into that deep hole with one leg it affected my spine more than the falls - so I know first hand what to look for and yep, it will take a few weeks to heal. Thank goodness it is not a month from now when we can expect triple digit heat and all the extra AC because of laying in bed.   
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« Reply #21042 on: May 21, 2020, 02:59:51 PM »
Barb, what on earth has happened to you?  I too must have missed a post where you have injured yourself.  I pray what ever it is, you will find comfort and healing. 

Frybabe, I do think the soil has a lot to do with the success in growing Clematis. 

I have an older HP laptop that won't stay on, so I downloaded all my files and pictures to a USB flash drive in the event it crashes completely.  I decided for what it would cost to have it repaired, I just bought a new touch screen laptop, which I love. 
Rosemarykaye, I am with you, I just want them to do what they are suppose to do.  That would be great if fixing your Mom's computer, is as simple as buying a new mouse.

Yes, I think it is much different in the U.S. when it comes to getting to know people on a regular basis, frequenting the same stores, banks, restaurants, etc. I love reading your descriptions of your towns in Scotland.  It's like reading a book, and speaking of, that book you are reading, does sound a bit too perfect for my liking.   

Frybabe, I always enjoyed popping in here every morning and seeing Steph's post about her corgi.  I do miss her, I hope she is doing well. 

That is such a cute story about you and your friends following your mailman around.

Well, my beautiful granddaughter Avery graduated from Central Catholic High School today.  Only her parents were allowed inside to watch her walk across the altar, receive her diploma, and walk out of the school.  Her two sisters had to wait in the car for them to come outside.  My hubby and I got there just in time to take pictures of her on the steps outside the school.  The students were assigned time slots throughout this week to come in their cap and gowns to receive their diplomas.  It was bittersweet, because while we were all excited to see her, there were only a couple of other students there outside with their family, social distancing, wearing masks.  We did remove our masks to take a few pictures with her, and gave her and her sisters hugs.  It's times like this, the reality of this pandemic really hits me. 

Ohio is slowly re opening, and I am happy to see this.  Life is not living quarantined away from our friends and family.  I do think we have surpassed the worst of this, and hope life can return to some kind of normal in the next months ahead. 

Barb we were posting at the same time....oh my goodness how awful a situation you were in, and in total darkness.  Have you at least spoken to your doctor?  They do physician virtual online calls now. 

Rosemary, I just may go check out The Nature of Summer.  Thank you.
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« Reply #21043 on: May 21, 2020, 03:17:08 PM »
BellaMarie, I know you have said before you have taught computers, etc. and I have a question.  (probably sound silly to you!)  If I scan a document to the computer, can I then resize it to make it bigger?  I have a set of instructions which are so small, I cant read them even with a large magnifying glass.  I would hope to enlarge this so I can read it.  Also, I have two tiny photographs of my father when he was in the service, and would like to enlarge those also.  If you can help, I would appreciate it.  If not...hmm.
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Re: The Library
« Reply #21044 on: May 21, 2020, 05:40:25 PM »
Barb, Bellamarie is right.  It would be good to call your doctor and see what s/he has to say.

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« Reply #21045 on: May 21, 2020, 07:43:47 PM »
Wow, Barb, that is not good. I hope you heal as fast as you think you can. I'm so sorry.

Rosemary, I have read some of GM Malliet's books and always get the sense they are a little too "perfect." I won't hurry to find the next one on the list.

We are in a gray period in our weather. For every nice day, it seems we have at least two or three damp and dreary days. I think these days are good for all the gardens, though, as we have set out all our tomato plants and the flowers and they should take hold before the sun gets too hot. It's been an odd spring. My husband loves to hunt for morel mushrooms, and usually he finds enough for us to eat and freeze and also some to give away to people who are not able to go looking for them. This year, though, they are few and far between. However, he has found some that are called pheasant back mushrooms, named because they look a little like the back of a pheasant. They are a shelf type of mushroom, I forget the technical term. They certainly don't taste as good as morels, but they do have more flavor than the grocery store button mushrooms. And today he also found oyster mushrooms. But I think he'll quit looking now and will move on to fishing. Meanwhile, I am setting out plants and weeding and hoping for a warm enough day that I can take my book out on the deck and read.

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Re: The Library
« Reply #21046 on: May 21, 2020, 08:04:57 PM »
Thanks for your all's concern - in fact tried this afternoon and the Doctor who treated me for my injury after i stepped in the hole is whom I called but like most specialists they are not in their office and have postponed all appointments including my eye doctor whom I also called for an appointment confirmation that the answering service said all appointments were postponed for 3 months.

Paul just had his back surgery and so when I talk to him tomorrow I may ask him to run it by his Doctor - he already knows I fell and was trying to figure out a way with bars to eliminate the risk but had the light been on I would have seen the wet floor. Shower curtain was not as tight as it needed to be.

No peripheral damage has reared its head and the pain is no longer constant but only if I mistakenly lay or sit normally - as long as i can swing onto my bed on my side and sit on this pillow with my thighs holding my weight and my bump over the edge I can manage - the house will have to wait till bending is no longer painful - I notice this afternoon my sleep was sounder and tonight my body is not so tense.

I'm keeping up my herbal combo for bruises and broken bones - some years ago a fellow agent and I fell and broke our arms on the same day - in fact mine was more serious since it was by the elbow - I took this combo and healed in two thirds the time it took her to heal. Now, without an easy way to fix meals I am doing in the blender green powder with blueberries, Activia and water - healthy and delicious and keeping up my Vitamin D and E - I'll be just fine -

I've always been more of an alternative medicine person and it works - After visiting last summer both my sisters who are younger, everyone commented on how well I looked and acted in comparison till it was for me not only embarrassing but I was shocked at the difference - took me weeks to come to terms with the difference. I kept thinking how could they let themselves go like that... ah so we make our choices. However after weeks went by and could talk openly with my daughter we both agreed our more natural care of our bodies along with less panic and more finding the positive whenever anything went array does us well.

For now a reading position is not fun nor is sitting to watch a film - I've my music and laying on my side on the sofa I can watch and hear the few PBS shows I enjoy. Sleep seems to be what my body is using to heal and so I will be fine - just not as much of a participant talking about books and movies.
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Re: The Library
« Reply #21047 on: May 22, 2020, 12:06:45 AM »
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I have a set of instructions which are so small, I cant read them even with a large magnifying glass.  I would hope to enlarge this so I can read it.  Also, I have two tiny photographs of my father when he was in the service, and would like to enlarge those also.

If you scan anything into your computer, through your photo app you can resize the document or picture.  Usually it's as simple as right clicking the mouse on the item, and highlight resize.  If that is not available, then right click the item, and highlight, "open with" and choose which photo app you want to use.  I use "paint", there you will have the option to resize your document or picture.  Keep in mind that all these are made up of pixels, (tiny dots) so once you expand, you may lose quality. 

Barb, I am glad to know you will at least be checking in with your son's doctor.  Your insurance company should also be able to give you a number for telecom physicians, you could contact.  During this pandemic my daughter in law used virtual doctor for my granddaughter's sinus infection.  He was able to prescribe her an antibiotic.

