Interesting that he says Wolsey knew he loved and would follow the gospel because reading the book on Cromwell, I did not know but he was one of those pushing to get out from under the Pope which I thought came more from Henry and Cromwell thought it was useful but evidently as much or more so the push came from Cromwell - Thomas Cromwell’s enthusiasm for the Reformation was a constant force in shaping his public career and policy," He is the one who urges not to use the word 'Protestant' Reformation since it is associated with Luther and the creation of the Lutherans - the term he urges during the English Reformation to distinguish it as switching to the Church of England is Evangelical - and so yes, he would love and follow the gospel but not as a Catholic which is where the loyalty of Wolsey and his daughter lies.
Ok Mantel may say Dorothea is a nun but hmm I wonder - I found information that she was placed in Shaftesbury Abbey, a convent known for housing daughters of wealthy individuals. That John Clancey, alderman of Worcester, adopted Dorothy and arranged for her placement in Shaftesbury Abbey.
https://www.radiotimes.com/tv/drama/wolf-hall-dorothea-wolsey-daughter-explained/#:~:text=Meanwhile%2C%20Dorothy%20was%20adopted%20by,nun%20until%20it%20was%20dissolved.
However this website says she did become a nun...
https://tudorsdynasty.com/wolseys-mistress-and-children/Nun or not it was typical for hundreds of years to set women aside by committing them to a convent or for the safety and care they were sent to a convent usually by a male family member - also young boys were sent to monasteries, often even accepting Holy Orders (sacrament to become a priest as a nun takes vows) however, the only reason the boys were sent to monasteries was for an education that was not available other than in monasteries. Upon completion of their education they left and lived the life of a lay person.
The benefit to the convent is that you do not become a nun, even my sister back in the 1950s
without bringing to the convent a good size dowry and of course if from a wealthy family the dowry was generous - I remember when my sister was about to take her vows the dowry was expected and we were not a monied family - example of what was expected... in 1947 my parents purchased their first house and the 3 bedroom house cost $8,000 At the time there was no such thing as a 30 yr mortgage or anything less than a 20% down payment - the longest mortgages were for 25 years and that was based on the husband being of age so that he had 25 more years of working full time - my father only had 20 years and so he was able to obtain a 20 year mortgage. My sister took her vows in 1954 and the expected dowry was $2,000 (today equals about 24K) - more than the price of a new Ford or Chevy auto and a quarter of the price for the house purchased 7 years earlier - My father was able to talk the Mother Prioress into accepting $1,500 (today equals about $18,000) and to pay off $500 at so much a month for 2 years - All to say accepting anyone to live out their years in a convent was a money earner for the Order (Order e.g.; Dominican or Franciscan or Sister's of Charity etc.) therefore, this practice of placing girls and women in convents was only available to those who could afford it.
As to the cost for placing a young boy in a monastery I have no clue what that transaction looked like - Most websites today deny that Petrarch was educated in a monastery as were his brothers however, reading one of his books he not only says he was educated in a monastery in the south of France located near Avignon and although he was ordained left after he completed his education where as, his one brother was educated in a Carthusian (monastic order of priests) monastery in northern France where he remained.
https://www.freedomgpt.com/wiki/monasteries-served-as-centers-of-learningAs to his feeling guilty - like you, looking from the outside in, he 'should' not feel guilty - the operative word is 'should' - many of us take on guilt when things, as they say 'go bump in the night' believing we should have done something to prevent what happened.
For some reason Cromwell takes it hard to hear Dorothea say with all sincerity and in all its harshness what no one has said to him before except possibly when he was a boy being or feeling criticized - I don't think he sees his staying in London to help Wolsey as a favor to Wolsey since along the way he has enjoyed the power he has accumulated and I think in his head he has mixed up his purpose for staying rather than be at the side of Wolsey. However, that pivotal scene is still up for grabs for me -
I can't help wonder is he lamenting that he did not go to Wolsey - or - that Dorothea has beliefs he knows he cannot convince her to refute - or - that he blew it as to how it looks and made an enemy of Dorothea which could mean others share her viewpoint and he lost some supporters - or - did he blew it and now has no way to refute the rumors about his dalliance with a women at court that will reach Henry's ears if it has not already and he has no way to protect himself on top of learning from Dorothea his reputation may be in tatters if others share her viewpoint.
Reading just Mantel I come up with one scenario however, reading
Cromwell written by an author in communication with Mantel gives me another picture of Cromwell and so what does Mantel mean to convey with that scene. Maybe it is up for grabs and each reader/movie watcher will take from it what they will because it will turn out the storyline is not as dependent on that scene as it appears watching this story play out piecemeal.
Wait just a minute - doesn't the steps of grief go into how one step has you going through an 'if' - if only, if I had, if I knew, if-if-if - maybe the tear scene is simply grief, that is never simple but instead of all this breadcrumb trail of guilt or finding the greater meaning to justify but rather, simply grief that one of the steps includes 'what ifs' - It's the step called the bargaining step - 'what if' I went north to be with Wolsey he may have recovered or at least not have such a harsh opinion by not seeing I really loved him.
Reading these other books on Cromwell and Henry including one I have not started but downloaded on Wolsey compared to just reading Mantel's books is not clarifying anything - if anything yes, a deeper understanding of each however, at the expense of confusing Mantel's book and trying to figure out the slant she is taking while telling her story.
Ginny have you had a chance yet to open your copy of
Cromwell by MacCulloch - my take is there is almost as much information about the monster size drop of Cromwell's papers as the story of Cromwell.