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maryz

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« Reply #520 on: August 02, 2009, 09:35:03 PM »

The Library


Our library cafe is open 24/7, the welcome mat is  always out.
Do come in from the heat and humidity and join us.

We look forward to hearing from you, about you and the books you are enjoying (or not).


Let the book talk begin here!

Everyone is welcome!

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« Reply #521 on: August 02, 2009, 09:58:01 PM »
Judy, you have alot to deal with now. My thoughts are with you.

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« Reply #522 on: August 02, 2009, 11:13:05 PM »
Judy,

You are in my thoughts as you go through this difficult time in your life.
(((Hugs)))

Joan Grimes
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Steph

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« Reply #523 on: August 03, 2009, 08:07:57 AM »
Oh Judy, I feel the pain. We went through that with Tims Mother and life is hard. Hopefully knowing you, you will feel some sunshine and joy with various small things. I will think of you and hold you deep in the flame within.
Stephanie and assorted corgi

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« Reply #524 on: August 03, 2009, 09:13:54 AM »
  JUDY, I'm impressed by your swift and firm action in coping with this problem.
You sound like a very capable woman.  I know it must all be very distressing to
you.   Thank God for that inner strength, and remember we are here for you
when you need to talk to friends.
"I go to books and to nature as a bee goes to the flower, for a nectar that I can make into my own honey."  John Burroughs

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« Reply #525 on: August 03, 2009, 03:34:22 PM »
Thank you everyone for your kind words. I need to get a book Altzheimer for DUMMYS,
Found another pill bottle with two different kind of pills in it, took it to the drug store and they told me what was there.
Today the doctor ordered B12 shots for him so I just gave him one and he didn't complain about it so thats good. He should go down to the dinning room now but I don't know if I will wake him.
I had no idea how bad he was when we moved to Fairwinds but I sure am happy we did. this is where we really need to be.
I am driving people to the doctor from here everyday. One lady has cancer and she has to go to Evergreen hosp for radaiton, so I drop her of run to the office and get my work then bring her back here and go do my work.  Busy Busy hehe

maryz

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« Reply #526 on: August 03, 2009, 06:23:07 PM »
Judy, the things we found most helpful when we were dealing with John's dad was the book The 36-Hour Day, and our local Alzheimer's Support Group.  I would recommend both very highly.  And it's SO important for you to get your rest and time for yourself, plus your sense of humor.
"When someone you love dies, you never quite get over it.  You just learn how to go on without them. But always keep them safely tucked in your heart."

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« Reply #527 on: August 03, 2009, 06:25:40 PM »
Judy - When I was responsible for my Dad the following book was the one given to me by the Alzheimer Center as the best book available.  I see that it has gone through a couple of revisions since then so I feel very comfortable recommending it to you as it would appear they are continuing to update.  I found it informative, inclusive and provided information not only about the dementias but also how to deal with them and take care of yourself as well. 

Do take advantage any help offered as you cannot do it alone.  I have found that there is a good network of support groups throughout the country so if you aren't comfortable with the first one you visit, try another one.  The make up the groups varies as do the experiences of the individuals attending. Some groups are more focused on learning about the dementias etc while others may focus on helping the care giver. You can find the groups online for your area.

The 36-Hour Day : A Family Guide to Caring for People with Alzheimer Disease, Other Dementias, and Memory Loss in Later Life
by Nancy L. Mace, Peter V. Rabins

My thoughts are with you.  Mary
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« Reply #528 on: August 03, 2009, 07:20:44 PM »
Judy, I've been out of town and am sorry to come back and to hear of Don's condition but I am so glad you're in  Fairwinds! And it sounds as if you are   already making yourself indispensable as always, driving others to doctor's etc.,  that is  wonderful. I have a feeling they are glad you are there, too.

{{{{ Hugs!}}}}} to both of you.

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« Reply #529 on: August 03, 2009, 10:47:37 PM »
Judy, you and Don have been in my thoughts so much. You will manage, you've already done the right thing by moving into Fairwinds. I'm so glad you are there, where there is help and support.  Just keep on being the strong woman you are, doing what you think is best.  But put yourself first sometimes, too.  Don't forget to take care of you.