My sister in law gave us some fantastic long flashlights that are so bright, should we have an outage.  You may consider getting some in the event you lose power, they are much safer than candles.  I keep at least four high powered flashlights in my kitchen pantry, for outages. I also have battery operated candles that I can use a remote control to turn on and off.  I try to keep one in each room of the house, because when it storms here, we generally lose our power. Rest up, your body will tell you what it needs.

nlhome,  Our weather has been rainy and cold one day, then out of the blue it will be sunny and warm, then back to cold and rainy.  Our forecast for Memorial Day week end is showing mid to high 80s.  Today was rainy, high of 60. 
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« Reply #21048 on: May 22, 2020, 10:58:52 AM »
Good afternoon everyone,

It is a cloudy and showery day here on Deeside - we woke up to rain, which was great so far as I was concerned as it kept the room far darker than the bright early morning sunlight that has been waking me up earlier and earlier.  However, it then became very windy - there was a huge crash, and my mini-greenhouse fell right over on the balcony, taking all my precious seedlings with it. I managed to repot the marigolds, as they were already fairly far on and easy to find, but many seeds i had only planted quite recently - all I could do was scoop up the compost and put it back into the pots, so heaven only knows what, if anything, will now grow (and how I will know what it is if it does!)  My husband: 'I could've put sand in those side pockets to weight the thing down' - COULD'VE!!  ::) >:(

Barb - Please do take care, and also please do see your doctor. I did a similar thing last summer, in that our verger at work had washed the stone floor in the ladies' loos and left it to dry. There is a 'wet floor' sign there but he uses it literally all the time as a door stop, so no-one takes any notice of it. I slid right along the floor and landed on my back on the hard stone. For a few days I seemed to be OK, but then the upper part of my back between my shoulders became very stiff and sore. Luckily we have health insurance through my husband's company, so I was able to access a physiotherapist straight away (she told me the NHS waiting list is up to 14 weeks). She was brilliant, I was given lots of exercises and also acupuncture.  It did gradually improve, but I still find that if I do any even slightly heavy lifting I really suffer the next day (I am at the moment, and I can't even recall what I did yesterday). I have cocodamol from the doctor and I take that at night if i need to. I am beginning to think it will never really get fully better, but things could be a lot worse. 

Just been speaking with my elder daughter - her Headmaster in London has at last made the decision that the school will not re-open in June, but will wait till the new term in September. I am very relieved. Anna can now stay in Edinburgh for a while longer, and will not have to brave the London public transport system. It seems their school has come out as being in the top 5% for delivering distance learning.

I hope everyone is having a good day,

Rosemary

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« Reply #21049 on: May 22, 2020, 02:28:14 PM »
Oh NO, Rosemary.  I am so sorry about your seedlings!  What a disappointment. After our experience with the rose arbor every time a storm starts I worry all night about the new plants, are they even alive in this pounding rain and hail and tornadic winds?

 I just spent the last 5 hours looking for Hollyhocks. Every Lowe's, every Home Depot, every Garden Center, nothing, they SAY they have them on the internet. The folks at the garden department at Home Depot didn't know what they were (they aren't grown here much and wanted to see the photo of them on the seed packets they DID have).  I don't know why  I feel I have to have hollyhocks at the chicken house and yard, but I do. Not a one to be found, not a one but  SEED packets galore, so clutching them as the treasure they are, I just planted them against the chicken fence,  and then some in the seedlings I am doing on the porch, since it's hotter and more humid than a jungle  here and no need to warm them.

 I  would HATE to lose mine and I hate that yours,  which were planted with such hopeful enthusiasm, fell.

But you know what? The result of your new collaboration of seedlings MAY be the finest border ever done, and if perennial, a souvenir for years to come.

They do say that Gardening in this Pandemic has taken off like a rocket. I spent all day yesterday planting gigantic 3 gallon tubs of hydrangeas and really was soaked from head to foot but they are all now in the ground and looking fine, (and cuttings of them are rooting). All this enthusiasm because I planted the newest kind, the Invincibelle dwarf, called  Wee White, which is now, one month on, its full height 2 1/2-3  feet, 4 feet wide and covered with at least 50 giant  round white blooms. (That's what happens apparently when you plant 3 gallon pots of them, I have no other explanation but since they like it here so well I want more). hahaha  When they all turn white I'll put a photo in here.   Then our Jane mentioned Vanilla and Strawberry hydrangeas, which I never heard of,  and I looked THEM up and nearly fainted they are so gorgeous, so the local nursery had them, everybody else was sold out,  and now they are in the ground too.  I had to fight fire ants to plant the last one but their giant  nest akin to those you see in photos of Africa is doomed, I can tell you that. It has rained here SO  much they have come out of the ground to make mounds on top of the ground. What nasty hateful little creatures they are. They actually give a signal to each other. If you get too close, they will swarm  up on you, climbing your shoes and trousers and  legs, etc.,  but silently UNTIL the moment comes, they'll give a signal somehow to each other and ALL attack you at once, and by then they are pretty well up your body and they move  VERY fast, you dn't know they are there until it's too late.

OH and I was very pleased to see today that everybody in every store I went in had a mask except for a couple of men, and this is a big change here for us. I am very glad to see it.

Everything looks really good except I have a verbena I'd like to cut in half, has anybody ever done that? I'd like to spread it out a little.

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« Reply #21050 on: May 22, 2020, 03:54:56 PM »
Rosemarykaye, I am so very sorry to hear about your seedlings getting upturned.  As Ginny points out, maybe you will have a wonderful surprise when, and if, they grow and bloom.  It could be a beautiful array of colors. 

Ginny, I find calling the stores ahead, before venturing out to see if a store has what I am looking for, saves me time and trouble.  But then I hate going shopping for anything. My hubby went to Lowe's to buy a pvc pipe to connect to our pool this morning, and waited in line forever.  The good thing, as you mentioned, he said everyone had masks, and stood on the tape 6 ft apart.  The bad thing, the line was all the way back to the lumber department. 

Many of our bars and restaurants are opening this week end, and I plan to stay as far away from them as possible.  The traffic is returning to normal, so I guess this is a sign many have returned to their jobs.  I can't imagine how difficult it is, after being off for two months, getting back into the swing of things, but I do think, everyone is excited to find some kind of normal again.

Barb, I hope you are finding some relief with your back.  Rosemarykaye, I agree, I think once you injure your back, it never fully heals.  My biggest fear taking a shower any more is slipping getting out.  Now would be a good time for a walk in shower.  I do have a thick rug in front of the tub, but at our ages, one wrong move and down we go.

I just ordered some really cute children's fabric to begin making masks for my granddaughter who is a pre school teacher, for when she returns to her classroom in August.  I got some Cat In The Hat, and some Alphabet patterns.  I thought the kids will enjoy seeing kid friendly masks.  I'm going to make a dozen or so child size masks, so in the event a child needs one, she can have it in her room.  The CDC just released "recommended" guidelines for when schools open, on wearing a mask,
"face coverings “should” be worn by staff and encouraged in students, “if feasible.”

I shared the post a friend posted with the guidelines, and got schooled by the Facebook police FACT CHECKERS, telling me these are CDC recommendations, NOT rules.  So big brother is watching, all.  ::)
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« Reply #21051 on: May 22, 2020, 05:12:02 PM »
I remember I planted hollyhocks when we lived in Canada.  Just because of the name really, wasn't there a poem or something....delphiniums blue and hollyhocks red......maybe I'm making that up, might have been geraniums....anyway, they grew and grew and grew and were 6 ft tall or more, much taller than me, and they came back every year.  Quite amazing it was to me, I am not a gardener at all, my husband was. Or were they foxgloves...

......will have to google and see.....

.....well they look kind of similar , but mine were hollyhocks, I remember the colours.  They were amazing.  Good luck with the seeds Ginny.

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« Reply #21052 on: May 22, 2020, 06:22:05 PM »
My grandmother had hollyhocks, as did one aunt. I always wished my mom would plant them, but she did not like them, so tall maybe. I'm not sure. And I've never lived in a place where they would be appropriate.

