Jean, I am so happy to hear that you loved THE CAZELETS. I always have this feeling that when I truly love something, I want the whole wide world to know about it. Of course, the truth is, we are all different and that just does not work. I did feel one thing most important about these books, though, and that is that they portray the sense of World War II in England so very well. Not the war itself, of course, but its affect on families and daily living.
One of my daughters has a dear friend who has a son with Aspergers. He took 5 years to get through a private high school. He was great academically, but they felt he needed an extra year of maturing socially. Now he has just begun his Freshman year of college at a state college here. He also won a large, 4-year scholarship to a great private college, but his parents felt the state school, which is the mother's alma mater also, would be better as it is quite close to home. This lad is quite, quite brilliant (he used to tell me all about bugs by the hour when he was about seven, including their Latin names!), but it is the fitting in that makes difficulties.
The heroine in Steig Larsson's books, Lisbeth Salander, has Asperger's.