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« Reply #530 on: August 04, 2009, 07:03:04 AM »
I totally agree with everything said here! I'm glad we've got US and the range of experience here, too, which may be a help.

I'm just in from a weekend off during which I started a lot of good books. I've got the Noel Coward letters which are fascinating, those times are sure gone, not to mention the people, what a fascinating person. Very few famous personages that he did not come in contact with in one way or another, a look at the glitterati of the past, you might say. AND he wrote LETTERS, not emails, something very few do today. I've almost forgotten how to write in hand, am so used to typing.

Then in preparation for the movie Julia and Julie I started that book, and absolutely love it. Have any of you read it? It's light and happy so far and totally enjoyable, love it and am looking forward to the movie.

And today Richard Russo's comes out with a gigantic promotion from B&N, in store and out, members get 40 percent off, on That Old Cape Magic. The son of college professors who are snobs  returns to the summer as I understand it place he used to go to scatter his father's ashes (and his mother's) and discovers a lot about himself in the process. It looks absolutely fabulous. I can't wait to start, but Julia and Julie is so much fun, a perfect summer read!

I've also bought my first Baldacci, the Winner, about the Lottery, pretty au courant I think, since a current big lottery winner lost his ticket.

AND if you watch the Food Network, Melissa won, so we can look forward to her new show debuting Sunday at 12:30 pm.

Our discussions here are smokin, the author is in the Frances Perkins discussion (and if you don't recall WHO she is, don't miss this one, it's gorgeous), the People of the Book is smokin, our Latin classes are filling up quickly, our general discussions are humming,  and we're a GO here for  the fall season, reading and class wise, what a trip! :)

Welcome, All, what are you reading this summer?


Steph

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« Reply #531 on: August 04, 2009, 08:38:12 AM »
Ginny.. I kept up with and joined in the original blog, which became Julia-Julie.. I laughed and sympathized with Julie and Kidneys.. and where to find a butcher.. and of course the fact she used the subway to get everywhere in NYC and how that causes problems with a lot of ingredients.. The book was fun and I am so looking forward to the movie.. The promos look great.
Stephanie and assorted corgi

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« Reply #532 on: August 04, 2009, 02:33:35 PM »
Greetings from DC.  JoanP and I got together for lunch yesterday -- it was great to see her and we had a good long visit.  Joan -- there was NO traffic going home yesterday.  At one point I thought I was on the wrong road because there were so few cars.

Julie and Julia sounds like a fun read.  I'm looking forward to both book and film.  Did you know that Nora Ephron tested each food item before she approved it for the film?

Also looking forward to the new Robert Russo.  My f2f group is reading his Empire Falls later this year, so I'll be rereading that also.  My first book discussion on SeniorNet years ago was House of Sand and Fog by Andre Dubus III.  And now I'm reading his Garden of Last Days.  At first it seemed like it was going to be too much about sleaze -- I mean, how much do you really want to know about a men's club? (And I don't mean a gentlemen's club with deep leather chairs.)  But Dubas makes you really care about what happens to all the characters, and there are many.  I'm glad I'm reading it.

And have also brought Olive Kitteridge on this trip too.  Last night my son showed me what he was reading -- Waiting for Snow in Havanna by Carlos Eire -- a personal narrative about being an 11 year old when Castro came into power.  Maybe I'll get to take that one home if the family has finished it by then.

DIL's Book Club seems to be on a parallel track with us, having read Elegance of the Hedgehog, Guernsey Lit Society, and Team of Rivals.  They took two discussion meetings for the latter.