I am so sorry about your greenhouse, Rosemary. I carefully marked all lmy plants, then got lazy and didn't keep track, so now all I know is "flower" and "tomato" and "pepper"

Ouch, Barb. Please take care.

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« Reply #21053 on: May 22, 2020, 07:33:43 PM »
PatH, I have never heard an answer to my email that I sent to Pedl’n.  I have a cousin who lives in Albuquerque who is searching for a phone number so We will have to just wait and see.🤔
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« Reply #21054 on: May 23, 2020, 05:48:59 AM »
What a bummer, Rosemary. when I was a youngster I would plant marigolds, bachelor's buttons and hollyhocks. I don't see anything mentioned about bachelor's buttons or hollyhocks these days. I always favored bachelor's buttons because they always attracted Goldfinches. Marigolds are supposed to be good nematode deterrents, so I would plant them around my tomatoes and such. I never had a greenhouse, but I did make a rectangular wooden box, laid in ground over which I placed an old glass storm door. It served as an early start on some of the garden greens.

My favorite Hollyhock these days is the CGC Hollyhock stationed at Port Huron, MI just at the mouth of the St. Clair River. She is a buoy layer which keeps her busy late winter/early spring and in the fall when she and her Canadian counterpart change out buoys. She also does some ice-breaking duties as well as search and rescue.

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« Reply #21055 on: May 23, 2020, 09:08:43 AM »
I've never seen a real live hollyhock however they remind me of the lovely illustrations for children's books back in the1920s and 30s

My mother ALWAYS had a rose garden with lots of short flowering plants between the roses - in one garden she had a large space full of Lilly of the Valley - I'm limited in what I can grow with all the deer - every year I think I am going to fence them out and then a fawn is born in the backyard and I fall in love with the deer all over again. Although this year I may miss out - with all the construction on the new school and the addition down the hill on the middle school the noise and workmen have chased away the deer. They were spending the nights grazing on the school grounds but not this year.   

Hard to believe this is Memorial Day weekend - probably because yesterday, Friday would typically be the last day of school and living so close to both an elementary and middle school I would enjoy seeing the children walking or riding their bikes in groups chatting away happy as a lark knowing it was the last day of school. No definite word here as to plans for the fall - last I heard they were planning some sort of rotating attendance where only a quarter of the children will be attending classes on any one day.

Did y'all see that PBS special on Edward and Wallis and how they undermined Britain during WWII, they befriending Hitler and sent him documents for a few years that they were privileged to receive from the war office until Churchill found out and they urged FDR not to help Britain or join the fight - unbelievable - as the show pointed out, there was little they could do to make them stop as the ex king - now it makes sense why none of the Royals attending either funeral - here all I think most of us thought, how petty just because he gave up the throne all those years ago plus, he was the governor of the Bahamas - had no idea he was such a mean spirited conniving traitor to Britain - which reinforced to me when we see happenings reported about the Royals we really never know the full story.   
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« Reply #21056 on: May 23, 2020, 11:21:08 AM »
 Dana, I was thinking there was a poem, too! I kept saying when hollyhocks last in the courtyard bloomed, of course that's not right,  it was when  lilacs last in the courtyard bloomed or something like that Walt Whitman on the death of Lincoln....well, here, let's not be so lazy:

"When Lilacs Last in the Dooryard Bloom'd" is a long poem in the form of an elegy written by American poet Walt Whitman (1819–1892) in 1865. ... It was written in the summer of 1865 during a period of profound national mourning in the aftermath of the assassination of President Abraham Lincoln on April 14, 1865.

There's  a poem by Robert Louis Stevenson about plants he learned from his nurse which ends "And the Lady Hollyhock," but that's the best one I can find.  I like old things, like flowers and breeds of chickens.

Bellamarie, there's not much use to call the big box stores here ahead in the gardening, the staff don't know what they are, even in person, you have to go yourself and  find one of the vendors coming in. Very nice people,  though. However the Garden Centers are different and this morning there's a specialty garden center an hour away who are expecting  them Thursday, the plants, and I'll be on the phone Friday morning to see IF in fact we can get some plants here too. Maybe I can actually drive through Panera's and get lunch! Such is the type of Big Day I have here lately.

nlhome, yes, my grandmother did, too, very old flower,  and that's, I think, the reason I want some. I expect your mother did not want to plant them as the old varieties were prone to many diseases, rust, and attack from all kinds of weevils, etc. Apparently the newer ones are more immune, I hope so, it's disappointing to see a 6 foot tall and 4 foot wide extravaganza suddenly take ill:  tomato,  or flower. How interesting about your husband and the mushrooms,  HE would have a FIT in our woods, I would kill self in a heartbeat, trying to eat one,  never saw such odd mushrooms, and don't know one from another.

Frybabe, now THERE is a hollyhock which will not wither, what a strange name for a ship! I have two of your rectangular wooden boxes next to the greenhouse with  storm/ screen doors over them, they are marvelous,  VERY good about warding off deer from tender seedlings! I have forgotten what they are supposed to be called, they are part of a stage in planting? Something about frame? Cold frame?  But they are MUCH more manageable, and I loved mine. I need to see if I can replace the bottom of the box...I (am on a mission to  reconstruct a lot of things here long neglected).

Oh and may I say I admire your ability to construct a computer system from scratch!

Barbara, yes, they were once very popular.  They are biennial, like snapdragons, you  plant the seed now and it sort of makes a small plant and next year that plant will grow to its huge beauty, die, seed itself and the cycle starts over. You have to have that cycle in place, in other words if I can get plants now or plants from seeds now then next year when they bloom, I will  need more seeds and beginning plants, for a 3 year cycle,  and then I can let it take its course....  I THINK that the only ones which successfully seed selves are the single ones, which look like hibiscus or althea  or Rose of Sharon, and I used, as a child, not to prefer them, but now I think they are very pretty, especially the bold pink ones.  There's even one called Henry VIII.  I still like best  the  big  double ones, the ones which look like  pompoms, but I don't think THEY reseed. We are about to find out. I hope today you are feeling a lot better!

On Edward VIII, no I did not see that, but would have liked to, but certainly on his funeral they were all in attendance,  that's the Queen Mother behind Prince Philip here with the widow. It really took something for the Queen Mother to  do that, I think. I hope PBS will repeat that, I will check the programming, they repeat a lot of things.  Thank you for mentioning it.






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« Reply #21057 on: May 23, 2020, 01:28:40 PM »
Barb, I would have loved to have seen that PBS special.  How interesting, to learn who was helping and undermining in WWII.  I marvel at the thought of you seeing a baby fawn in your yard. 
 
When my mother passed on back in 1990, my sisters and I took many of her perennials and planted them in our yards.  Lily of the Valley was one, of the ones I took.  Today I went outside and lo and behold, this year they have spread and multiplied three times the width they were last year.  They are a flower that will never die off.  I also noticed her Irises are about to bloom, and her rose bush is a lush green and so full, can't wait for it to show off it's blooms!  I like to think she is looking down with a big smile saying, "You did good."  I have to get to redoing my flower bed off my patio, today.  I'm hoping to win the war on weeds, by placing the black mesh ground cover down, then place some new top soil on it and dig only small holes to place my plants in.  Between my neighbor's weeds, and the strawberry vines that have been here since we moved in back in 1984, growing in my flowers, I feel defeated at times.

Ginny, good luck, I hope you find your Hollyhocks.  Panera for lunch sounds like a good idea.  I just love their sandwiches.  So healthy!

