Oh, GINNY, you are so right. We do want to hold our heroes to certain standards. However,
they are not heroes, to my thinking, if they are inhumanly perfect. I don't expect a hero
to be 'pure' in mind, morals and spirit. I expect him to hold himself to certain standards,
to struggle with it along with the rest of us. But he will dare more, do more, and make
a difference.
At times, in this story of Kirke (Circe), I can see why there is speculation that the Odyssey was written by more than one person. It seems to change from a tale of a noble and cunning warrior to a story for leering and knowing male chuckles.
Circe is all sympathy, telling the men she knows how much they have suffered, how hard the journey has been, with no joys or pleasures for them. She invites them to stay and rest until they are recovered, eating and drinking until they “restore their gallant hearts”. Then Odysseus, narrating, says “As we were men, we could not help consenting.” So
they lingered for a year!?? And they could not help it, because 'they were men’? Oh, please, spare me.