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« Reply #533 on: August 05, 2009, 08:07:23 AM »
I am still not catching up on the reading.. Did however go to the doctor and am taking two different types of med.. She feels that my allergy turned nasty and so I am taking an antibiotic and also an anti inflamatory.. Must confess it is only two days and I still feel rotten, but my patience has never been my strong point.
Stephanie and assorted corgi

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« Reply #534 on: August 05, 2009, 08:12:05 AM »
I've had the most delightful time since discovering a HalfPrice Books store in Cedar Rapids earlier this summer.  I don't know when it arrived, but it's glorious. There's a second used book store in the same strip mall, and with combining the two, I can find lots of good things at prices that make buying what my local library doesn't carry affordable.   I also like Half Price's policy of $$ for what you bring in...rather than the credit the other place gives.  I've always used the $$ to buy more, of course, which seems to be what everyone else I've seen does as well.

jane

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« Reply #535 on: August 05, 2009, 12:11:44 PM »
feeling rotten me too. thank goodness books distract me when I get into a good one.  I ordered three samples for the kindle from titles I got here and am looking forward to them. I checked out the nyt top list and found some of them there.  ssya all.

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« Reply #536 on: August 05, 2009, 04:24:12 PM »
Jane - where is Cedar Rapids is the half price book store?  I will be there for a couple of days (Aug 17 & 18) and my friend and I always spend time in a bookstore so it would be nice to visit a new one.    Thanks, Mary
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Steph

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« Reply #537 on: August 06, 2009, 07:48:52 AM »
Yes, do tell about the two book stores in one center. We travel in the RV and I will put Cedar Rapids on my yes lists for that part of the country. I love visiting book stores that are not chains and I adore used book stores and library sales.
Stephanie and assorted corgi

maryz

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« Reply #538 on: August 06, 2009, 09:31:40 AM »
Our library book sale is the last 10 days in August.  Come visit!
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« Reply #539 on: August 06, 2009, 12:46:52 PM »
Happy Birthday, Gumtree! Enjoy your special day!



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« Reply #540 on: August 06, 2009, 01:22:21 PM »

Gum!! It's your  BIRTHDAY?





Happy Happy Birthday!!

marcie

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« Reply #541 on: August 06, 2009, 03:33:44 PM »
I hope you celebrate a wonderful birthday, gumtree! (That cake looks scrumptious, Ginny--good thing it only has virtual calories!)

maryz

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« Reply #542 on: August 06, 2009, 03:42:38 PM »
Hope your day is a great one,  Gumtree!
"When someone you love dies, you never quite get over it.  You just learn how to go on without them. But always keep them safely tucked in your heart."

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« Reply #543 on: August 06, 2009, 06:10:31 PM »
Happy Birthday Gumtree
and many more!!

Joan Grimes
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« Reply #544 on: August 06, 2009, 08:52:52 PM »
Let's make it unanimous.  Happy Birthday Gumtree
Jackie
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Steph

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« Reply #545 on: August 07, 2009, 08:13:59 AM »
 ::) HAPPY BIRTHDAY GUMTREE.. Well actually I am sure you have a real name, but you work with what you got. My favorite type of birthday cake.. non fattening.. Have a wonderful day. Treat yourself..
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« Reply #546 on: August 07, 2009, 08:26:46 AM »
HAPPY BIRTHDAY,  Gumtree ...  sincere wishes if late!   Hope you had a great day!
quot libros, quam breve tempus

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« Reply #547 on: August 07, 2009, 09:24:21 AM »
Me, too, GUM!

  HAPPY BIRTHDAY![/
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Gumtree

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« Reply #548 on: August 07, 2009, 11:35:52 AM »


Thanks for the good wishes everyone -

I see JoanP has much to answer for by letting the cat out of the bag.  :-[

 I had a good day - made all the better by your warm and friendly greetings.

 I just loved the cake Ginny - put on 10 pounds just looking at it ;)
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« Reply #549 on: August 07, 2009, 01:01:00 PM »
A little late, sorry.

Happy Birthday, Gumtree.

Gumtree

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« Reply #550 on: August 07, 2009, 01:06:42 PM »
Early or late - no matter - Thanks Frybabe !
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« Reply #551 on: August 08, 2009, 09:52:22 AM »
Thanks, Marcie and Gum. I tell you what, that cake made ME so hungry I had a Celebratory Cup Cake in your honor, Gum! hahaha Toast to Gum!