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I always favored bachelor's buttons because they always attracted Goldfinches

This is good to know!  Looking up bachelor's buttons, they are commonly known as the, Cornflower.  I have Goldfinch come to my Rose of Sharon bush, and have placed a couple of feeders out for them.  I love sitting at my kitchen table seeing them come.  I just may plant a few Bachelor's Buttons, now knowing they attract them.
Here are my two frequent visitors.
   
           


Okay, hubby is back with my black mesh, so I need to go tackle that flower garden.

Ya'll stay safe & healthy!  Have a great Memorial Day week end!
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« Reply #21058 on: May 23, 2020, 06:26:07 PM »
Ginny It's called Spying on the Royals - repeats here again on Sunday - a 2 part series - shows among other things, wire tapping Edward VIII and Wallis Simpson's phone and bugging their room in the U.S.; in 1940 Edward and Wallis visit a Nazi collaborator in Lisbon, under covert surveillance. Thanks for the photo - I only remember there was no big deal made over his funeral and I do not think they showed up for hers. The more I see of her she really was a strange one wasn't she - was she that much of a manipulator or was Edward flexing his muscles feeling he would be treated better than he was - hard to say...but an interesting window into head shaking behavior.

Now strawberry plants having taken over I could live with - they are low growing and do add color as well as invite the birds - like that image - but weeds are constant aren't they

I will have to look and find an online photo of a double flowered Hollyhock - seems they are varied and I did not know.

Love it - all I know is "flower" and "tomato" and "pepper" - are they jalapeno's or habanero? Now if we can protect them to fruit stage the deer won't eat the peppers ;)

OK - Paul put me on the phone with his Doctor yesterday afternoon - at first reluctant but after I said I was not seeing anyone he was OK - reminded me I was not his patient and so I started with the question of what I could expect if I visited a Dr. and yes, he agreed they would want an MRI and then interesting, he said since they are all loosing money right now they will probably also arrange for a bone density test - great information from both but won't help me feel better - the most they will offer is an injection of Cortisone but, if I am anything like my son, feeling no pain I will do too much, delaying the healing or causing more damage - pain is good - it keeps us aware - a fracture will take about 6 and with age 7 weeks to heal but nerve damage will take about 9 months and so after Christmas if I am having any twinges or problems then go to a doctor - asked about the 5-Loc inhibitor - he was not familiar with it and asked if it worked - I said, yes and he said, 'there you go' - then I asked about pain meds and told him of my chronic Bronchitis that has become worse with age - he said there is not a pain med on the market that does not inflame lungs or slow  down your lungs and so I could risk pneumonia and then he asked about my blood pressure - which I knew and shared how it is high but just below what is considered requiring meds - he said, that is the greater concern since even aspirin elevates BP that I should work on getting BP lower - and then I teased back yes, but breathing was my bigger concern and he said, looks like you've got two cows in the shoot - slow 'em down.  And so it appears, me and my rolled up pillow will be friends for the next few weeks - how I will take a shower I have not figured out yet... maybe under cover of darkness, a pan of warm soapy water and the hose on the back patio and then looking again how to alter my food intake. 
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« Reply #21059 on: May 23, 2020, 09:04:07 PM »
Barb, I know with the covid19 virus it may not be an option, but could you check into having a health nurse come in once a week or so, to help you with the bathing, etc.  Do you have anyone close by to help out with groceries?  Having frozen dinners to heat in the microwave would probably be a good idea.  There are some healthy ones out there now, low sodium, if that is an issue with blood pressure.  At times like these we do realize how very important it is to have family, a close neighbor or friend nearby. Please be very careful, and see about finding some help, that is a long time to try to tackle it all on your own.  Let us know how you are doing.  I will be praying for comfort and healing. 
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« Reply #21060 on: May 23, 2020, 09:49:19 PM »
The HEB, Whole Foods and Amazon all have two hour home delivery of groceries and so I'm OK and I have excellent neighbors - I'll be fine really -  thanks for your concern... one week has already passed and so just 5 or 6 to go... in the scheme of things that is not very long - lots to be thankful for - I'm not living under a bridge where a fall would be disaster, I'm a phone call away from help if I need it, sweet Alejandra mows my lawn and will take my garbage to the curb each week and drive my car each week to keep it from sitting so long - I'm fine and feel really proud of myself for doing such a great job of taking care of myself when this unexpected accident occurred.

I am so grateful I do not need to be in any sort of cluster living - the challenges are the adventures of aging that those of us who like our independence need to figure out - last summer I saw my cousin who lives in a retirement home - all very nice and clean with friendly nurses nearby but sad sack elders are her daily companions - I would not have the stamina to build joy and a smile everyday under such circumstances but with that come different challenges than those who, like my cousin have their physical needs secured by others. Very different than for instance some of my friends, who still long distance bike ride, play their cello in the symphony orchestra, are planting vegetables they can every other week and one friend who turned 81 is still riding her cutting horse in competition. We all live alone. The adventure is figuring out the little things based on an elder power lifestyle not available to our parents or grandparents. Thanks again for your concern. 
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« Reply #21061 on: May 24, 2020, 11:23:04 AM »
Good afternoon everyone,

Barb, I did have to laugh at your idea of how to take a shower. 

A couple of years ago my son won a prize in a quiz that was a stay at The Lazy Duck Bothy. This is very near to them, so they offered it to us as a gift. The bothy has been done up, but still has no bathroom - you either walk to the little outhouse containing the sawdust loos. or you use the china chamber pot provided.  The outhouse was very clean and nice, and had a slit window so that you could watch the birds while you were there, but this was November in the Highlands and the path was icy, so i was not going to slip and slide down there in the middle of the night. There was no indoor shower, but outside there was a contraption they had rigged up - you sort of filled it from a bucket then pulled a rope to release the water onto your head. It might be fun in summer, but this was mid-winter - nevertheless, my husband actually used it, he said it was 'invigorating'. Thank goodness my son and his wife lived so nearby, as I was able to go to their house for my showers! https://www.lazyduck.co.uk/

But seriously, I do hope you start to recover soon. I was interested in what the doctor told you about nerve damage, as I still have intermittent pins and needles in one foot from my back injury - I just counted up and it is about 9 months past now, so maybe it will soon go away. I continue to do the exercises.  I do take painkillers at night, but maybe I shouldn't?  Some nights though I would get no sleep without them - other nights there is hardly any pain at all, quite unpredictable.

Yesterday my remaining Siamese cat was very off colour, then started to vomit blood (not pure blood). This has happened on occasion in the past, as I think she was left on Loxicom for far too long and may now have a gastric ulcer. Of course we ended up having to take her to the emergency vet - they were very good, ran tests (more £££) and gave her some injections, and she does seem a lot better today, but we will have to watch her. And in the meantime I just hope the pet insurance coughs up.

Ginny - we watched the first of those new Michael Portillo shows last night. These are all about the countries of the former British Empire, so the first one was India. Portillo is usually quite conservative (and indeed he used to be a Conservative MP many years ago) but he was very honest about all the atrocities that the British had committed in India - most particularly the East India Compnay and Clive of India, whose behaviour was totally unregulated and who were really just murdering thugs. Eventually the British government took over, and although, of course this was still not a good thing at all, I think things were slightly better regulated - just so condescending and superior. Portillo interviewed many Indian historians and writers, who gave a very different perspective on events from the ones that are so often pedalled here.

I heard our golf mad neighbour telling his other neighbour about all the slots he has already booked at the local golf club, which is set to reopen on Thursday. I could nto care less about golf, but if it stops him whacking golf balls in the garden all day, all I can say is hurrah. I will be more interested to see if the new rules will allow us to meet up with friends - I understand that this is in the plan, you can meet with people from one other household but the meeting has to be outside and with social distancing. Several of my oldest friends live within a few miles of here, so it will be great if we can meet and go for walks together, even if only one friend at a time.

My elder daughter's headmaster has decided that their school will not reopen until after the summer, thank heavens. Apparently they are one of the best schools in London for the delivery of distance learning, so they are just to continue with that - though of course they remain open for the children of essential workers and for vulnerable children. This means Anna can stay in Edinburgh for at least a few more weeks.

Having read some fairly complicated books recently, I am now treating myself to a Debbie Macomber. I do enjoy her every now and then. This one is about a woman who moves to a small town in Texas from California, and opens a bookshop. If anyone tried that here they would probably be bankrupt in a month - do bookshops still make money in the USA?  I would love to think they do. I recall that Louise Penney also makes a big thing of the bookshop in Three Pines - but I am afraid I went off her novels some time ago, just too, too perfect and a terrible lack of editing.

Ginny - all that stuff about Edward and Mrs Simpson is very interesting. I think they were both rather odd people. They do not have a good name here at all, but of couse it is she who is villified, he is just seen as weak. I expect you will have seen The King's Speech, which showed how much they dropped George VI in it and how much he suffered when he was forced to take centre stage.  I'm afraid our tabloid press are now comparing Harry and Meghan to Edward and Wallace, but of course the reasons for stepping back, whether right or wrong, were quite different. And William and Kate always knew that they were first in line, as of course they still will be after Charles.

The sun has finally come out so I think it is time for a walk.

Hope everyone is having a good day,

Rosemary

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« Reply #21062 on: May 24, 2020, 03:59:41 PM »
Rosemary - at the risk of turning this into a health station rather than a library - however, one thing I have learned about the cause of most pain is most often because the body sends the blood and what we see as water to heal - the swelling, even slight causes the pain even with a headache - Ice to reduce the inflammation or often balancing water retention does more than attempting to numb the pain -

I do know a natural way to affect pain is taking turmeric - adding ginger also helps - together or singularly they are anti-inflammatory - if you prefer western meds simply look for something that will be an anti-inflammatory that does not slow down you entire system - actually I find applying arthritic creams to my head where it aches, even under my hairline helps as much as taking an aspirin however, the slow down of an aspirin that I did not know until Dr. Murchison explained is probably calming our nerves that induces sleep -  now I am anxious to look into what naturally (other than the meditation etc route) will calm our nervous system that yes, it does get tense when we feel pain.

There are two books now that I am anxious to read - I did know from my one grandson, who has 3 long time childhood friends in Med school and how they were aghast, to the point one wanted to leave and get his education in Haiti or Cuba - anyhow from the get go they are trained what must be part of a regime that allows them and a hospital to make money - I knew Nixon changed the laws so that health care became for profit - once over the shock of hearing what many of us suspected it helps to accept, like any product or service, it is not free. Doctors and hospitals are not subsidized as volunteer organization and our responsibility is to look into what we could blindly accept, like even food that in order to have a shelf life is often filled with preservatives that are not kind to our body.

And so, hearing Dr. Murchison simply say to make money this or that would be part of a visit was no longer something I mentally would challenge - however, I do now have on my list to read,  Medicare Meltdown: How Wall Street and Washington are Ruining Medicare and How to Fix It by Rosemary Gibson and also written by Rosemary Gibson, The Treatment Trap: How the Overuse of Medical Care is Wrecking Your Health and What You Can Do to Prevent It    

I know I sound like one of these back to nature woohoo's but I do know whatever way we choose to medicate and feed ourselves it is better to know what we are putting into our bodies and how it affects our bodies - and yes, I have to say over the years I had been curious and as a result I do accept many of the cures offered by eastern medicine and native American treatments.

My very best friend, Charlotte who died 3 years ago did live to be 95 and was a champion for western meds, she had been a nurse back in the late 30s, 40s and 50s, and ate only processed food - however, like me, her husband, Bill did have issues with his lungs and he died because his lungs could not longer heal from pneumonia when he was in his late 80s which was still a long life - I just do not like the feeling when my lungs start to close down -

I am not afraid of death but just as I prefer certain wax on my furniture and certain cleaning products for my house I also prefer certain food and skin care for my body and for sure I want to know how meds will affect my body and most important my disposition - I've seen too many, as they age grow crotchety and I am convinced it is because many meds affect different parts of our brains - and just as I decided I was NOT going to have crepe paper skin and so I slather on inexpensive cooking coconut oil on my face and lower arms the same with putting off being vague or crotchety or worse, be on some kind of ventilator as they show ads on TV. Instead, I am going to understand the affect of any med suggested and find alternatives that do the job without the associated damage.

OK my rant ;) ...  in my favor, olly olly oxen free , I did mention two books ;)
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« Reply #21063 on: May 24, 2020, 04:21:54 PM »
Barb, We were posting at the same time.  I'm so glad you have it all under control.  Having Alejandra nearby is perfect, in the event you would need anything.  My son is forty-five years old and injured his back at work about five years ago, and depending on what level of work he does, like mow the lawn or lift heavy items, he will be down with pain.  Rosemarykaye, I hope there is healing in your near future. 
Barb, I'm with you, do what is best for you, I don't at this time take any meds, other than a Motrin every now and then.  I've never been a person who buys over the counter remedies for colds, sleeping, etc.  Luckily, I have been pretty healthy so far.
Those two books on Medicare, you mentioned sounds interesting.

Well, we worked all day outside yesterday.  I got my patio garden all redesigned, the pool is officially open, the flowers are all planted, and I ordered a new outdoor patio rug, which should be here in about a week.  Hubby and I had Sunday morning breakfast out under the umbrella by the pool, and we were excited to see the two finch come for their early morning feeding. It's an absolute beautiful day today. 

Rosemarykaye,  I have tried to read Debbie Macomber, but for some reason can never finish one of her books.  I have a few I started, and they still have the bookmarks in them.  I do like Louise Penny. 

Speaking of outhouses,  I dare say growing up as a child, quite poor, and on a rural road, we did not have inside plumbing, NO bathroom at all, so we bathed in a huge round silver tub in the middle of the kitchen, and used the outhouse by day, and pot by night.  My Daddy was in the process of building our small home, at the time he was killed in a truck/train crash on his way to work, when I was only 3 years old.  So, until my mother remarried, years later, there was no one to build us a bathroom.  Seven siblings ranging from ages 10, 9, 8, 7, 6, 5, 3, and 1 yr. old., can you imagine the chaos my mother lived through trying to keep us all clean, with no bathroom or laundry room, just a wringer machine and clothesline.  I still marvel at what she was able to do, as a widow.

Well, since we had no particular plans today, I decided to delve into sorting winter and summer clothes, so I better get back to it, before the day passes me by.  We are going to attempt a cook out at my son's house tomorrow.  I told my hubby to sit six feet away, and stay outside in their back yard.  It is good to see the reopening all around the world.  Rosemarykaye, I do hope you will get to have a visit with your friends soon. 

Oh and just a reminder for the Jane Austen fans, the new book The Jane Austen Society will be out May 26th.  I can't wait to read it.

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« Reply #21064 on: May 25, 2020, 07:54:17 AM »
Happy Memorial Day!

The new National Geographic has stunning interviews with veterans from all sides and countries in its new issue and archival photos I've never seen. A super way to remember those who have fallen in the defense of our country as well.