Yesterday I saw Julia and Julie and am talking about it in our Books Into Movies discussion (look up on top of the page for the blue band, select Discussion Index and come on over). The theater was packed with mostly women, which is really odd for this area, I can't count the times there may be another patron besides my party  in the movie, maybe not.

Packed. Am also reading the book, but Meryl Strep, of whom I am not a fan, outdid herself, she really did. That's Oscar material, even in the way she hunched over various meats: Julia Chlid to the life. I agree with the critics that perhaps a movie on HER life,  leaving out Julie (although nicely played by Amy Adams) would be super, they left out a lot.

Got to have one of those pots she cooks in, she and Emeril , everybody but me. Of course I can't cook, maybe that's the reason? hahahaa

That must be it!


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« Reply #552 on: August 08, 2009, 09:54:30 AM »
I have recently gotten so many coupons from B&N in the mail it's unreal. I've been using them, too. 40 percent off Richard Russo's newest, can't wait to read it, 15 percent off another, Amazon should follow suit, I buy a LOT from Amazon but B&N has those huge delicious stores. Who can resist one? :)


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« Reply #553 on: August 08, 2009, 09:59:34 AM »
I am hoping to go see Julia-Julie today.. Actually Julie's original blog is much funnier than her book. She whines and moans and makes you laugh at her and her opinions of the recipes before she actually cooks.. She also brings in friends to help her eat and that gets funny sometimes. But Our Julia was always funny and kind and helpful. I always wished that I knew her. She just seemed like the nicest human.
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« Reply #554 on: August 08, 2009, 11:54:10 AM »
Ginny For someone who can't cook you did Ok with that gazillion calorie cake !
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Steph

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« Reply #555 on: August 09, 2009, 09:25:55 AM »
Since the painters are coming Monday, spent yesterday and will spend today, getting ready.. Its lovely having a great room with living,dining and kitchen all in one space, but miserable to get ready for things like paint. So no movie, I just wanted to collapse after working all day..Maybe next week.
Am excited about the new paint. Also ordered sun shield type blinds for the west window in the great room. I will not cover the french doors and that area, but the two windows are getting wind up shades that will shield up to 80%.. Should cut down on our air bills in the summer. Now to find someone who wants to come in and clean and wax the wood floors.. Hmm.
Lived in the house five years now and guess it is time for the look at this category. Also donated my dining room table and chairs to New Beginnnings, a local charity.
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« Reply #556 on: August 09, 2009, 09:43:45 AM »
hahaha, that's my cooking, looks great but the taste? hahahah We'll have to make that our official Birthday Cake here!

Well yesterday from Netflix I viewed the last of the Grey Gardens films. First came the HBO new one, then I watched the original documentary from the '70s' called Grey Gardens, then I read Lois Wright's book My Life at Grey Gardens, and then I viewed The Beales of Grey Gardens which consists of footage they left out of the first one.

Each film gives a different picture. I am having to wonder about why they left out this footage, an entirely different light, and possibly a more positive one on both women.  Big Edie is shown reciting, beautifully, long verses, so obviously her mind was intact. Little Edie is shown in some of the 10 "costumes" a day her mother wanted her to wear (!) and swimming in the ocean. She is a very fine swimmer, and I have to say that there's no way I could make the "costumes" she does and look half as good. She flirts with the Mayses. There is another young man (hanger on?) also in the house. The black guy who did the lawn work is not shown. It's a different take on them, and not a full one. If a person is interested, he would want  to see the films in the order above to get a clear idea of the entire picture. The Beales of Grey Gardens is somewhat pitiful, and also hard to watch.

Lois Wright, who wrote the book, appears in this one. She looks clean, but is decidedly odd, herself. And her paintings! Finally we see her paintings she talked about in the book..  If you saw Mickey Blue Eyes with Hugh Grant, her paintings are almost exactly like the ones of the mobster's son, believe it or not. It's hard TO believe, there are no machine guns but other than that it's pretty much the same. Perhaps that was an early period or something of her work, a later one looks somewhat different.  I don't know a lot about art, period.  She reads palms.