Rosemary, how interesting on the Portillo. When I hear “British Raj in India,” what comes to mind are two things:  Amritsar and Mountbatten and the Partitioning of India. In 2003 I took a week’s  mini course at Christ Church Oxford on  the British Raj In India, taught by an Indian professor from the faculty of St. Andrew’s when Prince William was there. She had her graduate degree from Oxford.  It was and still is called “The Oxford Experience.” . The idea was to have the full auxiliary “experience,” live in the dorm, ( I have never ever had an undergraduate “room”  like that),  eat in the great Harry Potter Hall, croquet and Pimm’s on the lawn,  and it delivered. But it also delivered a mammoth pre course  reading list  which you were expected to have done and readings every day which you were expected, (nicely) to give your opinion on and defend in two classes every morning (and what a CLASSROOM, good heavens, that was a first) ….and this, after all, was only the one week, so it was quite different and  a huge adventure.

  We were an international close knit group, very supportive. One of our group was a young  Indian woman whose father actually had driven one of the trains to Pakistan (not Bangladesh) during the Partitioning. His searing  stories, related through his daughter,  I will never ever forget.   A couple of  Japanese ladies  in attendance were giving a concert in NYC and Washington after this week and very kindly sent me a tape when I could not go, of their playing an ancient instrument which  ordinarily they would not be able to play. We all hung out together, to pubs, organ concerts, trips to Didcot,  to see the steam engines,  Shakespeare in the Crypt…. I still correspond with one of them, 17 years later. The Tutor had us in one evening to her apartment,  we all went to an Indian restaurant (and she was the right person to go with, they brought out all kinds of stuff not on the menu),  she talked about the motto of the college and what it meant for her to apply, and the class excursion was to Knebworth House (because of the Lytton connection and artefacts displayed) which was preparing for Robbie Williams and his famous concert. (How they ever got the grounds back in place I will never know).  I don’t think I will forget standing in the Mausoleum which was beautiful, like a chapel, and looking down only to see I was standing on a tomb labelled Resurgam. (“I shall rise again”). I about jumped through the roof…. It was a great way to spend a week, well run, and very informative.  I often think of going again but the heat now is something I can’t take, unfortunately.

Barbara, I admire role models for old age, and you are lucky to have such friends.  I admire independence, too. I just hope that the pain is from what you surmise and not something else, but the Woman Who Went 9 Months not being able to bend her right knee without shrieking (my GP said when it was over "you'd think that you'd have thought to see a doctor") is in NO position to give medical advice.   I hope each day seems a  little better and I  know if it starts to go backwards you'll seek at least another opinion, anyway. Opinions are only that.


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« Reply #21065 on: May 26, 2020, 07:08:25 AM »
Ginny, what a wonderful experience you had at Oxford! I had a 'set' at Cambridge (a bedroom and a sitting room, overllooking the Cam) in my final year/ It was wonderful, we were so lucky.

I always remember the terrible ambush of the train at Partition in The Jewel in the Crown, and it having to carry on to its destination, full of the dead and dying.

I have the Raj Quartet books at home in Edinburgh, unread I'm afraid. After watching Portillo I had a great urge to read them - thought it would be easier to buy a cheap copy of the first one online rather than persuade a daughter to post one to me - but there are no cheap copies, and neither of my libraries has any in their e-library - so I might try the girls.

As I think I mentioned before, I am being very lazy and enjoying a Debbie Macomber at the moment - The Little Bookshop of Promises. Yes, the title says it all, I know, but sometimes I just need one of these, and I do think she is very good at what she does. I don't know many other people who would enjoy her though (but they must do are there are a zillion copies in the libraries). My mother would loathe every word, as would my daughters.

After that I will be back to my more 'literary' books from Saraband.

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« Reply #21066 on: May 26, 2020, 07:19:29 AM »
Bellamarie - that is such an interesting description of your childhood. My mother also grew up in a home with 5 children and no bathroom. They did have an outside toilet, but baths were in a tin bath in front of the stove once a week. Women were so strong then - my grandmother had several cleaning jobs and took in other people's laundry to try to make ends meet, as well as feeding and clothing 5 children and coping with my very damaged grandfather. The family next door had FOURTEEN children - in a house with 3 small bedrooms.

As I said, Debbie Macomber is definitely not everyone's cup of tea!  I wouldn't worry about it. They are very predictable stories - I suppose part of the appeal for me is the descriptions of life in the USA, although how idealised hers are I'm not sure. The one I am reading just now is set in small town Texas, where almost everyone seems to be a rancher and raise quarter horses, whatever they may be. The previous one was located mainly in a naval base in Washington - the military and their families often feature, maybe Macomber has personal knowledge of it. The only person I know in the army here is a friend of my daughter's - she is an army musician, as is her husband, and they are based in the barracks here in Edinburgh. There is a navy base at Rosyth, just over the Forth, but I don't know anyone there.

I hope your cook-out went well. It is still a bit scary to get together with people, isn't it? (Not that we are allowed to yet - unless you are an adviser to the Prime Minister that is, in which case anything goes, apparently.)

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« Reply #21067 on: May 26, 2020, 07:45:58 AM »
Barb - I was truly interested to read your views on medication. I do believe many people in the US are on a lot more of it than we have here. The NHS is always counting the cost of drugs anyway, so they are not freely prescribed, but even ignoring that factor our GPs are inceasingly reluctant to prescribe, especially for things that will go away on their own. And I agree with that - especially re antibiotics, which are only available on prescription here. Too many people think they are a cure-all and demand them even for viruses, for which they do not work. I used to have a friend who was very into organic everything, natural cures, etc, but the MINUTE she or her children got a sore throat or a bad cold she was at the doctor's insisting they needed penicillin or sone such. When i was a child it was prescribed routinely for far too many things, hence many bugs have built up a resistance to it. My own children have only had it very rarely - even my younger daughter, who has had a lot of problems with urinary infections and thrush, now knows how to deal with them without recourse to medication.

As to older people being crochety - well, I thought about this a good deal when my mother-in-law was still alive. She was unbelievably difficult in old age, very demanding, always shouting at the carers and her own children. She did not have dementia. We all concluded that it was the fact that she no longer had control of the minutiae of her own and her husband's lives - she had had this for as long as anyone could remember, it was always her way or the highway, and my FIL was an academic who was perfectly happy to let her organise every aspect of his life. I do see that giving up of control over things we are used to managing ourselves must be very hard, but she would have had a much happier time in her final years if she had been able to accept help gracefully. As it was it got to the point where no-one really wanted to visit her, and although we did, we were always on tenterhooks for the next outburst. Towards the end she was put onto anti-depressants. I know many, many people think these are terrible, and I certainly think they should be treated with caution, but for her it improved things no end - she was at last able to enjoy the months she had left, and people were far more relaxed around her.

I have heard a lot about turmeric, not tried it myself but know several people who find it helpful. I have actually tried quite a few alternative remedies over the years, and I really wanted them to work, but not many did. At the moment we are trying glucosamine, which a friend swears by for joints, but so far neither of us have seen any benefit.

As you say, I had better shut up about this now, as we are supposed to be in a Library, and unlike you I have not even mentioned a book!

But I do hope you feel better soon - take care.

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« Reply #21068 on: May 26, 2020, 10:46:02 AM »
I think I read The Raj Quartet about the same time as I watched the tv series (on netflix or someplace, just quite recently.  I was travelling someplace and I tore the last book in half to take the end with me on the plane....so I must have been riveted!)
I also like A Passage to India and the movie.
Recently of-course A Suitable Boy, set just after partition.
I had a Pakistani boyfriend whose family suffered during partition in the move from India to Pakistan. This was when I was doing my housejobs, and of-course half the docs were Indian or Pakistani and as juniors we all lived in, back then.  Their wives used to cook for us often, much better than hospital food!

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« Reply #21069 on: May 26, 2020, 01:02:03 PM »
Anyone using turmeric, don't forget it's a really good fabric dye, and if you accidentally get it on your clothes, you'll never get it out.

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« Reply #21070 on: May 26, 2020, 06:56:03 PM »
A great reminder Pat that all meds started out from paint and dye companies - it has been years but remember looking into all this and after WWI within Germany the first conglomerate was created that were 5 paint and dye companies that used their knowledge of synthetic dyes, only developed in the twentieth century, to create dyes that are a basis of many meds. There were Nobel Prizes awarded to Bayer chemists for their work in the 1930s.

Of the conglomerate I only remember two, Bayer and I.G.Farben - Farben easy since if you remember most of our yellow pencils were I.G. Faren - bit the bigger story - Bayer aspirin being a part of all that - The story was that Bayer had a manufacturing company in Rensselaer New York that during WWII we were sending profits back to Germany and so we in the US were supporting Hitler with every Bayer aspirin we purchased - after WWII the US broke up the conglomerate but I.G.Farben and Bayer remain - when the story got out about the Rensselaer location they tried to say no, the Bayer site in Rensselaer was sold - but it turns out in recent years it was learned it was only sold to the an American Branch that is and was still directly tied to Bayer AG in Germany - there were other huge financial benefits given to Bayer by the US before WWII. Both Bayer and Farben used Jewish slave labor from the camps during the war - after. there are all sorts of atrocities committed by both in mostly Africa and then Bayer got into insecticides and other farm chemical products and plastics that culminated in the merger with Monsanto   

Regardless the history of Bayer and Farben. knowing just the highlights how plant life evolves and many meds in their original form were also dyes. For instance Ginger root makes a pink dye and Mullein which is good as an expectorant makes a yellow dye and Marigolds are also a strong source of lutein and zeaxanthin, retinal nutrient, used to improve vision in patients with retinal degeneration, the flavin lutein is the component of the flower that gives the yellow dye. And so forth...

Makes me now rethink my herb garden... although as much as I would like to day dream, I will probably never dye either paper or wool much less cloth.
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« Reply #21071 on: May 27, 2020, 06:44:24 AM »
When my daughter was at school she had a friend whose mother was very into natural stuff. She died Annie's old leggings green with nettles. Unfortunately when Annie wore them she ended up with nettle-green legs....

This same mother held a birthday party for her daughter with all healthy food. I'm sorry to say the other little girls, including mine, were not too impressed (though all too polite to say so till they came home, thank goodness.) The piece de resistance was a birthday 'cake' made out of a cucumber cut to look like a crocodile. I thought it was clever but I'm afraid Madeleine just wanted to know where the chocolate sponge was....

Turmeric does indeed stain terribly. I also wonder what they put into tins of tomatoes, in that if you spill those the stain never comes out, whereas fresh tomatoes are fairly easy to remove.

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« Reply #21072 on: May 27, 2020, 08:06:15 AM »
Annie - I have not forgotten about your wish to find out more about your ancestors.

Yesterday our Central Library (which is not open at the moment but the staff are still working) published a blog post inviting people to send them any queries re family and local history.

I sent what I knew about yours, and I have just received the following reply:


Iain Duffus
12:58 PM (4 minutes ago)
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Hi Rosemary

It sounds like it could have been the Welsh Coal Strike of 1898 that moved the Mullen family from Wales to Scotland. I don't often use Wikipedia to answer enquiries but there is a good article on the history of the strike here https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Welsh_coal_strike_of_1898 . Do you think this sounds like it could the correct event?

I can have a look into their family tree but we need more than just the name Mullen (First names, rough idea of dates born, married, died and place where they resided) to help.

Please get back to me if I can help further

Many thanks
Iain Duffus


If you would like to send me any more information that you have, I would be more than happy to send it to Iain - or you could email him direct if you prefer, his email is:

Iain.Duffus@edinburgh.gov.uk

Best wishes,

Rosemary

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« Reply #21073 on: May 27, 2020, 10:13:42 AM »
Rosemary, how exciting for Ann! What a lovely thing to do!

I have always wondered what the poor ancient Romans did about UTIs without antibiotics!!!  If there is a cure other than drinking oneself into a coma with gallons of  water from the resultant  hyponatremia, I'd love to know what it is.  Cranberry is not in it.

Talking about tinned tomatoes, I read somewhere the other day that is one thing a person should NEVER ever eat. I just don't remember why.


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« Reply #21074 on: May 27, 2020, 10:20:47 AM »
Ginny - a friend swears by powdered cranberry, which I believe she gets from the wholefood shop. I think my daughter has tried it but I don't think it worked for her. She drinks a lot of water, and another emergency relief is a teaspoonful of bicarbonate of soda in a glass of water - when she was a child we never went away anywhere without a tub of that bicarb! Otherwise Madeleine buys those sachets you dissolve in water - Cylamol?  But even she agrees that it is more for the nice taste, and that they don't really do any more than the bicarbonate does.

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« Reply #21075 on: May 27, 2020, 10:33:56 AM »
Huh, I'll be darned.  Have not heard of Cylamol, and can't find it, but I don't see how bicarb would hurt, I'll give it a try the next time and see what happens, thanks for the tip.

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« Reply #21076 on: May 27, 2020, 11:10:16 AM »
It is still a bit scary to get together with people, isn't it? (Not that we are allowed to yet - unless you are an adviser to the Prime Minister that is, in which case anything goes, apparently.)
Rosemary, is he going to get away with it?  The papers here had the story, but I'm not sure they'll follow up.

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« Reply #21077 on: May 27, 2020, 11:52:53 AM »
OH dear the nettle dye was not fixed was it... the more I looked into dying by hand the more complicated it seemed although there are many in the area who sell their hand dyed wool - lovely soft colors using mostly various cactus. Hill Country Weaves carries many of these hand dyed yarns.

Rosemary the story of the child's birthday reminded me a few years ago when facebook was more neighborhood without all the politics there was this long back and forth over Halloween candy- it was a riot - such humor - there were well over 100 posts with those who saw the danger in candy and sugar being so sincere and serious that much of the posts from others went right over their heads. I too remember one year giving out boxes of raisins and never heard the end of it mortifying my youngest.

My interest in all this only started just a little over 25 years ago - forgot the flu but I had it early and everytime I left the house for a couple of weeks I would come home with a raging fever - the Doctor just ordered up more antibiotics, neither of us knew at the time I was allergic to the meds - then when I finally got past what was going on I could not hear and went to a ear, nose and throat doctor - that was when I had it - went in telling him I could not hear - hours and hours of all sorts of tests and we sit down for the result and he says I cannot hear and my ear drum was like a tin plate from all my childhood surgery (the way they used to treat abscessed ears) I was silently and inward furious - I told him that when I walked in - that was when I took myself to then Whole Foods which had aisles of herbs and books galore.

My father used to take bicarb when he was feeling ill - since, I learned it alkalizes an acid stomach - most of our diet today is an acid diet unless we are into eating loads of greens and so it is really very easy to have our stomachs out of balance.

Since I am allergic to about all antibiotics... the one I can take is no longer in production and to get a regime costs nearly $500 and so doctors have now been telling me to use the colloidal silver including the dental surgeon over a year ago.