One thing the Beals of Grey Gardens does have is Big Edie singing well. She sings beautifully, just as everybody keeps saying, sometimes off key in spots,  but she did have a nice voice. That is not shown in the other film, she sounds quavery and kind of sad in the other film.

Stranger than any fiction, two women whose non existent careers never died, living in abject squalor in a big house in the Hamptons.   It's quite sad. It's the last I will watch or read of them, but at least I now know more.



I've started  Burn which Jane recommended in the Fiction discussion and am enjoying it very much.  The author Linda Howard, is listed by B&N under Romance so I am somewhat shocked to find myself reading a Romance and not being able to put it down. A lot of her fans think this book is a departure for her;, if so, I say vive la departure, so far it's really enjoyable. I've had a hard time this summer getting INTO any book. I can't seem to start one. Or stay with it, so much for Monica Ali's The Kitchen. I guess they don't hold up to my former fascination with the Beales, but this one does. I had read 31 pages before taking a breath or so it seemed.

I had at the same time picked up the new Zafon. When you take off the book jacket, the cover itself has a gorgeous photo of books books books, this one also is about the love of books, just like his Shadow of the Wind, which I loved.

Still reading Ripley in small doses and Sebald. I have  a book called Go Slow England which it compliments.

What are YOU reading which you like? Anybody read the new Ann Rivers Siddons? Or the Conroy? I did get That Old Cape Magic by Russo and it also looks wonderful.  But Burn is first, the perfect beach book,  unfortunately not in paperback yet.


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« Reply #557 on: August 09, 2009, 11:37:42 AM »
Ginny, the new Conroy won't be released until 11 August.  I have ordered it for my Kindle.  But it was thoroughly panned in a review in Newsweek last week.  I didn't read the review, but John did.  I must admit I didn't particularly like Beach Music and the one prior to that - at least not as much as I did Santini and Lords of Discipline.  But I wanted to give the new one a try anyway.
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« Reply #558 on: August 09, 2009, 06:58:12 PM »
First and foremost I would like to thank Pat W. for coming through as she always does for me.
She sent me a lovely  e-mail with things to do and look for with Don's Altzhemizers. You are one of a kind Pat.

Now I will tell you all al story.
Wed morning I was driving a lady from here to Evergreen Hosp for radation which she has every day. The phone rang and another really nice lady says Judy I have a doctors appt at 11:30 can you take me? No I say I can't make that. Then Rose comes out early so I called her and said be outside at q10:30 and I will get you there. After a hour in the doctors office the doctor comes out and gives me a perscription for her to go to the hosp ASAP for 3 ex-rays and a ultra sound. In the meantime I an thinking this lady fell and broke her pelvis about 6 weeks ago and you are yanking her in and out maybe thats not a good idea. Well too late for that.
She finially finished at about 2:30 and I made my 3 oclock appt to ge tmy hair done.

Thursday I get home from work and think I should rest a while, it wasn't 15 minutes later I hear a s
scream and Don had fallen off a 2 step ladder and fell back wards on this head and but. Here comes 911 and they take him to the hosp. About 8 hours later they have scanned eveything that is scanable and We go home Next day I even forgo work, not like me. They put dye in his veins that doesn't mix withemetforman and back for more tests.



Friday more tests.

Sat  hospital at 8AM for more tests as we came home 911 was taking am out and his doughter asks if I will watch her Mother. No problems I say.









Sunday morning I get up and Don is sick I go across the hall and Florence is sick I go down the hall and Paul is saick. The place is now shut down neveryone is supposed to stay in their room the resturant is  closed and they are bring food to the rooms. all activity cancelled for 71 hoiurs  and how was your day.???

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« Reply #559 on: August 09, 2009, 07:02:33 PM »
Judy, you are one of the world's saints, wow, I hope you occasionally have a chance to take two breaths in a row.  Don't forget yourself.