I've also learned with the popularity of colloidal silver some manufacturers are using larger particals of silver and to allow them to float in the purified water they are encapsulating them in mostly a gelatin that if you are allergic to the binding material you are not helping and the word is, this method is not effective except as a daily health aid - It does come in different densities and to use as a antibiotics. I use the 500 PPM - for some 'fixes' I use the 250PPM like for a sinus condition - it comes as low as 10 PPM

There are web sites explaining its history that are so full of ads I'm copying and pasting the information from one - I do remember as a little kid mom putting a silver coin that was my grandmother's into the milk - it was pasteurized so overkill but not yet homogenized that came along much later.  I bet it was simply a habit that my grandmother probably grew up with when milk came directly from the cow.

There was information on the web about how when penicillin was first being manufactured the thought was to use colloidal silver but it was too expensive but now the web is full of information that colloidal silver in now being incorporated into most manufactured antibiotics.

Here is from the site that silver appears to have been in use during Roman times ...

"Throughout history, silver has been used across the world and in many a different civilizations as a monetary standard, a health remedy and a preservative. Truth be told, thousands of years before modern scientists and doctors understood microbes and how they cause illness, people knew the health benefits of colloidal metals, particularly that of silver.

    Egyptian writings are known to mention the use of silver.

    The Greeks and Romans stored liquids in vessels crafted out of silver in order to prevent spoilage and to keep bacteria from
    growing.

    The Middle Ages brought the outbreak of the plague. However, the wealthy, because they ate with 100% silver forks, knives, and spoons, were protected from the full brunt of the disease.

    The earliest American Pioneers, who settled the frontier, placed silver or copper coins in their drinking water and milk as they trekked westward. The coins kept the water safe from bacteria and algae and kept the milk fresh.

    Presently, silver is being used in hospitals. It is found in newly manufactured wound dressings and various items used for patient care.

    Colloidal silver is considered a medicinal powerhouse and regaining in popularity due to its healing properties.

The use of silver for water purification purposes still continues. Modern technologies are reviving the use of silver. It can now be found in various filtration systems. Even NASA has used silver in the water purification system on their space shuttle.

https://frugallysustainable.com/silver-for-water-purification/

Like all antibiotics the colloidal silver will lead to an imbalance in your tummy and so just as we have to do a job with probiotics after we have used some sort of mycin or other antibiotic so to, after a few days of using high PPM colloidal silver - another tip I learned is rather than the expensive probiotics using a fermented food does the same thing - and so I treat myself to a good jar of Bavarian sauerkraut and eat raw about an ounce a day - there are many Kombucha drinks on the market now and I am thinking in historical times I bet a lot of food either turned or was fermented to keep it, like cabbage. Hmm I wonder if beer was more of an assistant to health then thought.

When I was a kid remember stopping at the German butcher who had a huge barrel of sauerkraut at the end of the meat counter I would get either a quarter or a dime's worth of sauerkraut to eat on the way home. Loved it with all those caraway seeds...

OK need to watch the car parade of all the seniors from our local high school being escorted by the police up and down the streets of our neighborhood...
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« Reply #21078 on: May 27, 2020, 12:51:23 PM »
Pat, I (and everyone I know) certainly hope he doesn't. He is a lying, scheming, self-obsessed psychopath who seems to be able to justify his actions to himself without a shred of conscience. His ghastly journalist wife is no better. Unfortunately our appalling, spineless, self-interested PM seems to be unable to bring himself to sack him - the feeling is that Johnson has not got a clue what he is doing, so needs the terrifying Cummings to tell him. It is truly appalling that this thug of a man (the very one who is alleged to have said that it would be best if we just let the virus run to give us herd immunity, as most people who died from it 'were probably going to die within two years anyway') has ever been allowed to get into such a position of absolute power. He is unelected, an 'advisor' chosen by Johnson with no approval required from anyone else. We are told that most MPs are very scared of him - but even so, at least 30 of his own party are now demanding his immediate removal. Even the Daily Mail, the most right wing, racist and reactionary version of our gutter press, ran a TEN page feature on Monday on why Cummings had to go without delay. You would think that would tell Johnson something, but apparently not.

The other widely held opinion is that Cummings also has so much dirt on the odious Johnson that Johnson can't risk it all coming out. (Which of course it will anyway if that suits Cummings at any point in future.)  This government is the worst one in living memory. The only sign of light on the horizon is that the new Labour leader, Keir Starmer, is far more media friendly than the last one, and is also a highly skilled andexperienced QC (top barrister) who can slice through Johnson's blustering rubbish like a knife through butter. If there were an election (and of course Johnson and co will come over all sanctimonious and say 'we can't let an election distract us at times like this') I do think Labour would have a good chance now. Apart from the few die-hards who believe everything Johnson & the right wing media tell them, the entire country (of all political persuasions) is absolutely incandescent with rage. There have of course been other politicians who have been caught breaking the lockdown - each and every one has either resigned or been sacked. Thanks to the rules (that were written at least in part by Cummings) people have been unable to see their own parents & siblings before they died, unable to be with their loved ones in hospital, unable to visit their families...and the vast majority of us have abided by these rules (including single parents holed-up in tiny garden-less flats with small children).

Sorry, I know I must stop ranting on here - but really, it is all everyone is talking about in the UK - the Tories have now invented some totally non-existent 'opinion poll' to try to persuade the world that we all 'want to move on' - whereas the official opinion polls are all saying the only person everyone wants to move on - preferably to another planet - is that heinous Cummings (preferably taking Johnson, Priti Patel and Michael Gove with him).

Part of the problem is that Johnson has assembled an inner sanctum of people whose only interest and mission is 'to deliver Brexit' (which almost no-one in Scotland voted for) - they have very little experience or skill in running a country, and whilst the current situation is unprecedented in their lifetimes, a 'proper' government that was not just obsessed with saving the money of the uber-rich would have managed this so much better. Just look at Ireland or New Zealand.

Thank goodness I and most of my family live in Scotland. The official opinion polls show that a huge majority of people feel our FM and her government are doing a good job. They say the complete opposite about the Westminster shower.

Forgive me, I'll be quiet now - and thanks for asking.

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« Reply #21079 on: May 27, 2020, 01:34:47 PM »
Interesting Rosemary - from an outsider's point of view with the split over Brexit there was bound to be political tumbling and also, rather than not being in control I have noticed they are using the chaos so that their opposites often put their foot into it that shows the general electorate what is really going on that would never be made public if the leadership controlled who was allowed a public platform - this way it is not just one political group against the other with the electorate taking sides based on word of mouth but rather, the public is in on seeing for themselves what is going on and then they can make up their mind whom to support.

OK change of topic - yesterday was my first Christmas Tuesday - did not pull out all the stops but then like Advent it is a buildup - I did read my first Christmas ebook - A Christmas Bargain by Sarita Lecone - Jane Austin she is not... story take place in that same time period - good, adequate but no punch - essentially the dilemma is based on her grandfather's will that says she either marries the man of her choice in 2 years or she marries the man he picked or she can live permanently in a small modest cottage with a modest income. Nearing the end of her 2 years and the one the grandfather chose makes his move but socially he has a bad wrap including being blamed for a series of 5 murders who are all Barons -

There are two close 'girl' friends, each with their own issues but a couple of really good characters that were used for only one scene and never followed up - The story takes place during the times of social festivities ending at a Christmas house party - none of the conflicts are riveting but she does a good job of including words and 'things' typical of the history that are no longer in use today.

Example; the word ton as in "the season for showing the ton there is still time to find a suitable partner."   

1. fashionable style or distinction.
2. [treated as sing. or pl.] (the ton) — fashionable society.

At lest it was a change of pace but I would only give the story a B
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